hungry_hole

In my initial comments I'm talking exclusively about the moment when I as a bottom first notice my top is "getting close" (sometimes the top whispers it into my ear). I'm not saying anything about the fucking that takes place before, which can vary extensively between guys and as the fucking progresses. I squeeze a little bit, then relax and let the top go deep. Unless is one of my long-term fuckbuddies whom I knopw exctly how to please, I always tune into my top's needs and try to please him as much as possible. Apart from the top wanting me to clamp on to their cock they like to talk dirty or me to ask for their cock and cum. Once their breathing or the pace of the stroke is telling me that the end is close and that the reward is about to arrive I get ready. I will definitely continue to squeeze a bit to make it more pleasurable for the top. and instead of moaning and screaming like a girl, I prefer to talk dirty to my top ("Go deep when you shoot!", or “My hole is yours.”). Either it is the extra friction or the dirty talk (which reminds the top of the power to use that hole for his pleasure), maybe both, that are enough to send the top over the edge. It is only then when I completely relax my manhole muscles and continue to talk dirty to my top: “You're breeding me" or "Go deep." Once they stop the tops don't feel the need to pull out because my hole is still completely relaxed (I may do a little tease squeezing) I always say "Keep pumping" and incredibly almost all tops continue pumping their last drops before they pull out. I repeat this a couple of times. This way I make sure I get it all. I have proof that my approach works extremely well. We all know that it’s easier to find a bottom than to find a top. In other words, there are more bottoms than tops. If I were to ever top I know it will be easy to find holes to cream, even as an older top. But as a bottom the competition is fierce. A couple of years ago at Steamworks in Toronto while in my room with my shots and black T-Shirt (See pic in profile) I was surprised to see a black teen walk into my room. I guess my T-shirt turned him on. Steamworks is packed with hot men, many of them bottoms waiting to get fucked. He fucked me and I of course applied my technique. While he was shooting I knew he was enjoying it. As he was leaving the room he said “I’ll be back in an hour.” Oh, yeah right. He’ll never be back. To my surprise an hour later, he comes back. While he was fucking me for the 2nd time he told me how hot my hole was. And again of course he creamed my hole nice. The next two times I went to Toronto we would meet at Steamworks. I knew that as a bottom I’m doing it right. I had a top that once he started shooting I couldn’t even touch him. He would actually yell “Don’t touch me.” The first time he fucked me he pulled out while he was still shooting. He left a stream of cum on my ass. So I learned and the next times I would noty touch him and completely relax my ass muscles. It worked. Once a guy begins to shoot there’s no need for extra friction. Any more comments from Tops? A top once asked me to relax once he started shooting and it made sense to me. It would be interesting if some bottoms who like to squeeze the load out of the tops tried this technique and reported back.

When I go to the baths I alternate between being in the gloryhole area sucking cock and swallowing every load that is released, and being in my room or in the darkroom trying to get my hole creamed. My best: 15 loads in the gloryhole area and 12 loads up my hole. For some reason I like to suck and swallow with the guy standing and not lying on a bed. I'm not sure why. So a gloryhole is best with the guy standing.

After several months of being a member of this site I have to say that I like it's content and the way it's organized. I log on at least every two days. My only issue is with the profiles. For some reason, when I read threads posted by other members I like to know "who/how old/race" is posting that particular opinion and "where" he is from. Is not that I want to hook up or anythiung. But if I read a hot description about a bottom taking his last load in a sling at his local sauna, it really makes a difference to me whether the bottom is a hot jock in his 20's or an older, outr of shape guy in his 60's. That's one example. I'm sure I'm not the only one who gets frustrated by not having easy access to key details of the posters.

But how many in their 50's do you find?

In another thread, someone wrote: I was "straight" too so at first the idea of being penetrated was not very tempting. But sex with men seemed more fun and exciting. Pretty quickly I was initiated into anal sex and I really loved it. I've been a bottom ever since. Have you changed? Here are some suggestions: 1) Did you start as "straight"? 2) As a bottom 3) and later became top 4) Started as top 5) and later became bottom 6) How about versatile? Are you flip-flop or serial versatile? (serial versatile is that you top with one man and bottom with another) 7) Became sluttier with age?

Young barebackers really turn me on. Apart that I have a weakness for young men, I find that t's easy to find barebackers who are 40+ but there are not that many young barebackers around. I barebacked only a few times when I was young but as I got older I stop caring.

Well, total bottoms are always looking to get fuck and take loads up the ass. ALthough some "total" bottoms are not that "total" and they do breed a hole once in a while. Submissive bottom is a bottom (maybe not a total bottom) who incorporates a little of S/M into the bottom role. Somthing like that

A few years back a guy came over to my place. I had only sucked his 8.5" cock before and he never wanted to fuck me before. He asked me if I could get on my stomach because he just wanted to place his cock at the entrance of my hole. Without any warning he ramed his cock deep and it hurt but I had enough lube to take it. Although it hurt it really tuirned me on to get "raped" like that.

As a BB bottom, apart from feeling the loads inside me, I like bareback because I know from their grunts and moans that the top is really enjoying plowing my hole. I remember when I used to get fucked with a condom how unpleasant it was for tops once they shot their loads. If it's not hot for the top is not good for me.

