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16 hours ago, ellentonboy said:

across the street from the Ramrod

and now you know why I bought a house in this neighborhood.  Sadly though, the action in the bar has really been impacted by the Eagle over in W.M's.  Not much going on over there anymore - at all.  

Just now, NordicBtm said:

Still he kept that damn condom on 😹

Does he say why?  Does he know there are medications that can prevent (or greatly lower) the chances of catching something undesirable?  There are guys that haven't worn a condom since hiv surfaced - and I'm one of them - and I've only come down with one of the lesser bugs occasionally.  There are also medications available that (when taken for 3 days after raw sex) prevent the common bugs that have been around forever.  

That said, maybe he's just halsstarrig ..... 

On 9/26/2025 at 3:06 PM, NordicBtm said:

The only reason I keep him around is his amazing dick 😇😂

Well, sometimes we can try, and they just won't.  However, keep on trying ...

Maybe if you arrange a little group-action, and he's the only one who won't fuck raw, he'll watch ..... and watch ...... and finally figure out that it's simply the hottest way to fuck there is.  If you do, be sure to clue the other guys in, making sure they mention how fantastic the raw hole feels, how hot it is to fuck in other cocks loads, all of that.  But be sure to clue the other guys in on the goal, so they can help - telling the bottoms how hotttt their raw holes feel, all of that.  

One of these days, he'll want in on the action, and you'll get a verrrrrrrry nice surprise when he comes over 😁

Hi back, Ben1970, and welcome !! 

There are many different subjects being discussed, (as you probably already know), and we look forward to hearing more from you.

On 2/25/2023 at 11:28 AM, FelchingPisser said:

This feels like a topic from 2008.  I haven't seen condom use for a very long time and I play a lot in public spaces.

Agreed 100%.

Wellllllll ......... it's not a deal-breaker (some guy has to be the first to load the hole), but I much prefer a well-bred hole.  There's simply no better way to be sure the bottom is a thoroughly committed, in love with hard raw cock up his hole, pig.  

There are all kinds of permutations of relationships, and particularly in our corner of the gay world.  The mores, habits, arrangements, lusts all have to be put in their proper order, according to each guy's honestly-felt needs.  

The only way to achieve this - and thus a loving, satisfying relationship is to honestly talk with each other (meaning sex, or any other facet of life) - and build the relationship on that "rock" of trust.  Cheating is a fickle flower - it's fun for a while, and while the bloom fades, there needs to be something concrete to offer a firm footing to the relationship, and it just ain't sex.  

I think each guy in an "open" relationship gets a lot from the relationship, when it's founded upon the rock of honesty.  More, while relationships mature, they also often bend to accommodate new inclusions in that relationship.  Sometimes, one of the partners can't handle some new arrangement, and that's a real shame, but in order for the relationship to progress, both men need to be flexible, not frozen in what was good years prior.  That applies to a lot of things:  mortgages, locations of where to live, and more thrilling sexual agreements.  

So what's the common denominator?  Caring about the other guy enough to keep him apprised of what's happening in one's life - regardless of what that "thing" happens to be.  Love is as precious a gift we can enjoy and celebrate in our lives, as I saw/see it, and working to achieve it doesn't mean it becomes cast-in-concrete.  Lust is a wonderful human capacity, trumped (and do excuse the usage) only by real love.  

Point:  Just be honest with people you truly care about and love.  Fuck all the others (literally).   

Other than one's long-term "lover" or "partner" (which it would be expected), I vote a solid yes ... 

It seems there's a gremlin switching portions of text on the sly 😄 

Never the less, thanks to both of you guys for such an interesting discussion.  

So I picked up two of Harris' book.  One of my buddies is having to undergo a series of eye surgeries, and he can't read for a while.  So, when I brought his copy over to his house, I read the first chapter aloud for him (he and I have been going to all the protests together - it's been fun).  I'll be going over there to do a chapter a day (when he's ready, of course), until he can either read again, or  we finish the book.  

To the interview on Maddow's show the other night, her intelligence was yet again demonstrated clearly, and I don't think she's going to run.  I hope I'm wrong - she's got high-carbon steel in her backbone - but it sounds like she's got other things planned.  Then again, it's really early to talk much about who might, who might not, all of that.  

