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I've only had two successful Craigslist meets by responding to ads, and have one guy i talk dirty to through e-mail. When I post an ad, I don't get what I'm looking for most of the time. Also majority of the ads are by non-serious bottoms/versatile. Internet NSA is dying out and replaced by gay dating sites/apps. Nothing wrong with that, but if you wanna meet a guy to have raunchy sex (or real dirty sex talk) it's gonna be hard. Trust me, I'm still trying lol. Also, keep in mind that the person whose ad youre responding to isn't necessarily faking. You either don't fit his discription, or he started talking to a guy who got his interest more than you. I've done that to a couple lol. Its a different story when guys are answering your ads tho.

I've been thinking about the little nitty gritty differences between LGBT and NSA sex. I don't mean to generalize anybody, but, for me I enjoy having sex with men and I also love teasing them online. I've never considered myself to be part of the LGBT group nor do I feel "left behind" or "oppressed" when politicians or religious people say insulting things about same sex encounters, relationships etc etc. For me its about losing inhibition and letting men use me for sex; and if I were to be in a relationship, it'd have to be sex based. I was wondering what everybody else's views are on this.

Gentle isn't soooo bad! My favorite NSA top would go from slamming into my ass, then gently thrusting in me while he kissed my lips, and he also licked my thighs, kissed my neck while I sucked his cock. I felt like a total femme after he fucked me. And this was at a fucking adult theater at 1am!!!

I stopped frequent NSA cruising a while ago and am now looking for a stable sex partner. Doing NSA as a willing bottom changed my whole sexuality and allowed me to become comfortable with being a fuck toy for men. The more sex I had, the more I developed myself as a bottom both sexually, mentally, and an increase in kink fetishes and other taboo fantasies. So now that I stopped NSA sex and am now looking online for sex chat with a guy to relieve some hornyness, I realized that I expressed myself too sexually as a bottom. Add pnp to the mix, then kink and taboo favorites become the center point of everything. The result? Most guys who chat with me on an app ends up questioning their lifestyle choice. Even the "very kinky taboo kik" ones. And I'm not being super intense with it. Still, while this serves as a nice ego boost, it still leaves me with nobody to sex chat with. Hooking up through apps is fine, but its hard finding a top (or any fuck buddy) who is super compatible with me. It sucks bottling up every urge to ask a guy you hooked up with about experimenting with dirtier sex. Being limited on how I express myself kinda gets to me, so now I'm going to search for a top (or versatile) guy who has my level of sexual appetite or a little more. I want to try and find that one guy who may be willing to act out every type of sex we fantasized about. And also be able to chat about sex over the internet with no worries about being too explicit. That's been my dream sex parter, someone who understands me like I understand them. But since this can be considered a fantasy in itself, should I actually go through with searching for a guy who is just as sexually fucked up as me? Does anybody have that one special sex partner in crime that you do everything with?

^^^^^ yup^^^^ That's how bottoms are going to split off into two official groups: the versatile bottoms and the non-versatile bottoms. Thanks to the decrease in total tops, bottoms will have to search for versatile bottoms to get their cock fix. And because up-and-coming tops have low sexual outputs, versatile bottoms will be the only ones compatible with some of the more sexually perverse and kinky non-versatile bottoms. So yeah, it'll be a big adjustment and it will also distort personal listings whether its sex-based or emotionally committed. But, hey, life moves on. Of course this is just theory and may not actually turn out this way. Tops could very well make a comeback bringing with them more sexual aggression then before.

There are currently way more bottoms than there are tops. Before recently, I never had a problem with this imbalance when I cruised because I only got on my knees for chubby/muscular stocky men who are usually tops and want to get off fast, and I usually controlled the sex (ie: blowjob till I taste pre-cum then either let him fuck me or swallow his cum). Thank fuck none of my men have gotten on their knees. I can't top. So in terms of active nsa'ing, it wasn't bad for me. Recently, its been kinda hard to find my kinda man when cruising, but I only look for one type so I can't comment on any other type. Currently, I've been wanting a sex-based relationship with a stocky chubby/muscular top to share several sexual moments with, but finding a top who has actually fucked a bottom in other sites is hard as hell. They're idea of "showing a bottom how a real man does it" is asking for kik and cam! Furthermore, finding a top with the same types of fantasies, fetishes, and taboo as me who can keep up is impossible. I'm at that stage where I want to engage in endless teasing, sex talk, and playing "what if" before I meet him at some public place for sex. One thing I'm not into (but totally understand) is POZ. The tops I'm looking for are usually into that, but I'm saving myself for a top that I go from calling "my top daddy" to "my top lover" for just in case something happens so I can show him I won't leave. Also, with the shortage of tops there are tons of untrained bottoms. Usually there would be a top to show an eager new bottom the true meaning of that lifestyle. Now, bottoms are untrained, have their own fantasies, have their own idea of what a dom/sub relationship should be, and are pretty much rogue. So given this scenario, it is easy to see that bottoms will be wandering in the wilderness desperate for cock and looking for true tops.

