Didn't start having sex until I was in my early 20's back in the 90's and there was the condom brainwashing, so always used them. Moved SF with my bf (now husband) and went through a sex ed training. We both got tested and then ditched the condoms when we had sex with each other but still used them with outsiders.
Eight months ago I met a younger guy that after riding my wrapped cock and for a minute or two reached down and pulled the condom off than sat back down on my raw cock. A couple weeks after that my husband and I hooked up with a cute bottom and took turns fucking him bb.
I started on prep a few weeks later and my husband is starting this month.