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Have you ever had your prostate checked?
PozBearWI replied to Sharp-edge's topic in General Discussion
I suspect the sexualizing of prostate exams is done more by tops and 'phobes. If bottoms do it shouldn't matter as they already know how to make rectal entry comfortable. Returning to the main topic; fingers are comparatively small. Even 'big sausage fingers". The difference is trivial in what you'll feel getting your prostate checked. And being a top or bottom is irrelevant. Prostate exam is not a sexual act. It is the physician gaining useful data by touch; which is still an important part of a physical exam. Socially we might have forgotten that doctors use touch, smell, sound, visual queues in their exam. Not every thing is known by blood work, imaging and biopsies. As far as discomfort. The total top and/or homophobic guy who does sexualize prostate exams risk holding a lot of tension; which in turn can make your exam much more uncomfortable. It is better to focus on relaxing, trusting that your doc is gaining helpful data for your benefit. Fretting the size of the probe won't help you. -
So picking up on @BootmanLA; my opinion is that if you can get vaccinated for MonkeyPox go ahead and do it. Just good preventive care... But if your hoops are major; like having to drive three hours each way which happens here in Wisconsin; I would make an effort to fit it into something else. I know a friend of mine who lives in a low transmission area came to an event this past weekend I hosted; and then stayed around to get vaccinated Monday before he went back home. Overall, as we just experienced globally a viral event; and the response was largely isolation (which helped); we seem to be observing more evolutions of virus. Some of this is just population mixing as humans in some parts of the world have been displaced. Viruses which might have been common and somewhat controlled by herd immunity might be new when that population migrates. My opinion is that keeping current on the vaccinations we can may result in fewer surprises. As a point, we're seeing a spike in illness amongst young people with multiple viruses at once. We should not be surprised if we see similar "pile on" effects in our near futures.
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Yes. Perhaps simpler would be to close off topics that have been running a year and let them restart as they will.
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Thanks and I agree. I presume to messaged a mod who might consider relocating? As I was describing, topics sometimes; perhaps even commonly veer off the original post. And in many cases especially when it is an old thread; guys jump in perhaps years into it and rarely go back to the opening and start reading the whole thread from the beginning. I could favor an automated feature where at 12 months they all go into a backroom vault. No matter the topic, keeping it current would make sense. For example, "What's it like to be poz?" thread is several years old. Yes so much has changed from the start of that thread to now. Maybe it would be best split up...
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For me giving or getting our jizz is sort of the point. Yes getting there may not feel so different, but when I head knows that no cum will get into me; that just messes with my head.
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DoxyPEP being rolled out in San Franciso
PozBearWI replied to rawTOP's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
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Nephew!!! Come visit your uncle Jim in Wisconsin... 🙂
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Clearly you're feeling some frustration @Darcicrisis. And indeed as threads often seem to morph the "most appropriate category may as well. As @BootmanLA initially pointed out; this whole thread perhaps should be moved from the originally correct category, to a different spot because it clearly morphed. You @Darcicrisis aren't at fault here. I am unaware of a flag I could set that might alert moderators when any of us observes a thread has veered in a different direction. If there is @BootmanLA I imagine you would know. How can we bring morphed posts to moderator attention?
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Echoing @versmetropig. My relationship is in its 23rd year. We have been sexually open after the first couple of months. Between us our sex life is largely affection more than getting off. More than getting off though; is sharing a life with another human. We've become a family. Aging has introduced challenges to each of us.
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What is the SEXIEST, most EROTIC thing a man has said to you?
PozBearWI replied to Treehugger's topic in General Discussion
Not very demanding here. But it is HAF when a guy tells me stuff while he is unloading in me. Esp when he says stuff like "enjoy this poz load, i hope it takes". -
What annoys you most about gay porn.
