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  1. PendragonSpirit
    For me, it was definitely anonymous cruising - typically in mall restrooms (and for some reason, it was always JC Penny. It was like a magnet for guys needing their dick sucked while out with the family.) Every one of them was "older" (probably ranging from late 20s - early 50s), none of them ever seemed concerned about the age of the person getting them off.
  2. PendragonSpirit
    I'm going to be one of those people who doesn't subscribe to the idea of a "hierarchy" (and don't get me started on the whole "alpha" thing.) My reasoning is thus: that "hierarchy" would be entirely subjective to the individual. If anything, we have a very symbiotic relationship with one another. Sure, you could say that "alpha top men" are at the peak of some pyramid or whatever, but.. honestly, without bottoms, who are the tops topping? Similarly, without tops, who are the bottoms getting plowed by? Don't get me wrong, there's nothing wrong with a little roleplay in the bedroom (or theater.. alleyway... park... car.. etc.) But in the end, for a satisfying sexual life, we all sort of rely on having the other groups available.
  3. PendragonSpirit
    Fake cum. Just... *gestures broadly* fake. cum.
  4. PendragonSpirit
    Meh. While I don't condone their actions, nor do I particularly understand what they thought they'd accomplish, I still would not want anyone to judge me by my worst day/decisions... so I extend that same grace to others.
  5. PendragonSpirit
    Strictly speaking... any. I've sucked a micropenis or two in my day, and while the dick may not be rearranging my tonsils, the load is typically enough protein for the week.
  6. PendragonSpirit
    Honestly, every straight guy I've ever hooked up with approached me, not vice-versa. And all of them were friends/close acquaintances prior to doing so. I think a lot of guys are open to the idea of doing something with another guy, whatever their sexuality, but they're more comfortable with someone they know, trust, and can count on to keep things just between them. At least, that's my running theory.
  7. PendragonSpirit
    In those cases, "Eat my ass, daddy" may not be a great opening for an ad. On a serious note, I'd also recommend checking out sites like Squirt to see how many cruising locations (bookstores, bathhouses, parks, etc.) are in any of the places you're considering.
  8. PendragonSpirit
    I've always thought the phrase "gay lifestyle" was... weird. I mean, what is it? Every gay I know has a different lifestyle, as we're not a monolith. Myself, I fuck guys (well, get fucked by guys, though I have had some inclinations toward attempting topping lately) because I'm attracted to guys. I like dick. I like the scent of a man. Beyond that, none of my interests revolve around who is putting what in where (except for gaming, when I can pull off a m/m relationship for my characters.)
  9. PendragonSpirit
    Honestly, I'd say if you've got a shirt or other apparel advertising your interests (a "Breeding Stock" tee, a "Cum In Me Bro" shirt, etc.), you could easily just wear that as you make it a point to bring them food or drink or whatever it takes to have an 'excuse' to be in their encampments or other areas. Let them see your openness to servicing and make the first move from there.
  10. PendragonSpirit
    Heh. I mean, it certainly would make my sex life easier. I have the world's most off-kilter gaydar and seem to be exclusively attracted to straight men. I mean, granted, the majority of men ARE straight, statistically, so the odds are against me... but I generally don't seem to be into ACTUALLY bi/gay men.. mostly. There are some exceptions.
  11. PendragonSpirit
    I believe that's typically just referred to as being "versatile." Personally I find myself slipping into a more 'verse' mentality lately, though previously I was always exclusively a bottom.
  12. PendragonSpirit
    I don't think there was ever a point where I saw condoms as something I wanted to use, to be honest. Even back when I first discovered porn on the internet (back in the days of AOL, message boards, IRC chat... yes, I'm dating myself here), porn with condoms just didn't create the same cravings for me. I knew from the get-go I wanted to feel a man cumming in me, not inside a Ziploc bag.
  13. PendragonSpirit
    It varies based on the scenario. If I'm at a bathhouse, bookstore, or otherwise cruising, I'm after quantity - not quality. A top who takes too long to lube my insides with his seed is time I'm not getting the next guy sliding up into me. However, if I'm in a more one-on-one situation? Something a bit more intimate? Or even a group setting where I'm the only bottom but not in a cruising situation? Then I like the top(s) to go the distance, so to speak.
  14. PendragonSpirit
    Short answer? When both parties agree to be exclusive.
  15. PendragonSpirit
    It's surprisingly easy to dive back into, especially if you find an existing group who can help ease you into it. The newest edition (5th) simplifies and streamlines a lot of things that older additions... ah... didn't. Not that there aren't still a lot of rules, it is D&D after all.
  16. PendragonSpirit
    And now for something a little different. I've started seeing a lot more LGBTQ+ people in gaming spaces, which is honestly a pretty big relief. I always felt kind of like "the only gay" who would rather spend their weekends playing Dungeons & Dragons than going to a bar or club (unless I'm out cruising, of course.) So I'm kind of curious if any of my fellow pigs/sluts/however you define yourself here are also gamers. Tabletop, video games, card games, board games? What are your favorites?
