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I'm not impressed by Gordon Gallup. He did do some good work early in his career, but for the last 40 years or so, he's primarily been involved in study reviews and not doing actual research. My guess is that he needs to publish something every so often to maintain tenure. Without a big research budget, many professors resort to doing study reviews. They formulate a hypothesis then cherry-pick results from existing studies that they can spin to support their premise. I don't know if it's the case here, but is seems like it "could". (I put "could" in quotes because it is a favorite word in study reviews. The evidence cited rarely shows the premise to be true, it merely suggests that it ... could.) My rebuttal to the article's premise is not based on studies produced by others, but solely based on my own experience as a human male with a penis and the exploration I have done with it (and with observing, feeling, sucking, etc., many other human male penises) for over half a century. The article posits that the shape of the (human male) penis evolved as a means of removing or displacing semen from a previously bred hole. In my opinion, that's just silly. Evolution doesn't act like a jealous lover. Instead, Evolution is a kinky bitch. Evolution wants that genetic material spread around as much as possible. If you want to describe the action of evolution in a single word, just say: Bukkake. ("Come on boys, shoot your jizz! Lets see what comes of it!") Once a DNA matrix becomes viable, Genetics takes over and tries to keep the genetic code constant. Between the two, "Genetics" is the prudish sister that sits at home and won't let anyone have fun. "Evolution" is the wild one. Alrighty then. If the shape of the penis didn't evolve to favor those who enjoy "sloppy seconds", what purpose (if any) could there be? That's super easy to answer: stimulation and lubrication. Humans are not particularly moist in their fuck holes. Fortunately, the vagina and rectum produce more lubrication with stimulation. The penis is sized to provide a snug fit within the love tunnel, with the coronal glans -- ribbed for your pleasure -- providing additional subtle stimulation with each thrust. With each thrust, the vagina begins to relax and self-lubricate. As the penis is withdrawn, the coronal ridges draws any fluids back into the foreskin where it is redistributed over the head of the penis, providing lubrication for the next thrust. As lubrication increases, the penis is able to penetrate a little harder which increases stimulation, which in turn increases excretion of fluids in a nifty little feedback loop. In addition to stimulation of the vaginal or rectal walls, the glans also (in theory) stop the penis from pulling out prematurely. The ideal is to keep the cavity warm and wet for smooth penetration. If the hole has been previously fucked, semen from that first load provides additional lubrication which allows the second round to go harder, deeper, faster than the first. That is how penetration is supposed to work. Unfortunately. man invented Circumcision which fucked with the sensitivity of the male penis, and the ability of the couple to maintain lubrication, Without a foreskin to collect fluids on the back stroke, fluids are inadvertently pushed out of the hole, requiring artificial lubrication. Man also invented the Hallmark channel which also fucked with sensitivity, but that doesn't have anything to do with a discussion on evolution. OK, I think I've rambled enough. To sum up, The penis shape stimulates the cavity and distributes lubrication. Guys like fucking cummy holes because they tend to be more relaxed, pre-lubed, and feel good to fuck. You don't need some lazy researcher to tell you that.

I'd like to address a couple misconception that some people have about being poz, so let me give you my thoughts on a few things you wrote. You said: " i’ve liked this kink for a little while. But only poz, i don’t wish for anything else. But for me. The thought of being poz (undetectable ofc) just sounds hot to me." A kink is something that turns you on when you're horny. Being poz is 24/7 whether you want to be or not. There are a lot of things that might sound hot but that's usually because people only look at the glamour or fantasy. You Said; " I can say i have poz/toxic loads." That is true. Although, you could say that now if you wanted to. Sex is one thing that almost everyone lies about as some point. People lie about age, or experience, or relationship status, or HIV. You could change your status to "undetectable" and actually, that wouldn't be a lie (if you're negative and took an HIV test, it would not detect anything.) but you could also set up alternate profiles that say you are poz and see what kind of a response you get. When I changed my profiles to include poz in my name I got hits from tops who thought it would be hot to fuck a poz bottom. Out of all of those guys, none of them actually followed through. Might just be me or my location, but most people who think it would be a hot fantasy, aren't ready or interested in the reality. You said: "Wouldn’t have to worry or be scared of HIV anymore." It's true you wouldn't have to be scared of the possibility of catching HIV, instead, you would have to deal with living with an incurable illness. There are a lot of aspects to consider. Let's just look at drug cost. A 30 day supply of the HIV meds I'm on run over $4,000 retail. That's $48,000 a year. You say you are 21 so you could easily live another 60 years. That would give you a lifetime medication cost of $2,880,000. You most likely wouldn't be paying all of that yourself -- maybe none at all, I'm just pointing out the financial cost of a lifetime of treatment. How much of that are you ready to commit to? You said: "The treatment is same as prep. 1 pill a day." Not entirely true. It may be one pill, but PREP is a combination of two medications while most HIV meds are a combination of three. Dosing also varies. What that means is that, you are only taking one pill, but you are taking more drugs when you are fighting HIV, which can have a more damaging effect on your liver and kidneys. Also, PREP is optional. You could stop it at any time. If you are in a committed relationship, fall ill, or stop fucking for a period of time, you could stop taking PREP. That's not an option if you are poz and want to remain undetectable. You said: "And you can still live a normal healthy life." A normal healthy life with the stigma of being infected with an incurable virus, increased risk of co-infection, increased risk of liver and kidney damage, increased risk of fat redistribution, You said: "i’m a top (on prep & doxypep)" I'm a bottom. I need a horny pup like you to breed me.

