As a Black male myself, I'm above average, but by no means hung above 9 inches. Plus I'm usually a bottom anyway, i top, but its only when Flip fucking with another. So I'm not in that stereotype of BBC when I'm usually a bottom. I will say nelly26 does hit it on the head with black-on-black attraction in certain cases. I usually don't go after black guys because a lot of them around here (DC Metro area) have personalities that don't mesh well with mine. I like to be fluid. I can be masculine, but at times I wanna have fun and be silly while voguing the house down in heels. Most black men around here don't seem to grasp fluidity and they get extremely rude about it. I'm not bound by masculine and feminine status quo. Fuck that noise. They also tend to be more DL (down-low; discreet) and it annoys the fuck out of me. If you wanna fuck a man's ass or take a dick, don't be scared about it. Just do it. Furthermore, I'm a man who is into a lot of kink. I do bondage, watersports, and other kinks. I'm in the leather community. I'm also pup and a boy as well. I get the most awkward/rude ass comments on Grindr, Scruff, or even IRL especially when I have my pup gear on.
This does not go for all black men. (I'm a good example of that). Neither is it only exclusively them. I've seen other people (white, latino, etc.) have the same toxic masculinity or discreetness. I've had to inform many people about kink subculture. It statistically tends to be POCs (not just blacks) more often because of certain factors and upbringing. I've met and had sex with some very attractive (physically and mentally) black man. However, if you're looks are like a brick and/or you're personality is like brick, I tend not to fuck with you regardless of race; Both literally and figuratively. I mean in dead honestly you can sandpaper a brick all you want, it will look like a brick no matter what type of brick it is. I mean attraction is subjective to everyone.