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12 hours ago, jeff238 said:

One report said he was $200k behind in his rent

Really !!!

The owner of that building must be nuts - letting such a politically-charged business get that far behind is asking for a default.  Maybe he can ask the RNC to cover the unpaid rent ... maybe he can waste his breath asking other magaroid* folks for some dough too.  

*similar to another word beginning with "h", and usually plural ... 

I've described my own experience in other threads, so I'll just summarize here:

1.  Be sure that sex isn't the only interest you and he have in common.  There needs to be common interests other than sex; activism, love of the arts, community affairs, reading, love of fast cars, sailing, exercise, pets, cooking, literature, almost anything that isn't focused on sex.  The more in common (other than sex) the better.  

2.  Hopefully there will also be common values, such as awareness of the need to help the downtrodden, and mutual desire to "make it a better world", in whatever way seems best for both of you.  

3.  Always treat him fairly.  Always be honest (except for surprise birthday presents, etc), even if you're tempted not to be.  Keep the old saying in mind: "Putting him first keeps me first".  

4.  The above are a few things that are the "cement" that holds any pair of human beings together.  In the case of gay men that also love wanton sex, try like hell never lie to him, and if you do, get it off your chest before he figures it out.  If he's not ready to have an "open" relationship, give him the room he needs.  

I had just over 30 years of the most wonderful relationship I could imagine.  We did almost everything together, supported each other in various endeavors, and I will miss him until I cash it in too.  And, we were both total pigs - both together and separately - but that was always of secondary importance to our love for each other.  There's only room for one "most important thing" in anyone's life, so make that one thing your love for your "other half", and the rest will follow of it's own accord.

My best wishes to you both.

... NOT !!

It seems that the Pillow Pimp has also run out of luck, just as his Lord and Master is running out of luck.

News reporters filmed employee's being "excused" from the Pillow Pimp's factory in Minnesota, since the con-man-in-chief, Mike Lindell, is behind on his rent.  Seems that a number of major retailers have refused to carry those pillows, given his lies, misappropriations, continuing political mischief, and more.  

Unfortunately, I never did get around to buying one of those pillows (to avoid nightmares), so I'm unable to comment on their usefulness.  Word has it that Orange J. is furious, since all that orange hair-dye he uses just soaks into the pillows, and now he can't afford to keep buying new ones, and Mikie-boy can't just give him more.  

It seems that the RNC is really full of conmen, circus barkers, grifters, pickpockets, liars, thieves, all wrapped up in the Magavoid Mania.  

Sleep tight, all you piggies ..... 😁

Laughable outrage ....

We all know that His Orange Corpulence needs the dough - and badly - but I didn't think even he could sink so low.  The glittery gold gym shoes were bad enough - but - now he's peddling Bibles !!!  One cent short of $60 per !!! 

The only real surprise (for me at least) is that these books haven't simply burst into flames of their own accord.  Maybe he soaked the one he held up for the cameras in a bucket of water first .... The "upside down" event in DC some time ago was laughable - this time around, it's just pitiful.  

On 3/27/2024 at 2:37 PM, IntoBBvisitor said:

What can happen ?

Nothing good, as I see it.  Unless you have a "Savior" complex (which almost never has the intended outcome), I'd avoid him completely.  I've read and re-read your post, and see no reason whatsoever to maintain any sexual contact at all.  If, in the future, you run across him in some "family-type" situation, and if he makes any kind of comment regarding your online contact, I would deny it, tell him he's mistaken, and move on to some other cousin.  

Chances are virtually nil that you can "save" him, particularly given the family connection.  Look to your own emotional health.  That's something you definitely can do.  Just because you're 'shirt-tail" relatives doesn't mean you owe him your involvement.  Concentrate on your own future, your own goals, what you want out of life. 

My best wishes to you, as you navigate this sorry situation.

5 hours ago, tallslenderguy said:

Your cousin reads to me like a guy who is closeted Bi (at the very least) or gay and is homophobic.

Ever the kind, gentle soul, aren'tcha?  There aren't enough guys like you around, and too many like me .... 

It's entirely logical that certain extended families, with some brilliant members - and a couple members of less-than average intelligence - exist. 

There's simply no reasonable excuse to vote for someone just because that person bears the same surname of brilliant relatives.  

6 hours ago, 50latinos said:

I wouldn't piss on RFK Jr if he was on fire either.

Neither would I.  Save it for the piss-boys, who deserve your piss far, far more.

5 hours ago, 50latinos said:

That will be one tiny office building.

I'll say .... unless it's anchored with I-beams deeply into the bedrock, it could hardly be more than 3 stories high.  I haven't gone over there to count, but I don't think any buildings South of 16th St have more than two stories.  

