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I view this question as a false dichotomy. It doesn't have to be an either/or, it can be a "yes, and." Barebacking is just having sex for me, and for most folks on here and many out and about in the world. Whether Prep, chasing, U+, Toxic, or any other variation on the theme, a lot of us fuck without the thought of a condom even entering the conversation. I know personally I've not bought condoms, picked up a free condom, had a sexual partner use or indicate the use of a condom, etc. in well over a decade, the thought of having penetrative sex that isn't bareback isn't even a thing in my mind. So barebacking is sex. At the same time, there are absolutely guys out there who get off on breeding, and have fetishized the injection of semen into a receptacle hole. Whether it's toxic tops looking to knock up neg holes; whether it's dirty talking about getting the bottom pregnant and shooting seed deep into the bottom; whether it's gamifying sex by tracking loads given or bottoms bred; or some other means, some tops breed as a fetish beyond merely having sex. And just as much, some bottoms are getting off on the flip side of the tops (be it chasing, impregnation, gamifying load taking, etc). Cumdumping, e.g., is fetishizing barebacking by collecting tons of loads. So I think it's both, and it just depends on the person which one predominates.

Oh, there's a bunch of toy brands that make quite enjoyable products. Of course there's the Square Peg and Topped Toys and Hankey's options, but Friendly Toys is a newer brand that I've tried a toy from and enjoyed... there's the whole Bad Dragon lineup, including some great ffriendly options and some real variety... I've been seeing more and more stuff lately for Nothosaur... But honestly, once you find what works for you, keep riding it

Oh absolutely, helps take the edge off. There's also a difference between a stretching feeling and "hit the panic button" feeling, but the difference is psychological. Your ass can fit what it can fit, and can't fit what it can't fit. That sounds obvious, but what I mean is that it can fit more than you give it credit for, it can stretch and accommodate, but if something cannot fit, simply attempting to sit on it won't magically make it fit. That said, something can fit, but your brain doesn't believe it fits and your nervous system fights you on accepting the fit. So poppers, keeping calm and centered, other aids, etc. are all ways of focusing on being open and receptive, and overcoming the mental hurdle that's blocking further advancement. Work up to it incrementally, and when you get to the point where you're like "this is stretched, wow" but you can still manage it, freak your brain out a bit and push the boat out. It's like any other skill, if you don't train to push past your current level/limit, you won't ever improve, but you also wont' backslide, you'll just get comfortable and VERY slowly you'll improve over time by micro-moving the goal posts naturally. But if you want to improve at something, you have to make effort beyond your current ability.

I know. number of bottoms that don't use poppers, one faints at literally just a whiff, and a few others because of medical conditions poppers are a bad mix. Poppers and other substances definitely can elevate bottoming to new heights, but sometimes even I just take dick straight up, no aids/enhancements just because it can feel really amazing, and it's nice to remember what my baseline is.

I love a good anal orgasm. A talented top, esp a talented hung top, will fuck an orgasm right outta me and I have to work to not just give in and cum. A less talented top, he won't make me cum but I can use him to make myself cum. I love anal orgasms because you can slow play them, experience them all at once, break them up into spurts, let them wash over you like waves and keep going, etc. Basically any way of cumming that isn't just stimulating a penis to completion, I'm gonna argue, is a better, longer, stickier orgasm worth chasing.

This is an interesting question because a condom has not been seen, nor has mention of it been heard, in like a decade. I genuinely didn't know that anyone still used them (well, straights and high schoolers I guess)...

So there's two separate things here, a loose sloppy hole, and puffy lips. We need to take them in turn: 1. A loose sloppy hole is achievable by regular stretching, but it's important to define how you want it loose and sloppy. A plug like Mr S's WMCBP is great for feeling stretched on the inside, but doesn't work the hole at all (other than insertion/removal), rather the neck is tiny AF to make it comfortable for long-term wear. Or a Mare Maker from Topped Toys goes deeper and stretches the hole in more directions than a Square Peg egg plug. Meanwhile one of the Hankey's penis-shaped-but-very-oversize toys will stretch you out but also will go deep, and by riding it, there's no narrowed neck so you also train your hole to loosen. Whatever metric you're using for "loose sloppy hole" you train your hole by taking what is comfortable, then pushing to what is past comfortable a bit more every time until what's not doable is the new baseline, and you keep pushing it forward. So if you have a toy you can't yet take, find something else with slightly smaller measurements, and take that before working up to the "reach" toy. Also, though, if you can take it and it hurts, you can still take it. At that point, it's all mental, not physical, just breathe, hit the poppers, and try and hold it for a count of 10. Or, push it out, wait for the hole freakout to end, and pop it back in. You aren't a failure if you can't take it like a champ, everyone's hole is different. Just keep putting in the work and you'll get there. 2. Puffy lips - that may or may not happen for you, point blank. Everyone's hole is different, and some guys get a beautiful deep-looking hole that rosebuds like nobody's business, others get a super puffy punched-out look, others it's almost visually like a thin rim, and so on. If you're pummeling your hole (or someone else is) and when it's at its most use and worn and blown out it's not looking puffy, that's probs just not your hole type, and chasing that visual might lead to hemorrhoids...

So I'm a total bottom, and have gotten more and more into chastity over the years until at this point I'm effectively living permalocked. I don't jerk off, I don't get my dick sucked, I don't top, and I certainly don't have penile orgasms. Why not? Because once I started having anal orgasms, throat orgasms, and fistgasms, the relative lack of intensity and "meh" of a simple penile orgasm stopped being interesting to me. I don't miss cumming the conventional way.

