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That's correct. Although the 1st time it happened to me we sucked each other off in the washroom at a Cub Foods, but not the canned goods isle. LOL

This thread made me wonder how normal it is to flirt with another man in a completely non-sexually situation, like a supermarket, restaurant, non-cruisy par or etc. and then wind up doing exchanging some cock sucking and/or ass fucking with them? Obviously I have done it, the 1st time I was around 20, and have had it happen within the last 6 months so at 54 I can say it happens to older men as well.

While I don't personally object to FTMs at the bathhouse and have enjoyed having sex with several of them, others have made valid points about the need for fuck venues to limit the clientele. My personal preference would be to figure out how to limit it by the persons preferred activities. If we could figure out how to keep posers, cuddlers and guys who only engage in foreplay out of the fuck venues regardless of what is between their legs, I'm all for.

I think you cann become a sex addict, anything that takes over your life completely is an addiction. I quite often have to take a step back and consider how much time I devote to pursuing sex, when I'm stuck somewhere that it isn't easy to come by. It isn't a huge problem for me when I'm somewhere people are readily available for quick casual hookups, I don't have a problem I can get my needs/want and get on with the rest of my life.

I don't generally ask ages, but know that I've been with several that claimed to be 19 recently. I don't know that I have an upper limit, if they a horny and physically capable and we are attracted to each other I see no reason not to play with them.

I've never conflated being nice with a person position on the left to right political spectrum, both ends have their fair share of assholes and nicer people. While Donald Trump's assholery is in a class all it's own, he is not in the American definition that existed prior to 2016 a conservative, and his policy goals are a terrible fit for the American definition of both liberal and conservative.

To be fair to @ErosWired I had a minor variation on this happen to me at a bathhouse this fall. It was pup night, and I got asked back to the pup and handlers room, and while the handler was obviously presenting as a woman, I was operating under the assumption that she was an anatomical male below, it turns out she wasn't. In my case it worked out more or less ok since I'm bi and her pup wanted to flip with me, which we did. I would have been more than ok with it if she had been interested in letting me fuck her as well, but sadly she only wanted to use dildos on us and watch, I let her watch, but I personally have no interest in being penetrated by a toy.

That's what Bi-night is for. Actually here in Portland it seems to be okay for most of the fetish themed nights, which doesn't really make a difference since guys don't fuck at any of them.

My experience is they would need to follow you or you follow them to somewhere more private. At least find a quiet corner in the locker room 😉

I know it is hard to believe, but nationally the racists love him and he has developed his own cult following among them.

Damn, I miss Colorado. I fucked my brains out while I was living there. I was based in Denver, but have some really fond memories of Palmer Park holes and poles.

or in other words Trump 2.0, if something happens to His Orange Hindness, Vivek will take most if not all of the non-racist true MAGA believer portion of the coalition. I'm not sure how big that group is, but he is the clear favorite of the MAGA style and policy voters. The racist + style and policy voters will go to DeSantis.

I was able to suck my own cock from my mid teens until my early 30s. Sucking someone else is a lot more comfortable, since you don't have to be a contortionist to do it, and you can deep throat someone else's big dick if you can get past your gag reaction, which I could never do with my own and is a lot of fun. I mostly stopped trying to suck my own once I started exchanging blow jobs with other men, which is less painful. The only thing I wish I could still do is lick the precum off the tip, I have both a fairly long dick and long tongue so was able to do that with no discomfort when I was younger. I still mostly jack off in a seated position wishing I could still lean down and ap up my nectar.

I would have to partially disagree with this. Bathhouses and other fuck venues (both gay and straight) are activity centric, and those that either can't or don't want to participate in that activity aren't really welcome in those spaces. Fro instance, where I live cuddle parties are very popular in the gay community and there are venues specific to that activity, that I'm never going to visit because I have no interest in that activity. I do go to both of my local gay bathhouses regularly and avoid the many fetish theme events where I have learned fucking isn't the main focus or even particularly welcome at. My gripe is that the men that don't like to fuck do go to bathhouses and basically cockblock those of us who are into fucking even at events like Cumunion that are specifically intended for my favorite activity. Personally I don't go to Trans nights at the local bathhouses not because of the presence of FTM trans men, but because of the cross dressers that are there to pose. I personally don't mind the FTM trans present at other times, because they are there to actively participate, and even if I wasn't into them, my observation is that they don't act as cock blockers to those that aren't interested.

I've fucked a few FTM transmen at Steamworks in Seattle, or if you ever get to Portland there are almost always 1 or 2 of them at Hawks on a Saturday night. They really aren't that hard to find in the PNW, but I don't remember encountering one at a bathhouse anywhere else.

We need more full service gas stations.

I can only answer for myself, but I greatly prefer finding horny FTM men that are at a fuck venue to get fucked in all 3 holes, than men with congenital dicks that are sides, no matter how masculine or feminine the owner of the dick appears. I don't go to a fuck venue, i.e. bathhouse, to socialize, pose, cuddle, have foreplay, or even just do oral, I go to fuck and get fucked, so a horny uninhibited FTM that is there to get fucked is fine with me, I can and have enjoyed some great sessions with a few of them.

