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I didn't direct that at your comment @tobetrained. I felt that I was elucidating under-pondered aspects of current thinking that would support your point. I enjoy reading your commentaries @tobetrained partly because you seem to explore when intentions and outcomes diverge. I appreciate arguments that are essentially hypotheses (well represented in this blog) that simply provide a semblance of logic without any test of whether the logic is supported by facts or works in the real world. I find arguments that report real-world tests or case studies to be much more interesting, and I find arguments that actively look for the unintended consequences to be even more credible and interesting. @tobetrained, thanks for adding some of those juicier, less pat elements to your prose.

I can see why a fucker would be in the position less often of having to find pleasure in a situation that is less than ideal. Although I couldn't statistically confirm it, it seems that lots of gays have noticed that holes outnumber fuckers, and as a result, it would seem to be logically quicker for a fucker to find a hole than a hole to find a fucker. I bet most holes have to spend more time looking to be successful in getting a good fuck, especially if you are a less photogenic hole or a hole that falls further from the statistically most attractive qualities. I wonder if there are any statistics about that. I appreciate the comment, but I would argue that it's exactly the OPPOSITE of prioritizing everything EXCEPT the primal, uninhibited man-to-man fucking. My comment STARTED with the fact that I want to be fucked, and the whole side thing is a way to wreak enjoyment out of a less-than-ideal situation. I think a better alternative scenario to consider after spending a certain amount of time seeking and either not finding an available fucker or getting fucked until one runs out of fuckers or being at a party where fuckers are outnumbered by holes is 1) to continue looking for a fucker, in which diminishing returns are likely; or 2) to discover other ways to enjoy a less-than-ideal sexual environment. There is of course the option to exit the sexual environment and return to non-sexual spaces and pursuits. I find that part of the pleasure in remaining in sexual environments rather than leaving them is for me at least the lack of constraints on intimate behavior, increased likelihood of nudity, uninhibited conversation, etc. But maybe I need to spend more time studying my game and removing obstacles that prevent me from having men in my ass as much as possible. I am definitely open to that :-).

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There is another layer: the artificial creation of indivisible blocks of space that are subject to centralized extraction that are too juicy for psychopaths to ignore. The premise of this conundrum is that instruments of government can be built to do ONLY good without inherently being empowered to also do evil. It is also premised on the idea that human nature would magically change so that the pool of humans would somehow be GOOD. Another way to manage the projection of evil is to stop building political structures that subject large groups of people to the rule of a single psychopath. Smaller scale government would not change human nature but WOULD limit the extractive tools available to any one psychopath. Anyone who builds a new bureaucracy for GOOD should go in with eyes open that psychopaths will see this new instrument as a juicy banana to subvert

Two other severe problems with this whole topic: 1) people tend to overfit socially centric issues to “science” and ignore other variables that rightly affect the rules of the game. Those who think a “solution” should be derived solely from “science” are abusing science by treating it as a sacred arbiter of conflict and increasing the likelihood that it will be corrupted to politics. They are also underusing the skill of sound judgement. 2) The scale and scope of Federal government and the use of Federal tax money drives us to the least empowering method of spending energy on the topic. In this scenario, I have 1/340,000,000th of stake in the matter, $0.53 of my annual tax assessment is used to subsidize leagues in Alabama, Vermont, and all the states ideologically in between. Instead of letting this be a decentralized decision for each team and league to make with their own resources, it gets marketed to people as something they should have an opinion on but which leaves them with nothing to do but execute against central policy. While I definitely feel the pain of individuals, for reasons of not having the connection of thought and action be completely broken in two, I’d prefer to see each league pay for itself and navigate the complexities of decision-making at a “team-sweat-equity,” “paid-for-by” so ownership-rule-making alignment. The continued usurpment by the Federal government of local flavor and initiative has completely recast people as passive complainers trying to hijack others’ leeway with one-size-fits-all policy and tiny amounts of tax money confiscated from people of whom a significant minority will be opposed to the policy.

