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  1. Loveitraw
    "Spelunker" seems apt 😉
  2. Loveitraw
    Like any advice all of it comes from a perspective tempered by experience so take from it what you will. First off, and I truly believe this, if you are unsure then its probably not for you right now. Being nervous is understandable; not only is being intimate with strangers inherently risky for many health reasons, it can also be simply dangerous. That said I have only been truly uncomfortable with situations on a couple of occasions. Secondly, if you are serious about enjoying casual anonymous sex get on prep. Obviously that one is upto you but if you are taking loads then you will end up getting more than just cum in you. How you deal with that is your choice. Lastly, when you are sure, enjoy it. Go to a club, bathhouse or cruising ground and offer yourself up. You might not always get everything you want but every chance not taken fails. There is always someone who wants to unload in a willing hole.
  3. Loveitraw
    Same, even though I have a nice selection of dildos sometimes the improvisation of what is to hand is all it takes to scratch that itch. So beer bottles and other nice, thick round containers have been used to fill me. I have a very nice smooth rolling pin that has been pushed up me on more than one occasion. I've been fisted and had a beer can pushed into me once, but I recommend letting those get to room temperature before even attempting that one. Finally I have sometimes when out and about (ie cruising) ridden the gear shift in my car at quiet moments. Its amazing what a hungry hole can do to the imagination.
  4. Loveitraw
    I think I can safely say that your input has been missed by many of us here. That said, sort things however you need to because no matter how much we all enjoy jerking it to your stories life has to come first. Take it easy you always have an audience here.
  5. Loveitraw
    Loving this. Even though I will pretty much give myself up to anything I love the idea of being seduced in this way.
  6. Loveitraw
    I have used a general screen cleaner before, the type you can get for any flat screen. As long as you use a non-abrasive cloth to wipe and polish it should leave the disc in perfect condition. Hope your collection is back to being filthy in the right way soon!
  7. Loveitraw
    I have to say, like a few others who have responded, that I tend to prefer Tops who don't care if I cum or not. I get a very particular pleasure from this type of fuck. However I did have one Top a few years ago who would do this to me with a twist. He would have me wank off for him to start with. He would make me cum into his hands then he would use my load as the lube to fuck me. Definitely an intense experience, starting out spent and being pushed to do more. Sadly I lost contact with him and haven't yet met anyone else with that particular kink.
  8. Loveitraw
    Since I figured out I was gay in my teens I have only ever been a bottom. I can literally count on one hand the number of times I have Topped. I'm not even slightly versatile. I'm not wired that way, it just doesn't work for me. Everything works as it should but it just doesn't feel good for me unless I'm being filled. Both physically and psychologically I only feel that connection when I bottom. Despite what some have said there isn't some switch that can be flicked and make me swap things up. That may be true for others but I am what I am. Therefore I put the work in to be as good a bottom as I can be.
  9. Loveitraw
    I'm not going to dispute that there are more, or at least seem to be more, bottoms than Tops. I think this is to be expected when most of the vers guys on the sites seem to be looking to bottom whenever they are on. (Not a judgement, an observation) Which skews the odds without looking at any other factors. It's also possible that bottoms need to scratch that itch more and so are out looking more frequently (again just a thought, not trying to debate anything here.) I am a bottom, total. Always have been and discussed it on several threads in my time here and don't feel the need to elaborate further. Even as I get older, mid 40's now, I still get my fun. As we come to the end of this weekend I can happily chalk up another half dozen notches. Not the porn levels some hope for or expect but I certainly go into the new week happy. One question that I think should be asked of those who feel they are in a drought is; Are you looking for Tops, or Tops who fill very specific criteria? We all can be choosy, and we all have the absolute right to be so, but if your searches are fruitless perhaps broaden the spectrum a little bit. Also, as harsh as it might be, just because they hit your spot doesn't mean you hit theirs. This one we all learn with time.
  10. Loveitraw
    Nice build up! I can't wait for the next step of the descent.
  11. Loveitraw
    I masturbate daily I just don't necessarily cum. Most days I'll find that I'm rubbing, stroking or teasing myself and it goes from there. On those occasions I take it all the way I go all out with porn and toys. I don't think I've missed many days since I first learned the joys of self-pleasure.
  12. Loveitraw
    This is one of those topics that rears its head from time to time. Its interesting to see because, reading through the responses, there seems to be a reasonable split between Tops, vers, and bottoms. This is something that is definitely not echoed on hookup sites or cruising spots. There always seems to be a lot more bottoms out there, either that or there's just a lot of lazy guys oit there who don't relish being active 😂 That said I have always been a bottom and I always work for that dick. A little competition keeps me focused.