This speaks to me, as I'm someone that can definitely cum from having my throat fucked super aggressively. Like, gag-the-fag skull fuckery is 100% a pathway to my having a massive orgasm. And I love throating cock as much as I love getting my hole destroyed. More to the original prompt though, I think some guys are absolutely naturals when it comes to sucking dick, just like everything else. Giving head is a combination of proclivity and ability, and where your gag reflex really starts, how good you are at suppressing it, how easily you're able to train your throat to take a dick deeper and hold it down longer, or take longer deeper strokes in and out. Just like anything else, it is a skillset that can be learned and improved, but I think there's absolutely fellow cocksucking pigs who naturally excel at the task, just like there's some bottoms who practically fall onto their first fist and others who spend years working up to it.

I'm effectively a permalocked chastity bottom, my fertility couldn't matter less if it tried.

As a total bottom, I've never asked a top to pull out to cum, and while intellectually I understand it, it baffles me that anyone wouldn't want a sexy load flooding their pig hole.

How's a 253?

It's hot as a fantasy, although as someone with a very hairy ass, I need some lube to help things glide in without hairs clinging. It's just the reality of a very hairy hole, sadly.

Can I feel the top cumming in me, absolutely. Can I feel the cum itself shooting/leaking out? Only if (1) the cumshot is so hard that I feel it hitting my innards (like the "shoots the ceiling" kind of cumshot), or (2) if it's so voluminous that I can feel the liquid of it sloshing around in me.

I'm locked in a microcage for Locktober, and was traveling this past weekend, and I hit it off with this super hot, hung muscle daddy. He had these beautiful big biceps and the sexiest thighs that squeezed me in while he tied my hands together, bound my arms, and brought my legs back with a rope sling. Then he face-fucked me until I had slimed his cock so he could flip me over and fuck me deep in my guts until he finally shot his load and I used my hole to milk him until he couldn't stay hard anymore and collapsed onto me in a panting heap.

I've burned myself before, it's not pleasant. It's happened twice that I can recall, and both times I was lying on my back, getting fucked, and I craned my neck forward/head up to take a hit of poppers from a full bottle and mis-judged the angle of how "upright" I had to keep the bottle.

Two thoughts: 1. Yes, you should wear it, and no, it's not "too much." Aside from chastity increasingly mainstreaming over the last several years (do to the combined impacts of COVID lockdown/solo kink exploration, better cages on the market, and more and more folks on social media embracing chastity), you should do what makes you feel comfortable and if someone else isn't into having sex with you for that reason, perhaps that's not the dick you needed in you compared to someone else's who's more comfortable with it. 2. I go to orgies all the time where folks who want to exclusively 100% bottom are in jockstraps (or assless underwear of some kind), and they get plenty of play. So if you're worried about the cage piece of it specifically for this crowd, (a) just wear a jockstrap the whole time and guys'll get that it's not your cock you want to focus on because you've not taken it out, and/or (2) wear the jockstrap over the cage so it's not so prominent as a focal point for the vanilla gays.

MANY times. It feels amazing.

I was hanging with a friend who's a fisting bottom, and also hung. We decided to play, and got super stoned together before I turned him into a poppers pig. I open him up, and get to fisting, really pummeling his hole. While he was gooning on fisting and poppers, I unlocked his chastity cage and started to deepthroat him, and he came almost instantly straight into my gut, didn't even taste it. The second load took a lot more work and he wore my throat out so good. Best two loads I've had in a while, and I couldn't even taste the cum he nutted so deep.

I never thought I was a bottom when I started having sex. I thought I was vers because I didn't know any better and figured i should try both, and I was frankly a crappy bottom and a shitty top. I quickly figured out I was trying to do what I thought the other guy wanted, and it was just not working. And I knew my limits as a potential top, so decided to, the next time, just go in as a bottom. And when I stopped caring about my dick and really focused on taking dick well, I knew I'd basically stop toping ever.

Sure, all the time, no-brainer as long as the bottom prepped properly and is tidy back there. I don't see how ass-to-mouth for me is all that different. So long as the ass is prepped and tidy, it's a suckable dick.

I've had anal orgasms on full, half, and empty bladders. Further, sometimes I think it's an empty bladder (e.g. I just finished peeing before we start fucking), and a top still manages to fuck more piss out of me.

I definitely have anal orgasms that don't involve ejaculation. When it comes to bottoming, I have anal orgasms with cum, anal orgasms with piss (pissgasms), and dry anal orgasms. They all share the same wash of euphoria and the same pressure release, the only difference is what the contractions in what my pelvic muscles are physically pushing out of me as they pulse and spasm, if anything. In the last few years, I also unlocked the throatgasm, where I can orgasm from getting throat fucked hard. In terms of how long they last, I think of them as buildable, meaning that once I crest that first peak, I can lean into it or fight it, and if I fight it it usually just accelerates the sensation and forces me to cum harder. Whereas if I lean into it and ride with it, it can lengthen the time between crests and slow-play an orgasm over potentially up to 15 minutes; there I have peaks and dips but all of it is riding high on that orgasmic plane, and only once I feel the come down do I know it's over. Honestly, the best thing I ever did for my orgasms was lock up in a tiny chastity device and force my penis to not be part of the narrative. When the orgasm has zero penile stimulation involved, I can ride it so much futher and deeper than I ever could from a cumshot.

There's no one perfect solution because different cocks/positions. You're most likely to stimulate process when the top is fucking you in an upward angled direction toward the bladder/gut. Think, typically, fucking facing each other, where his thrusts are up/into you. However, if he's got a curve, it could be reversed for him. So the only universal answer is whatever angle not push right into your gut, and angle toward the other way.