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Great stories, and they have something in common:  

#1:  It's not productive in any way for one guy in a committed, monogamous relationship to think he can simply ignore/forget/disavow his true nature.  

#2:  That fact results in carrying guilt, shame, even embarrassment at his lack of willpower.  

#3:  #'s 1 & 2 result in a fracture - even if the "cheated-on' partner remains unaware - which begins to gnaw at the foundation of the relationship - even if the unaware partner remains blissfully ignorant.  The "cheater" feels guilty, becomes more distant, begins to withhold the fullness of his being, and the "cheated-on" partner will sense that.  He may not understand why, and begin to withdraw emotionally as well.  

The act of taking anonymous loads in fuckjoints like the above-described is an act of self-affirmation, it's an act, a demonstration of who and what he really is.  Who he simply needs to be.  Thus, if the relationship was founded upon the sand of dishonesty (however well-meaning), eventually the relationship will be damaged, even if the cheated-on partner never finds out.  It's the guilt that one guy feels for being the man he simply is.  A raven cannot simply will himself to be a bluebird, when foundational human sexuality is in question.  

Cumdumps are to be upheld, reinforced, celebrated in celebrating their truth.  It's simply not reasonable for a raven to be expected to turn himself into a bluebird or anything else.  That's an act of denial of one's core of being; attempting to become that which he most certainly is not.  We cannot simply change our very nature, we can only celebrate it with a life-partner who upholds his loved-one's thirst.  Thus, having that conversation - however long it takes - prior to establishing the relationship - is crucial to the life and depth of the relationship.  Avoiding our truth when considering a close relationship with a lover, partner, husband, whatever is planting a time-bomb with a loooong fuse into the bedrock of that relationship.  

For Heaven's Sake .... be open and honest about all the things you have to offer, all the things you want, including your sexual needs - desires - fantasies - requirements beFORE establishing a committed relationship.  Even if that disclosure ends the prospect, that's better then hurting the prospective partner.  Take all the precautions against disease if you need to.  Delineate certain times or places or circumstances if you need to.  Just share the wholeness of your life.  At the very least, the prospective partner deserves to know them all - each guy  deserves to know something that special. 

And, if it doesn't work out, at least ones integrity remains intact.  There are tons of men who adore cumdumps, and one of them will fill all the shoes, including the big black boots. 

4 hours ago, tobetrained said:

blush

LOL ..... I haven't managed to do that in YEARS !!!  ❤️

verbalBTTM, this story is simply fantastic. 

It won't be for every guy, and that's 100% ok - it's not written for every guy. 

For those men whose sexual explorations/fantasies/desires have included the rarified world of Leathersex, Bd/sm, it's manna for a satisfaction-hungry mind.  I'd guess that there are quite a number of guys that have fantasized about a life of service, but haven't found the courage to actually seek that life out. 

Beautifully conceived, beautifully composed, and sublime in it's focus, it's a pleasure to absorb.  Please continue to share your talents with us.  

2 hours ago, NWUSHorny said:

What are your thoughts?

To me, I believe it's becoming more dangerous to post anything online that would raise conservative eyebrows.  For those with a discerning eye, there are queens-aplenty in the current administration, but unless they have their tongues up Someone's ass (shudder - I mean FIGURATIVELY - ) , which tells me the aforementioned "Someone" couldn't care less personally about who's fucking who. 

That said, he could easily figure out that leaving the immigrants/minorities/folks-who-aren't-pale alone for a while; there are other targets for his plump fingers to point at.  For all I know, the Epstein files might contain some really surprising evidence; hence the desperation to divert attention from that whole sordid mess.  

To the question though, I don't post any particularly personal information on anything.  In the event that I want to, there are other, more old-fashioned (and safer) ways to communicate.  Plus, I've been "living in a foreign country" as well.  

tobetrained,

it's a complete pleasure reading, mulling your thoughts.  I admire the depths of insights, contributions, and particularly the links you post.  Thanks so much.  

21 hours ago, TownTravellerMan said:

Slammer 1,2,3

If you'll permit me;  the name of that fuckjoint is just Slammer. 

Here in Ft. L., it's located at 321 W. Sunrise Blvd.  Lots of locals refer to it as just 321 (as do I, with fellow residents).

