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  1. Many people don't realize how important smell can be until they're between someone's legs and the stink hits them in the face. We may initially be attracted to someone by how they look, however it's the other senses, like smell, that determine whether we want to get closer, or keep our distance. For me, I have to say that one of the reasons I never fooled around with females is because the smell makes me nauseous. In general, the smell of a male does not bother me, however there are variations and there have been some guys whose smell made me hold my breath and gag when I've sucked them off. As a cocksucker, I've noticed that there are four main sources of smells that you may need to deal with. The first is, pubes. Guys with thick pubes tend to have a stronger smell because the hair traps sweat and heat and allows bacteria to breed faster, which intensifies the smell. Guys who are shaved or are less hairy in general, usually have a less pronounced smell. The second odor source is the foreskin of guys who are uncut. This is another area that stays moist and can harbor bacteria with stale piss, and smegma. The third source is ass. Kind of self explanatory what smells you get there. Finally, you may have to deal with someone's breath as they start to breathe heavy, or, want to pull you in to kiss. Unfortunately, I don't know of a way to start liking these smells. The best I've been able to do is ignore the odor by hyper-focusing on the cock and the task at hand. If that fails, there's the option to offer my ass -- which I'd do regardless. Since intense smells have a lot to do with hygiene, you might try changing how or where you are meeting guys and try to arrange something in or after a shower. Otherwise, just hold your breath and get him off as fast as you can. 😁
  2. Disclaimer: Just because I reply, doesn't mean I know what I'm talking about. There are a couple thing I can think of that may be going on. First, HIV and PreP medication doses are higher than needed for viral suppression. These meds are (almost) as effective if taken every other day compared to taken daily. One reason they are prescribed as a daily med is that it is easier for people to remember to take them daily instead of trying to remember an alternate day regimen. Even though you are missing doses, it could be that you are still taking enough to maintain viral suppression. Another possibility is that you are an "elite controller" which means your body is able to keep the virus under control on its own. It would be good to talk to your doctor about it and they could test for or monitor your ability to maintain viral suppression without meds, or they might switch you to one of the newer, longer lasting meds like the injectable which is one dose every two months. I hope you're able to continue keeping the virus under control. Reduced meds means lower costs and lower impacts to your liver and kidneys.
  3. Well, yeah. Since everybody has different susceptibilities, you do sort of have to figure out how far you can go on your own. Some guys with sensitive skin may start to feel chafed after being wet for less than an hour, while others can go all day without a problem. If you want to be wet, and know you are prone to rashes or fungal infection, you can try to be proactive to reduce or prevent the likelihood of an occurrence. Basic strategy is to apply something that acts as a barrier between the wet stuff and your skin. You can try baby oil / mineral oil (they're the same thing except baby oil adds a fragrance) Oiling your crotch can get you feeling a little raunchy even before you piss yourself. If you are prone to fungal infections, apply an athlete's foot / jock itch ointment proactively to areas it is most likely to effect. If your foreskin gets irritated easily, you could try applying a little bit of antibiotic ointment to cut down on bacterial growth. You need to figure out your own limits as to how long it's comfortable to be wet, and avoid going longer. When your play session is over, unfortunately, you need to wash it off. As much as you may like to stay wet, It's important to wash and dry yourself to keep any potential rashes at bay. And once you're clean and dry, if you're still horny, you can wet yourself again. For daytime wear, I think piss stained undies work well. After a series of repeated wetting, they'll take on a strong stale piss aroma that fills the air around you whenever you open your pants. The key is to dry them quickly and thoroughly (but without heat) after they are wet. A blower fan works great for this. Let them rest a day then piss them again. Once you've pissed in them a few times, they should be ready to wear. If you've dried them well between wettings, and you're not overly sensitive, they shouldn't irritate your skin to wear. Make several pairs so you can trade off everyday. And remember, you don't have to limit yourself to just piss stains. You could dedicate a pair to wiping your smeg off everyday. Or, you can make one pair an old school cum rag. Or, if you bottom, push out a few loads of ass slime, lube, and cum into a pair so it smell like raunchy sex. That way, you can have a different aroma to arouse you every day. That's a basic idea. Beyond that, just be creative and have fun.
