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  1. backtails
    Yeah, that's hot. I've always liked fucking straight/married guys but it took me a while to start noticing rings. It's hot knowing the guy is married early on — a ring can do that. Like in a bathhouse situation. I just assume all their wives know their husbands get fucked. Communication is the key to a healthy relationship.😈🤙
  2. backtails
    I feel less like the number of guys I fuck is my score, the only measure of how well I'm doing at the gay. Now I don't want to fuck guys I'm not attracted to. I've done a lot of that. They're into me, they have an ass, I fuck it, I get a point. I guess age is a factor here, but it's also how the pandemic showed me you can't die of horny, at least as long as you fully take care of draining your own balls. That is, you don't need to actually fuck. So the line has shifted when I make a decision on whether I try to hook up, and I only want to fuck hot guys for now. That's harder to achieve than just fucking.
  3. backtails
    I have a slightly different take. A bottom is either a cumslut or a cockslut. A cockslut needs to be penetrated; he gets off on having a cock in his ass. A cumslut needs to be bred; he gets off on having cum in his ass. Every bottom is a mix of cumslut and cockslut, and it can change from session to session, but you can get a feel for whether you're fucking a cockslut or a cumslut. They do need to get fucked differently. Cocksluts care more about size; cumsluts care about raw number of loads. Cumsluts need it faster and cocksluts need it longer. My version fits with the more common definition. A cumslut is a man driven by the desire to be inseminated. I'm just balancing that with his desire to be penetrated.
  4. backtails
    I like it more with the lights out. It makes the place feel bigger, more mysterious, like I'm exploring a vast unknown territory full of ass. With a tiny flashlight. When it's less busy I think there's a reason to keep the lights on because well-lit areas feel like they're intended for traffic rather than sex. Guys tend to move through without spending a lot of time. That's just a natural thing, you're on your way from room 216 to the darkroom, you've got a purpose, you're paying less attention to who you see on the way. So with fewer men in the venue, you want less dark (more sexualized) space, so guys will tend to congregate and fuck in the spaces they have. When it's busier, you need more room to hold the action. I'm not surprised that a bathhouse in Montreal bought expensive pieces of art. It's just what they do. There's so damn many hot guys there, though, I can kinda see why guys there would want to see who they're having sex with. Still seems like a good idea to have a really dark area available at least some of the time. During slower hours, every bathhouse really should have a no-loads-refused cumdump waiting in a sling in total darkness. When the cumdumps have to line up for sling time, then maybe the lights should go on a little.
  5. backtails
    I wrote something *huge* on this topic. Just way too long. I'm a barebacker top, but I'm neg, and it was about how often bottoms are disappointed by that. Which is a lot of the time. And then I wrote a lot about the conflict between that reality and the messaging from the "community". If a poz top says he's verbal, he may be saying he's into exactly what you want. I guess start looking for poz undetectable tops, tell them you like getting verbal, and have them figure it out. Guys that advertise being poz undetectable likely consider their charged but not actually toxic cum to be an asset. They may want to help you get what you need. Gonna say this too. Remember a lot of the attraction here is in your heads. You'll talk about his status before you hook up. Don't go overboard, just let him know you think it's hot. From then on you'll know you're gonna take a poz load from him, so every time you think about his cum, you'll remember it's extra-hot for you. What I mean is don't expect him to fuck you for an hour talking about toxic charged poz cum the whole time. Some guys might like reminding each other more than others, but the thing you need to focus on is that that cum is inside his body and it's going to be inside yours.
  6. backtails
    I'm in Canada. It's no different than alcohol or tobacco because it has the same status here. Guys use "420" or "🍁" to say what they're into, same as everywhere else. That wouldn't be considered PnP, partying, or chemsex. It's a different category. That said, you can't expect guys to be into it without saying. It's not like an absolutely normal session. A lot are, but if you're going to show up really high, some guys might not want that. Same thing as if he was drunk and you weren't.
  7. backtails
    I don't get using it as a main pic, but it has to be available. I mean that as a bottom you should have it there. Personally, I know whether I want to fuck someone even from a clothed pic. Anyone I want to fuck will have a hot ass because all asses are hot. But an ass pic is nowhere near as hot as when it's paired with a cock. My thoughts are that when you see his cock you know it's sexual. Body pics or ass pics that don't show the hole aren't as directly sexual. With a cock, you know you're looking at a man that might want you to fuck him. I'm gonna say that butt shots are the way to solve this. Avatars with a butt shot are always among the sexiest on here, @ErosWired and @jonny4dad.
