hungry_hole

Deaner's words ring true to me. It also highlights the teu versatile types (1) Flip-flop versatile and (2) Serial versatile. I define myself as a total bottom and in reality I am because I don't really enjoy getting sucked or fucking a hole. And don't care if the guy who fucks me or whom I'm sucking is top, bottom or versatile. I like being the top during the sexual interaction. As many bottoms, when feeling very horny or in particular scenes, I could see myself "being serial versatile". If for example, I saw a hot young slut getting his hole bred, I may feel tempted to play the "top role" just because I'm too horny. For some reason, I feel this would definitely happen if I were poz. It would turn me on to play the top role. But for some strange reason, I have to admit that it's strange, I could not flip-flop with anyone.

Holly shit! I'm watching it right now

If I thought I like the guy I would still meet him, say that I won't get into anal. Once together I would have him play with my lubed hole and see what happens. Once they start getting horned up the idea of the condom goes away. I say to the top "I wish I could feel your cum in my hole". Many guys have been programmed to say "Safe always" but once they are horny they forget. It's worked for me many times, even at the sauna. I even like the challange of working for the load.

In anonymous/impersonal sex everytthing goes. If someone is too concerned with health issues should try to know a guy before having sex. And then wear condoms. But in a park? This guy is crazy...

I've recieved many compliments from men. But I feel that the best compliment for me has been having several long term (10+ years) fuck buddies who keep coming back to fuck me and breed my hole. There being so many bottoms out there, these tops can't get enough. I find this a huge compliment. Just one week ago one of these fuck-buddies asked me to meet at the local sauna but I couldn't make it. The next day I asked him about his night at the sauna. He didn't go and instead he jerked off thinking about fucking me. At the sauna I also get verbal compliments.

As a total bottom I would say that it depends on the top. Some stop once they start shooting because their cocks are too sensitive. Others keep pumping with a different rithm. Others start fucking vigorously while they spray their load. No matter the top, I always open up right at the moment when the guy starts shooting to make sure he doesn't pull out early.

The part that I don't like about "Ask me" in a guy's HIV-status is that it invites a conversation and this takes away from a more spontaneous anon encounter. Why have to discuss HIOV-status? Not sure, Don't care are non-specific enough but don't invite a conversation. We guys wanna have sex and not a conversation.

I'm not sure. For me a good use of "Don't care" is a barebacker who is not interested in testing because he doesn't care.

I like "Don't care" because it's a bit slutty. For me it means I don't want to talk about status, completely opposite to "Ask Me", which is calling for a discussion on the issue. I think that any sex site with HIV-Status the option "Negative" should be accompanied by the date of last test.

Same here...Some guys apologize for cuming so quickly but truly, I don't mind at all. When I'm at the baths I actually like it when guys, including bottoms, come into my room just to get off before going home. Those are usually quick pump'n dumps and I like them, especial;ly when the guys leaves right away without saying a word. I feel so used and I love it.

In BarebackRT I see a lot of Tops who are poz. I'm sure many did poz botomming and then turned into tops. Any bottoms whyo turned into tops once you pozed?

Never fucked a seeded hole but I've had my hole fucked with seed in it. Pretty hot for the top who like to ask how many loads you have already. One of my best fucks with at home with two guys. One guy was fucking me while the other watched. The guy whispers in my ear "Can I shoot inside?" which was so hot. The guy shot his load and as soon as he pulled out the other one went ion but he shot almost right away. He apologized for cuming so quick but he was too horny with the idea of going into a seeded hole.

I agree so much with shadowgames that everyone has to take responsibility. But some consideration on what kind of hook-up. If I were poz, I think I'd like to top, I would have trouble not disclosing my status once I've established an inter-personal connection with a guy. Lets say we meet for a coffee, or even if I went to his place. If I were poz I would prefer anon places, such as backrooms, saunas, sex-clubs, parks. And if someone actually asked me for my status I would have no problem saying that I don't know or that my last test was HIV-neg. Anon sex is all about fantasy. I;ve been asked if I'm married or if I'm a policeman and I alkways say whetever they want to hear. So if I got asked they would like me to say that I'm HIV-neg so we can have sex so that';s waht I would say. Plus, maybe the other guy is not telling the truth either. If I were poz I would have no guilt about having anon sex. I'm not sure about stealthing in more inter-personal hook-ups, where you know the guy more.

As a bottom when my top starts to shoot inside I open my hole wide. Why? Because when and right after a guy cums his cock is too sensitive and by opening up my hole I remove some of the presure that could make the top pull out. By opening up if the top wants more friction he can just dig deeper and that way I make sure all the manjuice goings in my hole. I used to have a fuck-buddy who didn't like being touched after he shot his load and if I squeezed he would pull out. After a few seconds I can then squeeze a bit depending on the guy.

Obviously that diet has a lot to do with the way your digestive system reacts. When I'm getting ready for some bottoming action I start limiting what I eat 24 hrs in advance.

Very good point and discussing the issue with partner. We are all men and we all understand each other need for just sex, impersonal, sometimes anon, with adventures. For me the only issue that HIV-neg guys face in a relationship is the barebacking with others. But talking is essential. The 3-way idea may be another scenario. I sometimes think that guys in monogamous-because-of-STDs relationships can take a few months break with sex. And each, on their own can fuck around, bareback if they wish. I find that the most important feelings for a partner are not the sexual ones. These can continue if the male couple is taking a break with sex. Of course, when bringing back the sex to the relationship, testing has to take place and appropriate window periods respected. It's just that for me being sexually monogamous "forever" makes no sense, even as a older guy. I couldn't imagine being in my 20's and committing to monogamy forever. Monogamy is for lesbians!

