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I quit years ago but I'm not rabidly anti-smoking. I quite like the smell of fresh smoke and one of my regular hookups smokes and kisses like no-one else so I can equate the two things with a good time. I'm not keen on the smell of stale smoke and I don't like it on my own clothes but that's a hangover from being an ex-smoker; I won't kick a guy to the kerb just for that. The only thing that I wish wasn't the case is that smokers always have a bitter edge to the flavour of their cum, you can get used to it but it's not my favourite.
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Context is everything, in my case there had been a bit of back and forth beforehand and there was no barb to the comment. I had been offered the course of tablets but opted for the shots because its quick. From your description there was a lot of subtext in that comment that went beyond the line.
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It sucks to see any negative treatment, especially from healthcare workers, but it's naive to think it can't happen. Sadly every department has so many individuals it it and for every one there will be an opinion. I have been lucky in as much as the specialists at my clinic are friendly and professional, even joking with me when I attend. I always approach them openly and honestly and I genuinely believe that is the reason for my overall experience. Even on the two occasions I have had treatments for syph infections there was no judgement at all. On the second time when I took the penicillin shots with ease the nurse joked that it was only because I was used to having pricks in my behind. Which I am sure they only said because I am easy with them so they felt comfortable to let it slip. Outside the clinic and away from specialists, however, I do feel that there is a long way to go before acceptance is widespread.
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I'm the exact opposite, a total bottom who loves sucking dick but I'd much rather guys leave mine alone. I'm perfectly happy with guys who just want to dump a load and move on. As for names, "donor" seems apt.
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Watersports.........Is It A Universal Favorite?
Loveitraw replied to Ronchipig's topic in Watersports Discussion
Since I discovered just how much I enjoy it I have been pissed on and in. Taking it in both my mouth and asshole and I definitely enjoy both. The heat, the sleaze, the sense of animalistic pleasure. My favourites are either kneeling and being pissed on so I am completely drenched and made to smell like another man; or being made to piss all over myself completely surrendering that control to another. Either way just the smell sends a jolt to my cock now. -
What is Your Gay Porn Search Word(s)?
Loveitraw replied to Philip's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
Damn I feel I'm getting profiled after this! 🤷♂️ Anal, bareback, bondage, breeding, cruising, caught, dildo, exposed, extreme, fisting, gang, gape, gay, group, hypno, insertion, kink, massive, master, naked, piss, poppers, porn, poz, public, raw, rough, sounding, submission, toy, trainer, training, watersports, xxx, yaoi. Almost an alphabet and multiple combinations can be found in my history. I might have a porn addiction! -
That's the point 😉. There's no such thing as a waste of time when you enjoy what you did.
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What can I say, I hide my slutty gay self behind a veneer of nerd. Sci-fi, fantasy, and lots of memorabilia. I love gaming in general, I was raised with table top and board games of all kinds, special fondness for Heroquest, Space Hulk and D&D. Now much more of an online gamer but I love breaking out the dice when the opportunity arises. I just tend to keep the gaming and the slutting separate to keep the straights comfortable 😉
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What Makes a Top a Top, And a Bottom a Bottom?
Loveitraw replied to Philip's topic in General Discussion
I'm not sure I "get" this, I really don't. I understand that people like finding their place and expressing themselves accordingly but I don't believe, at all, you can learn to be a Top, or a Bottom, or Vers. You are one of those. You might as well ask me why I chose to be gay. I am a Bottom. Have I Topped? Once or twice, yes but literally only on a couple of occasions and I didn't like it. Its not me. Just because I did it doesn't make me Vers, and while I did it I didn't feel like a Top. Just like the couple of times in my teens I made out with a girl doesn't make me bi. We are what we are, be happy with how you see yourself and forget other people's labels. -
When I was about 6 or 7 I discovered that by hanging by my hands off my bedroom door and doing what were effectively pull ups I would hump against the door and create a lot of very pleasurable sensations without knowing what they were. I discussed how I discovered masturbation in another thread but it all stemmed from these early work outs. By the time I entered a real gym at school they were impressed by the number of reps I could do, the trick was to not get hard doing them 😉. Ever since then I have been able to cum from prostate stimulation alone and that let me to where I am today.
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This thread right here is part of why I love this site so much. OK yeah the filth is the main draw but sometimes a bit of affirmation is needed to put a spring in the step. Now I just need to go get some loads 😊
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I think there is definitely elements of this throughout the scene. I've met a few tops who are surprised to find out I'm mid forties (Lucky I guess). But it goes both ways, I personally have little interest in tops who are much younger than me as I have found the experience to be, typically, less than satisfying. That said, in a casual hook up or sauna scenario I absolutely don't discriminate and I don't specify an age on my profiles because there are always good surprises out there. I will always pass on guys who emphatically state "no one over xxx" or "no older than xxx" because I won't fuck with guys who, based on their own criteria, wouldn't fuck themselves.
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I love sucking cock and the act itself is just as important as the pay off to me but I do like a nice mouthful as a reward. Like most here I will say the flavour varies. Cum is definitely an acquired taste and between guys it varies wildly in flavour, consistency and amount. However, I haven't sucked a guy I wasn't happy to and I've never taken a load in my mouth I didn't swallow. I do prefer it when it has a sweeter tang (fyi pineapple makes your cum sweeter, smoking makes it bitter) but at the end of the day a load is a load.