As an experienced bottom I know how powerful the idea of "milking a cock with my tight ass" is. But is it hot for the top? Maybe the idea is. But a top once taught me to be careful with the pressure on the cock as the top is shooting his load and right after. Most guys' cocks get very sensitive during and right after shooting. So that's why I ALWAYS open up my hole as much as I can as soon as my top starts shooting. If he needs more friction he can just dig deeper and he will get the friction. But he can also leave the cock inside because there's no pressure, and pump a bit if the tops feels like it. I occasionally tighten up a bit if I realize the top can take the extra pressure. I don't like when the top to avoid extra pressure has to pull out. This technique has worked for me because I never have a top pull out right away. While I open up I whisper "Keep pumping."

It's happened to me that a top goes in fast. I just try to relax as much as I can and eventually the pain goes away. It hurts me but I take it as part of being a bottom and because I try to please my top, I usually don't complain.

obsidian, yeah, you're a top and as a top don't worry too much about shooting your load to quickly. Just wait a few minutes and if yoiu are at a sauna, you'll be back into fucking another hole in no time. The second time you'll last longer, and the third, even longer. There was a sauna I used to go where if a met with this guy we would fuck me and cream my hole at least twice an evening. The first one was always more of a quickie, where he would come into my room, mount me, pump for a few minutes, shoot his load and leave. But later on he would be back and the second time was always a long pounding before he would cream my hole. My advice to BB tops: don't worry about lasting too long the first time because after a short break you'll be back and last much longer.

For many years I've thought of a Bareback Club where all the men are free of diseases and tested regularly. There would be orgies organized by the club where EVERYTHING goes. I thnk is possible to create such organization.

Boy Butter and also Elbow Grease

Last longer as a top?

What about other "nasties"? HIV is not the only one, so the freedom of a poz guy is still restricted unless you don't care about other diseases. I've been a BB bottom for 12 years and have felt free and I have taken loads from total strangers: I've taken loads in a gloryhole and I never saw who was on the other side, just his load running down my legs. What I'm trying to say is that an HIV-neg bottom can also allow himself to be a slut and have fun doing it.

Does age have anything to do with it? I was very scared of pozing when I was younger. I took my first load during the AIDS crisis in a sauna but I stopped barebacking until 15 years ago. Now olr, I'm not as afraid of pozing, but I still don't want top poz. I'm sure it's not nice to have to deal with being poz.

By this definition most men in Ancient Greece would have been gay or bisexual. And all the men from Papua New Guinea (See Gilbert Herdt) woiuld also have been bisexual. Men are horny and depending on how much permission they give themselves determines what they will do sexually. Why are most "hetero" men so scared of being thought as gay? I think it's because all men, at somne point or another in their lives, have either fantasies, dreams, wet-dreams, etc where other men are involved. We barebackers are addicted to cum, specially us expoerienced bottoms. But have you seen how important in "straight porn" the cum-shot is to the point of being called "money shot" because cum-shots sell the movies. So now, what's the difference between "us" and "them" if we are all horny beasts who love cum? Being gay or bisexual has more to do with an identity, and identity that doesn't fit me: I'm just horny and I have allowed myself to have sex with men. Period.

When I organize gang-bangs at my place I insist in being the only bottom with the excuse that I'm afraid that other bottoms may have an "accident", which is true: I don't want to have to clean up someone else's shit. Guys understand and any bottom who's been at my place takes the versatile role. A bottom may suck, but not fucked. At a sauna I don't mind although it's always very hot to see several guys wanting to fuck me.

Yes, we older guys are definitely more slutty which is an attractive fature for some tops. For instance, when I go to a bathhouse I wear a black T-shirt with glow-in-the-dark sigfn that says "Cream my Hole" and a whote short with a hole in it. As guys go by the room, the ones who like slutty sex, they stop. But many are horrified by my sign. Or, I go and get my hole creamed in the gloryhole of the bathhouse. Again, I'm not depressed about it but simply realistic about the fact that youth is sexy. Why do then ads for saunas or Internet hook-ups places show all young men with chiseled bodies instead of the type of men one really find inside the sauna? Once you walk in the sauna most men are in their 40's and 50's walking around and the odd guy in his 20's who's being chased by the old men (trolls). Is that false advertisement? Young guys are constantly complaining about the age of men in the saunas! Yes, I do enjoy older guys and when I get my hole creamed I don't really care who the guy is. And in fact I have many tops who prefer my hole to younger ones. But if I were to fuck, an older guy would not turn me on. Any versatile or top guy here in this site who prefers younger holes?

How about a bottom who squeezes to hard? I was once made aware of this by a top who prefered me to relax so he could go deep.

When it comes to "sexual cheating" what matters to me is health and nothing else. I'm not concerned about rejection or jealousy. I think of sex as a personal experience that, if I want to, I can share with someone else. When I have anon sex I'm not really sharing sex but simply using other bodies of men to have sex with myself; sort of enhanced masturbation. I've been in relationships where my guy was very concerned about any disease so I never had sex with anyone else until we talked and decided on what to do. Sexually open relationships are fine as long as they are negotiated. Another option is not to have sex and seek outside, but again, as long as it’s clearly negotiated. I would never live with another man because of sex. On the contrary, if sex is what I want I prefer to remain single.

Maybe it's just the result of editing of the movie and what appeared to be the second top was actually the first top who uses lube. I haven't seen the movie.

I wouldn't suggest bareman to tell his wife he's gay, but that he's having unprotected anal sex. Being gay is not the issue.

For me, as a bottom, the reasons for wanting to bareback are: (1) Condoms feel uncomfortable rubbing against my hole and don't enjoy getting fucked with a wrapped cock (2) My hole is better appreciated because his free cock feels better for the top while he pumps (3) The amazing way the cum feels in my hole (and leaks) once the top pulls out and takes off