ruralguy7326
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Sorry dudes I still strongly dissagree. Might just be something in the water here !!!! I passionatly believe that we can have my whole loaf and not just a few slices. Why, well I've experienced it for myself. Many straights and yes alot of gays put in the effort and commitment towards each other without it all turning into jelousy. Jelousy is not a sign of a true healthy and deep love. At the risk of sounding very "Mills and Boon" ish and perhaps too romantic, true happiness, a deep passionate love and a strong desire to be with one special man excluding all others can be a reality. This will however work only if both parties believe this to be a truth. If we as gay men accept and go for less we are just short changing ourselfs. What we accept and believe will become a self fulfilling prophecy I have read very interesting thoughts from tops, bottoms and versatile guy's about standards they believe to be non negotiable in terms of performance, cleanliness, and actually turning up for a fuck as rawTOP has said a few times. I like everyone else here am no different in this regard. Now in terms of any future personal relationship the bar is as always going to be very high. Dudes what I am discussing here I know and understand is NOT for all. Each mans experience is quite different and some have experienced great hurt etc and simply dont want to go through it again. Things like abusive and controling boyfriends would be enough to turn anyone away from monogamy. I too have gone through great hurt in losing my man some years ago and it still hurts me very much to this day. Being optimistic I strongly believe that life goes on and that tomorrow is another day filled with unknown opportunites. And there could well be another full loaf just waiting for me, not simply a few miserable slices or crumbs.
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Sending my love and prayers....
ruralguy7326 replied to JoshLandaleXXX's topic in General Discussion
Agreed "barebacksaunaslut" things such as relationships, community issues and gay politics amongst others are worth discussing. There is much more to being gay or having a same sex attraction than just sleaze and seeing who can be the dirtiest pig. Well said. -
One of my favourites are feet, if a man has hot looking feet he is in for a treat, also piss, armpits, grey hair and hairy chests, not to mention cum.
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I dissagree strongly with you "all4cum", trust me man there are pleanty of good men straight, bi, and gay who do believe in total monogamy. And more importantly who are prepared to work on it and actualy put in the "commitment and effort" to make it work. It's men like these who are "selfless" not "selfish". I was very blessed to have spent the most wonderful 13years with my partner till he died. During that time we were monogomous and I know we had a spiritual conection. We did every thing together, we liked the same things and I would describe him not only as my loving partner, but more importantly as being my closest friend. Yeh we had our up and downs but throught it all we both worked and put in the effort and commitment to make each other very happy. Men who lie and cheat and accept foolishly cheating to be the norm, have been hurt and are perhaps afraid of being hurt yet again ( yeh thats right scared little boy's at heart ), or as I firmly believe are just not willing to make any SACRIFICE or put in the EFFORT, COMMITMENT, and at the end of the day are just very LAZY SELFISH men. Trust me there are pleanty of these cum bums around. Thats all their good for an annon fuck. See they actualy do serve a purpose, fuck and dump. Now that I'm single the questions are quite different. I am quite happy to fuck and use then toss aside like sweaty socks these men, as they have accepted this as their purpose in life. I will in the meantime keep an eye out for that one special man who will win my heart.
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Castration - A Bottom's Ultimate Dilemma?
ruralguy7326 replied to submissivefaggot's topic in General Discussion
Mate its your life. I can't get my head around that one because I like to 69 and being "vers" I also dig guy's who can bat on both teams. Good luck. -
When I fall in love and a relationship is starting to be negotiated I make it plain I want 100% monogomy and if my partner wont agree then thats a total deal breaker. If I found out further down the track that my partner was cheating I would end it there and then. Once a cheater always a cheater.
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Don't want to sound mean, but it sounds like he needs to go on a diet or have some lippo on his big ass. Guys that large have to accept some personal responsibility for thier size. Suggest eating carrots not burgers and watch those carbs.
