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  1. 20 hours ago, NWUSHorny said:

    Am I the only one that thinks this kind of behavior is rude at a fuck venue?

    Hardly.  

    From what you describe, it's completely selfish and nothing else.  If he keeps his stuff in his room, at least other guys don't have to be bothered with it.  But strewing the shit all over fuck gear intended for every guy to have access to is nothing but selfish.  

    Maybe, when this (emotionally) 12-year-old actually grows up, he'll figure out that his peculiar affinity simply isn't shared by every other guy in the fuckjoint. 

    Your post reminds me of my kid sister, playing with her dolls.  

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  2. 23 hours ago, bikerarmpits said:

    What if it's Neg Bottom -- Poz Top? What if the bottom stealths the top somehow (yes, there are ways) to get bred by the top, and doesn't let the neg bottom know his status?

    As mentioned:  I don't think it's ever a decent thing to lie.  

    Whether it's a this or that, that or this, or a mix of both ... lying is simply not ok.  Whatever the contrivance; it's just not ok to lie about stuff. 

    Guys and parry, guys can change the subject, guys can do any number of things to avoid telling the truth.  Any astute hearer of the previous will be able to understand quickly that the guy is simply not going to be honest, and either move on or accept the situation. 

    Some may say that the guy in question should not be expected to answer certain questions, and that's a different discussion.  The question in this topic though, is clear and unmistakable.  And, my answer is no.  If/when asked, any decent guy should tell the truth.  

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  3. "Is stealthing morally okay?"

    ^ the title of this thread (it's almost a whole blanket of threads by now) could easily be expanded to a wider question: 

     

    "Is dishonesty morally okay?"  

    While there may be situations where lying can save an innocent life - in wartime, for instance - the basic question would be as directly above.  I doubt any person likes to be lied to, and thus that person (i,e. every person) that doesn't care for being lied to should, obviously, refrain from lying to others.  There are ways to parry unwelcome, obsequious probing questions, some more blunt than others.  In either case, dishonesty is not the proper way to parry the offense.  

    A reply with something like "talk some other time" (the more polite version) or "it's really none of your business" (a more blunt response) is always better than returning a lie with another lie.  At least the respondent doesn't stoop to the liar's level.  

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  4. 21 hours ago, PozToxVersPig said:

    I feel comfortable with my anchor being honestly

    and that is completely honorable, P.T.V.P.  

    It's not asking too much to be completely honest with our (potential) fuckmates; whether in-the-flesh or here on BZ (to a lesser extent, obviously).  There's everything right about being honest, and nothing wrong with it; particularly in sexual contexts.   If some potential trick doesn't care for some facet of me, that's fine.  There are plenty of other holes in the fuckjoint, so each guy can find what he most needs. 

    I too am completely comfortable with being honest about sexual proclivities at the fuckjoints.  

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  5. I haven't really noticed this - at least in my favorite fuckjoint.  

    In the darkroom, no one can see anyone; it's just rut in a hole, switch to another one, etc.  And, in the rest of the joint, I can't say I've noticed any negative behavior relative to race, or any other divisive qualities. 

    There are some guys that eat way too much, but that's a choice, not a racial or misogynistic thing.  

  6. On 1/19/2026 at 1:14 PM, PozTalkAuthor said:

    When you hire someone because of their underrepresented condition rather for a real professional value.

    I think that this issue is causing some misunderstanding: 

    Since I was in business for years, I feel able to comment cogently on the issue.  I had to hire people, and one of the facets I considered was their "cultural identity", if that makes sense.  But it was only one, and not the most important one.  Competence, ability to do the job was paramount.  However, when there were - oh - say 3 relatively equally-qualified candidates, It was my "right" (and, in my mind, my duty), to consider any cultural issues as well, stressing competency of course, but also having the luxury of more than 1 equally qualified people, I could actually 1) act on my beliefs, and 2) engage an employee on an "equal" basis with every other employee.   

    In that instance, I could allow myself to "empower" at least one minority of some sort (racial, cultural, whatever), simply because that is something I believed in, and it was my company,  so I could do it.  Only once (out of a number of hires) did an "inclusive" choice turn out to be a poor choice who had to be let go.  

    Now.  Since I did have the ability to run the company the way I felt was right and proper, I was able to put my cultural conscience into the mix of issues, and hire someone from an underrepresented cultural group, and I'd alter nothing today, if I still had that company.  

    Point:  not everyone has the ability to make decisions that impact underrepresented groups, but everyone can do whatever they're able to make the "playing field" more equal.  Whether it's something as small as a kind word, or a smile, or as impactful as hiring someone that needed a job - it all counts equally as doing what we're able to do to make our world a tiny bit more just, more inclusive, more equal, and a tiny bit better

     

     

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  7. Welcome, RogerPoz448

    You'll find that Breeding Zone is a place where almost every gay guy can post ideas, and respond to other guy's posts, ideas.  Lots of us have been on BZ for quite a while, and enjoy the discussions of various topics, reading what other guys think, adding our viewpoints, and all in a well-run, well-moderated environment.  The only real "rule" is, be tolerant to other guys viewpoints, and expect the same in return.  

    When you first join, you will find that you're limited in the number of "reactions" to other guys posts.  This is to encourage you to post your own thoughts/reactions to whatever that particular subject matter is, thus encouraging us to write our thoughts on any particular subject, rather than just click on one of the "reactions" without any contributions of your own. 

    I'm guessing that you'll find it difficult to get into any trouble, merely from reading your initial post.  

    The more you share your thoughts, react to other guys thoughts, the sooner more and more privileges you'll "earn".  Thanks for joining, and we look forward to hearing more from you about whatever particular aspects of raw breeding you care to share.  

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  8. 12 hours ago, NordicBtm said:

    You definitely did nothing wrong.

    I agree.  Definitely.

    I can't discern anything "wrong" from what you've shared either.  Every guy begins his sexual journey at some point, and I'll bet you the kid you reference might have some notions to sort through.  Maybe the kid was raised to have beliefs that run counter to the kind of sex we rawguys need, and it just flipped him out. 

    It can be confounding, trying to figure out the reasons for seeking out that kind of a place, and then reacting in such a strange way when an opportunity presents itself.  I'd just put it down to some poor kid, raised in a particularly cruel way, trying to come to terms with who and what he is.  If you see him again, buy him a soda and just let him talk it out (with a little encouragement from you, if it seems appropriate).  

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