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NWUSHorny

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  1. I generally agree with you about oral not really counting, however I don't think we are the norm. I know too many "gay" men who claim to have no interest in anal. I do consider my topping virginity separate from bottoming. For me it was a much bigger deal to take a cock up my ass than it was to give one, and it took more than a year after I started topping to bottom. Once I did I really loved both. I still really enjoy both, and in fact did both multiple times this weekend.
  2. Did anyone go to CumUnion Friday night? Was it still a hot orgy and is the new location conducive to fucking? I'm hoping to get to it in the next couple of months, and haven't been to an LA CumUnion since last July.
  3. I lost my virginity with a girl just before my 14th birthday in a relationship that lasted less than 2 months. I lost my gay oral (both) virginity at 19 with a guy in the university library washroom. The 1st guy I fucked was the same guy I lost my gay virginity to, but nearly a year later. When I lost my own anal virginity at 21, it started by getting fingered by a really hung black guy under the stall wall in the university library, I was afraid to take him, so I watched him fuck the guy under the next stall wall. The next day, I hooked up with a guy who wasn't hung like a donkey, so took him home and pretty much begged him to take my alal virginity. Two days later I hooked up with a different hung but nut not as big, black guy who managed to make me cum at the exact same moment he filled the condom in my ass (it was 1991), the next day he and I hooked up again and I had my first flip fuck. About 2 weeks later I took the really hung guy under the stall wall. I developed fuckbud relationships with all of those first 3 guys that lasted until the end of the semester (all 3 of us were Seniors). I had my 1st group experience with the 1st and 2nd guys to fuck me plus a versatile guy from Australia (uncut, so one of my first experiences with an uncut dick that wasn't my own), 3 out of 4 us were versatile and had a really long and enjoyable session.
  4. I've been sought out and invited to take the anal virginity of several guys. The 1st time was with a 22 year old when I was 20, when I had only fucked 2 other guys and before I lost my own anal virginity, so I was really out of my league. The most recent was with a 19 year old when I was 50, which felt somewhat uncomfortable with that due to the age difference. Since I'm somewhat larger than average (I know I sought out someone smaller to loose mine to) I always take my time eating him out and preparing him by very gently finger massaging his hole (I hate being fingered, so I am very careful not to over do the penetrative part of fingering) then encourage him to either back up on my dick doggy style or letting him sit on it (I've found doggy style works better) at his own pace. While I don't generally do relationships, quite a few of the guys whose virginity I took became at least occasional fuckbuds, so I like to think I did something right. Several of them quickly evolved into major sluts, that I have fucked repeatedly while cruising or at sex clubs.
  5. There are CumUnion parties locations that are regularly decent orgies. I suspect that the odds are better when they are held in venues that do not offer private rooms, and force everyone to play in the group play spaces, the ones held at Sanctuary LAX have been consistently very good for me. The ones held at bathhouses that regularly see orgies that last several hours break out in their group play spaces also tend to turn into decent orgies, but don't require a CumUnion party to get an orgy going, the now closed Denver Swim Club was great for this. In the PNW, as far as I have been able to figure out, a decent group orgy is all but impossible to achieve, in a private party, at a bathhouse, or an event like CumUnion. Both Portland and Seattle have held Horsemarket parties, but I haven't been able to attend one yet, but find it hard to believe they would work very well with out getting a significant percentage of the attendees from outside the region. They don't do group sex, they don't fuck with strangers on the 1st hookup, and a larger than average percentage of the gay population do not engage in any form of casual penetrative sex.
  6. I've always found being an enthusiastic sexual partner in random hookups, often several times with the same guy(s) was the best way to score orgy invitations. Moving around and traveling has taught me that the effectiveness of this technique varies regionally.
  7. I have found that if I am really attracted to a guy my hole will open up and take it with minimal pain and effort. The 2nd guy to ever fuck me was huge, and taught me the joys of flip fucking on our 2nd hookup.
  8. I think it applies more to versatile men than bottoms, but unfortunately there is a definite tendency among some versatile men who do not flip fuck to use cock size as the determining factor as to who tops and who bottoms. If men who have sex with men in general are using this as a metric for sexual position, instead of what they derive pleasure from, I can see where this could at least be somewhat true. I would point out, that if they are determining their position based on this metric they are doing both themselves and the community in general a great disservice.
  9. I'm versatile, but reject guys who are only into oral only or even worse just foreplay all the time. Mostly at the bathhouses and cruising spots, because I no longer even bother with the hookup apps in a city where it feels like almost everyone lists cuddling as the number one activity they are looking for. I will admit I will sometimes accept cock sucking before I give up and go home. One of the local baths has twice monthly parties where they issue 5 different colors of glow bracelets to indicate sexual position. Purple for neither oral or anal has been making up a significant plurality lately most of the rest choose orange for oral only and we are lucky if the blue/top, red/bottom and green/versatile make up a combined 20% of the guys. A year or so ago it was more than half oral only, but they have regressed even more since then.