I want to Steam last night, it was a great night by local standards, but still frustrating for me. I have not been going to the baths very often for a couple of months, my work has taken a heavy toll on me, and while going to an active fuck venue and having a lot of sex in a couple hour span is wonderfully reinvigorating, that simply doesn't happen in Portland and I often end up spending 6-8 hours and leave with nothing but blue balls and frustration. I decided last night I would give it try but would definitely not spend more than 6 hours. Early on I fucked but did not breed a couple of holes before the blue balls no mating dance killed my hard on. Eventually I got fucked by a few guys, the 1st guy to fuck me fucked me for a long time before tapping out saying he didn't want to cum yet, but promised to breed my hole later, which to my surprise he actually did. Another guy bred me while I was in the cubby hole of the maze and got away before I even turned around to lick his cock clean and see who he was. Another big dicked guy who has been fucking me regularly but has never given me a load took a few strokes in my hole twice. The 2nd time he rode my hole was in the sling in the group playroom about 4 hours after I arrived, I was tired and had almost decided to call it a night after he pulled out, when in walked a cute guy about 30 who I have been swapping loads with for a couple of years. It was glow bracelet night, and he was in a jock and wearing a red bracelet for bottom instead of green for verse, but I know he is at least somewhat verse and a good fuck. Between getting my very cum sloppy hole railed in the sling by Mr. Big Dick and seeing the hot guy I been swapping loads with revived my hard on, so I decided to try to find him or at least a bottom offering himself up for a quick breed, which can be difficult in Portland, before heading home. I didn't find my cum swap buddy, but in the maze area a hole teasing cock blocker that I had been avoiding all evening was teasing an older bottom that I've fucked before motioned me over to join them, I didn't join them on the 1st circuit, but since he was the only bottom in the entire club openly offering his hole I did on the 2nd circuit. Mr Hole Tease Cock Blocker seemed to be somewhat taken aback when I actually joined them and had a bit of reaction when I grabbed his cock with the bottom who was trying to guide it into his hole (this guy loves to rub his cock in your cock and tease you with the tip on your hole for hours if you let him, but will never stick it in), he even made a comment about never having had 2 guys trying to handle his cock at the same time (apparently he doesn't frequent fuck venues outside of the PNW), and moved his cock further from the needy hole. The needy bottom moved himself so I could gain access to his hole, which was unfortunately still dry and tight, and before Mr Cock Blocker fully reacted I was balls deep in the bottom. To his credit Mr Cock Blocker didn't leave, but moved around to where he could give the bottom better access to his cock with his hands without letting him take it in his mouth and started playing with my tits and encouraging me. I fucked the bottom for about 10 minutes before I bred him, which seemed to excite Mr Cock Blocker. I then headed for the showers, got dressed and headed out. I walked through the maze and Mr Cock Blocker was still there teasing the same bottom, most likely preventing anyone else from taking an interest in him. Over all it wasn't a bad night for Portland I didn't have an encounter where I made the great pig sex "connection" with anyone, but I did get my pole in at least 5 holes and had a similar number in my hole. 2 guys bred me, and I did find a willing bottom to take my load before I went home and only spent 4.5 hours doing it.

My 1st experience with this happened when I was about 20 and had just started cruising for encounters with men. I was shopping at a Cub Foods, I kept passing a good looking guy who was about 30 who was obviously flirting with me, we wound up blowing each other in the washroom. The most uncomfortable time, and I did not act on it was at a fast food joint in Nebraska, the kid didn't even look 16 and I was in my mid to late 30's, I was driving cross country on I-80 and stopped for the night, I walked across the parking lot from my Motel to whatever franchise was next door, I didn't really pay attention to the kid when he took my order, but once I had my food he came into the dining room with a drink, sat at a table where I could easily see him stared at me and started playing pocket pool in a totally obvious way.

I had never encountered many trans/reassigned people in sexual situations prior to moving to Portland, but they are very much part of the scene here. I had encountered cross-dressers before in bookstores, but the bathhouses that I frequented in Denver where I started going to them both prohibited cross-dressing outside of the rooms. I specifically remember the poster on the wall at Midtowne Spa with George W. Bush's head photoshopped onto an obvious male body wearing fishnet stockings, high heels and pink lingerie that said "no crossdressing, not even you Mr President", because it made me laugh every single time I saw it. However Portland bathhouses did not seem to have that rule. I also had my 1st encounter with a FTM shortly after moving here in the adult theater, even that 1st time I fucked all 3 of his holes. FTM people have been common at Hawks since it opened (and even occasionally encounter them at Steam), and I have found them to be significantly hornier that the typical male since they are almost always there to get their brains fucked out, in a city that has very little actual fucking at its fuck venues. I travel and visit fuck venues in other cities quite frequently and I don't think I have ever encountered FTM people at them outside the Pacific Northwest (which includes Portland, Seattle and Vancouver Canada). I am also yet to encounter a FTM who has a functioning cock that is capable of topping, and have zero interest in getting fucked by a dildo or strap on period. I do have a problem a bit of a problem with cross-dressers many of whom seem to be there just to pose and who do nothing for me anyway. I'm bi, so if I want someone who looks like a woman I will find a woman to fuck. Since the pandemic Hawks has gone out of there way to welcome all trans individuals as it has leaned heavily into fetishes instead of trying to attract men who actually fuck and neither the cross-dressers or the partially transitioned MTF seem to be interested or conducive to fucking. They even have at least 2 employees who are transitioning MTF, the one that I see most frequently is obviously on female hormones, but still has her cock and balls. After reading this, I checked and discovered that Hawks has removed all of the masculine imaging from their website, possibly in an attempt to overcome that.

My 1st thought was do we really need more categories, but this fits me pretty well as a successful introvert, who doesn't do relationships and is also hypersexual.

Sounds like an awesome event!

It was fairly common for me back in the 1990's and early 2000's. While I never accepted payment or paid, I had some really fun adventures.

I can't say that I've ever burned out in sex, but I do try to make sure I do other things. The closest I come is when I return to Portland after a sexcation or business trip to an easy to get laid location, I typically wait a couple of weeks before putting myself through the frustration of trying to hookup here where sex isn't even readily available in the fuck venues.

I did it several times about 15 years ago when I had a broken bone in my foot. I didn't make the injury worse, and more importantly fucked some tension out.