As a bottom I like being verbal with some moaning but mainly talking dirty to my top: "Go deep when you shoot!" "Nice, I like the way your cock feels..." But I must say that I hate screaming bottoms because then you can't hear the tops monaing and grunts.

I agree with barebacksaunaslut because although tops can sometimes cause a bit of pain, I am the bottom and at a top's service. Like the other night at the sauna, when I met an old fuck-buddy. I was in my room when he saw me, came into my room and I began to suck him. He got so horny that when I turned around he slamed his cock in very violently. It hurt a bit but I didn't complain. Why should I complain to a top who is too horny? If it hurts too much I then suggest putting more lube but I never complain angrily. I like being there for them and to please a horny guy.

I was once in the Sauna 282 in Santiago (Chile) and I found lots of bareback action. Bars open until 5 A.M. so I got to the sauna at 11 P.M. and stayed until 10 A.M. Lots of horny drunken guys after 4-5 A.M. when bars closed.

As a bottom with a very hungry hole I love to hear the moaning of the guy and the noises he makes as he pounds my ass, and of course, the grunting as he creams my hole. But it's so short-lived. So some years ago I began to record my bareback sessions whenever I could. I started with a cassette recorder but then later I purchased a digital voice-recorder. I have more than 100 files with audio of bareback sessions in my bed, in my gloryhole, and in bathhouses. I have a few memorable recordings still in tape that I should digitise. One is in my bed with two guys. I had hidden the cassette recorder under the bed and the microphone between the wall and the mattress. Every time I hear it I get super horny but I haven't in a while because it's on tape. I have another one with a black guy with a beautiful 8.5" uncut piece of meat. I can her him invoking God as he shoots inside my hole. Amazing. I have to digitise these two. I would feel bad using a hidden camera because the video is a bit too invasive. But audio keeps it confidential. A few weeks ago I saw a profile of a versatile-bottom tattooed pig in BarebackRT that I was sure had sex with at the local bathhouse a few years ago. So I contacted him and told him about my memories having sex with him. I had noticed him in his room looking to get fucked. Later I was in my room wearing my "Cream my Hole" black T-shirt and he goes by wearing his clothes, on his way out. I guess not many tops left as it was already late. He came into my room, took off his pants, rimmed my hole for a while and then he mounted me. He didn't last too long pulled out and left. He just wanted a hole to shoot his load before going home. I looked in my audio files and found the audio of that fuck (I just listened to it...wow...so hot to hear the guy as he shoots). When I contacted him he told me he was poz, but I'm not sure if he was poz in 2007 when I recoded that.

I don't like demanding anything from a top and whatever they give me I'll take. A week ago I went to the local bathhouse and a hot dude came into my room. I sucked him for a while but then he asked me to turn around and give him my hole. He was so horny that he just rammed his cock in my ass. It hurt as he pushed his cock in but I didn't say anything and let him continue fucking me. It was all worthwhile once I felt his load in my hole, he pulled out and left.

I never thought of this but it makes sense. As a bottom who also enjoys sucking I find that offering a good blow-job helps with performance anxiety. I've hooked up a lot in different sites and have lots of experience. Most of what we call "flakiness" is simply the fact that one minute a guy may be horny and the next he may not. Some guys agree on a time but they later meet someone else and get off so they are no longer horny. They forget about you. I never make long term sex-date with a guy I don't know. Once two guys enjoy getting together for sex there are less chances of flakiness behaviour. I like outdoor sex or sex-clubs and bathhouses. Guys are horny then and you don't have to explain how old you are or what kind of body you have. At a sex club you either hook-up right away or you don't. Plus there's always action in the darkrooms.

Strangely, what ends up confusing everything is the notion of "Sexual Orientation", and the belief that people are actually gay, straight and in-between. This was exactly what Kinsey warned against: "For nearly a century the term homosexual in connection with human behavior has been applied to sexual relationships, either overt or psychic, between individuals of the same sex... It would encourage clearer thinking on these matters if persons were not characterized as heterosexual or homosexual, but as individuals who have had certain amounts of heterosexual experience and certain amounts of homosexual experience. Instead of using these terms as substantives which stand for persons, or even as adjectives to describe persons, they may better be used to describe the nature of overt sexual relations, or of the stimuli to which an individual erotically responds." (Kinsey, et al., 1948, p.656) _Sexual Behavior in the Human Male_ "Feeling gay" is actually a normal excitement for bodies that are "like ours". It seems odd to me that Sexual Orientation treats the interest and excitement for men and women equally and it ignores the fact that men may be interested in cocks because men have cocks, and they may, for instance, want to compare. Men and women differ in the way they treat a cock because an "impersonal" or "anon" cock can in fantasy be a man's cock, especially because men can't usually suck their own cocks comfortably. When it comes to sexual behaviour treating men and women equally is another mistake. Because of the erection the interest and excitement that men experience for other bodies "shows" so boys learn to control and censor when to let go. Like not in the shower with other boys, whcih is not the same with women. Now, this is why for centuries men have been finding ways of validating same-sex sexual activities. The Sambia People had the belief that in order for boys to grow their own semen they had to swallow it from the older men. Google "Sambia people homosexuality" . Gilbert Herdt has done a lot of work in this field. What I'm trying to say is that feeling turned on by other bodies of the same sex is normal and that should not mean "being gay." I strongly believe all men should have sex with other men and only then men can be ready to deal with women. I also advocate anonymous/impersonal sex because I think is the best kind of sex a man can have. My only concer are STDs.

My best fucks have been with a black top in his 30's with a 8.5" uncock cock. His cock felt very nice as he plowed me and when he started shooting his load he would moan and say "Oh God!",. As I always do, I would open up my hole to recieve the load. He would slow down the rythm, even stop, and without pulling out he would continue fucking me and he would shoot a second time. It was so hot!