The top should do what he wants. m4m can involve rough sex and the bottom should expect to eventually be topped by a real man. Still, even when a top makes love to you he's being sexually rough. Every guy who fucked me though usually all started out the same: they'd eat my ass and lube it with their spit, then slowly move their cocks in my ass until half of it goes in me, then that's when they increase their power. If I did feel slight pain, I'd move foward a bit if he's fucking me doggie, but quickly reposition myself again. I never had problems. Then again, stocky bear men with a tight pot belly are usually great tops and not super aggressive. Its the tall muscular stocky bear tops who are more aggressive. I like both Still, no top should slow down tho just because a bottom can't handle it. That bottom should go seduce the elderly guy on Craigslist who wants a romantic relationship if they want gentle sex. m4m is more raw. Any bottom offering their sex to m4m tops should be prepared to take his cock no matter how rough he is and not complain. Of course, being asked to slow down can be avoided by finding bottoms who are sexually fucked up and have intense fantasies of being used in gangbangs, and other degrading sex acts, that won't complain if you fuck his ass a wee bit too much. He'd probably wish you'd go harder lol. Bottoms are expected to be submissive. A non-sub bottom is a sassy bitch that needs to be taught the true existence bottoms live. Sadly, there are more bottoms in the m4m world than tops, so there are no men to fuck us the way we should be fucked which leads to bottoms thinking its okay to ask a top to be gentle on his ass.

None of my friends, or family, know that I have sex with men. Being a bottom cum dumpster for men is a secret lifestyle that I will take with me to the grave.

Just go to an adult theater that has an arcade area where there's a big hole in the middle of the wall in every booth! Its hard finding legit NSA sex online. Even cruising bookstores is becoming hard work.

No hands! I put them on his legs while I suck him.

If the guy I randomly encountered at an adult theater really turned me on, then I'll let him fuck me the minute I taste his precum so he can force a big load in my ass. If I'm just in the mood for sucking dick, then I'll just finish him off and either sit or swallow depending on how attracted I am to him.

I absolutely LOVE sucking cock! My favorite men to suck off are stocky/silverdaddy/muscle-bear types! I will let a guy fuck my ass (sometimes bareback if I like him, and sometimes with a condom) after I taste pre-cum, but my best position is on my knees servicing his throbbing hard cock and draining his bulging balls down my throat!

I don't think a sex-positive counselor could help me. She'd probably label me mentally deranged after I tell her how my problem started and what I did about it lol. I've always had a lingering feminine side ever since I was a kid, and it came out of me when I first had sex with a man. Then my femme side increased each time I got better at seducing men, sucking their cocks, and making "girlie" type expressions to them. And since I never had a learning curve in terms of sex, the idea of making that full transition into an actual woman is probably the next step in becoming an actual sissy bottom girl! Breasts aren't an issue. I have noticeable breasts and virtually every guy that fucked me doggy style always leaned foward and squeezed my tits. Even a couple who fucked my missionary leaned into me with their palms placed firmly on my breasts. Making the transition would be a huge and important step, but the NSA m4m scene is pretty much dying, and it's pretty much dead online. So I'm probably better off leaving things the way they are.