  4. I'm not much for celebrating birthdays, however, I'm willing to step in and take the traditional birthday spanking just to help out. 🥳
  5. When you say "piss soaked", are you wearing them when they are still damp? There is a bit of a difference between wearing something that is still wet with piss versus something that is dry but piss stained. If you are wearing them wet, you will suffer the same fate as diaper boys and of athletes who train long hours in sweat-soaked clothes. The longer you are wet, the more susceptible you will be to chafing, rash, and jock itch. If that's the way you want to play, you might be able to find info on an AB/DL (adult baby/diaper lover) forum about how to avoid getting rashes while staying wet. Or you might find something on a cycling or other athletic forum about how to avoid the "ick" while training. A more sustainable option is to wear stuff that is piss stained. With repeated wetting, piss stained clothes retain the color and smell of stale piss, and, over time, can develop a slipperiness that makes them almost feel wet even when they are dry. The key to it is to limit how long the clothes are wet. Piss yourself then take them off and put them in front of a fan to dry. You need them to dry as quickly and thoroughly as possible to avoid having the urine break down into compounds that will irritate the skin. (If they stay wet and develop that ammonia smell, they've been wet too long and need to be washed.) I think I'll end here -- more details would turn it into a fetish forum kind of post instead of a health forum post.
  6. I don't know if using the word "cock" means you're old, but I do think that someone shallow enough to make those kinds of judgements is kind of a prick. Just a little trivia to complicate things: "Turns out, “cock” has been used historically for nearly 200 years to refer to women’s genitalia or sex with women, specifically by speakers of AAE and Southern English. " --[think before following links] [think before following links] https://retchlanguagenotebook.wordpress.com/2019/10/21/194/ 2. In some Southern US states, between 1920 and 1940, an African-American slang word for the vagina, possibly derived from cockles; a cock-opener was a penis. Quote: Dictionary of American Regional English (1985): ' At a point roughly the same as the Mason-Dixon Line, there is a division in meaning, to the North cock refers to the male genitals, but in the South its use is restricted to the female genitals. Missouri is a border state in which both meanings are used.' cock -- [think before following links] [think before following links] https://forum.wordreference.com/threads/cock-meaning-vagina.3616688/ If you are connected to a culture or live in an area that uses "cock" to refer to them "lady bits", you probably use "dick" to refer to male genitalia..
  7. It sounds like you are doing an "onlyfans" type of live porn. If that's the case, just ask your viewers what they want to see. Give them a list of choices to vote on. Whether you have them vote with tips is up to you. If you are posting vids on a site, use the title or tags to describe how you are taking the load: for example, deepthroat cum or facial or licking load off his belly. As for what I personally like to see, it depends. If a top had strong, visible contractions, then watching him cum deep in a bottom is hot. Otherwise, I want to see it shoot, but all of it has to eventually end up in the bottoms mouth or ass.
  8. I agree that hands-free is ideal, however, I'm not the ideal cocksucker. I'm not offended if someone tells me not to use my hands, but there are several reasons why I might be using them. For example, I might need to change my position to better accommodate size, shape, angle of the penis, or adjust for height if I'm on my knees, or give my jaw a rest, or some other reason. Some guys say they ignore their own comfort when they suck but I say if I'm not comfortable, I can't give my best blowjob. I definitely start out hands free, and finish off hands free, but in the middle, I might switch up a bit. and usually, if I guy mentions not using hands, it means he's close to cumming and I don't want to miss that hands free.
  9. That's an interesting topic. I've heard about different substances that could alter the color of urine -- the only one I've experience is large doses of vitamin C turning my piss bright yellow. So, to answer your question, If I didn't know it would happen, I would be a little freaked out, but if I knew beforehand, it would peak my curiosity and make me want to play in it. And that brings up a few questions of my own: How much of the dye is still present in your piss? If you piss your jeans, could you permanently darken the stain? Would it stain skin where someone is pissed on? When drinking piss, how much would come through the drinker? I think I'd be turned on if I drank piss that made my own piss look like blue toilet water.
