hntnhole

I've occasionally wished I were versatile, but I'm just not.  Can't help it - I'm just not. 

So, I remain happy with what I do best.  

3 hours ago, tobetrained said:

don't know how.

Here's how (I think) it works:  When you're an active member - meaning participating in the discourse - you "earn" the right to use the little doo-dads to upvote, like, say 'thanks', etc.  I assume it's to discourage those of ill will, but I don't know that. 

Keep commenting, posting your own content, and it'll happen sooner than you think, so keep responding to various threads of conversation, and presto - you'll have all the privileges available too.  

22 hours ago, Pozzible said:

Thanks so much @hntnhole! Reasoned political debate is something I also highly value on this site. As you have surely noted, sometimes I get carried away. 

And your responses on wide-ranging topics are always interesting and well-reasoned!

Well, shucks .... if I could still blush, I would .... but it's waaaay too late for that 😉

14 hours ago, NJRawDaddy said:

By echoing theirs I caused the tops to get all the more excited

That's the most important phrase so far. 

Tops are generally confident enough in their lusts to perform well in group-fucks, but when the bottom feeds, reinforces their lusts, it will almost always guarantee a burning hot breeding orgy.  Prescient one, aren'tcha ..... 

On 10/12/2025 at 11:38 PM, rawinme said:

The guy had some major anger issues

Kudos, rawinme. 

Without the crucial bond of trust being established, the most potent facet of B/d S/m - the giving up one's control of the bottom, and the acceptance of control of the Top - the magnificent "connection" that is available to each man will be impossible to establish.  Without that trust being well-established (which no true Leatherman would allow via what we call "a negotiation") the exercise is almost certain to - at best - fail.  

Never having experienced that peculiar behavior, I would like to say I'd pull out and save the load for a guy that actually does want/need it.  

I'm pretty sure I would ... but .... it might depend on how close I am, too .... which raises an interesting question:  

In the fuckjoints, when every guy is fucking/getting fucked raw, why would a bottom gladly take a hard raw cock up his gut, if he didn't want the load in the first place?  Just to irritate the Top(s)?  That'd be risky business too. 

Some Tops would be all the more determined to breed the fuck outta that bottom, but then the question (for the T) becomes "do I waste my sperm on this asshole (pardon the usage), or give it to some other, more deserving bottom?

THIS discussion, sharing of viewpoints, is probably the biggest reason I like BZ: 

No guy has been throwing stones at some other guy.  Each guy has well-reasoned, well-written additions to the conversation.  

Thanks, each of you, and please do continue.  ❤️

19 hours ago, TownTravellerMan said:

Yeah it was like somewhere between 10-12 years ago

Back then, RR was the very best breedbar around.  You may recall the "patio bar", which is actually outside, covered by tarps in the event of rain.  Back when you remember it, after around 10pm it was so full of guys fucking each other you couldn't walk through that area.  Guys would have to wait for a guy to leave and try to grab that spot.  If you had to take a piss, god help you if there wasn't a piss-guy  within reach.  The later at night it was, the more crammed full of guys it got.  There was (still is, for that matter) also a pool table adjacent to the main bar in front, which was covered at night with a sheet of plywood,  Bottoms would line up - shoulder to shoulder - all around the pool table, with the Tops crammed in behind them, also all around the pool table.  I remember one night, a rather "heavy-set" guy trying to squeeze himself into the area around the table, and being rather rudely told he would displace too many slimmer Tops busy fucking holds.  Then, after closing (when guys had to leave RR), they'd go behind a used furniture store on the corner, and keep going all night long.  At the time, I had a dog, and we'd have our morning walk fairly early - and sometimes there were still a decent number of guys fucking each other.  Of course, that corner was on our (the dog and I) morning "walk" route, and occasionally a guy would "fall in" next to me, following me home, if I wanted.   Generally, I've never been much of a "morning man", but .... occasionally .... well, you get the scenario.   Those days are long gone now, but I'm glad I got to experience it. 

