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How do you react when you see someone crying?
NYBBGUY58 replied to Sharp-edge's topic in General Discussion
You did perfectly! Seeing someone we're not accustomed to being emotional expressing emotion can be a challenging, so I'm not surprised you felt fear. Just letting him be human and say what was upsetting him is invaluable, though. Just be a friend, let him know he can talk to you without fear of judgment. And don't try to "fix" anything, since usually that backfires. Be present, that's my approach and advice. -
I'd be happy to assist them...I've taken up to 10 inches, bet I could get the extra .5...
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I like the idea of being fucked by Austin Wolf, but I probably wouldn't enjoy the reality. He seems a little bit full of himself and not terribly approachable. Plus I remember him making a video where he claimed he would smack a bottom who asked for bareback play, but now all of his videos are strictly raw. Such an amazing body...but...nah.
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I guess they never heard of the Sacred Band of Thebes, which was said to be composed of male couples. The Spartan military (one of the most feared armies in ancient Greece) was also said to have been strengthened by same-sex bonds between its male soldiers. So who knows, if it had actually worked it might have backfired spectacularly. 😉
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Dear all, I stupidly deleted the Word file with my latest updates. Sigh. Nope, not in any backup that I can find easily. Damn. Well, at least I have versions of all the chapters here.
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Nipple ring. Honest answer required please.
NYBBGUY58 replied to BadBob's topic in General Discussion
I don't think so! If you want a piercing get it done, and if anyone says something stupid tell them to MYOB and/or to fuck off. -
Who's that hot guy in the (vid, ad, etc) discussion
NYBBGUY58 replied to viking8x6's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
Fellow traveler! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 -
Who's that hot guy in the (vid, ad, etc) discussion
NYBBGUY58 replied to viking8x6's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
Okay, here comes (no pun intended) the grouchy observation: it was all hot, except the moment where he's flexing and looking at himself in the mirror. It looks disengaged to me and I hate disengaged tops fucking me. I once nearly fell asleep under a rim chair during a 3-way because the two guys (who, to be fair, did breed me) were so into each other that I was relegated to being the fluffer for their scene. This was allegedly a birthday celebration for me, and I was the one who did not get kissed. So yeah, I'm grumpy about these details. I have sympathy for these guys, who film for hours to created the edited product and have to figure out how to keep going, so maybe it's an editing problem. Or maybe I'm just a bitch. -
Why does becoming POZ make guys become sex crazy
NYBBGUY58 replied to Dirtyfuckboy's topic in What's It Like To Be Poz?
I assume there are as many reactions to the news of being HIV+ as there are people who've gotten it. For me, sex pig wasn't my experience. Mostly, I was terrified, felt dirty and completely undesirable. The medical condition I had to face was daunting - I needed regular infusions of gamma-globulin (at thousands of dollars a pop) to keep my platelets from dropping so low that I would have spontaneous internal bleeds. In fact having a life-threatening internal bleed was how I found out I was positive. This was also a part of my personal reaction, it felt like being hit over the head. In 1993 when I was diagnosed there was no effective treatment, which likely played into, too. Now that I have good treatment, have figured out how to maintain that and with the advent of PrEP and PeP, yeah< I've become a cum-crazed slut! Vive le difference! -
Tell me your most kinky nasty [banned word] fantasies.
NYBBGUY58 replied to Sub-Cocksucker's topic in Hardcore Fetish FICTION
Read all about it here: My most potent fantasies are ones where I'm, er, not entirely willing and "compelled" (uh-huh, yeah, right) to follow orders. 😈 I had a horrible crush on an uncle who was movie-star handsome - fantasizing about his deflowering me has been a constant for a long, long time, along with a couple of my male cousins and (perversely enough) the homophobic asshole shrink they sent me to as a kid. I was an obviously latent homo, the sessions clearly didn't "fix" me, not that I believe I ever needed that kind of "fixing." I feel like I'm SO predictable...but one thing I've learned is that not all fantasies make great realities. In life what that means is I'm not really a passive, sub, "no, don't, stop!" bottom. I guess I qualify as a "power" bottom, whatever that's supposed to be. I love men, I enjoy sex, enjoy being dominated but I want to engage. Go figure... -
If you could possess a supernatural power, what would it be?
NYBBGUY58 replied to Sharp-edge's topic in General Discussion
I like the way you think! I'd like the power of invisibility. I've always wanted that one! -
There is nothing better than people enjoying one other's bodies, giving freely of sensuality and friendship and everything that, er, uh, "comes" with it...
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Pretty much whatever the top wants, but I guess each has their own appeal: 1. On my stomach makes me feel dominated! 2. Doggie style lets me reach back and play with the top's balls and t'aint; depending on size and my state of limberness, his ass crack...😍 3. Missionary (a.k.a., "on back legs in the air") allows me to reach the balls, the t'aint and the ass crack. Drove one guy crazy while he fucked me (saying he had girlfriends that were pretty and he liked fucking them, but that none of them knew to touch his ass like I did...🥵🥵🥵🥵🥵)
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Why can't I stop barebacking?
