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hungry_hole

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  1. As an experienced bottom I know how powerful the idea of "milking a cock with my tight ass" is. But is it hot for the top? Maybe the idea is. But a top once taught me to be careful with the pressure on the cock as the top is shooting his load and right after. Most guys' cocks get very sensitive during and right after shooting. So that's why I ALWAYS open up my hole as much as I can as soon as my top starts shooting. If he needs more friction he can just dig deeper and he will get the friction. But he can also leave the cock inside because there's no pressure, and pump a bit if the tops feels like it. I occasionally tighten up a bit if I realize the top can take the extra pressure. I don't like when the top to avoid extra pressure has to pull out. This technique has worked for me because I never have a top pull out right away. While I open up I whisper "Keep pumping."
  2. It's happened to me that a top goes in fast. I just try to relax as much as I can and eventually the pain goes away. It hurts me but I take it as part of being a bottom and because I try to please my top, I usually don't complain.
  3. obsidian, yeah, you're a top and as a top don't worry too much about shooting your load to quickly. Just wait a few minutes and if yoiu are at a sauna, you'll be back into fucking another hole in no time. The second time you'll last longer, and the third, even longer. There was a sauna I used to go where if a met with this guy we would fuck me and cream my hole at least twice an evening. The first one was always more of a quickie, where he would come into my room, mount me, pump for a few minutes, shoot his load and leave. But later on he would be back and the second time was always a long pounding before he would cream my hole. My advice to BB tops: don't worry about lasting too long the first time because after a short break you'll be back and last much longer.
  4. For many years I've thought of a Bareback Club where all the men are free of diseases and tested regularly. There would be orgies organized by the club where EVERYTHING goes. I thnk is possible to create such organization.
  5. Boy Butter and also Elbow Grease
  6. Last longer as a top?
  7. What about other "nasties"? HIV is not the only one, so the freedom of a poz guy is still restricted unless you don't care about other diseases. I've been a BB bottom for 12 years and have felt free and I have taken loads from total strangers: I've taken loads in a gloryhole and I never saw who was on the other side, just his load running down my legs. What I'm trying to say is that an HIV-neg bottom can also allow himself to be a slut and have fun doing it.
  8. Does age have anything to do with it? I was very scared of pozing when I was younger. I took my first load during the AIDS crisis in a sauna but I stopped barebacking until 15 years ago. Now olr, I'm not as afraid of pozing, but I still don't want top poz. I'm sure it's not nice to have to deal with being poz.
  9. By this definition most men in Ancient Greece would have been gay or bisexual. And all the men from Papua New Guinea (See Gilbert Herdt) woiuld also have been bisexual. Men are horny and depending on how much permission they give themselves determines what they will do sexually. Why are most "hetero" men so scared of being thought as gay? I think it's because all men, at somne point or another in their lives, have either fantasies, dreams, wet-dreams, etc where other men are involved. We barebackers are addicted to cum, specially us expoerienced bottoms. But have you seen how important in "straight porn" the cum-shot is to the point of being called "money shot" because cum-shots sell the movies. So now, what's the difference between "us" and "them" if we are all horny beasts who love cum? Being gay or bisexual has more to do with an identity, and identity that doesn't fit me: I'm just horny and I have allowed myself to have sex with men. Period.
  10. When I organize gang-bangs at my place I insist in being the only bottom with the excuse that I'm afraid that other bottoms may have an "accident", which is true: I don't want to have to clean up someone else's shit. Guys understand and any bottom who's been at my place takes the versatile role. A bottom may suck, but not fucked. At a sauna I don't mind although it's always very hot to see several guys wanting to fuck me.
  11. Yes, we older guys are definitely more slutty which is an attractive fature for some tops. For instance, when I go to a bathhouse I wear a black T-shirt with glow-in-the-dark sigfn that says "Cream my Hole" and a whote short with a hole in it. As guys go by the room, the ones who like slutty sex, they stop. But many are horrified by my sign. Or, I go and get my hole creamed in the gloryhole of the bathhouse. Again, I'm not depressed about it but simply realistic about the fact that youth is sexy. Why do then ads for saunas or Internet hook-ups places show all young men with chiseled bodies instead of the type of men one really find inside the sauna? Once you walk in the sauna most men are in their 40's and 50's walking around and the odd guy in his 20's who's being chased by the old men (trolls). Is that false advertisement? Young guys are constantly complaining about the age of men in the saunas! Yes, I do enjoy older guys and when I get my hole creamed I don't really care who the guy is. And in fact I have many tops who prefer my hole to younger ones. But if I were to fuck, an older guy would not turn me on. Any versatile or top guy here in this site who prefers younger holes?
  12. How about a bottom who squeezes to hard? I was once made aware of this by a top who prefered me to relax so he could go deep.
  13. When it comes to "sexual cheating" what matters to me is health and nothing else. I'm not concerned about rejection or jealousy. I think of sex as a personal experience that, if I want to, I can share with someone else. When I have anon sex I'm not really sharing sex but simply using other bodies of men to have sex with myself; sort of enhanced masturbation. I've been in relationships where my guy was very concerned about any disease so I never had sex with anyone else until we talked and decided on what to do. Sexually open relationships are fine as long as they are negotiated. Another option is not to have sex and seek outside, but again, as long as it’s clearly negotiated. I would never live with another man because of sex. On the contrary, if sex is what I want I prefer to remain single.
