This is not a sexual prurient post. This is real life, and I need some advice. I realize here might not be the best place, but I’ve seen plenty of good advice here through the years. A few weeks ago my nephew came out, he’s 19 and an adult, so it’s his business. The issue here is this: first, my brother put him out of the house (my parents are letting him stay with them); second, my brother runs the family business, and my nephew works there; finally, since the family business pays for his phone, my brother goes through it every week (he has no privacy). He can’t move in with my partner and I because he has a huge truck payment and no work experience outside of the family business. My question is how much should I intervene? I’ve thought about getting him an iPad so that he could have some privacy. Is that going too far? I remember being 19, scared af, and in that toxic climate. I hate to see him going through the same thing 25 years later. Any ideas appreciated.