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Now that sounds like a fun place to visit

Jerking off is to let off some steam, gooning is reserved for those that enjoy going down porn rabbit holes. Hours later the pressure has built up enough to shoot over your head leaving you depleted. A sign of a job well done

Obviously a top, way to many bottoms out there. It's really a supply and demand issue.

Depends on the arrangement, if you clearly state that you are into oral only then that's it, boundaries must be respected. For me personally I consider oral sex as an appetizer, and I'm usually looking forward to the main course in either top or bottom roles.

I understand the "parental" concern and let's face it, the click here if you're over 18 was always a joke. Where I have concern is on 2 fronts. 1. The end of privacy / being anonymous. If we as adults are compelled to buy / sign-up for a digital ID to access adult content it won't be long until every site is forced to incorporate this. This goes way beyond porn or trolling someone random person on the Internet for the lol's. This will help to create a searchable database of all your Internet activity which could be used against you in some moral authoritarian crusade, worse than Tipper Gore did in the 90's. This will be the West's version of a social credit score. Who will have access, and what are the reporting and or enforcement mechanisms. 2. Digital bill of rights, the control will come first, but where is our rights as citizens. The case is being made "to protect our children" but we all know this is the smoke screen without the right of privacy to raise concerns anonymously online it won't be hard to eliminate advocates for unpopular ideas. This will be the end of descent and collective action. All anyone with power to stop change that they don't like is simply shadow ban those individuals into a digital black hole where no one will hear them. (They already did this with covid) The Internet is the town square now and it must be protected at all costs. Blackmail, you know this will go there. No longer will things of a sexual nature be reserved for high profile people in the gossip columns. This will be used to go after anyone for revenge or other malicious purposes. Imagine you want to oppose a new spending bill to build a fountain in the park, well Karen will have your number. People will be forced into silence to shield their dirty secrets. Ultimately the responsibility, is on the parents to monitor there children's online activities. What this bill appears to do is punish a naughty site because of perceived harm which is an impossible legal standard. How did the plaintiff calculate the harm done, oh they will just make it up. Oh no little Johnny saw 2 people having sex, now he will never be CEO of General Motors, and now gazillions of income all lost. Where is the accountability on the user. Oh wait parents spending time with their kids what am I saying. An actual solution exists better than the old V chip of the 90's. Blocking, if you go to any library you cannot view any adult site, they seemed to have figured this out, so why the need for this. Simply offer that block list to any parent. Maybe mom & dad won't do that since they aren't being completely honest with each other. This is how you know it isn't about "protecting the children" which is always the cover story. It's just a game of mouse trap except on the digital front. We all know that this will be worked around pretty quickly by kids. By the age of 8 I reprogrammed my cable box with a butter knife and alligator clips to watch cinnamax late at night. A newer version of my butter knife will be created and quickly distributed. There is no stopping porn, just authoritarian monitoring to control people's behavior. This is all Karen's gone wild and everyone has to suffer her want of control so she can feel content with her smug self-righteous self. Exactly like the prohibition movement of the 1920's. My grandfather told me of those days and how the women reveled in their joy of control over the men from going to the bars. My grandfather started brewing beer in the garage, just took a while to make that happen, but he did. Checkmate grandma. I think the problem we have to wrestle with is solutions to "problem". Blocking is one and can easily be adopted, but we need more solutions to offer in order to neutralize those arguments. I know this is a little long here but this isn't a left vs right issue, this is a unalienable human rights issue. The right to free speech shall not be infringed upon by the government. Signed by the founding fathers in 1776 paid for in blood in a terrible war. Those sacrifices must not of been in vain. Take the time to write an actual letter to your state and federal representatives. A physical letter carries more weight than you can imagine.

Boys are meant to serve men, if they want a vanilla playdate perhaps Christianmingle may be more their speed

Justaholeff said it right, if the sound is natural. Hate when they are playing acting becomes a total turn off.

I've only seen a few profiles that say safe only. However when you slap their hole with your cock they suddenly forget all about the condoms they insisted you bring.

A regular already knows you and your little spots. That level of familiarity allows for much kinkier play and possibly more teammates for the adventures.

Younger men lack experience, however have a nice vigor. Older guys have experience, are kinkier & enjoy taking their time

That's what brothers are for man, we must guide each other on the path to enlightenment. Knowledge is only the beginning of wisdom.

No no no, don't you dare say that. If straight men think fucking a fag makes them gay that will create a barrier that they may not cross. Fags are here to help fellow men in need, just like in the days of old. We're happy to offer our services without judgement, criticism, or compensation. Don't ever make them feel shameful for making the choice to use one of us for their sexual needs. We offer competition in the sexual market place that gives straight men an alternative option, while still being straight. Let them enjoy their beliefs while we enjoy there cocks. Besides there's already an oversupply of bottoms as is.

