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I have allergies that make it difficult for me to be around smokers, so someone smoking while we're having sex is out. That said, I don't mind a smoker being on the other side of a gloryhole, or outside where there is good ventilation. The exception to that is if they are smoking (what I assume is) cannabis oil. That stuff makes me nauseous and I can't handle being around it.
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I think it's the position and angle of the penis. Instead of sliding along the rectum it can end up jabbing the side. If a bottom is having trouble taking your cock, try a different position. -
The closest bathhouse to me is over 100 miles away, so it's rarely my destination. Instead, if I happen to be in that area for something, I'll stay at the bath over-night instead of getting a motel room. If I get fucked while I'm there, then great. If It's slow, I get a few hours of sleep. Either way, it's a win for me.
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Yes. I'm not into insects or other vermin being around, however being someplace grungy is mentally freeing. It loosens inhibitions so I feel I can do whatever the fuck I want. And, I assume anyone else in that place has a similar attitude.
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Yes. Obviously, making babies is biology, however, societies have always used couple dynamics as a means of building a power base (through arranged marriages) and controlling the masses (by requiring the permission of the church or government to wed). The term, "straight", as it refers to sexuality, has only been in use for about 50 years. It was coined as a response to the use of the term, "gay", that was gaining popularity to describe it's opposite. The problem with these terms is that they preclude the possibility of something present in the middle. Strict adherence to the terminology disrupts what should be normal friendships and interactions between people. Same gender friendships can no longer be close for fear of being perceived as "gay". The terms used to describe sexuality are relatively modern constructs, and even at that, the meaning of these terms has changed over time. I recommend this article if you're interested in how some of the terms were created: [think before following links] https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20170315-the-invention-of-heterosexuality
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One thing religious organizations are good at is: being deceptive. While I wouldn't hold the sites completely "blameless", it's possible they didn't know who was buying the data. I couldn't read the article you linked since it's behind a subscriber wall, but the first line says the money was funneled through a 501c3, which could have obscured the buyers and their intent. Also the data could have been sold through a data broker, so again, the sites wouldn't have known who was buying it. (If anyone can read the article and confirm the sites knowingly sold data to religious organizations, I'll stand corrected.) What bothers me more than adult sites selling data is that religious organizations have millions of tax free dollars available to spend on it. It would seem to me that if they were serious about their mission, they could find better uses for that money.
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I'd never heard of Sam Smith nor had I heard the song in question, so I did a quick search on youtube to see if there was anything controversial in the song or video. Here is my review following a single listen: In my opinion, the whole thing is pretty Meh. The backing track is a basic disco/house beat, and while I think the vocals have some similarity to the sound of George Michael, it lacks his sexy soulful inflection. Overall, I found the song to be bland, sanitized, and formulaic. It definitely lacks the raw sex drive I can hear in Frankie's "Relax" or the blatant imagery of songs by soft cell and others. The video seemed to be an over-produced lip-sync number, staged in a rented castle -- I wonder if they booked it on AirBnB. There wasn't much rhyme or reason to the choreography, however the synchronized butt clenching was, at least, somewhat amusing. Beyond that, there are one or two things that might raise an eyebrow if you are a fan of elevator Musak, however I didn't find anything in the production that I'd consider disgusting or outrageous, and, unfortunately, there wasn't anything that I found particularly erotic. So., my final opinion is: the song is ok but not good enough to go on a playlist. As for the video -- it's just that. It's fantasy to go along with the song. Anyone who finds it offensive probably wouldn't be listening to Sam Smith anyway. But, of course, some people intentionally look for things that they can be outraged about.
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There is nothing wrong with waiting until you are older to have sex, and you should never let anyone else -- or let yourself -- put yourself down for waiting. I think there are a few advantages to waiting. Age usually brings a certain level of maturity so that you can approach sex with a clearer head and make more informed decisions about what types of activities turn you on and what type of risks you might be willing to take. You know about prep, and condoms, and other vaccines that may be beneficial to have. You may also have a better idea of what your interests are than you did when you were younger. This is important since our interests can often change as we age. You said you were hoping to meet the "right" person, however, someone you met ten years ago might not have changed or matured in the same way you did,, and thus, no longer be "right". (That's why a lot of people who get married young end up getting divorced,) Waiting to have sex or start dating may help bring about more stable relationships. As to whether others would see an inexperienced partner as a turn off, it's going to depends on the situation. There may be a few guys looking for a quick fuck that may be turned off. On the other hand, someone looking for a long term partner might see it as a plus. But the vast majority aren't going to care one way or the other. Sex is fun, sex can feel really good, but it isn't all that complicated. And from the stand point of will someone dislike you for not having experience -- that's something you don't have to worry much about.