NYBBGUY58 replied to Usedbottom's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
I think it's a very personal decision on every level. I would agree with others who say get on PreP, even if you have to go to the nearest large city to get a prescription and then have it delivered via mail order. Still, that doesn't prevent any of the other common STDs. Ironically during my youth (from the time I took my first cock until pre 1984-ish for me) I didn't "play safe," it wasn't even a THING, and I never got an STD. In the past few years as a 60-something year old I've had gonorrhea 3 or 4 times. It always feels so embarrassing, but I'm willing to pay that price. I really don't think there's anything wrong with your enjoying BB sex, I would just urge you to find a way to protect yourself that doesn't involve condoms. -
Okay, here to chime in with the bottom's viewpoint, I have come to love my lube injector. Yes that's a thing! I'm tight, and it just makes the experience much more pleasurable for all concerned. And then if you add a couple of loads...💦💦💦...I'm overflowing.
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Not precisely, but an undercover transit cop in the NY subway caught me taking pictures and filming his undercover cop partner's ass. He was NOT amused, and seemed to want to arrest me. I wouldn't have been in "real" trouble since I was in a public space - a subway platform is the DEFINITION of public - and I didn't include the guy's face, so there wasn't any explicit harm to the subject of my photos. The cop accused me of "following women up the stairs" (🤣) to which I replied "Nope. Just men." He looked revolted by that admission. I was on my way to work, so it was going to be a hassle and I was, honestly, terrified that he'd make my life hell just because he felt like being mean. So I confessed to "having a kink" and promised to never, ever do it again. Yeah...right. He didn't believe me, though I abstained for a few months. My honest opinion is that the guy was being a homophobic asshole. No one was injured, there was no way to identify whose ass it was and there were no charges that would have stuck. But it would have been embarrassing. See image:
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I'm fine with whatever the top likes. If it turns him on to say "I'm going to fuck that hot pussy," fine. I have a fuck buddy who gets incredibly excited with impregnation fantasies, so when I said to him "I want a little boy just like you," he shot up inside of me. He can get into the whole ass is a pussy thing. Others prefer hot hole or hot ass, or I'm going to breed your butt. It's all good...
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What annoys you most about gay porn.
NYBBGUY58 replied to Barebackpiggy's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
Many things: eons of footage with the top thrusting away while grunting inarticulately; camera angles that make for a good shot but really aren't all that sexy; cumshots unduly delayed; external cumshots where the top doesn't even put his dick back in to fuck in some of the load; but above all, whiny bottoms (yes, I'm pretty exclusively a bottom) who incessantly moan "Oh yeah, baby, give it to me, uh-huh..." ad nauseum, mostly because the tops are disengaged, not interacting and can only perform with the aid of Trimix. True connection in porn is so rare... -
I've been with guys who don't, or at least it tends to make them lose their erection. I love both rimming and being rimmed, though love rimming just a little bit more - having a top man order me to eat his ass drives me NUTS! In a good way, of course.
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I have had herpes before - usually right on the tailbone, though. And every test reveals it's the "oral" strain, for whatever that's worth. Actually, the physician's assistant at my colo-rectal surgeon posited that it went the other way around, I got the strep (throat, too) and that created the conditions for herpes. No real way to know, though. I've had a combination before, but that was MRSA and herpes many years ago. What I meant by "what are the odds" was on how closely it mimicked Monkeypox right at the moment where there's an ongoing spate of cases. (Is it an epidemic yet?) The physician's assistant wasn't 100% sure, but we were going with the assumption that it was likely. However, after contacting the guys who I'd had sex with none of them had any problems at all. It was certainly puzzling - an "immaculate infection?"
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I ended up not having it, but even my ersatz case (a combination of herpes and strep - what are the odds?) it was miserably uncomfortable.
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There are as many answers as there are guys who take dick up the butt! I say to each their own - whatever works. In my case, I've had treatment for prostate cancer which has rendered me impotent and cumming sometimes takes a while. Plus the older I get, the harder it is to cum after being fucked, forget while being fucked. In my more verse days, some guys wanted to cum with my dick still in them, others not at all - at least not as far as I was privy to.
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I actually was fucked many years ago by the late, great Jon Vincent and have taken Tommy Deluca's huge dick, as well as Kevin Slater's. But to the present: I'd love to fuck Valentin Amour, Topher Drew and Drew Park among others. I'd love to be fucked by Austin Wolf, Nick Capra, Esteban (even though he'd split me into little pieces), Chase Coxxx, Elio Knight and Seth Knight. I'm sure there are others I'm forgetting...😘
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False alarm...herpes + strep. Sigh...I got results in two days, though, so that's not bad.
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It's extreemely likely that I have Monkeypox - I'm waiting for definitive test results. It isn't life-threatening as far as I know, but it is MISERABLE, at least in my case. So while I understand that there are those who feel in the wake of COVID that this "no biggie," (and/or that COVID is "no biggie") it's not something I would want anyone to have to experience. If you can get a vaccine, I strongly suggest you do. Take care, y'all!