Of note:  exactly one block south (in the 1400 block) of RR is a 2-storie building (adjacent to a formerly a great plumbing store - which has been torn down), that has been available for at least a year now. More, behind both properties is a graveled area that could accommodate dozens and dozens of cars.  Next door is another 2-storey building that has been vacant for about the same time.   Across the street (1300 block), a large parcel of land with a big sign advertising for build-to-suit, that has been there for at least a year.  Both locations have been available, with no takers (or, evidence of takers) for many months.  

In that same (1400) block, on the W side of 4th, there are other empty buildings (with parking) which have been vacant for years.  There are also empty commercial buildings across the street from RR.  Having been in business myself for many years, one of the responses above doesn't make much business-sense, at least to me, particularly given the available buildings (or sites available for new construction) currently available.  So why would some enterprising construction company put up a new  building, when so many existing buildings in the immediate area are available?  Most particularly, right next door to a fantastically infamous gay bar - unless, of course, there were some kind of connection?  

Now.  Given certain info proposed above, I have some homework to do before committing anything more to our little (yet public) corner of the world.  

Yeah, I agree that it would be sad if they closed; it's a landmark.  Back in Pig Alley though (there are crude "murals" (I'm being generous here) of a sexual nature), all the tv's showing porn only show guys fucking with condoms.  Some guys started writing a list of the bars that are no more, and there are already too many on the list.  I still go over there occasionally to bask in the former glory - but it's a bit of a sorrow too.  

I don't understand why they (the owners) would go to the bother/expense of putting in that large conduit (maybe for sewer hook-up?) in the vacant lot though.  If they were going to close the bar, peddle the land, why would they go to the expense/bother of having that installed?  

I guess we'll see what happens, when and if it does ..... but all you guys can cross your fingers (and your balls - which counts for even more) that it's only impending improvements to the business, and not the prelude to a Requiem.  

5 hours ago, bbsyd2765 said:

Should I be worried?

No, you should get further, more intense testing done.  Sounds like you've done everything correctly, but then I'm no doctor either.  

Worry doesn't cure anything - only testing/treating counts - no matter what the malady happens to be.  In the event you feel you need another professional opinion, by all means get one.  

Good luck, bud !!

Catching one of the lesser bugs occasionally is inevitable if we get plenty of sex.  So, just get tested regularly, get them treated, and then we're free to keep doing what we do.  Not that big of a deal.  Obviously, get on PrEP to minimize your chances of hiv, but the lesser bugs can be treated, conquered, and that's it.  

Sounds like a "must" to me !!!

My suggestion?  Block him. Doesn't sound like anything good can come of it. 

There are tons and tons of great men out there - why get involved with a relative (!!!) that's got nothing going for him other than maaaaybe a good fuck?  

... to eat.  Only starvation ...

Yes, that huge container ship tore down the bridge ... sadly, there were a handful of deaths involved (at least reported).  The cargo was insured, can be replaced, the bridge will be rebuilt, etc.

At the same time, planes attempting to deliver food to thousands and thousands of our fellow human beings via parachute, quite literally starving to death, desperate to find some shred of anything edible to feed their skeleton-children, drowned in the Mediterranean, when a number of those parachutes were blown off course over the sea.  

I see no excuse for this continuing state of affairs in Gaza.  There is simply no excuse for thousands and thousands of skeleton-children, within days of passing of starvation.  Their parents are equally hungry, with no chance to effect any change in their circumstances.  There is simply no excuse available for this ongoing human tragedy.  Our domestic, quadrennial political carryings-on are sucking all the air out of our collective consciousness, while thousands upon thousands starve to death - needlessly.  Pointlessly.  

I know the US has been supporting the State of Israel since it's inception.  I know that fact has prevented Israel's probable extinction, and I'm glad for that.  On that plane of discussion, I support the position of the US.  But.  There is simply no excuse whatsoever for allowing this human tragedy to continue.  Airplanes dropping parcels of food via parachutes is, at the very least, something, but not anywhere near close enough to what is so desperately needed.  It doesn't matter if they pray to some Deity we're unfamiliar with.  It doesn't matter if they live their lives differently than we do. 

These miserable, wretched, starving victims deserve the most basic needs of existence, merely because they're fellow human beings, and whether we here in the US are preoccupied with our domestic dramas or not.  

Mine was a plumber, a number of years ago. 

As it happens, the slingroom is adjacent to that bathroom (this was when I still kept that cumdump), and the boy thought the plumber was hot.  So, I told him to get naked and into the sling.  