It’s dull because for whatever reason, explorations of how to create futures have been dumbed down to how to spend other peoples money. This framing crowds out all participants but critics and passive observers, driving the topic away from creation and self-empowerment and toward bickering about the size of someone else’s slice.

There is a critical qualifier that frequently goes below the radar so that a comparison of “individual” versus “collective” becomes almost non-sensical. To make any sense of the balance, you must determine whether the collective was voluntary or involuntary. Since this distinction is often obscured in commentary, we lose a lot of nuance in simplistic working agreements that collectivism is “left” and “individualism” is “right.” It REALLY matters when someone’s agency is removed from the equation. It allows people to retain the silly notion that big things can be done only if the government imposes a single solution on everyone. Rhetoric long ago hypnotized those involved in civil discourse to think democracy looked like voting and then imposing the majority decision on all. Real democracy may look much more like a population of individuals exposing their opinions, which enables voluntary coalitions to form around not only the majority views (forced on 100% of the population) but also minority coalitions, who can use their energy to advance their goals. If you’re tempted to argue that crises sometimes necessitate 100% alignment, then you should also concede that non-critical conditions do NOT necessitate involuntary adherence to majority votes. The issue hiding behind the ridiculous divide between “collectivists” and “individualists” is centric to “autonomy.” Under what conditions should someone or some group have the right to curtail someone’s autonomy?

As someone almost religiously awed by cock-and-cum-in-ass and to a lesser extent mouth-cock, I hated the sterile idea of a side. I would never try to hook up with a side, but I HAVE come to appreciate sides as a fallback in group sex when I feel a connection but not a sexual compatibility with an awesome guy. It’s at best a fallback but given typically uneven top-to-bottom ratios in generaland the exacerbation of unevenness when the top minority gangbangs a bottom, it’s useful to open the aperture of sexual enjoyment when you’re spending time with cool guys who are not sexually compatible

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depends upon who's fucking me and who i'm with, nothing worse than offering myself in a manner considered unsexy. that being said, I def have fetishes, so excited when I can connect with a fucker that shares both my fetish and the desire to cum inside my unprotected hole. here's a pic of a load I took from a top who shared my fetish for spandex but also wanted a hole in my swim shorts right over my rectum. Would be fun to connect with raw fuckers who like to fuck in spandex, or nylon athletic gear, or leather; but if you aren't into gear, would rather present hole uncovered by fetish and unprotected.

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If my sex life were to be as a palindrome, as an 18-year old I took my first three loads from delegates to the 1987 Democratic convention. May my last three loads come from delegates to a future convention of Republicans, or whatever party exists to carry the torch of the right to help this two-winged country to continue to fly, and not in circles.

I am wary of raising this topic, but I think my breaking point with this simple phrase has finally arrived. Before I make my point, I do strongly agree that tribes misunderstand and mistreat each other and that powerful tribes take things from smaller weaker and sometimes from bigger stronger tribes and that this is an ugly quality of human nature. There is, however, an invisible and to-be-celebrated quality that needs to be part of the story. Anybody who has “privilege” today, be they white black red brown purple or yellow, is likely to have had ancestors who acted not only in their short term interests but in the interests of their future generations to build wealth and social and political mechanisms to insure its transfer to future generations. BTW I do NOT think this quality is exclusive to any one race. I would also say that this quality can coexist with a willingness to treat people of other races unfairly, depends on the individual. If I were someone who had a consciousness and looked beyond my immediate family of children and nephews / nieces to find good stewards for my efforts to build fortunes and good societies, I would look for people who demonstrated skill and motivation to protect and build personal and social assets. I would pray for the wisdom to see beyond the surface in selecting stewards, but I would be unlikely to choose a steward who thought their time was well spent complaining about others’ fortune rather than cultivating their own abilities to sustain themselves and pay it forward. I think these variables play a huge role in the perception of “privilege,” and if we as faggots with our typical choice to exit the gene pool benefit less from a long view, then we can at least hope that 25th century faggots benefit from their ancestors’ efforts to pass on “privilege.” I will close this diatribe with a reminder that I utterly concede that in many instances tribes have treated each other unjustly and that many fortunes have been built with injustice. But to me, failing to acknowledge the positive aspects of a multi-generational consciousness is throwing the baby out with the bathwater. The solution for privilege is NOT in my view to entrust people who have only a me-consciousness with “equitable” portions of wealth they didn’t earn but instead to do a better job of expanding multi-generational consciousness and expanding knowledge of self-sufficiency. In parallel, helping those who have built muscle for personal and societal wealth building to see past the surface to identify truly worthy stewards of great wisdom.

