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To all the bottoms out there...i just found out that i have prostate cancer and, after a lot of research and deliberation, i've decided to have my prostate removed. My question is this...how has the sex been when you're getting fucked and there is no prostate to help stimulate the feeling? Is it feel less exciting or ????

Depending on what your PSA levels are and how long ago you had them taken will determine what you and your Urologist discuss. If it's been two or three months since you had your PSA test, he might just order another test to see if your levels have gone up. He'll probably discuss your choices if they have gone up, like having a biopsy done. Whatever you talk about, i wish you the best and wish you good health!!!!

Thanks PosBearWI...if guys here want me to, i will give updates on my progress. May yours stay in the "monitor" stage!!! The thoughts of being a very active 66 year old and then not being able to get an erection and/or having to wear a diaper or even the best scenario, not being able to actually cum fluids during an orgasm are really fucking with my mind. Thanks again for the hugs!!

i have been a sub for two past Owners and have been taught a LOT during each Ownership about being a good sub. Yes, i agree that safe words are essential, plus limits and building up trust in each other are important as well. But i have to disagree with the statement i quoted above. A sub's "job" is to surrender, submit and serve it's Dom/me, not to try and "Top" from the bottom. If my Dom/me wants to blindfold me, tie me to a tree out in the backyard and invite friends over using me as a centerpiece for a party (and W/e have mutually agreed on this), then it is Their choice, PERIOD! A good sub surrenders it's power to it's Dom/me. When i would go into a session, i went in knowing that i would submit to my Dom/me's wishes and would be honored and thankful for Their attention. my "power" was never an option.

I was just diagnosed with prostate cancer. The Gleason scores on my 12 biopsies were 1 3-3, 1 4-3 and the rest were 3-4, which put me in the treatment category. I am someone that does research above the normal. I've already talked to a Radiologist and Urologist about both radiation treatments and prostate removal. I used to race bicycles for what is now called the "LiveStrong Foundation" and contacted their prostate cancer Doctor on call as well. They all said that the radiation seeding, the freezing and the heating techniques were already outdated and weren't recommended for treatment much any more. I had heard about this procedure called IRE...the brand name is called "Nanoknife"... where they insert needles into the prostate and send electrical currents through the actual cancer cells destroying the membrane of the cancer cell itself. It is still in the trial stage with only 121 participants so far, so my Blue Cross Blue Shield will not cover the estimated $35,000 cost. Money not being a real obstacle for me, i actually spoke to one of only a handful of Doctors that perform IRE here in the United States...Dr. Brent Sharpe at Georgia Urology...and he was very frank about the procedure. It is only 25-85% effective at this time and may require a 2nd treatment. All three of my doctors recommended both a decipher score from my 4-3 biopsy sample and a PETscan before i make any decisions on which of the three procedures to have done...PETscan is to show if there is any other cancer located in my body and is scheduled for next week. The decipher score will let me know if I'm in the "Upper Abnormal" or the "Lower Abnormal" score. There is a clinical trial still going on, so if I'm in the "Lower Abnormal" half, my radiation treatments will be paid for by the trials. But I will have to take a testosterone-reducing drug to qualify, which I'm hesitant about doing. A couple notes about the three...if you do radiation treatments, none of my Doctors recommended having my prostate removed if the cancer comes back...BUT...the reverse can be done. Both radiation AND prostate removal will cause me to have permanent "dry orgasms"...no more fluids...but the IRE treatment will still allow me to cum fluids. The percentages for both ED and incontinence were very close...around 85-90% success rate, especially with the new nerve-saving robotic surgery technology now used. I love to sound, but sounding is NOT recommended after any of the three procedures, especially prostate removal. That's about it so far. If you have any questions, feel free to message me. I have been researching prostate cancer for about 2 months now and have learned a LOT!

To amend my earlier post with..."and have this done in public, maybe onstage at a sex club"!

my fisting fantasy is to actually be able to take a fist armpit deep. I'm up to taking a 1" diameter toy 22" deep or a 2" diameter toy 18" deep, but can't seem to get past the 2" mark at stretching the inner ring. That's what is making armpit deep a fantasy instead of a reality.

Erotic conversation, whether it's the spoken or written word. Some of the stories and comments that i read here, and elsewhere, can make me so hard, horny and turned on. When a Top tells me what and/or how he's going to use me, excites me to no end. The mind and the imagination can be very powerful things!!

i've been in deep anal training for about 2 years now. i can now fit a 22" (55.88cm) long x 1" (2.54cm) diameter OR a 12" (30.48cm) long x 2" (5.08cm) diameter all the way inside. It takes time and patience and a LOT of lube! For me, positioning and breathing are key. In my 2 years, i have yet had any blood issues, unless i tried to push thru that "inner ring", "3rd hole", "2nd ring", etc... too fast. Positioning, patience, practice and LOTS AND LOTS of lube!!

Ummmm...YES!!! 😁😁

i guess, by the "new" definition, i crave, and am working towards being a true faggot then...a total submissive faggot!

If my Top wants me to cum, i will cum. It's that simple for me...He is in control.

For having too much of a kinky side.

i only bottomed once for a man who was uncut, but i was so pot and poppered out that i can't really say that it was much different than a cut man! It is one of my many fantasies though...to be lucid the next time it happens!!

my hardest is probably my first time being fucked by a real...not a toy...cock. my friend came over for dinner, but we both knew it was to introduce me to the gay lifestyle. After a bit of teasing and flirting, he threw two pieces of rope that he'd brought under the couch, so the ends were available to grab on each side. He tied each hand on one side of the couch and then tied each ankle on the other side so i was secured over the back of the couch, facing the front of the couch. He knew that i had been Owned by a Mistress, so that i was familiar with being tied up. Then he put a bottle of poppers under my nose and had me inhale three long times...my head was spinning and my cunt hole was begging for his cock. He applied some lube to my cunt hole, then in one push, his cock was balls deep inside me. He fucked me, slow but deep, for a few minutes then climbed onto the back of the couch and proceeded to ram my asscunt HARD, i mean HARD, for what seemed like 30 minutes, never slowing up, never letting up... The photo is a screen grab, from my hidden camera, from that night...back in 2004.