Well, the plumber thought that was cool,  so I fucked the plumber first, then the plumber fucked the boy, and I fucked the boy again after the plumber was gone, using the plumber's load for lube. 

When life hands you some crap (the plumbing issue), put some hot "cream" on that crap and turn it into some fun.  But, I got invoiced for the work anyway ... 

2 hours ago, Iker80 said:

It's cool, there's the whole guy to connect and interact with

Perfectly said.  Thanks !!

Sat night.  The storms cleared up finally, the streets drained off enough to drive on safely, so went over to Slammer after all.  Had a good time as usual - it wasn't quite as jammed as previous weekends (some of the snowbirds have flown back North, more leaving every day now) - so more of the local flavor, which I have zero problem with.  Sure, fresh meat is always welcome, but there's just a certain something about the local cumdumps - I don't know exactly what - that's particularly exciting.  It's hard to describe.  So, had a filthy time of it, and all's well with the world again.  

While we don't always get exactly what inhabits our fevered dreams .... for a live-in (or very regular) cumdump:

1.  Moderately slim build.

2.  Dark(er then mine) complexion, dark hair, somewhat hairy a +

3.  All through with the "coming to terms" stuff, accepts his Calling to cumdumpery happily and joyfully.

4.  Committed to servicing raw Cocks, loves taking loads up his gut, down his throat, 

5.  I'm not a fan of the pushy types, nor the "no backbone" types - just a regular guy that loves raw Cock, needs a lot of Cocks/loads, willing and ready to be whored out.  

6.  Interested in other issues as well - cultural, political, activist-type functions, well-rounded, well-educated, articulate, and no interest in recreational drugs.  

Now.  I know that's being a bit idealistic, but - that's my "type" - per the OP.  

There's a bit of a subplot to this post - a lesson still to be learned by some guys - particularly the younger ones: 

Don't wait around to become the man you already sense you're meant to become.  Even if you haven't been able to bring yourself to realizing your full depth and breadth of sexual fulfillment, keep working on it.  The fact that some of you are here on BZ already - even if you're still sitting on the fence about where you fit in - should be a guidepost.  Keep working on getting it sorted. 

Time is relative; as the years roll by, they become shorter and shorter.  I know the clocks haven't realized this fact yet - so it may merely be a "head" thing, but it's real.  

Figure out where you fit in, and then jump into the writhing mass with both feet, don't look back, and become the men you were born to be. 

Life is fan-fukkin-tastic when we live it on our own terms.  

Welcome, new members ... We look forward to hearing more from each of you! 

22 hours ago, viking8x6 said:

certain words were being used as code

Well, thanks for that clue; it hadn't occurred to me.  Of course illegal things cannot be allowed.  I'll look at it again, if I can find it, and figure it out from that angle.  Thanks. 

Don't forget the Clubhouse II, up on Oakland Park Blvd.  It's a bit more sleazy than the other tubs downtown, but that only makes it more fun.  

Also, you won't see the name "Slammer" on the building, if you're driving  -  you'll only see a square sign with large 321 numerals*.  Turn in (right( just W. of the building, there are off-duty cops guarding the lots, and a couple of bucks will be appreciated.  All the lots are guarded, it's just a matter of finding a place.  I suppose taking an Uber would be easier.  

*the address is 321 W. Sunrise Blvd.  

Storms, flooded impassable streets, high winds, yesterday, more rain on the way today ... I don't go out at night in weather like this.  It may be wet, streets covered in water outside, but my dick's dry as a desert ... at least a little alliteration, huh? 

12 hours ago, Theo8 said:

opposites attract?

Well, not necessarily. 

I would give the "attraction" a little more latitude than "opposite". 

For example, a guy with Northern European heritage with a pale complexion, blond hair, would find guys with heritage of mid-Northern European countries physically attractive as well as more Southern parts of the globe.  

"Opposite" wouldn't be required, only 'not just like me' is enough. 

As far as I recall, there's only one guy I blocked, and I see a little caption that his content is being blocked (apparently just above or below) whatever it was that he wrote.  However, if some other guy "quotes" him within the second guy's text, the quoted part does appear. 

When all is said and done, it's an efficient system.  We don't have to read stuff we find offensive, and that's pretty much that.  

But I still wish there were a list somewhere of the banned words.  Apparently I used one, and have no idea what it was.  Went back, read and re-read my original text, and still couldn't figure out what banned word (or phrase, maybe?) was.  

Well, I'm not familiar with that area either.  Isn't that where Disneyland is?  And some sprawling residential development filled with retired Republicans?  Whatever the cause, it's a sad loss.  Thanks for posting it.