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I like fucking in bathhouses and bookstores, but I had a couple situations occur recently and was curious what other would do. One situation was this:, I was getting fucked leaning over the back of a couch. The top had his hands wrapped around my hips, pulling me back onto his cock. It felt good, however, it's also made me need to pee. It wouldn't be a problem for me since I love piss play, however it's not always polite to do in a public place, so what's the best thing to do? Would you: 1. stop the fuck so you can use the restroom then come back and hope the top hasn't moved on to someone else. 2. Tell the top he's going to make you piss and leave it up to him whether to stop or change positions, etc. Or 3. Keep quiet and when you cant hold it just piss on the couch and floor. I think there are advantages / disadvantage to each option. I'm curious what other bottoms have done or would do in that situation. also curious what tops would want a bottom to do.
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Every condom brand is different. They all vary slightly in size, materials, and lube, so if you want to use condoms, try different brands, and if you find one that works for you, insist on that, or bare. That's what I do. I found that I could not use latex. Latex would leave me feeling sore and burnt. Non-latex condoms seem to be OK to me. For me, If someone wants to use a condom, it has to be non-latex.
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What do you do when tops want to fuck with condoms?
funpozbottom replied to Bttml00king's topic in General Discussion
While I prefer fucking bare, I want a top to be comfortable, so if he wants to use a condom, I'll take it -- as long as it isn't latex. I insist on non-latex condoms. Latex condoms are evil. -
When I started to have wet dreams about a boy I liked at school, I couldn't deny I was gay. Unfortunately, I didn't want to be gay and couldn't accept it for a long time.
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Eating Food from Sloppy Hole
funpozbottom replied to adelaidefistpig's topic in Hardcore Fetish FICTION
Food play can be fun and erotic. A couple quick details to keep in mind are: you may want to be a little more meticulous on douching, otherwise your food may get a little more "chunky" than expected. Also, it's best to steer away from anything that is very hot or very spicy as this could irritate the anal lining. Beyond that, it's pretty much up to your imagination as to what you use. Some examples of things I've had in my ass or eaten from an ass are: Bananas. Grapes (feel like little anal beads when you pop them out of your hole). Oatmeal (this is sometimes used by diaper fetishists who want to poop themselves but without the smell and mess. Also good to use to be able to fuck a full hole. Also a part of a good nutritious breakfast). Hot dogs, and sausages. Pasta, with sauce and meatballs. Chocolate candy. Marshmallows (Don't do this one. They melt immediately and turn into a sticky mess. I mean seriously, don't do it.) I never got around to trying it but wanted to try doing a stew. I think that would be fun with the different chunks of meat and veggies, and the drippy gravy. And finally, pumpkin pie with a little whipped cream on top. For inserting stuff, if it's got a bit of form like a hot dog, it can be pushed directly into the hole. If your food is already sort of soft or mushy, you can use a speculum to dilate the anus, or use a pastry bag to squeeze your food into the rectum. The pastry bag is the method I used. Hope that gives you some ideas. Have fun. And, as Julia Child would say: "Bon Appetit!" -
I don't get stoned, but I have thought about stuff like that. I think people who have driven a stick have an edge. Driving a stick isn't just moving the shifter back and forth. You develop an instinct for when to shift by listening to the engine and feeling the performance of the vehicle as you drive. Just as you develop an instinct for how to stroke a penis by listening to moans and feeling the movement of the body under your fingers. Both strings and percussion instruments help one develop a sense of rhythm and time, but I think I would give a slight edge to guitar and other string players as the finger dexterity might be helpfully in giving a handjob. On the other hand, I think playing a flute/wind instrument might be better for blow jobs as you add the element of breath and coordinated movement between the mouth and fingers. I don't see an advantage either way for lifting weights, however, you might be able to come up with some interesting positions to have sex with the help of some exercise equipment. I think having smaller hands might be a slight advantage in certain situations. For example, large hands might have trouble keeping a grasp on a small penis. Of course in that situation, I'd just pop it in my mouth and let my hands explore other areas.
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When I was a teen, I wished I had an identical twin I could explore with. We'd have the same fetishes, kinks, and desires, and the same level of horny lust. So, yes, back then I definitely would have fucked myself. As for today, I'm still looking for my twin.
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drink from urinals: can I get in trouble for that?
funpozbottom replied to tomzefis's topic in Watersports Discussion
It's only illegal if you get caught. I'm not a legal expert but I don't think there are any laws specifically against it. I suppose if someone wanted to make an issue out of it, you could be charged with being a public nuisance for hanging around the men's room, or if you put something in the the urinal that stopped it from flushing properly, you could be accused of vandalism. However, it's probably unlikely that it would go that far. If you were caught, you could always claim that you just saw the cup and were trying to get rid of it. You wouldn't have to admit that you were the one that put it there or that you were going to drink the contents. Most likely the worst that would ever happen would be getting asked to leave the club. An empty cup in the urinal is probably the most effective way to get piss, but if you are worried about potential problems, you could avoid any accusations of vandalism by putting the cup on top of the urinal (assuming there is a ledge) instead of inside. Put a post-it on it that says something like: "Can you fill the cup?" You may not get as much random piss, but drunk guys like challenges so you'll probably get someone to go for it. Plus, you'd know that anyone who pissed in it did it intentionally for you. Another thing you could try is placing an empty bottle in a stall with a note like: "Recycle beer here". It would provide the challenge and a more private spot for some guy to take it. The down side to this is you might get someone who spits it the bottle. Old tobacco spit is not something you want to taste, -
Growing up what wdid you use before you discovered dildos?