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Tbh, like everything, it depends on the situation. Some guys are genuine masters and use fingering to warm a hole up and they do so by playing it like a fucking harp. Some guys just ram fingers in which isn't that comfortable and something of a mood killer even when pre loaded. Then it depends if its a drawn out session or a quick pump and dump where foreplay just isn't needed. It can be great but if you are going to do it my suggestion is to do it to yourself, a lot, that way you'll know what feels good and what will work for most who like a little digital anal manipulation.
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Please check this out and respond…
Loveitraw replied to rawTOP's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
For what it's worth, and as you say not derailing the thread, I agree with all your points. 10 out of 10, UK -
I think everyone always thinks, "Hmmm, maybe I should be more adventurous..." but when I look back on the things I've done I wonder if perceptions are skewed by what we each consider normal. I do think I should try more but I know for a fact that there are those who, if they knew, would consider me an incorrigible deviant. On the flip side I've met guys who told me I needed to relax and enjoy more (that's because their version of relaxation contravenes multiple statutes). I've been fucked and sucked off guys in multiple locations often more than one at a time and very often in places that are pretty public. As others have said I'll try it but if I can't see the enjoyment then it'll be over pretty quick, but I don't discount things out of hand. I've never indulged in chem sex, I admit some curiosity but I have never sought it out. In all honesty I've never needed anything to lower my inhibitions, I do enjoy poppers but even they aren't essential. I guess the long and short of it is that I consider myself to be generally in the middle of the (wide) road of sexual expression but it doesn't take much to make me veer over to the extreme lanes for a taster.
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Depends on the car. With a decent back seat you can push the front seats all the way forward to open up a nice bit of space for shenanigans, something I have done more than once. With a nice bit of head room you can push the passenger seat into recline and then climb on top of the occupant. If the aim is to keep the doors closed and cold night air at bay then the options can become limited.
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It's definitely real for some but not all. I never had it. Rarely ever had so much as a cold until one day I was hospitalised with pneumonia. As my consultant discussed with me there is so much conflicting info surrounding HIV out in the wild that many, including medical practitioners, can be blinkered to what is and isn't true. Several Doctors and Nurses spoke to me about my infection and none of them believed the answers I was giving them telling me I must be omitting something from my discussions. (This is not to say I didn't receive good care, just that they weren't specialists) It was only when the Consultant and his team arrived that any headway was made. He estimated, given my general health and fitness (surprisingly good despite what was growing inside me), that I could have been infected anything upto ten years before, certainly no less than five or six. He described my circumstance as being at the extreme end of the spectrum but not entirely uncommon. I have been told in my very candid discussions at the clinics that I could see symptoms appear if I were to stop meds as the virus reasserts itself but the severity cannot be guessed at.
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It definitely does. Whilst it is muscle, that doesn't mean it gets stronger the more you use it. If you are regularly opening that hole up or stretching with larger than average sized toys etc. You will end up with a puffier, more easily opened hole rather than the tight little dot you started with. Personally I'm all for that and I like having my hole stretched out, but then I like to (i.e. Need to) let things rest for a little while before allowing any more extreme play. Kegel exercises are said to help keep things tighter and there's no harm in trying, plus it feels good to tense and release (well it does for me). Just enjoy your hole 😈
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It's a tricky one because sometimes I want to get fucked and sometimes I don't. When I do want to get fucked however I need it more than once and ideally over a long session. So yeah I'd be happy with once a week as long as I need the rest of that week to recover 😉
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I would say not exclusively, I'm happy with any Top who wants to play. Sometimes though there is something to be said for vigour and youthful energy.
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How unusual is it for a bottom not to use poppers?
Loveitraw replied to backdoorjimmy's topic in General Discussion
Never be pressured to go outside what you are comfortable with. No-one who tries that is worth your time. I love poppers. They make me feel more relaxed during sex and give me a "glow" that heightens the experience for me. I do not say this as an endorsement, rather I say it to explain what may be in it for those that enjoy them. I am clued up on the use of them and they are pretty much my only vice, I drink alcohol rarely and don't do any recreational narcotics. That said what works for one isn't always going to be good for another. So finding what's good for you, even if that's nothing, is all up to you. I've been offered other things at various times and always declined because I wasn't comfortable with the idea of losing control. If I'm ever in a place and state of mind where that changes maybe I will experiment more, but the bottom line is it will absolutely be my choice. I don't have a rule book as such but if I did one that would be underlined would be, "Walk away from pushy fuckers!!" -
My favourite is a heavy chrome one like ErosWired describes above. I've not yet experienced any issues with slippage (but I'll keep it in mind now) and I can wear it comfortably for quite some time. As stated in the poll, I wear it for me because I like how it feels and the added weight makes everything swing when I am fucked. I've had guys question why a bottom wears one and like every preference I have it's not for anyone else. The guys who like fucking me like it/are cool with it and that's good enough for me.
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Absolutely. Have been, no Idea if anything ever ended up "out there" but I like to think someone somewhere is getting off to me getting reamed and creamed.
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Great start, I swear my hole spasmed at "Just go with it mate this is happening." I love the certainty.