On 10/18/2025 at 4:35 PM, TownTravellerMan said:

I don't know remember if there was one in ft Lauderdale

There was a number of years ago.  Lately, there's been an effort to re-open an Eagle bar here in Ft. L., but apparently the would-be owner is still searching for suitable locations.  Haven't heard much lately about it though.  From a "business" point of view, it would have to be at least as <polite cough> fun as the Wilton Manors Eagle, and have plenty of damn parking !!!  There are a number of suitable vacant buildings in the RamRod area, but I think the city would be hesitant to have two Leatherbars within midnight walking distance of each other.  Plus, there are a lot of guys that bought homes in the area, for obviously convenient reasons.  

Thanks, tobetrained, for those interesting links. 

Given the Administrations interest in Venezuela, and the 40B he's given to the despot farther south, do you think there's some kind of connection between the two?  For instance - oh - maybe a military base in Guatemala - or a naval base on that nations western shore, or anything else.  It doesn't appear that he gives anything to anyone unless he gets something in return.  I seems rather unlikely that he'd pay anything just out of the parsimoniousness of his heart.

Forty billion could buy a lot of "something". 

Given that Venezuela possess enormous reserves of (in ground) oil, and given that K.S. has been blowing fishing boats out of the water lately, and given that his Nibs has recalled an aircraft carrier group from the Mediterranean, now sailing towards South America, one could be excused for wondering why.  He's been blowing fishing boats out of the water for weeks now, claiming they were laden with illegal drugs.  Perhaps an ancillary motive would be to remove any auxiliary, fast, easily maneuvered Venezuelan boats that could contest (in theory, at least) an effort to displace Maduro from power, and simply install a puppet government in that nation.   

Said puppet government would likely allow the (perhaps behind-the-scenes)  usurping of these oil reserves, to the benefit of the US and it's endless thirst for oil.  This isn't attempting "three dimensional chess",  it's nothing but "I can, so I will".  I'm not actually predicting anything, of course - I don't have a magic hat - but nothing surprises me in DC anymore.  

Welcome, new guys !!!  There are all kinds of "threads" on BZ, and we look forward to hearing more from all of you.

On 10/26/2025 at 4:02 AM, Pozzible said:

Cheers, guys!

Cheers back, and thanks for your estimable contributions.  

On 10/24/2025 at 1:25 PM, NordicBtm said:

Im mostly worried about thieves tbh

Arrange to have a friend there, to keep watch (and maybe fuck if the crowd thins a bit before the ravening hordes arrive).  Be sure to put small, easily-pocketed items away prior to the event - no sense in tempting the susceptible.  

20 hours ago, Pozzible said:

The United States remains the only high-income democracy never to have adopted full universal coverage.

That is indeed a failure on the part of the US, and it's failure across the board.  Neither political party has championed full, universal coverage, to the shame of both. 

To the issue of taxation, a reasonable expectation is that when a Government gives universal care to it's population, and taxes that population to pay for it, everyone benefits.  Those that are already wealthy can afford to pay, and those who have always had little, pay less.  The hook lies in the fact that everyone pays at least something. 

The problems start, however, when the more affluent decide they shouldn't have to pay for everyone else (which, of course, they don't), and that excuse for "reasoning" is rampant in the US lately.  Greed is one of those "catching" diseases, and it can spread rapidly.  It takes leaders of conscience to keep greed at bay, which is glaringly absent in the US these days.  

19 hours ago, tobetrained said:

pressuring Europe to stop buying Russian energy (which helps fund their war effort)

We can add China and India to that list, which nations have actually increased there importation of Russian oil products (meaning crude + refined), and Turkey as well.  Apparently though, Modi is considering reducing India's dependency on Russian oil.  China however, remains the biggest customer of Putin's financial crutch by a substantial margin.  

Thanks for that most interesting commentary.  

19 hours ago, PaganzofLA said:

"why, who is it that wants to know?"

If you're hinting that there could be enemies reconnoitering, there's no reason to think they're not already here. 

Maintain courage though - so far, free speech (spoken or via the written word) is still legal.  

SOMEBODY knows is way around what Dominance/submission is all about; what that life truly is.   

I'm hoping that the reference to "Chapter One" means there will be more chapters to this magnificent prelude !!! 

On 10/21/2025 at 2:27 AM, NJRawDaddy said:

What's a bottom cumdump to do?  I listened for whatever phrases they were saying -- sometimes about me, sometimes about themselves, and I'd reflect it right back at them.  "You like fucking that fat ass, don't you?"  "Yeah, fuck that cummy hole.  You have no idea how much cum you're dipping into."  And in one case a top kept talking about his "thick Puerto Rican dick", so I began echoing that back.  "Fuck that Puerto Rican dick of yours is thick!  Fuck me harder!"