No! Tops today are just wimpy cuckholds compared to tops from 6+ years ago! Every sex story sites (even the taboo friendly ones) don't have a lot of recent stories written by tops. There was a time when tops wrote really good sex stories based on real experiences! Furthermore, bottoms who were committed to being sissy faggots always had a top or two who made fed their urges and then some! Because of the raw nature of NSA sex back then, you would see an equal amount of bottom and top sex stories since fantasies, sexual urges, and other sex acts got fulfilled. The entire m4m lifestyle itself has changed too. Well, at least the tops have lol. Now a days, tops (and those pretending to be tops) are sooo fake! They have very little or no experience with same-sex encounters but come across as someone who "fucks several bottom sluts" yet they're idea of fucking a bottom involves being a submissive cuckhold! Really?! They have no idea how a bottom sexual deviant's mind works! And its not really that complicated! So is it any surprise why less and less tops are providing erotic material and lacking in posting sex ads? Bottoms, CD's, and Trannies rule the forum, chat, sex stories, and sex ad world! We're way more open and really comfortable with our sexuality. We've also quickly realized what we want sexually. But because few of us really get satisfied sexually and are often disappointed with these "tops" which leaves us with lingering urges, we tend to act out unleashing our fantasies all over the place! So that's why you see tons of erotic content from drop-dead horny eager bottoms and barely see anything from these.......so called "tops". So until tops stop the cuckhold bullshit, stop being fake and pretending to be a stud fucker, and avoid being shit-tested by sassy bottoms (like me) who love to push their buttons, and finally get back to their primal roots of dominating submissive sissy bottoms; and teaching them the true meaning of being a slutty cum dumpster fucktoy, you won't see any good content from these "tops". Maybe they should read all our sex stories and learn what we really want! I mean, seriously lol. I am the perfect wet dream for a true dominant fuck-top who is constantly looking for new fucktoy bottom sluts to own. Why? Because I'm also super sexually charged bottom sex pig with intense lust for taboo sex, and any top who makes me his sex pig really gets to explore his dark fantasies by using me to fulfill them. After he uses me to bring his dirty fantasies to life, he then writes a story about submitting my sissy ass and making me his cocksucking bitch toy. Then more and more encounters like these happen and more stories get written by tops. Then you'll have an equal amount of sex stories, and you could then happily read a top's story the way its meant to be written! But until then, all erotica will continue to be written by bottoms, CD's, and trannies, and these "tops" will continue to wonder why they can't find willing bottoms and question why anybody in chatrooms would dare refuse their Skype lmao! Bring the real men back!!!

Tumblr is getting slightly more strict than they used to and sending in ban-hammers, so, I guess he'll have to keep the smoking vids away from the internet.

Ever since I started having sex with men, I have always been a bottom and never thought twice about it! My first top was a stocky trucker, and since then I continued to seek men with that similar bodytype everytime I cruised for cock. I never thought too much about how "passable" or "femme" i looked because I had a really good success rate in scoring NSA cock just by dressing normal. Okay, sometimes I wore black tights to show off my ass, but not all the time. Everything was okay until I hooked up with a guy who pretty much made love to me instead of treating me like a cum dumpster. I would suck his cock while he was sitting down, and at times he would lift my head up, look into my eyes and tell me how sexy I am, then kiss my neck! When I took his cock missionary, he would move slowly in me then kiss my legs. It was easily the hottest hookup I've ever had. Then I started questioning whether I should have transitioned into a woman during my teens like Bailey Jay. Or at least taken hormones and gotten fake breasts. I know its not a requirement to go to that extreme just for NSA cock nor does it guarantee a higher probability of top men whipping their cocks out for me, especially since the porn centered around the men I hook up with often involves a hairy top stocky bear fucking a hairy bottom stocky bear. But, what if I end up being in a (very open) relationship with a guy who wants to dress me up, but then looks at me as if I'm not pretty or "passable" enough for him? Should I just stop thinking too much about having a super passable femme appearance and just continue being a good cocking sucking faggot, or should I attempt to be a really rich guy who offers to pay for a complete transition surgery in exchange for whatever he wants?

I always give a guy head until I taste his pre-cum. Then I suck his cock a little bit more just for him to seep more juice out, then I'll let him fuck me if he wants. Pre-cum is enough lube to penetrate my hole, and the men I typically hookup with aren't known to have monsterous cock sizes, so i've never had an issue with discomfort.

I wasn't really molested but I did have childhood experiences, dreams, and also did stuff that pretty much sealed my fate as a bottom! Like when my friend almost fucked me when we were kids because I would wear shorts a lot and teased him by hiking them up and showing off my legs. Then two of my cousins (a year after the experience with my friend) would either put me on his lap and kiss my neck, or take me into my dark closet then take my pants and underwear off and explore my ass and legs. Late at night, I would go into my mom's storage closet and put on her skirts and heels. I would also look at myself through the reflection of my tv and cross my legs. I would also wear a long t-shirt and blow up some balloons and put them under my shirt as if I had big tits lol. The thing that really started it off though was a dream I had when I was around 3-4. I was laying on my parents bed and my dad was kneeling in front of me with my legs over his shoulders. He winked at me and started giving me oral sex. I think I had a pussy in that dream instead of a cock too. So yeah, it's not always molestation that turns you into a pervy sex pig.

My bottom ass loves to be fucked by a hard throbbing horny cock! It also feels nice and loose after it shoots its cum inside! But, my mouth likes to suck cock more! Real bottom asses like mine are more reliable which is why a lot of married guys always want to fuck an eager bitch boy!