Sound like you found your "type". Start cruising looking at a lot of other similar guys to confirm.

As I've gotten older, I've noticed 4 types of changes that have effected how I approach cleaning out. (There are probably more, but these are the ones I think are the most relevant.) First is diet. What goes in effects what comes out. What goes in includes food, drink, and medications. As we age, our preferences for different foods change and use of supplements and medications usually increase. But even if what we consumed stayed the same, we'd still have to deal with the second factor which is changing metabolism. As we age, our metabolism tend to slow and how we process or tolerate foods begin to change. In addition to changing metabolism, there is the third factor -- changes in muscle tone. For bottoms engaging in anal sex, loss of tone or control of the inner sphincter means that you need to clean out more of the colon since the sphincter can no longer do it's job as efficiently. And finally, I think there is a change in lifestyle activities and a change in perception of what "clean" actually means. When I was younger, I cleaned out of a particular hook up and not an attempt to be clean for an extended period of time at a bathhouse, for example. At that time I was just trying to be Clean Enough for Right Now, and not really concerned with being squeaky clean on the inside for hours long sessions. I also think the pandemic changed some habits and increased awareness of sanitary practices. Put all those things together, and I find I spend more time trying to do a more thorough job than I did when I was younger.

Once upon a time, before the internet dominated all of our lives, there were gay travel guides that listed gay friendly businesses and cruising locations. Two publications that I remember are Damron and Spartacus. They were good to have if you were travelling or new to an area, but they were published annually so there was a lag between publications and info was sometimes outdated by the time the books were available. Both Damron Guides and Spartacus are still available, by the way, and have websites on line. In the mid '90s cruisingforsex came on line giving more current listings and feedback for those looking for sex. Squirt followed a couple years later. Squirt had (in my opinion) an easier to navigate site and became one of the go-to sites for cruisers. There were some message boards and a few others sites -- I think Gaydar was popular in Europe around that time.

In addition to what has already been said, I'd like to add that the number one reason for treatment failure is failure of the patient to take their meds as prescribed. If you're prescribed a daily med, I recommend getting a pill case that is divided for the days of the week. It's really easy to forget whether you took a dose on a particular day. A pill case makes it easy to check or remind yourself to take your pill. Adherence to your treatment plan gives you the best chance of success.

If I'm understanding the study, it involves modifying a person's own T-cells so they withstand an attack by the HIV virus. Since the goal is to repair the immune system and improve the immune response, the body could, in theory, rid itself of HIV and fight off any new exposures. If that happens, it actually would be a cure. Unfortunately, the study hasn't gotten very far -- it is still in phase 1 and a long way away from an actual treatment.

**Standard disclaimer: I'm not a doctor and my response shouldn't be taken as medical advice.** Stimulation / pressure on the prostate from the rectum can cause leakage of semen. Stimulation could come from a number of sources, such as fingers probing the anal cavity, from the use of dildos, from a penis during anal sex, or from a bowel movement -- especially if there is excessive straining due to constipation, to name a few. Whether and how much is leaked would involve an number of factors such as age, muscle tone, type and duration of stimulation, etc. Generally speaking, most healthy males don't leak precum during bowel movements ( unless they're jacking off while doing so.) If you are leaking due to straining to produce a bowel movement, you might reevaluate your diet to make sure you are getting enough fiber and taking in enough fluids. If you are leaking without straining or from some other stimulation, you could have a urinary tract infection, enlarged prostate, or some other medical issue you should address with your doctor. On the other hand, if you're turned on by the feeling, then edge yourself for a while before and while on the toilet so that you are right on the edge as your dump slides through.