Bingo.  Reinforcing whatever compliments the Tops are tossing your way, only guarantees a hotter scene for you.  If one (or more) seems hesitant to be verbal, you can give him "permission" to become more-so with a couple of piggish comments of your own (tailored to him, his cock, how he uses it, etc.  Even Tops sometimes need a little "encouragement".  

19 hours ago, tallslenderguy said:

And i suspect the lust He evokes in me feeds and stokes His lust as well.

Bingo.  You win again !!!

19 hours ago, tobetrained said:

I only offer as a broad guide but nothing determinative.

Well, maybe it's time for AI to head over to the garage for tune-up?  The results seem a bit unreliable 🙄

13 hours ago, Pozzible said:

literally take a backhoe to the White House

Apparently, he thinks the White House belongs to him personally, and always will.  However, what can be built up can also be torn down.  Interestingly, when FDR initially began the East wing, apparently it was to cover up the existence of a bomb shelter beneath it.  

I can't help but wonder what use for that bomb shelter (if it's still there) we can come up with, when the Grifter-in-Chief is no more ..... 

On 10/20/2025 at 8:31 PM, BreedingTop71 said:

why do you think faggots are like this?

This may be a bit too ethereal for some, but .... 

When men breed, they are "connecting" on a deeper level than we normally do with others.  Each guy is offering up one of his most foundational, personal qualities to another man/men, and that's a real, intense, and important part of them they're offering.  Whether T or b, each guy is offering his own truth, his own true self to the other, as they celebrate the mating ritual.  That's a really powerful experience, and the proof is in how each man feels after a great fuck.  So powerful, in fact, that many men try to repeat that sensation of "connection" over and over and over again - sometimes in one visit to a fuckjoint.  Seeking that "connection" over and over again, whether cock to mouth or cock to ass,  or the more extensive Leatherplay, BD/sm, or anything else, it's being connected to each other in beautiful ways that is so very satisfying.  

Pumping one's sperm up another man's hole is like saying "I love you,  who you are, what you are, and you are valuable".  Taking another man's cock/load up your fuckhole is answering in kind.  Each man is sharing that which makes him feel alive, feel needed, wanted, and of tremendous value.  

To the OP, I haven't noticed anything in particular changing in the daily bodily functions, and I've used PrEP for years now.  I do all the things I always have (working in the gardens, trimming trees, transplanting things, all of that), and haven't noticed any changes. 

That said, I haven't been hunting for them either.  

Thanks for that question.  

Given that the US has been seen (by many citizens of other nations) as the place to relocate to (if & when things go south in their native countries), the US appears to be the "default" location by virtue of our history in welcoming all peoples to our shores. 

The underlying misperception might be that everything is wonderful here, with nothing but largess to spread around, and those that created that wealth (over generations) are only too happy to share it.  That perception goes against one of the more regrettable human characteristics, namely selfishness vs generosity. 

There's a fine point to be considered, namely generosity is easily extended when the recipients adopt US values, meaning adding to the society, as opposed to detracting from it.  There may be a perception among some US citizens of several generations that there are too many non-contributing immigrants, but I believe that perception is a false impression.  

According to the googler, the population of Norway is around 5.5 million, while the population of the US is around 340 million. 

That would suggest that a much greater percentage of the population in the US is (at least at present) not productive relative to the population than in Norway.  In your view, why would that be the case (if it is)?  

Some would say the US has far more indolent citizens than your fine country, but one of the aggravating factors is the tremendous variance of cultures in the US.  Do you know what the percentage is of recent (say, within 40, 50 years) of immigrants (non native-born Norwegians) that are contributing members of society (meaning, working, paying taxes, etc).?   

More bluntly, in the US there may well be a greater percentage of citizens who, for one reason or another, are not contributing members, but rather immigrants that have come to the US to escape more egregious strictures in their native countries, and thus would wind up in the cycle of recurring hardship.  

I've occasionally wished I were versatile, but I'm just not.  Can't help it - I'm just not. 

So, I remain happy with what I do best.  

3 hours ago, tobetrained said:

don't know how.

Here's how (I think) it works:  When you're an active member - meaning participating in the discourse - you "earn" the right to use the little doo-dads to upvote, like, say 'thanks', etc.  I assume it's to discourage those of ill will, but I don't know that. 

Keep commenting, posting your own content, and it'll happen sooner than you think, so keep responding to various threads of conversation, and presto - you'll have all the privileges available too.