  17. PendragonSpirit
    I haven't actually used any of the apps in a couple of years now. But when I was, I would absolutely read the profiles to see if people were potential matches in the "I'll fuck you raw" category. If someone's profile said "Safe Only" or similar, I'd move along. Yes, in some cases people who were "safe only" would jump at the chance to go raw if presented the opportunity, but for the most part it helped me weed out the ones where I'd be wasting my time.
  18. PendragonSpirit
    Funny story. There's a mobile game I play and I'm like 99% sure Mr. Young was one of our guildmates. His screen name was literally "Austin Young", the photo was of.. well, Austin Young. And while anyone could claim to be him online, he always insisted he was just a normal guy who enjoyed games like anyone else, never tried to play up on celebrity status or anything.
  19. PendragonSpirit
    For me, it all began at an age I will not say because I don't want to violate any community guidelines or anything. But it was in a JC Penny's restroom with those classic words written on the stall wall "Tap foot for BJ." I saw a foot tapping under the stall next to me, and tapped back in response. The dick slid under the partition and the rest, as they say, was history. From then on, any trip to the mall where I was allowed to roam free from the parents was spent 20% in Aladdin's Castle playing arcade games and 80% in JC Penny's restrooms (seriously, why was it always Penny's?) sucking every dick I could get.
  20. PendragonSpirit
    I don't think I'd have changed the when, necessarily, but I would have adjusted some of the details. My stepdad was the first person to "officially" introduce me to porn (of course, I - being a horny teenager with access to the internet and a computer in my room - had already seen plenty of it..), bringing home magazines for me with full-on fucking and sucking (as opposed to just "naughty photos" of women ala Playboy) and renting videos for us to watch together whenever we had the house to ourselves for a night. Looking back, I'm pretty sure he was putting feelers out to see how far we'd take things, though we never did more than j/o together and comment on each other's dick sizes. So I'd have definitely pushed those limits to see just what trouble we could get into together.
  21. PendragonSpirit
    In my opinion, the community doesn't have an opinion either way. Those will be as varied as the individuals who make up said community. Anyone who claims to speak for any community should seriously check their egos a bit. The people who want to be seen as "respectable" (whatever that means) may think a cumslut is a bad representative of The Gays™. The people who like an easy outlet sometimes will appreciate the work you do. The closet cases who will desperately unload in a hole before going back to their 9-to-5 will love and hate you in equal measure, because you "tempt" them - but they're the ones who give in and love it in the moment. So, yeah. Don't worry about what "the community" thinks. You know your own worth as a person, and if what you do makes you happy and isn't harming anyone else, then take those loads proudly! Slut. 😉
  22. PendragonSpirit
    To be honest, I suppose I've just always had issues with being confident and assuming it was me being conceited.
  23. PendragonSpirit
    To borrow some lyrics from who I consider the queen of emotional and spiritual growth, Alanis Morrisette... "I'm in no hurry I could wait forever I'm in no rush 'cause I like being solo There are no worries and certainly no pressure in the meantime In the meantime, I'll live like there's no tomorrow" -21 Things I Want In A Lover -- For me, it comes down to what's going to sound incredibly conceited.. and possibly contradictory. See, I'll have sex with pretty much anyone. Sex is sex. There doesn't have to be an emotional connection, I'm not introducing you to my family, it's all about the connection of bodies and that sweet, sweet release. It's physical. There doesn't need to be any real attraction, and I don't need to know anything about you. But when it comes to a relationship? I'm incredibly picky. I have certain qualities I look for, and they're non-negotiable. Because I know my own worth, I know who I am as a person (well... mostly.) And finding someone who checks the right boxes? That's tricky. And, if I'm honest, I don't really put myself out there. I'd rather have a chill D&D night with my friends than go out to a bar or club. Grindr and Tindr and Scruff and whatever else just don't appeal to me. And I like having my freedom, not having to check in with anyone or run my plans past someone else. So I suppose I both like and hate the idea of a relationship. It's... complicated.
  24. PendragonSpirit
    "So, where did you two meet?" "Well, he was balls deep inside me and shooting his third load of the night when I realized I didn't even know his name..." In all honesty, I don't foresee myself as someone who would get into a relationship with someone I met in that scenario. Not that I'm any "better" than them, mind - obviously if I'm taking loads in a bathhouse or whatever, I'm not exactly holding myself to high society standards.. unless there's wine. I just think those scenarios don't really lend themselves well to what *I* would want in a relationship. Although, I suppose in the right circumstance, a husband who loves me dearly, but also gets off on bringing other men over to fuck me... Hmm. Okay, my official answer is "It would be complicated."
  25. PendragonSpirit
    One of my biggest pet peeves in raw porn is what seems to be an overabundance of "breeding" that features what - by all appearances - is clearly fake "cum." Especially when it's like... splashed all over surfaces and just flat-out looks like someone mixed corn starch with water and called it a day. Who decided this was sexy and had any place in porn? If you're going to cum inside, cum inside. If not, that's fine, pull out for the money shot, but I'm not jacking it to food supplies, I want to see a hot load of actual cum leaking out of a hole. Hell, even if the top doesn't cum enough for it to really 'leak' out on camera, just the idea of it is pretty hot. But when it comes to the bottom pushing out the sexual equivalent of cake frosting, I lose all interest.

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