There are a lot of factors that effect how one responds to treatment and it can be a long process to bring the body back into balance. There will be times when VL spikes or CD4 dips as your body begins to heal and recalibrate your immune system. Don't get discouraged or impatient, or get hyper-focused on a particular lab result. Instead, do what you can to support your body with a halfway decent diet, do a little exercise, get some sleep, and try not to overindulge in the unhealthy things.

I definitely prefer piss that has a little "bite" to it. I want it to smell and taste like piss. In my opinion, the worst piss is the kind that has been corrupted by other flavors. Tobacco, coffee, and artificial sweeteners tend to overpower the natural flavor of piss.

If you can imagine it, someone is into it. I know of a couple guys who fall into that category. One in particular has certain toilet fetishes and likes to be tied up, humiliated, used, edged, and cock ridden til he cums. He considers himself a top since he does not get fucked and doesn't suck, but on the fetish side, he likes things that might usually be thought of as a bottom's role. On the other side, there are power bottoms who like to be aggressive, take control, and make a top cum. So yes, there are tops who like to be passive or humiliated in some way. People are complicated and not everyone fits neatly into arbitrary categories. There can be a lot of overlap and reversal in roles -- particularly when it comes to kinks and fetishes.

I've suffered with allergies all my life so same issue. When sinuses are congested, I have to breathe through my mouth which can be difficult when that space is taken up by a cock. Unfortunately, I haven't found anything that works for me long term. I can sometimes get sinuses to open by inhaling aromatics (like mint or eucalyptus) or sucking on a menthol cough drop. (I don't do poppers, but sometimes I huf Tiger Balm.) Hopefully there are some others out there with better tips because we all need more cock.

Since the expiration date can be up to 5 years past manufacture, they may be 20 year old condoms. At that age, you could probably offer them on ebay. List them as "Vintage" and sell them for 10 times what you paid for them. 🤑

My profiles always clearly state what I'm looking for. Even though I'm a hosting bottom looking for anal loads, I'll routinely get messages asking if I'll top. asking if I have a glory hole, or If I'd travel 30 miles and just give a blow job. How I answer stupid questions depends on my mood and can vary from *ignore*, to patiently requesting they re-read my profile, to sarcasm. I usually opt for sarcasm -- especially if they get huffy after I've told them, "No". My answers to the three questions you were asked would probably be something like: 1. Do you have condoms? Answer: Yes! They'll fit nicely over your face. If you're nice I might snip off the tip so you can breathe. 2. Where do you want me to cum? Answer: How about Cincinnati. I've never been there. 3. Do you like being fucked? Answer: In the ass? Yes. In the head by morons who can't read a fucking profile? Not so much. Sarcasm is one of my true joys in life. I highly recommend it.

I don't like packets since they can be hard to open, and can't be resealed so any leftovers make a mess as they leak all over. Instead, I'd recommend finding a small bottle of lube. You can get Swiss Navy Lubes in pump bottles as small as 1 ounce. They are pretty perfect for parties since they won't spill, contain enough to get you through a few nights, but are small enough to easily carry. And with the small size, you won't get pissed off if you happen to lose it. I'm sure other brands have similar if you look. Or, as @Bibttmmiami said, get a small travel bottle to bring your favorite lube.

OH NO!! It's another "Spectrum" analysis that surely will validate my very existence, or, expose my deepest weaknesses and devour my soul. The intense pressure is nerve-wracking. Will my preferences be confirmed or will I need to change my ... undies? Oh. It's just about underwear. Yeah -- I've got all those so I guess I win.

Unfortunately it seems, in their effort to compete with the other hook-up apps, Squirt has almost killed the one unique (and in my opinion the best) feature it had. It is still there, but much harder to use. If you are in the Cruise section, you can find category filters by clicking on the icon that looks like a funnel. That will bring up listings for your search within (I think) a 200 mile radius around your current location. The same goes for searching for guys -- you can click on the funnel and narrow your search. If you want to find resources for a location you plan on visiting, you have to manually change your location to that area and then do a search. It's a real pain in the ass, however I don't know of another app where you can search for some of the categories available on Squirt. I know a lot of people have complained to them, and they did some tweaks, but I'm hoping they see the value in the search functions that used to be available and bring back something similar, or at least reactivate the "legacy" version.

