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On 6/11/2025 at 11:22 AM, viking8x6 said:

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Thanks for sharing that excellent resource.  I hadn't known of it.  

I can't recall even once being asked for drugs - in the fuckjoints, at the tubs, never.  I suppose it's possible years ago, and I just don't recall it.  

I don't think I look weird - cuckoo - crazy .... but, maybe I do 🤪

On 6/13/2025 at 3:07 AM, sslutty said:

I dick a bitch down

That's closer to alliteration .... but, what's in a word anyway? 

As long as the deed gets done (and so is that).  

Welcome, new guys ...

We look forward to hearing more from each of you !!

21 hours ago, BBBxCumDumpster said:

Does anyone else remember differently?

Nope - you pretty much nailed it.  I'd forgotten about the active/passive references - haven't heard that in years now.  But, language is a fluid thing, constantly changing, little by little. 

Per the ass-eating, there were some that did it, but not until bottoms routinely <polite cough> made sure their Holes actually were edible.  Accidents can and do happen, of course, but the cleanliness routine wasn't as obligatory back then.  

I don't think most of us were as comfortable with ourselves back then.  We were still concerned about being "outed" all of that.  M2M sex wasn't as celebrated, it was more in the shadows.  These days, being an "out" gay man is no big deal; back then it was a substantial and bold choice to make.  

Thanks for offering that commentary.  

15 hours ago, ellentonboy said:

guys online who CLAIM they want to fuck you, but in fact, they want to have sex with the drugs in your pants

Do you actually mean some guys only want to get high, and will fuck in order to get the drugs?  That's beyond pitiful.  

First thing I recall is that I shot my load almost instantly after getting inside, in the locker room.  One guy put his lips around it, and that was it.  

Those were the days, however, when I was good for several courses at the same dining table.  

"4 loads in about 45 minutes by the same top"

Wow !!!  That's what I call impressive !!!  I've never been able to pull off something like that.  

I'm most interested in guys that make no apologies for who and what they are.  Not that there are opportunities for depthy discussions at Slammer, but one can usually discern whether cumdumps are confident in their calling.  I don't need to get any arrogance from them, or "attitude" that's so assumed it's almost laughable. 

Just guys that need what I can do for them, and vice versa.,   

That was (almost) how I met my better half ... I was fucking a guy right next to him (he was sucking a Cock off) ... we were literally shoulder-to-shoulder, and I leaned over and kissed him when the Cock he was sucking unloaded in his mouth.  That was enough to make me pump mine into that bottom.  

Complete happenstance.  

Reportedly, things are really picking up over at Ramrod.  I seldom bother to stop by, given the lack of action, but it's been a while since I went too.  This coming weekend, before heading over to Slammer, I'll go over and have a beer, just to see what's cooking. 

I've heard that the bar over in WM (Eagle) has cooled off as far as the wanton breeding goes, but have no first-hand knowledge. Besides - Summer's here now, and it's waaaay to hot to wear the gear now.  It's shorts & t-shirt weather, if that much.  

Welcome, Tom.  We hope to hear more from you, on any kind of topic you'd like to comment on.  

Your home-town is absolutely wonderful; I've been there a few times, and it's simply magnificent in every way.  

"Are Out gay couples of color more likely to face hate crimes?"

Sadly, I would think so. 

Those brothers-in-the-life are doubly damned in the minds of the race-baiting hatemongers, who will gladly attempt to compensate for their failures by disparaging any/every "other" they can identify.  

"Hate crimes and Out gay couples of colour."

This commentary might be deemed misplaced (by the mods), so I apologize in advance if that's the case.

The issue of racism in general, and in the US in particular, has been the noose around our collective necks for centuries.  Now that the actual depravity of "owning" other human beings for the purpose of enslaved servitued has been outlawed via the Civil War (aka the War between the States) for 160 years, one could be forgiven for believing that the foundational issue (one race deserving of slavery, another race deserving of domination of the subjugated race), would have been excised from the National psyche ages ago.  

So the confounding question becomes, why that is still not the case with a decent percentage of the citizenry?  How is it that the descendants of the imported, enslaved peoples are still - lo these many decades later - still considered second-class citizens?  There are, of course, brilliant exceptions such as MLK Jr, numerous others, but the mindset of hatred at worst, denigration at least,  is still acceptable to a decent number of Americans?  While the straights have modified their hatreds of gay folks to some degree (mostly out of hesitancy to be demeaned by other pale people), apparently the learned hatreds of other minorities simply will not be given up.  

Our propensity to demean others unlike us in some way is confounding at the very least.  We see it in the Levant, with very similar people killing each other with impunity, and only in the name of some deity/belief system.  We see it in our major population centers, and minor ones.  As populations expand world-wide, we see these ancient depravities resurface (encouraged by leaders of world powers, no less), particularly in our own country.  

I simply cannot understand how this ancient curse can be so readily accepted by folks who should know far, far better.  The depravities of the current Administration are broadcast daily in every major media, as they round up not only folks that came for a better chance at a safe, decent life, and a chance to work hard enough to earn it, but anyone that wasn't born here.  Neither were our Caucasian ancestors.  How is it that any human being - attempting to be of good will, some measure of decency - can endorse this filth?  