  10. I'm not impressed by Gordon Gallup. He did do some good work early in his career, but for the last 40 years or so, he's primarily been involved in study reviews and not doing actual research. My guess is that he needs to publish something every so often to maintain tenure. Without a big research budget, many professors resort to doing study reviews. They formulate a hypothesis then cherry-pick results from existing studies that they can spin to support their premise. I don't know if it's the case here, but is seems like it "could". (I put "could" in quotes because it is a favorite word in study reviews. The evidence cited rarely shows the premise to be true, it merely suggests that it ... could.) My rebuttal to the article's premise is not based on studies produced by others, but solely based on my own experience as a human male with a penis and the exploration I have done with it (and with observing, feeling, sucking, etc., many other human male penises) for over half a century. The article posits that the shape of the (human male) penis evolved as a means of removing or displacing semen from a previously bred hole. In my opinion, that's just silly. Evolution doesn't act like a jealous lover. Instead, Evolution is a kinky bitch. Evolution wants that genetic material spread around as much as possible. If you want to describe the action of evolution in a single word, just say: Bukkake. ("Come on boys, shoot your jizz! Lets see what comes of it!") Once a DNA matrix becomes viable, Genetics takes over and tries to keep the genetic code constant. Between the two, "Genetics" is the prudish sister that sits at home and won't let anyone have fun. "Evolution" is the wild one. Alrighty then. If the shape of the penis didn't evolve to favor those who enjoy "sloppy seconds", what purpose (if any) could there be? That's super easy to answer: stimulation and lubrication. Humans are not particularly moist in their fuck holes. Fortunately, the vagina and rectum produce more lubrication with stimulation. The penis is sized to provide a snug fit within the love tunnel, with the coronal glans -- ribbed for your pleasure -- providing additional subtle stimulation with each thrust. With each thrust, the vagina begins to relax and self-lubricate. As the penis is withdrawn, the coronal ridges draws any fluids back into the foreskin where it is redistributed over the head of the penis, providing lubrication for the next thrust. As lubrication increases, the penis is able to penetrate a little harder which increases stimulation, which in turn increases excretion of fluids in a nifty little feedback loop. In addition to stimulation of the vaginal or rectal walls, the glans also (in theory) stop the penis from pulling out prematurely. The ideal is to keep the cavity warm and wet for smooth penetration. If the hole has been previously fucked, semen from that first load provides additional lubrication which allows the second round to go harder, deeper, faster than the first. That is how penetration is supposed to work. Unfortunately. man invented Circumcision which fucked with the sensitivity of the male penis, and the ability of the couple to maintain lubrication, Without a foreskin to collect fluids on the back stroke, fluids are inadvertently pushed out of the hole, requiring artificial lubrication. Man also invented the Hallmark channel which also fucked with sensitivity, but that doesn't have anything to do with a discussion on evolution. OK, I think I've rambled enough. To sum up, The penis shape stimulates the cavity and distributes lubrication. Guys like fucking cummy holes because they tend to be more relaxed, pre-lubed, and feel good to fuck. You don't need some lazy researcher to tell you that.
  11. I'd like to address a couple misconception that some people have about being poz, so let me give you my thoughts on a few things you wrote. You said: " i’ve liked this kink for a little while. But only poz, i don’t wish for anything else. But for me. The thought of being poz (undetectable ofc) just sounds hot to me." A kink is something that turns you on when you're horny. Being poz is 24/7 whether you want to be or not. There are a lot of things that might sound hot but that's usually because people only look at the glamour or fantasy. You Said; " I can say i have poz/toxic loads." That is true. Although, you could say that now if you wanted to. Sex is one thing that almost everyone lies about as some point. People lie about age, or experience, or relationship status, or HIV. You could change your status to "undetectable" and actually, that wouldn't be a lie (if you're negative and took an HIV test, it would not detect anything.) but you could also set up alternate profiles that say you are poz and see what kind of a response you get. When I changed my profiles to include poz in my name I got hits from tops who thought it would be hot to fuck a poz bottom. Out of all of those guys, none of them actually followed through. Might just be me or my location, but most people who think it would be a hot fantasy, aren't ready or interested in the reality. You said: "Wouldn’t have to worry or be scared of HIV anymore." It's true you wouldn't have to be scared of the possibility of catching HIV, instead, you would have to deal with living with an incurable illness. There are a lot of aspects to consider. Let's just look at drug cost. A 30 day supply of the HIV meds I'm on run over $4,000 retail. That's $48,000 a year. You say you are 21 so you could easily live another 60 years. That would give you a lifetime medication cost of $2,880,000. You most likely wouldn't be paying all of that yourself -- maybe none at all, I'm just pointing out the financial cost of a lifetime of treatment. How much of that are you ready to commit to? You said: "The treatment is same as prep. 1 pill a day." Not entirely true. It may be one pill, but PREP is a combination of two medications while most HIV meds are a combination of three. Dosing also varies. What that means is that, you are only taking one pill, but you are taking more drugs when you are fighting HIV, which can have a more damaging effect on your liver and kidneys. Also, PREP is optional. You could stop it at any time. If you are in a committed relationship, fall ill, or stop fucking for a period of time, you could stop taking PREP. That's not an option if you are poz and want to remain undetectable. You said: "And you can still live a normal healthy life." A normal healthy life with the stigma of being infected with an incurable virus, increased risk of co-infection, increased risk of liver and kidney damage, increased risk of fat redistribution, You said: "i’m a top (on prep & doxypep)" I'm a bottom. I need a horny pup like you to breed me.