My barber insists that currently, there's a commercial building across the street from RR where guys go behind the building and breed, but there are tall metal fences in front of every building over there, and they only open during regular business hours.  Tangentially though, I do find evidence of filthy goings-on in my front yard occasionally.  I have those thick, double-paned windows, so the only way I'd hear anything is if I left them open ... which I don't; the A/C is costly enough to run.

Those days are long gone now, but I'm happy I got to experience it.  

22 hours ago, TownTravellerMan said:

Ft. Lauderdale lists Ramrod and I do remember playing at that bar both in and out of the backroom years ago that was fun.

Sadly, the operative word in the above phrase is "years ago".  Ramrod has faded in the celebratory breeding arena, one the Eagle (a few blocks up Wilton Manors Dr) opened.  It's still a fun bar, but the "ups & extras" are no more, other than an occasional hookup in the backbar.  Apparently, in the wee hours there's still some action - 2: am'ish, - but that's only on weekends when guys don't have to get up and go to work in the morning.  RR used to be jammed to the rafters with men breeding each other, from evening until closing.  Eagle isn't all that far - maybe a dozen blocks north, first building on 6th Ave - and they do have a "dress code", however there is still action available for non-Leathermen.  Of course, there's always Slammer too ...

1 hour ago, tobetrained said:

It's saying, "you live by our values, or else and collateral damage is fine."

I have no idea what your reference to "collateral damage" is.  If you would make it clear, I would appreciate it.  Thanks.  

1 hour ago, tobetrained said:

 

1 hour ago, PozBearWI said:

Rather, he makes a deal with someone, then when the work is done they have to sue for payment.

Agreed.  And, it's really a confounding character-flaw to analyze.  How is it that some guy - any guy - gets that kind of mindset? 

The only potential answer I can figure out is, he was thoroughly spoiled as a little kid, and has never outgrown that emotional rot.  

Thanks for the response, tobetrained.  

22 hours ago, NWUSHorny said:

there is still a huge number of ABS establishments that have a small theater, as well as at least one bar that allows cruising, and 2 bathhouses.

No WONDER the ICE cop-wannabe's are aiming for Portland !!! 

On 10/14/2025 at 1:17 AM, 95SpainBBKer said:

in my opinion the best way to find good bareback sex is going to parties orgies or saunas where fucking becomes much easier and direct.

Agreed 100%. 

Sitting around, diddling a damn phone and expecting miracles isn't going to work out all that well.  Far more productive to get one's ass in the car, and go to where the action is.  Backrooms, tubs, gh locations, fuckjoints are where the action is, so that's where to go get in on the action.  

Maybe there's a dearth of those establishments where you live?  That's not a reason to sit around and bitch about it.  Get some guys together and figure it out.  Maybe get a few guys to sponsor an orgy.  Open some pigpen of a joint  - or move to where the action already is.  Don't just complain - do something.  

95SpainBBKer's right; the best breeding orgies happen when there are other guys having raw pigsex all around you.  

18 hours ago, tobetrained said:

trump-arms-scheme-ukraine/

This in a most interesting development re: T & the Ukraine.  Supposedly, T was going to speak to Putin today about furnishing long-distance missiles, which could easily reach Moscow and well beyond.  While no one wants an expanded war, when an intractable dictator is facing the prospect of his capital being hit by missiles, as well as oil refineries, all kinds of infrastructure, he may well pause to think it over.  Also, the Western nations are going after those nations that buy huge amounts of crude oil as well as refined oil.  That could really kick the Russians in the balls. 

But, until China begins to withdraw it's support of Russia, the trouble will likely continue.  China is the "big boy" actor in keeping Russian expansion running.  

on another note, this coming Saturday is No Kings Demonstration day.  Please consider doing at least something to resist.  