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Try someting different, Take him away for a dirty week end, try anything you know he likes doing to re ignite the passion. Good luck
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Things that piss off a BB Top
ruralguy7326 replied to submissivefaggot's topic in General Discussion
Ok too much talking, guys who want cuddles after a fuck, ( unless they are just too hot ), -
What's Your Secret to Thick/ Copious Spunk ?
ruralguy7326 replied to SpunkJunkyPissHound's topic in General Discussion
Didn't know about zinc, will try that one. -
Yeh, oh well we have all made mistakes. Hated the smell on my dick.
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When I do bottom, bad breath, men who stink, tops who can't cum ( after all I want the occasional load as well ), or worse still tops insisting on a condom, and guy's who drop the amyl bottle.
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Shit is enough to gross me out. I like it clean. Do love a good piss scene though.
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Yup deep in my ass
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LOL had a great laugh.
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I'm with "Deaner" no never, and never will. Why risk being jailed or a public flogging just because I'm am gay which in civilised country's is not a crime. Islam is supposed to mean "peace", yeh right.
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When we hide from who we realy are, or try to ignore a big part of ourselfs in effect we are just running from the truth. When I stopped running years ago and just accepted myself for who I was life became so much easier. I was not so exhausted maintaining a huge lie. Yes I took some good hits from life, but it all toughened me up. Now I don't take crap from anyone and everyone who knows me also knows I am gay, homo or whatever lable people want to use. It's not everything about me it is realy just a small part of a larger picture. I live in the country and yes I'm out to all my neighbours as well and I have never had any problems. "wammt" pointed out that he has had to face descrimination. Also the fact that it has come from within the gay community is nothing new, lets face it gay's can be real bastards. To "wammt" I say fuck them you keep on being honest and being yourself. Bi isnt something I pretend to understand but each to his own.
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Poz Guy Under Arrest In Ontario For Not Disclosing Status
ruralguy7326 replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
What an awful situation. With some simple honesty and decency this situation could have been avoided. In Aust we have to disclose our status as well. Something I don't have an issue with and I do every time. I agree with you rawTOP your advice is very sound. If you want raw cock just remember there are so many lying fucks out there treat them all as POZ untill proven NEG. We all have to accept some personal responsability for our own actions. -
How Connected Do You Think Barebacking Is With Being Poz?
ruralguy7326 replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Well there is a strong connection there, but this does not worry me. "slut4anyload" pointed out that most of us when bottoming are only thinking about the load we are about to get. I'm vers and prefer to top but when I am being fucked all I want is that load. -
Why dont you just keep taking annon loads then get back to us in say six months.
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If you want to keep taking raw loads indefinatly the best thing to do is to settle down with another neg guy and stay monogamous and stay neg. If you crave and need lots of hot raw loads up your shit shute you will get pozed sooner or later.
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Bottom line is guys that till you accept and admit to yourself who you realy are, true happiness will always be just slightly out of reach. Admitting to being gay is not a weakness and I am not a victim. Infact admitting to being gay and being out takes a hell of a lot of courage and strength of character. You have to have balls to be able to deal with homophobes and ignorant F%#$@. Having to lie to yourself is one thing, lying to your "Girlfriends" or "wifes" and workmates can be awful especially when the truth comes out.
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The only condom most of you pigs will appreciate
ruralguy7326 replied to NastyRigPig's topic in General Discussion
Now I think I've seen everything. I have always hated condoms but that one is a hoot. -
I'm totaly out and have nothing to hide. I live in a rural area and have for many years now and I don't have any problems. Where I live people don't care about a bloke being a fag they realy hate being made fools of and lied to. Not that gay's like to gossip but a mate of mine who lives about an hours drive away just could not wait to tell me about a neighbour of his who's wife caught him red handed naked with another guy in the marital bed. Hell hath no fury as they say. Needles to say the wife is now out to destroy him, He's had to leave his job because of homophobia ( funny as he was a friggn homophobe ) He's had to leave the family home and move to another town and I can only imagine how his side of the family are dealing with it. I almost felt sory for him till I recalled some of the anti gay things he was supposed to have said especially about my friend. It takes balls and true courage to be an out gay man.
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Practice makes perfect as they say. Just keep at it, relax and enjoy it.