While this statement seems correct when applied to the context of the immediate future in which the winning party drives government, it seems to neglect the reality of building new parties, which often require long periods out of power before they gain the influence to win. It also seems to conflate an average Joe picking the winning horse versus an average Joe “winning.”

Nice 😉. Adding another pithy favorite, though may be dated now: Q: What’s the difference between Democrats and Republicans? A: Democrats want the poor to be corrupt too.

This is a great point, but it may miss the longer term consequences of disoncentivizing alternative viewpoints. If you look at history, almost all progress has been catalyzed by deviant thinkers. When deviants are silenced, the globe-eternity population loses lots of benefit. I also wonder about people who demonstrate an inability to coexist with people who disagree with them and wish for those people to have as little power over me as possible. So. to those people who wish to cancel, I say, please be as strident and as loud as you wish so you can be outed and isolated from any levers of power, control mechanisms, and groups who prioritize free-thinking as a path to an innovation-rich future.

I’m pretty non-partisan and love to be double-fucked, so would love to have one of each mount me at the same time while we all work together to churn up a beautiful bi-partisan cumhole representing peace and joy from a deep deep place in my being.

Hi @Cumfilledbottomboi, I find this to be a reasonable assessment but with a relatively focused, narrow aperture. If you were up for widening the aperture, how would you critique Democrats on how far they are willing to go to distort perceptions of underlying truths, dismiss evidence and shirk facts in favor of talking point s that make a mockery of logic, and relentlessly use the government to secure profits for their elites? While your aperture remains focused on Trump, it seems to remain blind to the unfortunate fact that perniciousness exists in both parties and probably in human nature.

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Huzzah huzzah @tobetrained, after less than a year of Trumpery, I’m surprised that not all Democrats have become Libertarians, seeing the agencies they created to solve some out-of-context pain-point surprise-surprise repurposed when the inevitable transfer of power happens 4 to 8 years later, leaving us with increasingly irrelevant, worked-around NPC missions that contradict each other as some new program is overlain to counteract the unintended consequences of the last program. The result is a labyrinthine regulatory environment that favors special interests. We lost the virtue of our democracy when 51% figured out how to shift their costs to the 49%, and when businesses figured out how to fool the majority of voters into guaranteeing their profits by pretending to care about have-nots while legislating programs that create massive markets from government largesse. (Breathe NaNaNa breathe.) It is unfortunate that so many Americans do not have the ability to see beyond the happy words of politicians to the longer-terms consequences of tax-theft.

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As someone who’s not a Republican but did have certain hopes for Trump, I was Initially happy to see signs that he was taking positive steps in Israel (ceasefire negotiations), Ukraine, corruption (USAID), deficit reduction (DOGE). free speech (dismantling mis-dis-information boards in government pressuring social media censorship and fighting EU Digital Services Act), foreign aid, etc., I have seen too many counter examples (Iran bombing, loss of momentum in Ukraine, Venezuela, failure to capitalize on DOGE and ramp up of military budget, deportation of legal residents due to pro-Palestinian views to see him as any less ambiguous than pretty much ALL presidents before him.