PozBearWI replied to Barebackpiggy's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
I may not be the proper judge of whether or not you're crazy for that Kayne. But I agree, the better writing and dialogue the more interesting. And it frustrates me when they pull out for the "money shot" too. The cameraman could just zoom in on the tops taint pulsing which would excite me more. I never like condoms so avoid porn with condoms. -
And when one runs out of "reactions" then just post a reply post. That is sort of the point anyway.
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Do you still cum in a bottom who asks you to pull out?
PozBearWI replied to blktone67's topic in General Discussion
People do strange things. I think it is the nature of our species. I agree though, his precum is also viral and so the notion that pulling out takes away the risk is false. Besides, I just hate the idea of ruining what is hopefully a pleasurable fuck. For my own self almost always, if a guy is putting his cock into me I am intending he unload in me. It is a disappointment to me when he doesn't. Still, no matter; if at any point the top or bottom says "I'm done" (tap out as it were) we should comply. It might very well spell the end of any future encounters. But a tap out (as it were) needs to be respected. One can discuss the reasons and consequences after. Fucking or getting fucked is not a contract. No one is "obligated to finish". But the one agreeing to "A" and getting "B" is equally allowed to disengage from the other party; perhaps permanently. While there is plenty of dom play to imply ownership, it is in fact something not legally allowed (at least here in the US). If someone is told in advance that a tap out is not going to be respected (told using actual spoken words, with check for understanding); the bottom truly made an explicit agreement. They might say something; but I can understand the top thinking "you specifically agreed that I was breeding you even if you protested" is in rather a pickle. Which agreement is he to follow? The bottom would have to be abundantly clear that they know they agreed to it but no longer are agreeing to that. -
There are a few who stay stuck in the weeds of early life. I've met them, sure you have as well. I think life, no matter the circumstances is always finding ones way.
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I don't know if there is some sort of official abuse scale. But it seems clear you were significantly abused @Kayne. I have spoken with others who carried on a sexual relationship with their dad (only) from a young age (not as young as you); who seem to have appreciated that experience and grown from it. But then that wasn't the sort of systematic abuse you endured. Thanks for your post. It sounds like you are finding your way out of that rocky start. Jim
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If he won't fuck me raw than I ask him to let me suck him off. If the cum ins't going in me we can just jack off together.
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As long as you post in the backroom you should be fine. But messaging me them could work too and violates nothing.
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@BootmanLA As always, well said. I imagine there were alliances, "brothers" or "cousins" living together who when alone with each other might very well have enjoyed anal quite a bit. Pre 1970 I am ignorant of bookstores. So they might have always been when I started then. Certainly video had to be simple so super8 might have been the first porn video booth place. And I have no clue if they were women only, men only or mixed in the 50's, 60's and 70's.
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@Kayne I'll be looking for those stories
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I don't know. You snagged part of @Kayne quote as if it were mine. I think he just has a family situation that makes in person connections (and it sounds like even private bate) impossible.
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It would be a pleasure to be the next man you do that with... Jim
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It will vary by polling location here in WI; but locally we split the day into two shifts with a bit of cross over. In a big election I've been known to come back post closing to assist. We're paid hourly (not much, but....).
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I have varied as well, from shaved hole to hairy hole. Right now hairy hole and unshaved dick.
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Yes, same here in Wisconsin. We're a dedicated lot which makes some of the assertions all the more insulting. They haven't done it but think they know...
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On one hand the court might not be entirely wrong. I just think owners of an interstate corporation should not be held to the same standard as a one shop business. Large corporations have, IMO too large a reach already. They fund nonsense ads that in another time were topically experienced by us as humor rather than an assertion. I recall so many of the Q stuff I was reading in the Onion. Only now it seems people read the Onion as if it were a news source rather than the parody it is. I am concerned at what the courts are doing this week. There seems too little mention of the hypocrisy spoken during their so called hearings. I am concerned about our democracy. Being a poll worker here we are preparing for a Presidential sized election meaning we're in for a long day. But, crowds do make my time seem to fly by.