  12. Sound like you found your "type". Start cruising looking at a lot of other similar guys to confirm.
  13. As I've gotten older, I've noticed 4 types of changes that have effected how I approach cleaning out. (There are probably more, but these are the ones I think are the most relevant.) First is diet. What goes in effects what comes out. What goes in includes food, drink, and medications. As we age, our preferences for different foods change and use of supplements and medications usually increase. But even if what we consumed stayed the same, we'd still have to deal with the second factor which is changing metabolism. As we age, our metabolism tend to slow and how we process or tolerate foods begin to change. In addition to changing metabolism, there is the third factor -- changes in muscle tone. For bottoms engaging in anal sex, loss of tone or control of the inner sphincter means that you need to clean out more of the colon since the sphincter can no longer do it's job as efficiently. And finally, I think there is a change in lifestyle activities and a change in perception of what "clean" actually means. When I was younger, I cleaned out of a particular hook up and not an attempt to be clean for an extended period of time at a bathhouse, for example. At that time I was just trying to be Clean Enough for Right Now, and not really concerned with being squeaky clean on the inside for hours long sessions. I also think the pandemic changed some habits and increased awareness of sanitary practices. Put all those things together, and I find I spend more time trying to do a more thorough job than I did when I was younger.
  14. Once upon a time, before the internet dominated all of our lives, there were gay travel guides that listed gay friendly businesses and cruising locations. Two publications that I remember are Damron and Spartacus. They were good to have if you were travelling or new to an area, but they were published annually so there was a lag between publications and info was sometimes outdated by the time the books were available. Both Damron Guides and Spartacus are still available, by the way, and have websites on line. In the mid '90s cruisingforsex came on line giving more current listings and feedback for those looking for sex. Squirt followed a couple years later. Squirt had (in my opinion) an easier to navigate site and became one of the go-to sites for cruisers. There were some message boards and a few others sites -- I think Gaydar was popular in Europe around that time.
  15. In addition to what has already been said, I'd like to add that the number one reason for treatment failure is failure of the patient to take their meds as prescribed. If you're prescribed a daily med, I recommend getting a pill case that is divided for the days of the week. It's really easy to forget whether you took a dose on a particular day. A pill case makes it easy to check or remind yourself to take your pill. Adherence to your treatment plan gives you the best chance of success.
  16. If I'm understanding the study, it involves modifying a person's own T-cells so they withstand an attack by the HIV virus. Since the goal is to repair the immune system and improve the immune response, the body could, in theory, rid itself of HIV and fight off any new exposures. If that happens, it actually would be a cure. Unfortunately, the study hasn't gotten very far -- it is still in phase 1 and a long way away from an actual treatment.