  8. backtails
    Fuck yes, fuck yes, fuck yes. Now it's a competition. I have to fuck him better than the other top(s). From the moment I realize he's loaded to the moment my swimmers cross the finish line (wherever that is) before all others. My boys always win the race. Or, with the stamina I know they have, there's a moment when all the cum inside you is mine. And then I'm the only one who really bred you. Yeah, I have no idea how competitive my sperm really are, but I like the thought. Cool fact: penises have mushroom heads so they can scrape other men's cum out of wherever it happens to be. That's the purpose. So if the other tops just like the satisfying feeling of entering a sloppy hole — it's good to know you're fucking a slut — I'll just let their seed chill on the bottom's balls and take that sperm race all for myself.
  9. backtails
    It's a chemical reminder of what you're meant for when you're meant to fuck and breed, too, not just if you're meant to take it. My cock swells up. The veins pop out. If I'm fucking, I FUCK. Deep long dicking, so fast my balls look blurry, and when I get to the end I try to dig deeper. Usually no closer to finishing at the end, though. I'll take a hit right before entering him, and that one is different. I'll go in slowly and deliberately; I don't fuck the way I will on my next hit. Sometimes I feel it take effect, which really enhances the awesome experience of having a bottom yield to me and take me inside him. If I'm getting sucked, the instinct is to go in all the way and hold his head down until I've had enough, then just fuck his throat. It only takes that first hit to get me started, too, @ErosWired. Just the smell is erotic but doesn't really flip a switch in my head — I need to get that raging boner. Then I get even more aggressive. I take what I want. That attitude stays after the poppers fade. It's the attitude pig bottoms want, and he's getting the attitude I want as he tries not to spill the bottle. Yeah, if you can't tell, thinking about that smell kinda gets me horny. Poppers are absolutely not only for bottoms.
  10. backtails
    That's a fucking impressive bottom cock @BREEDmeRAW... and, yeah, you thought he was asking about your pre-fuck prep. Thought so too, here. Because, if you think about it, that's a reasonable question. A man who's about to stick his raw cock into a bottom's ass could very well want to know if it's freshly rinsed. Situations even exist where the answer is "no". (Like if there's an unplanned blowjob and you want to fuck but you're not sure about the timing.) But asking someone whether they have any diseases is pointless. No one will say "no" to "are you clean?". He can lie. He might think he is when he's not. The answer is meaningless, and, if you find it reassuring somehow, you shouldn't. You're taking the same chances as everyone else. I never ask this question and I just answer "yeah". Do guys give answers that might be useful? "I'm on PrEP" or "I'm poz undetectable" would tell you something, and might be more likely to be true than "yes". But I think everyone just says yes.
  11. backtails
    Uh, maybe the top is wearing a really wide cockring? I hope the blond dude fucks raw, anyway. I hope he gets fucked when he's doing it. It's a hot pic, and I'm officially placing myself in the blond's ass. And if I don't feel another cock grinding against mine when I go in... I want to. Damn, blond dude's cock against mine in a DP would be hot too. A fucking condom would be hot if I could be a top in a 5-man gangbang right now.
  12. backtails
    I like hotels. When I show up to fuck a dude, I'm interested in his body and he's interested in mine. A hotel is sort of a neutral venue where men only bring their body — at a house, you see the rest of his life too. Usually it's not a problem, but I prefer to open the door and step right into a sexual realm. Definitely, if you're looking for numbers, a hotel is a lot easier. Easier to get to, easier to find, easier to park... There's the drawback that some guys don't like going through a public space, but there are hookup-friendly places where you can go in off the street and it's not too open.
  13. backtails
    Aw, I like the idea of someone's ass opening up and getting horny when he smells my armpits. Kinda like a bottle of poppers I've always got with me. Goes nicely with natural lube.
  14. backtails
    The difference is about depth. You can fuck ass balls deep. It changes a lot about how intense you can get... like, you can slam your body into his buttcheeks. You can put your whole weight on him when you're lying on top. Stuff like that. You can fuck pussy hard, for sure, but an ass is a bottomless tunnel, and a pussy will always be a pocket. Yeah, they both feel fucking good. Ass is better.
  15. backtails
    Yeah, it's definitely not just psychological. When you cum from fucking you're thrusting, and you either keep thrusting or you tighten up hard on the muscles you've been thrusting with. So just the fact that you're using those muscles through the orgasm means it's more intense. The difference between cumming in ass in a condom and bb shots feels like it would be psychological (but maybe not). With a condom you feel it fill up, which actually feels kinda good... but a bb load fucking disappears. You don't feel it (much) because it's going inside him. And that's hotter, even though it's missing a sensation you feel when you don't bareback.
  16. backtails
    What I like about bottoms' cocks is that they're hot in any configuration. If he's rock hard because I'm making him feel that good, it's hot af. If he's soft because his cock doesn't matter and he gets off on his ass, hot af. Some bottoms stay soft, but need to touch it. Hot af. Everywhere in between, also hot af. The only time I might not want a soft bottom is if I think he's not up to taking it from me. When I get that feeling, I suck him hard, probably as I'm rimming him. Some guys need that to get into the session.
