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NWUSHorny

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  1. At this point in time, I am one of those guys. Looking for information on this type of event is pretty much the only thing I use the hookup apps for when I am at home. If I'm online using them to actively look for hookups, i am either visiting a city I'm not familiar with, or one I've had good luck in the past.
  2. Even that varies by city, I have made those weekend trips numerous times to Southern California on weekends where I could hit the CumUnion Party at LAX, and hopefully one in Palm Springs, San Diego or Vegas, plus a couple more well advertised orgies or at least go to active gay fuck venues. At times I was doing it often enough that I was becoming a semi-regular in LA and Palm Springs, at least on CumUnion weekends. On the other hand I've tried going to the Seattle (which is relatively nearby for me) CumUnion Party a handful of times and it was always a total bust for me, I rarely get to Seattle, and I would guess it has been at least 10 years since I've even bothered to try hooking up other than the 2 or 3 CumUnion parties I attended in that time period.
  3. They dropped their stance on bareback sex after PReP became widely available, and there is more actual fucking happening at Steam than anytime before the pandemic. Unfortunately there is less actual fucking happening at Hawks than before the pandemic. I would almost go so far as to say that it is currently easier to find someone willing to fuck at Steam than Hawks now, but then again neither venue has ever been great for it. Both venues have added fetish events that draw large crowds of guys who do not fuck with strangers (or probably at all), but Hawks has added a lot more than Steam. Even on a non-fetish night at Hawks, you are pretty much guaranteed to find cross dressers in lingerie, guys wearing animal masks, and guys carrying around dildos that only do toy play, as well as the usual PNW contingent of men who only want to participate in very mild foreplay.
  4. I've lived here for 16 years, the lack of fucking at the bathhouses is not new. The cuddle parties are relatively new, but were around before COVID, there has definitely been a huge increase in events that aren't explicitly about fucking at both bathhouses, the number per month has at least doubled in just the last 3 months. I've definitely learned to check the calendar rather than increase my frustrations while wasting my time and money.
  5. Post COVID, there are rarely any parties other than CumUnion parties listed on BBRT here in PDX. The sex clubs here are probably pleased when the CumUnion parties don't turn into pig orgies, any time I've been at one of the local sex clubs when they had a night that turned into a decent orgy, it was a ghost town everytime I went for at least the next month. They get much larger crowds at events that aren't explicitly about fucking, and have almost 0 fucking at the actual event. You can't even find a parking place on massage and spa party nights, but you typically won't find anyone at them willing to even consider having sex. We also have cuddle parties, that explicitly prohibit sexual contact that are not held at the bathhouses or posted on BBRT. I'm told the cuddle parties are well attended, but I've never been and have no desire to go. One of those cuddle parties in July turned out to be the primary vector for the local monkeypox outbreak.
  6. I just checked the party listing on BBRT for a CumUnion party for tomorrow night, and there were only 6 guys listed as attending. I know it is a Thursday night party, but that seems low. I think last month there were 8 guys signed up and maybe a dozen guys actually in attendance and unfortunately very little fucking. Even our Saturday night party a week and a half ago only had maybe 15 guys signed up, although there was a crowd at the club it was just the regulars that visit the baths primarily to do the blue balls no mating dance. We did have one well attended CumUnion that featured plenty of piggish fucking last July. It happened to be the Thursday night party, the 1st local party post COVID, and probably the only one in at least 5 years that included a true orgy with piggish fucking. Guys attending just to do the blue balls no mating dance is not new locally, but at least until August or September it always drew a crowd, giving you at least a chance of finding one or two fellow horny guys to bang your brains out with.
  7. That was always my opinion before reading posts from bottoms on here, that don't want tops to even acknowledge that they have a cock.
  8. I didn't respond since I have no desire to cause a bottom pain when I top.
  9. @Lily95land has a party the 4th Saturday of the month for this particular fetish. It's Portland, so there probably won't be a lot of actual fucking.
  10. That wasn't the norm at Midtowne Spa in Denver, usually their parties were extremely high energy orgies. That said, I had a few nights in Denver where I went to both Midtowne and the Swim Club and pretty much struck out at both. Sadly they have both closed permanently.
  11. Only partially, the biological imperative to reproduce is not a social construct. Most animals including humans can and will participate in sexually motivated activity with members of the same sex. In humans, many cultures have developed a social construct to prohibit acting on sexually motivated behavior with the same sex, which I believe is what you are referring to as "being straight". I think because of this social construct, there are a lot of people who are to varying degrees bisexual who will never act on the homosexual urges. To some extent the same thing has happened in gay sub-cultures where peopled who are mostly homosexual have been conditioned not act on their heterosexual urges. As a bisexual who enjoys having sex with both sexes, I think these social constructs are destructive. I think there is a relatively recent social construct, where people who are mostly asexual have tried to join the gay subculture in their quest for companionship. In some regions they have become a major impediment in finding gay hookups.
  12. Sucking is great, but it is really just foreplay. The main event is the fuck so the cum should go in the ass not the mouth.