  14. Maybe it's just the result of editing of the movie and what appeared to be the second top was actually the first top who uses lube. I haven't seen the movie.
  15. I wouldn't suggest bareman to tell his wife he's gay, but that he's having unprotected anal sex. Being gay is not the issue.
  16. For me, as a bottom, the reasons for wanting to bareback are: (1) Condoms feel uncomfortable rubbing against my hole and don't enjoy getting fucked with a wrapped cock (2) My hole is better appreciated because his free cock feels better for the top while he pumps (3) The amazing way the cum feels in my hole (and leaks) once the top pulls out and takes off
  17. Yes, older can be more masculine in attitude that a younger guy, but it's difficult to ignore the masculinity of a young muscular body. After all, muscles = men. As one gets older it's not as easy to maintain a muscular body. I'm not feeling down or anything because I have no trouble getting loads. As I said, if I had to fuck it would have to be a young hole. At Steamworks in Toronto there's a public sling in a room with quite a bit of light. I've asked to dim the lights but they don't. I went in to take a look and there was a young guy getting fucked. One pulled out and the other one was ready to go in. The place was crowded. But I've seen older guyts on the sling and no one pays much attention. Maybe the same night I went into the darkroom and took 3 anon loads. So, I'm not saying that no top wants to fuck me. What I'm saying is that young bottoms have an advantage. But my question was to VERSATILE guys, do you have any preference of who you give your load?
  18. I've been barebacking as a bottom for 12 years and I'm still HIV-neg. I've taken thousands of loads, most anon loads in darkrooms, saunas, etc.
  19. I'm not sure but one reason I don't fuck is because I don't "trust" other holes. When I organize groups at my place I always insist in being the ONLY bottoms with the excuse that I don't want to deal with some bottom having and "accident".
  20. I was never abused as a child. There is a difference between an adult man "abusing" a girl or a boy. Sometimes boys(<12) enjoy the contact with an older man, because after all being an adult man is something that they will be in the future: what's an adult cock look like, etc. But I can't imagine any girl (<12) enjoying looking at a cock of an adult male. I'm sure that a boy and a an adult man can have a wonderful expierence. Many men who defend pedophilia defend the right of young boys to have experiences with older men because they wanted to play with older. The problem I see is that most adult males get a bit carried away with the boy and begin to impose things on the boy for what the boy is not prepared for (like anal sex). Shame is the key when determining whhether or not an experience was positive or negative. Those men who have good memories of encounters with older men for some reason didn't associate shame with the experience. Those who are troubled by it it's because they felt a lot of shame.
  21. Hi guys, I'm an older 100% BB bottom and have been barebacking for 12 years, used condoms before. I've been keeping myself in pretty good shape and with some tricks barebacking has taught me, I've been able to keep my hole busy getting fucked and taking loads. I've realized all fantasies that most bareback bottoms have, such as: gang-bang, pump'n dump action, darkroom action, getting my hole creamed in a gloryhole, having a long-term (10+ years) BB top fuck-buddies. But I know that as I get older I will be less attractive to BB tops because there's something very hot in the image of creaming a young masculine hole. I cannot deny this because I myself, the only way I can see myself as a BB top would be creaming young/masculine holes. And as one ages one becomes less masculine and less young. I've read many profiles of versatile guys who say that they like to top younger and bottom for older. I know that as a BB top I could keep myself busy until I croke. Older versatile guys: 1) How do you decide to top or bottom 2) Are you toping more now because of age? 3) What is your preference, if any. We always talk about tops or bottoms. Seldom about versatile guys, and older.
  22. Too many men are considered "hot" just because they are in their 20's or erly 30's and in fair shape. Yeah, with this in mind I would say he's hot, but I doubt he'll be hot when he approaches 40.
  23. Well, what I like about taking loads from bottoms at the bathhouse is that those encounters are pump'n dump action, just for the bottom guys to relieve themselves before going home. I find pump'n dump scenes hot. When I hook up online with another bottom, I say I'm versatile/bottom. Once I get them hard because they think I will fuck them, I ask them to put the tip in my hole just to get me harder. But as Pig Bottom says, once they stick it in and begin to pump, some like it so much that they go all the way and end up creaming my hole.
  24. It's a tough one, trying to stay HIV-neg once you've tried sleezy sex in saunas and darkrooms. I've loved my 15+ years of fun uninhibited bareback sex as a bottom and that I've been lucky to never poz. I'm now in a relationship with a top so we bareback and he creams my hole real nice. But I know that I will miss the anon sex and I'm not sure what will I do. For now I'm fine in a monogamous relationship. I've always had the idea of a sex club for HIV- guys, with a sauna, a gym and a clinc, all in one. The club would organize orgies but health would be an important part of it. I'm not going into any further with the details of this idea. In a nutshell, a place where men can get together and enjoy each other BAREBACK, but with the issue of health in mind.
  25. We all have our fetishes. Mine is not the "bug" or poz loads. I'm 100% bottom and I like taking all loads, but for some reason taking loads from other bottoms really turns me on. At the sauna I usually like staying until very late so that horny bottoms can stop by my room and cream my hole before they go home. It's usually a hot quick pump'n dump. I also like to walk into other bottom's room pretending I'm a top, and then leave the room with his load in my hole. Sometimes I hook up online with other bottoms and then leave their place with their load running down my leg. "You tricked me" a bottom told me once.
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