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I fuck that way. I've always fucked that way. It doesn't make me less dominant, and I'm not taking a label for it. Maybe straight men and assholes really do just use bottoms for their own pleasure. Maybe some subs like to pretend it's all about the top's pleasure, as if they don't like sucking dicks. But something's wrong if we have the idea that a top caring about a bottom's pleasure makes him less dominant. It's an illusion and a fantasy that tops don't care about their performance. Or that doms always take what they want. Doms always give a sub what they want, unless they ignore a safeword and make the session non-consensual. This is how I see it: when I fuck, I'm competing with other men who have fucked that bottom. If I fuck better than they did, that's a way of dominating not only the man I'm breeding but (some of) the other tops who have shot in that same hole. So caring about my performance, and doing what I want to do to him in the way he likes it done, isn't being submissive. Sub tops exist. A lot of them are mentally submissive but have a block over being penetrated. Bi men who identify as straight might be that way. But I think most genuine top men are proud of their ability to satisfy bottoms at the same time they satisfy their natural urge to dominate, penetrate and breed.
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Muscle / Muscle Growth / Transformation / Roided Up Guys
backtails replied to SlamBeast's topic in Softcore Fetishes Forum
I needed to tag one last night. Fit but weak otter guy, 25-30. He was doing a circuit of dumbbell bench, front raises and leg extensions. Something about him said he sucks dick, but I wasn't sure and there were enough other people around that I didn't want to do anything. So the closest I got to his ass is that he used a machine I'd just used (and wiped), and I made him move the pin from the bottom of the stack. Just being around a guy I can imagine fucking set me off. It made me horny enough that when I got to the (empty) locker room I said (quietly) "get the fuck in there" like I was gonna throw him into one of the stalls and fuck him with spit and precum. Then I went to the shower and grabbed my balls through my shorts, feeling strong and feeling male. I don't know how it'll go down when I'm juiced and bigger and a lot hornier. Maybe I just literally pick him up and take him to the shower. But more likely I don't care about who else is around and I make a move and either blow a load in him or in one of the bottom pigs I'll have waiting for moments like that. -
Muscle / Muscle Growth / Transformation / Roided Up Guys
backtails replied to SlamBeast's topic in Softcore Fetishes Forum
I don't see straight muscle guys as fuck targets. I see why you do. A horny eager pig is exactly what he needs. But I want him choking on my dick and I want to breed him deep. Straight men don't like that as much. More than I want to fuck muscle ass, I want to be the muscle, and fuck everyone. -
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Muscle / Muscle Growth / Transformation / Roided Up Guys
backtails replied to SlamBeast's topic in Softcore Fetishes Forum
I have a feeling that it's pretty common in CrossFit, even though it's frowned upon -- there's probably a way you're supposed to go about doing it. It's a competition, and it's extremely unlikely that the people who are winning those competitions are doing that 100% naturally. So I don't think you'll have to give it up forever.. but you might have to go to a CrossFit gym where they didn't see you get really big really fast. Want to give details about how much weight you've gained, maybe size/strength gains? What you've been taking and that kind of thing? And of course what the sex and the sex drive is like. I... guess I do have an idea of not wanting to get "too big", but it's like... I don't want arms bigger than my head. Some people already think I'm big, and there's a spot between here and fucking massive where I'll be really happy. -
Muscle / Muscle Growth / Transformation / Roided Up Guys
backtails replied to SlamBeast's topic in Softcore Fetishes Forum
Yeah, it can! I've had an online buddy for the last few months who's good at that. I'm further along than him and he wants to get big too. Just the feedback I get from him helps me push harder and feel better about myself. And I know I'm helping him a lot with motivation and eating. More of that would be awesome. -
Muscle / Muscle Growth / Transformation / Roided Up Guys
backtails replied to SlamBeast's topic in Softcore Fetishes Forum
I'm pretty hypersexual but I'm not needing to be encouraged to grow, although it's kinda nice because it feels validating. I'm doing the healthy thing. I've lifted almost every day for 3 years. Tracked literally everything I eat for 2.5. I weigh in every day and do some body fat measurements. It's all been very clean and wholesome. It's got me decent abs and 16" arms. Most guys would be really happy with it. I'm not unhappy with it, but I want to go further. -
Muscle / Muscle Growth / Transformation / Roided Up Guys
backtails replied to SlamBeast's topic in Softcore Fetishes Forum
Fuck, I'm into this hard. Getting huge, getting my muscles and dick pumped and fucking everyone who wants to get bred 8" deep by a kind of top they didn't think they could have. I'm 45 now. Lifting for 3 years, 6'0" 185, 12-14%BF. A lot stronger and leaner than average, similar to a lot of guys in "muscle" porn, but not as big as I want to get. I'm natural, but I think about changing that all the time and it feels like it's inevitable that I eventually will. There's some side effects I want to avoid, so I want to try to do it right. And I don't know how deep I want to go. Maybe I'll be happy just looking a little bigger than now (like solid pornstar level), or maybe I need to be a full on roid pig. There's a lot of questions I'd like answered from a gay perspective.. but this would get too long. So I just want to ask -- is there anywhere better than BZ for talking about serious muscle and finding guys into it? -
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Yeah, that's hot. I've always liked fucking straight/married guys but it took me a while to start noticing rings. It's hot knowing the guy is married early on — a ring can do that. Like in a bathhouse situation. I just assume all their wives know their husbands get fucked. Communication is the key to a healthy relationship.😈🤙
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Has the Meaning of Sex Changed for you lately?