  13. Loveitraw
    I think its a confidence thing as much as anything. I have the "been there, seen it, done it!" T-shirt and I give zero fucks what anyone thinks of me. I'm genuinely not trying to sound callous, because I do enjoy myself and make sure my Tops enjoy themselves too, but I do believe that once you cross a certain threshold you tolerate the games people play less and just get on with your own thing. And yes, my own thing is being a slut.
  14. Loveitraw
    I'm not even remotely religious but there is something so enticing about the descent into sin.
  15. Loveitraw
    At least a day is a good measure. Poppers don't stay in your system as long as viagra does but always keep them far apart whichever way round you intend to use them. As a rule ignore anyone who says it can be sooner and err on the side of caution. Catastrophic blood pressure drops aren't fun at any time.
  16. Loveitraw
    I get that. Guys frequently assume I'm a Top, its a build thing I guess, that's why I favour jocks in the first instance. Exposing the available assets.
  17. Loveitraw
    I love jocks and they are my primary underwear for all occasions. This means I have quite a collection of colours and patterns. My favourite is a red mesh one but it is by no means the only one I wear cruising. I have found that no matter the colour guys will try to do what they want if you give them any chance and the colour of the jock has never signified any implied consent. Only me saying, "do that more." Or "Fuck no!" Changes the course of things. Whether it's different in different regions I have no idea. I should possibly add that the times I have been fisted I wasn't in the red one...
  18. Loveitraw
    I can honestly say that I've never struggled with understanding or explaining my desires as a bottom. I like to be fucked. I love being bred. I really love feeling stretched and used. Most Tops of my acquaintance aren't worried about why I want it, they are only concerned that I want it and that they can do it. After the deed is done conversation is generally brief and limited. Strangely I have had a harder time trying to explain to some guys that, as a bottom, I prefer my cock to be left alone.
  19. Loveitraw
    Like others have said both can be good in their own way. I have a couple of guys I hook up with regularly and I love the way they use me. That is something that comes with time and familiarity. In those situations we each know our likes and foibles because we've engaged in the dance many times before and this leads to a deep satisfaction. There is always something to be said for the brief intensity of the anonymous. Barely anything said just pump and dump and next! However much of one I get, I will still always crave the other.
  20. Loveitraw
    No idea, it's possible but I am more into anonymous cruising so even if I have I wouldn't know. For the most part I don't think there's anyone that close by and I don't travel all that much so its unlikely. From some of the conversations and threads around here I certainly wouldn't mind as a good few seem to take their pleasure seriously.
  21. Loveitraw
    I didn't mean to imply that you were being judgmental. In a fairly blunt way I was describing how I am at peace with where I am and how I got here. In other threads I have described this journey and in others still I have explored the fantasy side. What I can see from my perspective is that there is a clear disconnect. The "porn" side is all fun without consequence and the screen goes dark with the cumshot. The reality is, am I'm sure you know, how everything changes. I know I'm lucky. I'm in the UK so meds are taken care of and I am fit and in good health. I am very conscious of how easily that can all change. I explored the fantasy of things to get my own head sorted out. I don't advocate living as I have nor do I say not to. What I absolutely won't do is knowingly assist anyone down that path, if only for my own sake.
  22. Loveitraw
    I'm undetectable. How I became poz in the first place, apart from the obvious mechanics, I genuinely don't know. What that means is that for a while I was unaware of my status. Total bottom maybe; but definitely toxic. So anyone who stuck their dick in me was taking a risk, and lots did. The thing is, especially out cruising, no-one ever asked status. I let guys fuck me and they never asked me and I never asked them. Any of them could have been poz, several probably were and that's how I square it with myself. None of the parties involved cared beyond the fuck. I'm never seeking absolution and anyone who wants to judge can but what happened happened. Just like I'll never know who gave it to me I'll never know if I passed it on. Now my profiles declare my status and I still get fucked regularly with full disclosure. But when out cruising whether dark rooms, clubs or cottages it rarely comes up before the fucking starts. In the heat of things I guess guys really only think with one thing.
  23. Loveitraw
    Condoms - instant pass as soon as I see one. Twinks - I prefer guys with mileage that know what they are doing. TBH anything else just depends on my mood. Sometimes I want to watch a gang scene other times I really want to see just two guys enjoy each other in the filthiest ways. And I completely agree with NLbear above, cum belongs in a hole.
  24. Loveitraw
    Baby, I was born this way.
  25. Loveitraw
    Nice. Who doesn't like an audience? ☺️

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