22 hours ago, phillygwm said:

You'd need to know him well enough

Well, I did ... he had plenty of money, didn't need any of mine.  He just wanted to be a cumdump, and that was a-ok with me. 

Thanks.

There's a more extensive reply somewhere in the previous pages, but ... I fucked a guy in a junkyard out East (Ohio, maybe?) on top of a '49 Buick fastback ... I don't quite have a "straight-8" under my hood, and engines need even numbers for fire properly, but that old Buick didn't seem to care - and the guy loved the fresh "fluid" in his oil-pan.  

16 hours ago, NLbear said:

@hntnhole He's not into drugs and we have been fucking for quite some time now. Nothing is missing.

I'm really glad to know drugs aren't the issue in your case. 

Could be he's just a honest guy that needs to live somewhere, keep food in his belly, and loves hard raw cock up his gut.  I've got my fingers crossed that it'll work out for you 😉

8 hours ago, NLbear said:

What to do?

Be really careful.  At one time, I "kept" a cumdump for a few years.  The 'cumdump" part was glorious - but he had a little secret (drugs) that he managed to keep from me for quite a while.  While it's not my business who takes what, it does become my business when they live in my house.  Things went missing when I wasn't around (apparently tricks with sticky fingers), and the drug addiction made him more and more unreliable.  A ton of fun while it lasted, it didn't end badly - but it did end.  

Just be sure you know who the guy really is.  

Thanks for your erudite and detailed commentary. 

I guess we'll have to agree to disagree re: the racism situation; I don't believe that completely dealt with, as it should be by now. 

I didn't compare Obama to Harris intellectually, since there's no comparison to be made.  The way I see it, The choice McCain made for Veep was a ridiculous choice, considering some of Palin's public utterances.  Obama is/was far more intellectually adept, and won the election based on his estimable abilities. 

To your point about national origin, unless one happens to be of Native American descent, we're all either immigrants, or descendants of immigrants.  Some "emigration" was by choice, of course, but for far too many it was anything but. 

As to the "gay" quotient in public service, as the public education system continues to churn out poorly-prepared graduates, the brightest potential leaders that happen to be gay are more and more acceptable (so long as they're "regular" persons, and not "flaming" gays.  That might be attributable to less discriminating public policy advocated by Liberals, as opposed to those who espouse racialized ideals re: who is most able among us.  

12 hours ago, SomewhereonNeptune said:

And how much does she really hold in common with most blacks in the US?

I don't see the point:  for too many Americans, she's black:  for too many Caucasian Americans, that's all it took/takes.  Folks who make judgements about others based on racialized preconceptions and nothing else don't need any other qualifier.  Actively being publicly "racist" has diminished in the US, thankfully, but that doesn't mean that underachieving Americans have stopped carrying that depravity within themselves.  The "ICE" raids on Home Depot's and the like across the country have proven that Caucasians are far more likely to be ignored, while Americans with a certain degree of melanin-content in their skin make the racism current, obvious, and deplorable.  We - as a polyglot of immigrants - have still not completely irradicated that curse.  

12 hours ago, SomewhereonNeptune said:

many are coming forward to say that Biden was losing faculties for the last couple years.

Agreed, and it appears the situation was worse than we thought ... until that most regrettable debate.  I don't know anything more than anyone else about medically-caused deterioration, but whatever it is, all of us saw it clearly, bluntly, and obviously.  The person Biden was debating had/has nothing whatsoever to do with that.  I have come to believe that everyone in the Biden Administration was anguished by his abrupt decline, and did their best to "cover" for him.  The fact that he insisted on running again only brought the medical issues to the fore.  

And, in a lighter vein:  

13 hours ago, SomewhereonNeptune said:

Both Buttigieg and Bessant are gay

Yeah, but one is clearly a Top and the other isn't.  Apparently, Studebaker-ville produces more Tops than Conway, SC.

Thanks for your most interesting and cogent thoughts.  It's the exchange of ideas, perceptions, beliefs like this that I most enjoy here on BZ.

17 hours ago, partying.hard said:

But Charlie often said that murder is a necessary evil

Really !!!  I thought he was a committed Christian ..... apparently not!