backtails replied to LetsPOZBreed's topic in General Discussion
I feel less like the number of guys I fuck is my score, the only measure of how well I'm doing at the gay. Now I don't want to fuck guys I'm not attracted to. I've done a lot of that. They're into me, they have an ass, I fuck it, I get a point. I guess age is a factor here, but it's also how the pandemic showed me you can't die of horny, at least as long as you fully take care of draining your own balls. That is, you don't need to actually fuck. So the line has shifted when I make a decision on whether I try to hook up, and I only want to fuck hot guys for now. That's harder to achieve than just fucking. -
I have a slightly different take. A bottom is either a cumslut or a cockslut. A cockslut needs to be penetrated; he gets off on having a cock in his ass. A cumslut needs to be bred; he gets off on having cum in his ass. Every bottom is a mix of cumslut and cockslut, and it can change from session to session, but you can get a feel for whether you're fucking a cockslut or a cumslut. They do need to get fucked differently. Cocksluts care more about size; cumsluts care about raw number of loads. Cumsluts need it faster and cocksluts need it longer. My version fits with the more common definition. A cumslut is a man driven by the desire to be inseminated. I'm just balancing that with his desire to be penetrated.
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Unsatisfied by lighting in saunas, plus other issues
backtails replied to hungry_hole's topic in General Discussion
I like it more with the lights out. It makes the place feel bigger, more mysterious, like I'm exploring a vast unknown territory full of ass. With a tiny flashlight. When it's less busy I think there's a reason to keep the lights on because well-lit areas feel like they're intended for traffic rather than sex. Guys tend to move through without spending a lot of time. That's just a natural thing, you're on your way from room 216 to the darkroom, you've got a purpose, you're paying less attention to who you see on the way. So with fewer men in the venue, you want less dark (more sexualized) space, so guys will tend to congregate and fuck in the spaces they have. When it's busier, you need more room to hold the action. I'm not surprised that a bathhouse in Montreal bought expensive pieces of art. It's just what they do. There's so damn many hot guys there, though, I can kinda see why guys there would want to see who they're having sex with. Still seems like a good idea to have a really dark area available at least some of the time. During slower hours, every bathhouse really should have a no-loads-refused cumdump waiting in a sling in total darkness. When the cumdumps have to line up for sling time, then maybe the lights should go on a little. -
I wrote something *huge* on this topic. Just way too long. I'm a barebacker top, but I'm neg, and it was about how often bottoms are disappointed by that. Which is a lot of the time. And then I wrote a lot about the conflict between that reality and the messaging from the "community". If a poz top says he's verbal, he may be saying he's into exactly what you want. I guess start looking for poz undetectable tops, tell them you like getting verbal, and have them figure it out. Guys that advertise being poz undetectable likely consider their charged but not actually toxic cum to be an asset. They may want to help you get what you need. Gonna say this too. Remember a lot of the attraction here is in your heads. You'll talk about his status before you hook up. Don't go overboard, just let him know you think it's hot. From then on you'll know you're gonna take a poz load from him, so every time you think about his cum, you'll remember it's extra-hot for you. What I mean is don't expect him to fuck you for an hour talking about toxic charged poz cum the whole time. Some guys might like reminding each other more than others, but the thing you need to focus on is that that cum is inside his body and it's going to be inside yours.
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I'm in Canada. It's no different than alcohol or tobacco because it has the same status here. Guys use "420" or "🍁" to say what they're into, same as everywhere else. That wouldn't be considered PnP, partying, or chemsex. It's a different category. That said, you can't expect guys to be into it without saying. It's not like an absolutely normal session. A lot are, but if you're going to show up really high, some guys might not want that. Same thing as if he was drunk and you weren't.
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OK, Explain: Bottom Profiles With Cock Pics
backtails replied to ErosWired's topic in General Discussion
I don't get using it as a main pic, but it has to be available. I mean that as a bottom you should have it there. Personally, I know whether I want to fuck someone even from a clothed pic. Anyone I want to fuck will have a hot ass because all asses are hot. But an ass pic is nowhere near as hot as when it's paired with a cock. My thoughts are that when you see his cock you know it's sexual. Body pics or ass pics that don't show the hole aren't as directly sexual. With a cock, you know you're looking at a man that might want you to fuck him. I'm gonna say that butt shots are the way to solve this. Avatars with a butt shot are always among the sexiest on here, @ErosWired and @jonny4dad. -
Do tops like sloppy well used cum dripping assholes?
backtails replied to Oralguya1's topic in General Discussion
Fuck yes, fuck yes, fuck yes. Now it's a competition. I have to fuck him better than the other top(s). From the moment I realize he's loaded to the moment my swimmers cross the finish line (wherever that is) before all others. My boys always win the race. Or, with the stamina I know they have, there's a moment when all the cum inside you is mine. And then I'm the only one who really bred you. Yeah, I have no idea how competitive my sperm really are, but I like the thought. Cool fact: penises have mushroom heads so they can scrape other men's cum out of wherever it happens to be. That's the purpose. So if the other tops just like the satisfying feeling of entering a sloppy hole — it's good to know you're fucking a slut — I'll just let their seed chill on the bottom's balls and take that sperm race all for myself.
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