I love the idea of a line of Fetish Scents. Two that should be made are: A Whiff of Fart, and ABS Backroom. A Whiff of Fart would be a light, elusive scent, suitable for any time of day. ABS Backroom would be fuller bodied evening scent, perfect for a night out with friends. As for Urine, while I love the idea, I think you would soon see the market flooded with imitators. You'd also have dozens of You Tubers producing "How To" videos showing how to make your own Urine. A business model centered around Urine would soon be down the drain. Instead of a fragrance, I think Urine would be better served as a powdered sports drink. Anytime you wanted to have a glass of Urine, you just pour out the packet and fill the glass with piss ....

I just eat a high fiber cereal for breakfast. At the risk of sounding like a commercial, Kellogg's Bran Buds has 17 g fiber in a 1/2 cup serving. I usually eat about a 1/4 cup so that give me around 9 g fiber which is about what you get from the psyllium powder. It's not very flavorful, but easy to mix with something else if you're not a cardboard connoisseur.

First you need to clearly define what is important to you. If you are (for example) looking for a boyfriend, or want someone with soft, smooth, kissable lips, then hold onto your standards, whatever they may be. But if your goal is to get dick -- lots of dick -- and lots of cum, think in terms of broadening your level of acceptance. Drop any preconceptions about appearance and focus solely on cock. Just because a guy may have a less than attractive face or less than ideal physique, that doesn't mean he can't give you a good fuck. So keep the lights off, wear a hood or blindfold if you want, get your ass up, lubed and ready so the only thing you need to anticipate is a cock sliding into your hole. Remember: there are no ugly guys in a dark room. Stinky maybe, but not ugly.

This depends on circumstances. If I had a boyfriend, I'd want to be able to fuck all night. If I'm cruising, I want a quick cum so I can get on to the next fuck. My ideal in any situation would be a multi-cummer. The faster he cums, the sooner he can work on the next load.

I think that calls for another glass of Jameson! I read the Koran. Can't remember any of it. Also read the Bible, Upanishads, teaching of the Buddha, Confucius, Chang Tzu, and more. Can't remember them either. For true insight, I recommend the writings of Dorothy Parker, Samuel Clemons, Groucho Marx, and Ben Franklin. But I think the best religious quote I know is one of my own: "Anything that needs to be interpreted from the Divine, can be manipulated by men."

A couple random thoughts .... Yes, the word "homosexual" is a bit outdated. Victorian Era terminology tends to be a bit ... stuffy... at best. I hate acronyms. I always have to look them up and often confuse them with something else that uses the same acronym. GLAAD? Yeah -- had to look that up. It's a media organization that advocates for better ways to portray gays, et al. in the media. I can understand why they'd suggest moving away from use of the term "homosexual", but I can't say I like their alternative. "Same Gender Loving" sounds so ... 1960's. Images of monochrome daisies and the song "Happy Together" danced through my head when I read that term. I guess 1960 is better than 1860, but it still seems more than half a century out of date. And back to the acronym. SGL is an abbreviation for "single". I can understand the desire to update terms, but don't do it in way that can cause confusion in other ways. What or who are "Reddit /askgaybro and by YTube pundits like Brad Polumbo."? We never had those in the 1960's.

If I had that much cum in a bowl, it would definitely go in my hole. At that point, my ass would become a cum dispenser. I'd let a little leak out to drip down my legs, then catch some to rub om my cock and lick it off my fingers. The rest, I'd slowly release to lick up. Hopefully, I'd get fucked a few more times using the cum for lube and adding fresh loads into the mix. If I had a bed buddy, I'd be willing to share. Put half in each of our holes, then felch the loads out of each other.

"Sorry Politics, but I'm just not into you. At first, I thought we had something together. I thought we had things in common and could build better lives together. But the more time we spend together, the more I see you were only using me. I'm tired of your empty promises. I'm tired of your denial and the blame game that every discussion falls into. I'm tired of your blatant disregard for facts and the truth. I'm tired of all your little 'projects' and 'power trips' and how you always wind up making me pay for it in the end. We're through. I'm leaving. But before I walk out this door, I have one last thing to ask you: Do you want to fuck me one more time?"