definitely this. i've never been a fan of condoms anyway, and couldn't even wwatch porn with them.
i try to be good and ask status most of the time, but sometimes my hormones get in the way. i've even tried throwing the wildcare out there that i don't care about status, i just want to know beforehand, but so far nobody has advertised that they were toxic. i would probably go absolutely nuts and demand you fuck me again so I would know you are knocking me up the entire time
i would possibly enjoy pussy more than my ass being the pussy, but your point is perfect.
guys, at least 90% more than women, are up for that "hey you want to fuck?" without having to warm them up to it; 5 minutes of talking vs hours to get them wound up. plus with kink, if i feel like i may never see you again i will be more willing to share some of the kinks i enjoy like piss and other things.