  13. It sounds like a visit to a Pacific Northwest bathhouse, on a good night. There is never a pig sex vibe, you can count on being assaulted by sides who just want to cuddle and know hundreds of ways to have really great sex without having to touch an icky dick. To make matters even worse, the bigger the crowd the the lower the likelyhood of anything more than foreplay happening, they seem to feed on each other's inhibitions. Even CumUnion parties can be blueball tests. I travel a lot and have lived other places, but even cities that are really great for dogpile orgies in their sex clubs can have slow nights.
  14. Since I was frequently accused of being a twink well into my 40's, it hasn't happened too many times even though I'm now 53. It doesn't really bother me, or impress me. What I find weird is guys who are 10 or more years younger than me wanting me to call them "daddy".
  15. My recent favorite was in a driveway in a well lit suburban subdivision. It was in the Palm Springs area and with a guy who had bred me in his carport of his previous residence, but the driveway in front of his house was more fun.
  16. If they are going to fuck me, they can play with my cock all they want (I will likely even return the favor and tuck them if they want), but if they aren't going to fuck me then I prefer they leave me alone. Even worse are guys that take advantage and start rubbing their body on your body while keeping you from touchin their cock and scrupulously avoiding both your cock and hole, before asking you to cuddle with them.
  17. I'm fully versatile and have become fuckbuds with quite a few guys who are mostly top, all of them eventually let me fuck them. I don't think I have ever established even a fuckbud arrangement where I didn't top after 5 or 6 hookups and then occasionally as long as the arrangement persisted, even if they claimed on their hookup profiles to be a total top. It is no where near as hard of an accomplishment to get a versatile or versatile bottom to top you once they have bottomed for you. I love to flip fuck, and have found that these are the men most willing to flip. Generally speaking, my experience is very few tops are as committed to not bottoming as bottoms are to not topping.
  18. I am in no way condoning but bugchasing, and this may be the wrong forum, but here goes. I know there are a lot of "bugchasers" posting here and on hookup sights that I have to wonder if they are actually having any kind of sex. I'm pretty sure they aren't actually going to bathhouses, fuck clubs, ABS or other places guys cruise and have random sex with multiple partners. I don't personally know anyone who is actually positive, who actually wanted to become positive or caught it any other way. I'm sure there are some but I don't know them. So it seems me that posting about and trying to have sex for a single purpose or fetish is probably not an effective way to actually fulfill a self destructive fantasy. The way to actually catch is not take any precautions and fuck bareback with as many deprived sex addicts as possible, not sit home and jackoff to your fantasy. I don't think you even have to bottom, I was very paranoid about not allowing anyone to cum in my ass, but I shoved my dick into, probably thousand, of cum filled sluts in the 10 years before I found out I was poz. What I'm really saying is, give up the fantasy get out there and enjoy yourself by fucking with as many guys as you can. While I would prefer you take all of the precautions available. I fully realize I am asking you to do as I say, not what I actually did.
  19. If you want to stick with a warm climate, CA and HI are probably your only options. If that isn't a priority I'd suggest either CO or IL. Just keep in mind that there are "blue" states that are both blue and completely accepting of gays that are also blue ball states when it comes to casual sex. I'm looking to move too, I'm looking at both the political and ball environment and very much want to avoid moving to another blue ball state.
  20. I find the differences in what is taught about the Civil War both interesting and significant. I grew up in the heart of Lincoln land, and am pretty well steeped in that history. We were taught and shown through a lot of living history reenactments at Lincoln sites about his belief that slavery was a great injustice, as well as implied connections with the underground railroad. Yes, we were also taught that he did promise not to end slavery and to keep the union together in his run for president, but the primary cause of the Civil War was the insistence of some southern citizens intention to preserve slavery. We were also taught that Abe was one of the biggest promoters of our public education system as exists today, including signing the Morrill Act establishing the federally chartered Land Grant Universities. All of which is under direct attack from DeSantis and the MAGA political movement.
  21. I didn't try it until I was 21, and then with someone with a relatively small dick, but I really enjoyed it. Two or three days later I hooked up with a black guy who was similar in size to my own big dick, he fucked the cum out of me that 1st time, and since we both had to get to class didn't teach me how great flip fucking was until the next day. He and I fucked each other 3 or 4 times a week for our last semester of college and I often regret not trying to keep in touch. Strangely after that, I went on a kick for several months where I wouldn't let anyone smaller than me fuck me, which was really counter productive given my size and how much I love to both bottom and top.
  22. I'm sure I tried it as a teen, but since I hate being fingered and toys do nothing for me it never became a regular thing. If a guy manages to fuck the cum out of me I will usually scoop it up and add it to add it to the lube, or if I breed a guy and then get him to tuck me I love to have him squirt some of my cum out of his ass and use it to lube us up.
  23. There are definitely regional differences, and unfortunately a few regions where nothing seems to work.
  24. For me penetrative fucking is the ultimate power trip, whether I top, bottom or flip with a guy. I would have assumed most guys felt the same, and admit it is far less fun if my partner is inhibited or tentative about how they are participating in the act of fucking.
  25. I personally know a lot more versatile and bottom black men. Gay and bi black men no doubt follow the same guidelines as other men, which seems to be +50% total bottom and less than 10% primarily top. Personally I love hooking up with larger built versatile black men and flip tucking each other's brains out. The 2nd guy who fucked me was black and taught me the joy of flip fucking, and I've derived more than 30 years of pleasure from learning that lesson.
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