Of perhaps ancillary interest, Harris will be on MSNBC this coming Monday evening (Rachel Maddow's guest) at 9;00 pm, Eastern US time. 

Maddow is known for asking "no bullshit" questions, and putting up with none in answers.  If Harris has any answers to give, Maddow will pry them out of her.  

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To the "why she lost" question:

Much of her campaign was a bit prosaic.  Then, there's the fact that she's a woman (with a beautiful smile), and and of African American descent to boot.  And, while her choice of VP is a good and decent man, he didn't generate much in the way of coattails, which is the primary duty of any VP candidate.  There was precious little of a potential for hard-nosed negotiations with other world leaders, and that lovely smile just isn't enough when one runs for President.  There are plenty of misogynist's in the electorate, for whom that would be enough to vote for someone else.  

Then, there's the racism problem.  There are far too many Americans still infused with racism, and that hill would be a tough climb.  While Biden's physical decline was obvious, she apparently felt that stepping into her VP role a bit too forcefully might turn some voters off even more, that die has already been cast.  I still think that Jill Biden is mostly to blame for pushing Joe too far, which also means she pushed to keep Harris out of doing more.  

Put the two together (racism and misogyny) and Harris has two mountains to climb, as well as putting forth viable proposals for the American people.  

I'm no Maddow fan, but I'll be watching on Monday night.  

The usual fuckjoint; the rains held off mostly yesterday afternoon, so the streets weren't flooded.  So far today, only a little bit of rain, so tonight might be promising as well. 

X = crossed fingers.

On 9/19/2025 at 11:26 AM, firstexp said:

im happy to be here!!

We're happy you are too, and we look forward to hearing more from you.  

Since his murder, I've learned a bit about the guy; I'd never heard of him before.  

I would have preferred he be discredited, his (apparently) misogynistic views rejected, and dealt with that way.  Hatred only begets more hatred.  

11 hours ago, barebackbro said:

I don’t think you should feel bad about doing what you want with your own body

I don't think any guy would quibble with that statement - it's obvious. 

The only qualifier would be, if you're endangering the health of someone you love, who's unaware of your own wanton lusts.  

18 hours ago, SomewhereonNeptune said:

Should she even run again?

I'm not at all sure she wants to run again.  If she did, there would be more exposure in the media, and she's been really quiet since.  That's really uncharacteristic of a hungry pol.  

18 hours ago, SomewhereonNeptune said:

Has she stepped in it and killed her chances for political notoriety due to writing the book?

I haven't read it yet, so I can't really comment on that.  I'll get around to it at some point ... 

18 hours ago, SomewhereonNeptune said:

Do the identity considerations in selecting a running mate (race, gender, sexual orientation) along with her other comments portray Americans as racists, or is Harris projecting her racism upon the voters?

Now THAT's a really interesting question, and worth a well-thought-out response.   I'll put that in the "stew-pot' in the back of my head and set the oven on "simmer".

To the OP though, I loved it. 

He particularly loved sucking off Cocks, but enjoyed a hard raw cock up his gut too.  After he passed, and I moved to S.F, I met that cumdump I kept for a few years.

That was really fun.

12 hours ago, Harder2Resist said:

It’s definitely a fantasy of mine though

You've planted the seed in his mind - now all you have to do is keep watering it, little by little, until it bursts forth with a glorious, brilliant bloom !!! 

He'll find it "harder2Resist" too.  

22 hours ago, onlyraw said:

And wondering how he is going to explain all the cum, spit, and ass juice stains when he takes his suit into the dry cleaner

That reminded me of something similar that happened years ago.  

I can't remember why, but I sucked my other half's cock while he was reading the newspaper one morning.  He never shot a single stream of sperm, it always just splashed all over.  I don't remember any special occasion, but he had put on a navy blue cashmere sweater, and it was covered with droplets of his load.  

When I took it to the cleaners, I merely said to the clerk "this is all biological material".  The lady working there didn't bat an eye.  

17 hours ago, SomewhereonNeptune said:

You can thank Edward Snowden for the insight into the reach of data gathering. And I think that's just the tip of the iceberg.

Agreed.  Facts are facts, and while sometimes the truth is difficult to discern, sometimes they appear right in front of our faces.