  17. backtails
    @YourNoLimitsBottom Yeah, I don't check out guys there myself. Imagining a cruisy shower at some gym where guys can check each other out and fuck is definitely hot but I'm not sure that's a real place, or at least one I'm likely to find. Just remembered how communal showers in bathhouses feel different than gyms. In a bathhouse I don't feel self-conscious about my cock, even though I'm there to impress guys with it. Maybe it's because I know it gets bigger. And I like knowing other tops can shrink down to my size... but I don't like guys at the gym not knowing I'm 7" hard.
  18. backtails
    A lot of guys aren't used to actually having hot gay sex. (You said raw, I want to say hot, but remember hot means raw.) I like watching cum fly. It never disappoints me to see it spraying on anyone's ass or abs or chest or cock... or face or mouth... But porn definitely needs more internal cumshots, I know. It's out there, but the demand clearly is for pullouts. What's missing for me isn't just the cumshot itself, it's watching the top cum. The way a man gets when he's about to cum in a hole, and when he's actually breeding, is fucking awesome to watch because that's the best place to be. Shooting outside has none of the transformation into a beast that needs to fuck and breed and it doesn't have the explosive face-wrenching force that you get when you cum where it counts.
  19. backtails
    I'm not an actual cumdump... but my strategy would be to be active about it and ask anyone who's hard or who might want to fuck me. I'd check him out, give him a genuine compliment, and feel out what he might want to do. I'd offer to suck if I didn't think he was ready to commit to ass fucking. (Being an actual top, I know that he would be committing to ass fucking.) If he didn't seem interested I'd talk a bit about what I was looking for. You know, so he could tell his top buddies about me. Other guys hear this and might take you up on it. I just think the active approach will get you the most cum. And I've used the getting overheard tactic to get stuff like two bottoms in a room with me.
  20. backtails
    Get nice abs. Fuck guys with nice abs.
  21. backtails
    I go really well prepared and I actually do have condoms in my backpack. They're wrapped in duct tape (it's complicated). They have three purposes... 1. Survival tools. If there's an earthquake or something you can use them to carry water, keep things dry, or start collecting much-needed sperm. 2. They're lubricated, so they could be a handy source of slippery if I do have sex and we both have a really dry mouth. 3. They're Trojan Magnums. They remind me that, although I'm not going to use condoms for sex, if for some unholy reason I ever did, I would have to use a condom for men with relatively large penises. This is an awesome confidence booster. Right, more than anyone ever wanted to hear about condoms at the gym. One thing I'm gonna ask. Communal showers. Dicks hanging out. I'm a grower in a big way — 7" (real) hard, not impressive at all in the shower. Seems worse after I've been swimming – I'm vulnerable to shrinkage. Showers aren't really cruisy for me so I can just remind myself that it gets a lot bigger. Bottom guys... when you check out guys in the shower, do you compensate for that? Do you maybe look at their cock differently in that setting?
  22. backtails
    "I want you to fuck me." I've heard that said lots of different ways, in lots of different tones. Not every session — more often, it's me making the decision to bring it from mouth to ass — but it always comes to mind as the most erotic thing he can say. "I fucking own you." Then I bite his shoulder, grunt hard, and breed deep. If he really knows what it means to have a cock in his ass — and a lot of bottoms do — "I fucking own you, bitch." "Suck that fucking cock now." Yeah, "fuck that ass" or "suck that cock" can sound bad in porn, but sometimes it's gotta be that cock instead of my cock. I might push him down, and he definitely gets my hands on his head once he gets where he needs to be. (Aw, but he needs to be there as much as I need him to be there. Maybe more.)
  23. backtails
    If guys ask, it's to confirm I'll fuck them raw. Whether I actually turn down ass because he wants a condom... not always. If I'm just on an app and he asks, then I won't end up fucking him. If I'm about to top him and he asks, then I fuck him. This would mean he hasn't been screened through an app — but it would mean I want his ass, and not even a condom is gonna stop me from that.
  24. backtails
    Aw, you should always be able to laugh while you're having sex. Not always, but... if you can, it's a good thing that means you have a strong connection with the other guy. I'm remembering one big (and really cute) guy I fucked who loved bottoming... I was switching from doggy on a bed to getting him on his back, with me on the floor. He was trying to get his legs up the right way and get his ass the right distance from the edge of the bed and we had to get the angle exactly right. He says: "Why does gay sex have to be so difficult?" There's lots of times I've wanted to say that.
  25. backtails
    The term that comes to mind is "fuck any hole". I want to say I'm not into that right now, but if I'm gonna be honest about it, anyone can suck me, and anyone who sucks me is likely to make me want to fuck them. It's not out of desperation, though, as much as convenience. Picking the easiest fuck, not necessarily the best fuck. It's like this: there's a ass that could be fucked, and I'd rather be fucking ass than not fucking ass, so I'll fuck it.

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