  17. **Standard disclaimer: I'm not a doctor and my response shouldn't be taken as medical advice.** Stimulation / pressure on the prostate from the rectum can cause leakage of semen. Stimulation could come from a number of sources, such as fingers probing the anal cavity, from the use of dildos, from a penis during anal sex, or from a bowel movement -- especially if there is excessive straining due to constipation, to name a few. Whether and how much is leaked would involve an number of factors such as age, muscle tone, type and duration of stimulation, etc. Generally speaking, most healthy males don't leak precum during bowel movements ( unless they're jacking off while doing so.) If you are leaking due to straining to produce a bowel movement, you might reevaluate your diet to make sure you are getting enough fiber and taking in enough fluids. If you are leaking without straining or from some other stimulation, you could have a urinary tract infection, enlarged prostate, or some other medical issue you should address with your doctor. On the other hand, if you're turned on by the feeling, then edge yourself for a while before and while on the toilet so that you are right on the edge as your dump slides through.
  18. There are a lot of factors that effect how one responds to treatment and it can be a long process to bring the body back into balance. There will be times when VL spikes or CD4 dips as your body begins to heal and recalibrate your immune system. Don't get discouraged or impatient, or get hyper-focused on a particular lab result. Instead, do what you can to support your body with a halfway decent diet, do a little exercise, get some sleep, and try not to overindulge in the unhealthy things.
  19. I definitely prefer piss that has a little "bite" to it. I want it to smell and taste like piss. In my opinion, the worst piss is the kind that has been corrupted by other flavors. Tobacco, coffee, and artificial sweeteners tend to overpower the natural flavor of piss.
  20. If you can imagine it, someone is into it. I know of a couple guys who fall into that category. One in particular has certain toilet fetishes and likes to be tied up, humiliated, used, edged, and cock ridden til he cums. He considers himself a top since he does not get fucked and doesn't suck, but on the fetish side, he likes things that might usually be thought of as a bottom's role. On the other side, there are power bottoms who like to be aggressive, take control, and make a top cum. So yes, there are tops who like to be passive or humiliated in some way. People are complicated and not everyone fits neatly into arbitrary categories. There can be a lot of overlap and reversal in roles -- particularly when it comes to kinks and fetishes.
  21. I've suffered with allergies all my life so same issue. When sinuses are congested, I have to breathe through my mouth which can be difficult when that space is taken up by a cock. Unfortunately, I haven't found anything that works for me long term. I can sometimes get sinuses to open by inhaling aromatics (like mint or eucalyptus) or sucking on a menthol cough drop. (I don't do poppers, but sometimes I huf Tiger Balm.) Hopefully there are some others out there with better tips because we all need more cock.
  22. Since the expiration date can be up to 5 years past manufacture, they may be 20 year old condoms. At that age, you could probably offer them on ebay. List them as "Vintage" and sell them for 10 times what you paid for them. 🤑
  23. My profiles always clearly state what I'm looking for. Even though I'm a hosting bottom looking for anal loads, I'll routinely get messages asking if I'll top. asking if I have a glory hole, or If I'd travel 30 miles and just give a blow job. How I answer stupid questions depends on my mood and can vary from *ignore*, to patiently requesting they re-read my profile, to sarcasm. I usually opt for sarcasm -- especially if they get huffy after I've told them, "No". My answers to the three questions you were asked would probably be something like: 1. Do you have condoms? Answer: Yes! They'll fit nicely over your face. If you're nice I might snip off the tip so you can breathe. 2. Where do you want me to cum? Answer: How about Cincinnati. I've never been there. 3. Do you like being fucked? Answer: In the ass? Yes. In the head by morons who can't read a fucking profile? Not so much. Sarcasm is one of my true joys in life. I highly recommend it.
  24. I don't like packets since they can be hard to open, and can't be resealed so any leftovers make a mess as they leak all over. Instead, I'd recommend finding a small bottle of lube. You can get Swiss Navy Lubes in pump bottles as small as 1 ounce. They are pretty perfect for parties since they won't spill, contain enough to get you through a few nights, but are small enough to easily carry. And with the small size, you won't get pissed off if you happen to lose it. I'm sure other brands have similar if you look. Or, as @Bibttmmiami said, get a small travel bottle to bring your favorite lube.
  25. OH NO!! It's another "Spectrum" analysis that surely will validate my very existence, or, expose my deepest weaknesses and devour my soul. The intense pressure is nerve-wracking. Will my preferences be confirmed or will I need to change my ... undies? Oh. It's just about underwear. Yeah -- I've got all those so I guess I win.
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