We are all equal.  We are all of value.  Each of us - whatever characteristics that separate us - are worthy of respect, and basic human dignity.  

10 hours ago, partying.hard said:

Sometimes to the point guys ask me if I am coming.

I hear ya .... while I call it automatic lube, it can soak through a pair of jeans easily.  At the fuckjoints, I don't care - but until I get there it can be a bit embarrassing.

On 1/31/2025 at 5:23 AM, alex36210fr said:

maintain a drug-free environment

It's a matter of each guy determining, and then communicating his limits, and in a completely non-judgemental way.   

It's not at all necessary to in any way demean others for their choices, but that does not mean you need to submit to other folks choices either.  Plus, it's more enriching to know that the "connection" you refer to is genuine.  I've fucked guys that were wired out of their minds, and it's not anywhere near as "complete" a connection as when two men, in lust for what the other possesses, and achieve when they breed.  

I don't mean guys have to "interview" each other at the fuckjoints - that wouldn't be very conducive to an intense mating experience.  I don't know if you live in a large city or a small one, but with some awareness, there are characteristics one can learn to discern a given situation.  Gracefully demurring is always preferable to any outright demeaning comments.  If pressed, it's easy to say something like 'thanks - maybe a little later/some other time, or something similarly innocuous.  And then, simply move on.  

Each of us has agency, and we don't have to give that up.  

I used to attend CumUnion fairly regularly years ago, before I moved to FL.  

I decided to try CumUnion here in Ft. L. last night (first Wed of every month).  The crowd was large, but not at all as large as on Fri/Sat nights.  One of the three parking lots was closed, one had maybe 8-10 cars (normally 30-some cars), but the action was as filthy and delicious as usual; just not as many guys.  Shoved it to one guy in the darkroom, and he hollered so loud it was like flies to honey.  

It was fun, of course - but - just not as much fun as when the place is jammed with Breeding men.  At least there's at least one day per month with good prospects over there.

19 hours ago, Memphian said:

Most want to unload deep in my slut hole though.

Small wonder .... it's magnificent !!!

As I've mentioned before, Act One is to get down there and do a little "sniff-test".  There's seldom a problem, and there's almost always load up there, which leads to Act Two.

All I do is whisper filthy praise in his ear for doing what he must, reinforcing, accentuating his Lusts for hard raw Cock pumping loads up his sweet Hole.  

That almost always re-ignites his Lust for more. 

On 5/23/2025 at 12:23 PM, tallslenderguy said:

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I didn't know that, and I bet most other Americans didn't (don't) either. 

Apparently, the more dough one has, the more dough one craves - literally !!

On 5/23/2025 at 1:10 PM, tallslenderguy said:

i do believe that Biden listened to and followed his advisors more than Trump does

Agreed.  It turns out though, that the "advisors" (drawn substantially from his family) were more interested in protecting their loved-one than investigating more prudent courses of action.  I also believe that his situation was more advanced than we knew, which illness cannot be blamed on him.  Dementia causes pain to everyone - across the board - and in this case, an entire nation.  It was no favor to the nation to cover up the seriousness of the situation.  Illness is illness - and no one purposefully gets that kind of sickness. 

What is, simply is.

I an not apologizing for supporting the former President to the end; he was a lifelong good and decent man, serving his nation with honor and dignity, but I am saying that it was a costly decision for all concerned to push him into a second run.  Had the stirrer-of-the-pot not been the nominee for this term, things may have been different; but we can't rewrite history. 

A good and decent man, servant of the Nation for many decades, should have been allowed to retire with his well-earned dignity intact, instead of being forced to soldier on until the bitterest of ends.  

Now that the "rainy season" has begun (this year, it was like a switch was flipped), obviously there's not as much sunshine, but the commercial a/c units are still roaring away like it's still 100 degrees.  Slammer was fukkin freezing this past weekend - and I even wore jeans.  But, had a great time of it anyway.  

On 4/22/2025 at 7:00 PM, PozTalkAuthor said:

I 100 percent respect his discussions about peace

Agreed.

While any leader of any group will have some kind of platform, his was world-wide, and he did speak out in favor if treating others with compassion, all the generally-accepted "positive" values. Not that I paid much attention,  but he managed to avoid pushing all the overweening magic stuff.  That was refreshing.  

On 5/12/2025 at 2:06 PM, wonderfulwoof said:

According to these realtors, my house is worth 4 times what I paid for it (and that's with zero improvements in the city infrastructure / services)

Actually, that's entirely likely.  I get similar phone calls all the time*, and it's a fact that (apparently) I could easily get 4x what I paid for my place.  The issue is, assuming one wants to stay in the area (I do), where to move to and a) stay alive, and b) not blow all the profits on a new place.  There are a handful of area in greater Ft. Lauderdale (but not Ft. L. proper)  that are simply not safe at all. 

As to the "improvements" issue, the mayor (one of us) held a function in this 'hood several years ago, promising this and that, none of which has yet materialized.  Apparently, gay mayors get the same "tell em what they wanna hear" illness that seems to infect most mayors everywhere.  

*that's about the only thing I like about cellphones:  we can "block" the number and not hear from the caller again.  

9 hours ago, Hunter22 said:

the top just slides his cock from his hole straight to my open mouth 🤤

Well you sweet pig !!!!!  I'd go prowling with you .....