Here are the rules 1. Raw is the law 2. No seed from man shall touch the earth 3. Submitting to a man means you accept what he wishes

Love Latino guys, although I'm a total sucker for a thick Russian accent, total Borris fetish here.

You said it 3 words, "we were brothers" we were always there for each other no matter the need. I helped my friends go to the bathroom when they became to weak, and cleaned out there porn and toy collections after they passed so their parents didn't have to see that. If one of us lost a job we found you another one by the next night. Food was never an issue, of course you can come over, I'm making a huge pot tonight. Need a place to crash for a month or 2, don't worry about just help us around the house a bit. If I was at a bar and I got into an argument with someone and then I saw them in trouble outside I was the first to throw down to protect my brother even if he is the biggest asshole. We had something really special back then and that's what I think I miss the most. We worked as one for the betterment of all of us. We were united in all things and you knew any brother would help you. The pride parade didn't have a Chase bank float, it had stonewallers and some of the most ridiculous things like the drag queens sewing mafia acting silly. We respected each other for we all came from hardship of some kind, and that gave us a bond.

Dude that's like employing the $2.00 move on the price is right. Fucking brilliant

I was always envious of guys like you, being able to just let go and enjoy all the dick you wanted. I was always to scared, but I think that's about to change for me.

I remember those days very well, and no cum dumps were rare, or rarely advertised. PREP was still in the experimental stages and 2 of my friends were volunteers and they caught HIV just like the rest. When I first came out I asked the oldest men I could find, "how did you survive". They all told me you're either a top or in a strictly monogamous relationship. I was recently going through some old photos and ran across a pic of me and 20 of my old friends when were we hanging at riis beach. We were all young and naked and having a great time. The thing that stopped me and made me cry is I remember going to all of there funerals. I'm the only one who is still alive. Most of them passed on from HIV complications like pneumonia, a few others passed due to over taxing their bodies from extended drug use. I was the conservative one when going out. I would drink and smoke some pot, but mainly left the rest of the stuff alone or partook lightly. Guys from my generation and the ones before me were scared to hook-up with just anyone. We would need to know more information before going there, you could call it an interview for sex. When meth became popular in the early 2000's the death toll raised pretty quickly at least for me. PREP is a total game changer for gay life, never before have I seen so many guys do the things that they do and live past the 2-4 year mark. You never saw breeding parties except in strictly controlled BDSM arrangements. Sure they existed but not for people who were HIV-. Those days were scary, but also exciting in a way. You assumed everyone was HIV+ and proceeded at your own risk. We also had a tighter community where we supported each other unlike today, because that's all we had. There was no social acceptance for gay life and the only people you could rely on were your friends. A lot has changed since those days and I'm really happy for the younger guys. They get to live the life we all wanted to, but for us older guys our mental scars prevent us from doing those things the same way. Today the medicine for HIV is much better with fewer negative effects and longer life outcomes.

I play with a straight friend of mine I've known since kindergarten. He's been married for almost 20 years and she barely gives him sex for the past 15. Since we used to show each other our penises when we were kids he figured he would do it again when we went on a hike when he was pissing. He kinda broke down and said I love her but I just don't get any sex. Since he knew I was gay and very comfortable with me I looked him in his eyes whipped out my cock and started jerking. I then got on my knees and said come over here and fuck my mouth. That poor man blew his load in under a minute, you can tell he was in need and excited. After that he would come into the city to "hang-out" with me roughly every month. It's been kinda nice helping out a friend with his needs. We still mess around and his wife still has no idea and she never will.

If you tell the guy you're going to hook up with it's your first time 99.9% of the time he will be kind and patient. I've broken in many boys and I spent the time working them open. There's nothing more exciting than giving a guy his first, it's almost like reliving your first time except this time it'll be better. Clean out your butt to the best of your abilities and decide you want this. Set out any limits you might have such as condoms upfront. This will help to put your mind at ease I'd also recommend taking some magnesium since it is a natural muscle relaxer and will help you relax during the initial penetration and continuing thrusts. Also poppers would be good to have on hand, but let him feed them to you. He will know when you'll need them. The biggest issue you'll have is your own head, trust your partner to want to give you a pleasurable experience. Communication is key, let him know if you have any discomfort, sometimes more lube will need to be applied. Perhaps he's entering you at the wrong angle, things happen especially since you have no experience. Let go of your fears, trust in your partner and let go of your inhibitions. Please report back with how things turned out.