funpozbottom replied to Sqwert's topic in General Discussion
The first things that probed my ass, when I was around 6 or 7, were toy soldiers and a pen. Later, in my teens, I had a "director's chair". I could slide the back off and slide my ass onto one of the supports. Hot dogs and bananas were good too as I could quickly eat the evidence. -
Florida tops and bottoms
funpozbottom replied to DaddyD's topic in Tampa / St. Petersburg / Sarasota
I live in Gainesville but spent a lot of time in the bookstores around there until gas prices soared and the monkeypox outbreak. If I was down there now I'd be begging to take your loads. -
My father passed away over 10 years ago so it would be a bit ... problematic ... if he showed up at a glory hole now. I don't know if I could get over the whole Zombie-back-from-the-dead vibe I'm sure he'd be giving off. But seriously, it's an interesting question because I've never been attracted to anyone in my family, but I've sucked the cocks of guys that I wasn't attracted to, just to get the load. So, yeah, it wouldn't matter if it was a relative or I knew the guy from somewhere -- I'd suck it. If it had happened back when I was in the closet, it definitely would have weirded me out and I wouldn't have known how to act around him for a while afterwards. If it happened now (zombies excluded) it wouldn't be a big deal. A cock coming through a glory hole is there to be sucked, and I'd like having that secret knowledge of getting him off.
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Personally, I don't really see it as "encouragement" to use dildos instead of fuck. It looks like a simple list of "facilities" available to encourage everyone to come. The item that caught my eye was listing the showers as: "Watersports Friendly!" That, to me, would seem to be a bigger draw than a toy washing sink.
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The first think I notice (not only in sexual situations, but just in general) is smells. Some smells draw you in and excite you while others repel. As soon as I enter a room, I notice the smell. At a bookstore, taking in the lingering smell of sex sets the mood even before I've connected with anyone. Touch is also important. I'm dyslexic and can have trouble recognizing visual signals, but a touch on my ass clearly gets my attention. Finger tips pressed against me, body heat, the sensation of hot piss dripping from and cooling on my body; all heighten my awareness of my presence and place. Combining touch and smell, I get taste. I have the sensation and taste of a cock in my mouth, or my tongue licking over an asshole. I tend to tune out sounds when I have sex. While the right sounds can help to set a mood beforehand, during sex, I find a lot of sounds to be more of a distraction than a turn on.
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There is a big difference between having a right to hold a belief and having a belief that you are right.
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Not using condoms vs. Bareback sex
funpozbottom replied to amanwithaplan333's topic in General Discussion
Is there a difference between sex without condoms and barebacking? Let me ask you this: Is there a difference between an afternoon tea party and a pre-game tailgater? Of course there's a difference. You participate in one when you are feeling posh and trendy, and you participate in the other when you're too wasted to realize that sliding a hot grill under your car's gas tank isn't a good idea. It's exactly the same with bare sex. ... but seriously ... I think I understand the distinction you are making. As prep has become more available, more guys seem to be willing to go without a condom, but with conditions or only in some circumstances. For example, they might do it bare with regular partners but not random / anonymous hook-ups. These guys are probably still in the process of assessing the risks / rewards of going bare. Contrast that to regular barebackers who have already decided that the rewards outweigh the risks, and will always be willing to fuck bare. While I see that there may be some distinction to be made, it doesn't make a difference to me when deciding to have sex. I don't care about the guy's rationale for using or not using a condom. All I want is to make him cum. -
Does anyone know what bible verse is used as rationalization to justify that position?
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I have had problems with swallowing pills all my life. I've found the easiest way for me to take meds is to swallow it in a bite of food. Take a bite of something you like, chew it up and just before you swallow, slip the pill in your mouth and swallow it all together. You might have to try a couple different foods to figure out what texture works best for you. For example, pills might slide right down with something like pudding or applesauce. Or, you might be able to disguise it better if you eat something crunchy. I will say that over time, sucking cock and trying to take cock deeper into my throat had the added benefit of helping me relax and open my throat when it comes to taking pills. I can swallow pills now, but I still prefer to take them with food as described above. There is research on extended release medications -- primarily with the injectable meds. Currently, dosing is every other month but I think 6 month dosing is in trials, Hopefully soon all of us people who have problems with pills will have more options.
