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You are welcome and you are a sexy man with a hot ass I strongly suggest that you also read up on threads here that talk about getting poz and how that will effect your life. Some similar threads on dudesnude.com poz forum as well. It great that you are giving things some thought rather than doing something only to regret it.
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I used to use them a lot in the past. But as a top popper dick is a serious issue! so now I use them sparingly. I dont mind if I dont use them. In the past I used to get a headache. But from another thread in this forum I recently tried JJ platinum and no headaches. Not sure if that true for everyone.
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Tops who want to be rimmed -- Bottoms do you say yes or no?
Totop replied to a topic in General Discussion
What level of cleanliness are you expecting? just asking.I'm a total top so I've never douched in my life as it seems pointless to do so. But I try and clean as well as I can when I shower before sex. If a bottom wants to rim or lightly finger me, I'm fine with that. I don't take it as the wrong message as I'm a total top so in my mind it is firmly established as to who will top whom towards the end of the session without any doubt. If he tries to top me I'll decline. I never ask a bottom to rim be. It is fun but doesn't really do a lot for me as it does for some though I wish it would. A few bottoms just go for it and some are good at it. But I've noticed that most avoid doing it or even avoid touching my hole. Not that that matters to me. -
There is no magic age where people living with HIV drop dead. Actually I've been told by a doc (who is the head of the Immunodeficiency clinic of a major hospital who participates in HIV research) that so long as someone is consistently compliant with their meds, there isnt any difference in life expectancy.Besides, think about it, at 62 you could drop dead of several other diseases. Heart attack or Cancer to mention a couple of big ones. No, I'm not saying got out and get pozzed, I'm saying stop worrying as that stress itself could be cutting your life short.
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HUH?? You just let some random guy on Craigslist BB you with not much other than 'are you neg', even though you didnt plan to? yet back home you want 'someone who you can trust and wont let total strangers do it'?
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Good post. I've never done it but I would be very hurt too. Cheating might be a thrill but it comes at a cost of deliberately hurting the other person.
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I'm on your side as well.
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Go To BB Sex Parties? How Often Do You Get STDs?
Totop replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
As a top if you get something what do you guys tell the doc when you pick something up? The doc will ask if you did BB and if you say yes and you are poz, then don't you get 'the lecture' on safer sex? does a red flag go up against you name in some system if you are poz and admit to bb? or do you simply lie with and 'uuuhhh.. i dunno how i got it doc'? -
I don't mind at all so long as he can continue getting fucked until I'm done. Some bottoms like to cum along with the top with is hot. I don't fuck very long but can go multiple times with breaks. When I'm done, i usually ask 'what about you' and reach over and offer to jo or suck him, if he is friendly and I like him enough and he stays. Most leave soon after getting fucked. I should say I usually meet at the baths.
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Thats the way I see it as well.
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I like doing that but I usually hookup at the baths and when I'm done fucking them most usually leave in a few mins. I guess off for the next load or whatever.
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yes and yes.
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Same here!
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True. But it is also about technique. Thats what I'd like to know.
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I've been to the one here on Sunday afternoons. Years ago to be the way you described it. everyone in underwear and slowly hook up and sex in certain areas. Then they stopped (guess they got into trouble with the law) and got strict with the sex part. They would leave the lights on in areas where they knew anyone people would have sex. The bouncers would tell those who were about to go down that path that they couldn't do that here. That place stopped its party a few years ago (owner got murdered and place changed owners). Other places tried to have the party but it wasn't as successful. All places not are just underwear. Though sometimes there is the 'underwear or less' and there is the TNT men group that has its monthly naked night. Stuff might go on there but I dont go to those. The underwear only ones are the ones I prefer. Was nice and relaxing during a hot summer sunday afternoon standing around or dancing in your undies with friends and drinking beer So I guess it depends on where you are going to this party. Local laws will apply.
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I agree. I'm not that big into sucking but I'd love to learn that technique. I'd only ever had that kind of a bj done to me once at the baths several years ago
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Not for me.
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To the OP, just be sure that the other person is aware how you feel and reciprocates else you might end up devastated. Especially if you invest a lot of time & emotion only to realize that you aren't going to get any back.
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Sounds like you found what/who you were looking for without realizing it and the rest ceased to matter.
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Perpetually Single vs. Always In A Relationship
Totop replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I've been perpetually single. Had a couple of very brief relationships but never been in a LTR of any sort somehow. Perhaps because of this... To me no relationship is better than a bad/uncomfortable relationship just as no sex is better than a bad/uncomfortable sex. However if I ever did get into a relationship I'd prefer it to be monogamous. I'm not that slutty even when I'm in the baths. So I'd have no problem in settling for one. For me quality over quantity. -
Same here. It is very slow in getting any action for me.
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I've never been in a bad situation til date, luckily. I always chat up the guy a bit to get a feel for his personality and sexual likes. But no endless chat as that's a turnoff. I also avoid instant hookups. I say I cant meet right now but would def like to meet some other time. Usually if he is interested he will contact me a week or so later if I'm online. This helps to sift out some of the flakes. I also think it is the type of guys you go far. I only go for single gay boy-next-door type guys. Not saying they are all sane. But so far haven't come across any crazies.
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Any suggestions on which ones last longer than others but not necessarily stronger.
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Can you change your handle?
Totop replied to AIDSWHORE2024258210's topic in Tips, Tricks, Rules & Help
Please change mine to 'totop'. Thanks -
The bottoms that ask me the 'clean' question are referring the HIV.