  10. Spit and precum topping or bottoming. I don't like artificial lube, and if you must use it at please find one that is unscented.
  11. That is great, I always love hearing stories where guys have a good time on their 1st visit to a bathhouse. I too went on a weeknight, and fucked (before I even had a chance to explore the club), got fucked and was the meat in a fuck sandwich (flip fucking back and forth with the other versatile guy) all in the 1st hour. Needless to say I have been a fan ever since.
  12. I'm not telling them that I'm undetectable at that point, I'm informing a guy that may not know how big of a slut I am, that there is already cum in my hole, with the implication that I don't know the status of that cum. Which may be assuming too much. On the other hand 95% of my fucking takes place in sex clubs so if they are barebacking in a sex club they are already taking significant risk.
  13. Sounds like you feel the same way I do. Unfortunately need to move to make it happen, and take more sexcations like the one that resulted in these 2 stories. I severely limited hooking up, due to the Monkeypox outbreak, for the next 3 months after they happened.
  14. How many of you feel a need to make up for lost time hooking up after the events of the last 3 years? I know I do, while I did hookup a few times during COVID and never completely stopped for Monkeypox, it feels like I am hornier than ever. It doesn't help that I'm over 50 and lost a year 5 years ago due to going through cancer treatment. Anyone else feeling greater urgency?
  15. After the last 6 months, I'm trying to get my mind around having something like this happening in Portland I know the year after things reopened after COVID was by far the best year of sex I've enjoyed in the 16 years I have lived here in Portland, things may not be completely back to the no fuck norm but it is getting closer all the time. I can't imagine it happening now, but I trust the author of this post🤣 Last night was also a glow bracelet party, I would guess 2/3rds of the men last night chose purple for I don't fuck in any position or suck, and most of the rest chose orange for oral only. There was definitely a lot less fucking than 10 months ago. Last night was pretty much the same as this post from almost 10 years ago
  16. This is the HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health > Making the Decision to Bareback forum, not the Backroom > HIV Fetish - Bugchasers, Gift Givers, etc. forum, so I think it is reasonable to point out when someone is about to actually switch from fantasy to a potentially self-destructive act.
  17. I really need to go to a Fornication Party, but since they don't seem to be having them in the western 2/3 of the country it is probably going to have to wait until I move back that direction.
  18. I think the answer to that question is somewhat situational. With a small group of regular fuck buddies, or even if you are setting something up with a single individual in advance, for me disclosing my status in ethically mandatory. If you are at a sex club, party or just out cruising then I think it is up to the other party to ask if you are undetectable, if I wasn't undetectable I would feel obligated to disclose it before we fucked. For me that didn't happen, because I found out I was positive while being treated for cancer and was undetectable long before I started looking for sex again. Another ethical question is for cumdump bottoms, what is their obligation even if they themselves are neg on PREP or undetectable? I'm almost certain I caught it from fucking cumdump bottoms at sex clubs and parties. I take full responsibility for my own irresponsible actions (I sought out bottoms that I had just watched get bred), but definitely warn someone who I don't think is experienced if they are about to stick their dick in me and I have cum in my hole. In fact unless it is a regular who is about to fuck me, I always disclose in advance if they are about to get sloppy seconds.
  19. I highly recommend you get on PREP if you are actually going to bareback. If it is just a fantasy that you are entertaining, but aren't actually fucking with anyone, it doesn't really make a difference. I can't say that I condone your self destructive fantasy, or that I don't find it irritating, but if you aren't actually acting on it you aren't causing yourself harm.
  20. I wound up with a last minute work project last night, so I don't know how many were actually there. Probably just as well, since it was a warm sunny day which always makes me horny, so it always feels like it has the opposite effect on most local guys.
  21. You need to go and experience the scene for yourself. I live in Portland, so I haven't been too many times in Seattle and don't make special trips for events there. I find both Portland and Seattle scenes extremely slow, but you can get lucky and be there on a somewhat decent night.
  22. It is why I'm considering a move. I'm hoping to move this year, still trying to work through the details, including where to move. I'd rather post about things I'm actually doing.
  23. I'll keep that in mind, I haven't been to one in the Bay Area yet.
  24. I'm not trying to dissuade you from going to the one in Seattle, I go to it if I happen to be there on one of the party dates. If you want to go to a CumUnion party with a really good active fucking scene, that almost guarantees you will get fucked, I recommend the LAX party, it is resuming after a several months hiatus on 4/7. It is a lot more active than the parties in Las Vegas, and the parties in Las Vegas are a lot more active than Seattle. I would highly recommend that you do get on PREP if you are going to act on this.
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