On 5/9/2025 at 3:45 PM, NordicBtm said:

I never expected us to get there

First, congrats on being patient with him.  Clinging to restrictive limits only works when both guys are committed to the same goal.  Your name must be Job - the biblical figure that "the patience of Job" originated from. 

When we accept that our loved one simply needs more time in coming to terms with his own Lust, (or in other facets of life together), that acceptance becomes and investment in the future, not an impediment.  Kudos to you for your patience; it paid off in the end (polite cough) .... literally 😉

6 hours ago, BBBreeding said:

Have you guys seen the same?

Welll ... no - there are a number of "seed-y" bars/baths/fuckjoints around here, and they all seem to be doing great (except RR).  

Business always picks up this time of year, when the snowbirds fly South for the winter, so there's a notable increase in traffic, but that's always the case.  It's most noticeable just after Thanksgiving.  

I definitely consider myself part of "the community".  It will come as no surprise to some that I am quite active politically, attend local protests (there are many in the area, some numbering in the high hundreds of protesters, some numbering in mere dozens.  I also belong to a gay political organization; we knock on doors, sign up new voters, send out "mailers", make phone calls, make decisions on which local candidates we will support - which are based on what the candidates (for local office) have to say when the come to address our group - and many do.  

It's not a burden, it's not a chore, but it is a duty for citizens that are politically "aware" to participate in some measure of activism, to the extent they can.  That said, anyone that cares about politics, where the country is, where it's heading, should do what they can to participate in the process.  Every citizen/prospective citizen/would-be citizen has a voice, and needs to use it now.  

Thanks, tobetrained, for that interesting addition to the conversation.  

On 10/9/2025 at 2:03 PM, tobetrained said:

My point, it's really about is the President doing something to help people?

Well said, tobetrained.  First, welcome to BZ. 

Secondly, thanks for that well-developed response to the subject.  While you may need "training" in certain arts,  well-constructed, well-reasoned composition is obviously not one of them.  

19 hours ago, phillygwm said:

I think it's a matter of shame for some people because they "can't" get laid without paying for it.

Well, thanks for adding that concept.

I hadn't considered that as an issue.  What, in your estimation, would "can't" - in this context - apply to?  Some disfigurement that would deter others?  Something else?  

20 hours ago, verbalBTTM said:

Penn Station is pretty much a homeless shelter

So that's the hook?  There were plenty of potentially homeless "read undocumented immigrants" hanging out there?  Thus, the Gestapo arrested not only the undocumented immigrants, but took the boys in for good measure?  

What goes around, eventually comes around.  

The concept of "money" is that it can be traded for whatever thing we happen to need. 

Thus, if a guy with something of value (oh, a place to live, for instance) wants something another guy has to offer (oh, maybe a hot raw hole to breed, for instance) commerce is ready and waiting.  Cold, hard cash is only a contrivance we humans have invented to facilitate the transactions of our daily lives.  "Cash" just makes it simpler, easier to "buy" what we need,

The concept of trading X for Y remains unchanged.  It's merely the vehicle - the method of payment - that comes into question.  Trading housing for on-demand raw hole is not all that  different than trading a dollar for a loaf of bread.  

18 hours ago, Ready2DoThis said:

Call it what you will but this is how WWII Germany was taken over

There was also a national feeling in Germany that the Treaty of Versailles, ending the First World War, had fucked the German nation over royally - and there was some merit to that notion.  Obviously, "the leader" (translated into English) worked that angle to the enth degree as well as fanning the flames of racism into a fiery hatred.  Add in the thousands of SA hooligans (whose leader, Earnst Roehm, was a ravenous gay man) enforcing the dictates of "the leader", and presto:  A once proud, liberal nation, foremost in advancing the liberal arts, the humanities so magnificently, became what it became. 

If it can happen there a century ago, it can happen anywhere.   

On 10/9/2025 at 10:25 AM, tallslenderguy said:

Quid pro quo sex is just not sex to me, it's a sort of psychological condom

LOL ... you always manage to come up with such delicious metaphors 😄