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1 hour ago, tobetrained said:

It's saying, "you live by our values, or else and collateral damage is fine."

I have no idea what your reference to "collateral damage" is.  If you would make it clear, I would appreciate it.  Thanks.  

1 hour ago, tobetrained said:

 

1 hour ago, PozBearWI said:

Rather, he makes a deal with someone, then when the work is done they have to sue for payment.

Agreed.  And, it's really a confounding character-flaw to analyze.  How is it that some guy - any guy - gets that kind of mindset? 

The only potential answer I can figure out is, he was thoroughly spoiled as a little kid, and has never outgrown that emotional rot.  

Thanks for the response, tobetrained.  

22 hours ago, NWUSHorny said:

there is still a huge number of ABS establishments that have a small theater, as well as at least one bar that allows cruising, and 2 bathhouses.

No WONDER the ICE cop-wannabe's are aiming for Portland !!! 

On 10/14/2025 at 1:17 AM, 95SpainBBKer said:

in my opinion the best way to find good bareback sex is going to parties orgies or saunas where fucking becomes much easier and direct.

Agreed 100%. 

Sitting around, diddling a damn phone and expecting miracles isn't going to work out all that well.  Far more productive to get one's ass in the car, and go to where the action is.  Backrooms, tubs, gh locations, fuckjoints are where the action is, so that's where to go get in on the action.  

Maybe there's a dearth of those establishments where you live?  That's not a reason to sit around and bitch about it.  Get some guys together and figure it out.  Maybe get a few guys to sponsor an orgy.  Open some pigpen of a joint  - or move to where the action already is.  Don't just complain - do something.  

95SpainBBKer's right; the best breeding orgies happen when there are other guys having raw pigsex all around you.  

18 hours ago, tobetrained said:

trump-arms-scheme-ukraine/

This in a most interesting development re: T & the Ukraine.  Supposedly, T was going to speak to Putin today about furnishing long-distance missiles, which could easily reach Moscow and well beyond.  While no one wants an expanded war, when an intractable dictator is facing the prospect of his capital being hit by missiles, as well as oil refineries, all kinds of infrastructure, he may well pause to think it over.  Also, the Western nations are going after those nations that buy huge amounts of crude oil as well as refined oil.  That could really kick the Russians in the balls. 

But, until China begins to withdraw it's support of Russia, the trouble will likely continue.  China is the "big boy" actor in keeping Russian expansion running.  

on another note, this coming Saturday is No Kings Demonstration day.  Please consider doing at least something to resist.  

On 5/9/2025 at 3:45 PM, NordicBtm said:

I never expected us to get there

First, congrats on being patient with him.  Clinging to restrictive limits only works when both guys are committed to the same goal.  Your name must be Job - the biblical figure that "the patience of Job" originated from. 

When we accept that our loved one simply needs more time in coming to terms with his own Lust, (or in other facets of life together), that acceptance becomes and investment in the future, not an impediment.  Kudos to you for your patience; it paid off in the end (polite cough) .... literally 😉

6 hours ago, BBBreeding said:

Have you guys seen the same?

Welll ... no - there are a number of "seed-y" bars/baths/fuckjoints around here, and they all seem to be doing great (except RR).  

Business always picks up this time of year, when the snowbirds fly South for the winter, so there's a notable increase in traffic, but that's always the case.  It's most noticeable just after Thanksgiving.  

I definitely consider myself part of "the community".  It will come as no surprise to some that I am quite active politically, attend local protests (there are many in the area, some numbering in the high hundreds of protesters, some numbering in mere dozens.  I also belong to a gay political organization; we knock on doors, sign up new voters, send out "mailers", make phone calls, make decisions on which local candidates we will support - which are based on what the candidates (for local office) have to say when the come to address our group - and many do.  

It's not a burden, it's not a chore, but it is a duty for citizens that are politically "aware" to participate in some measure of activism, to the extent they can.  That said, anyone that cares about politics, where the country is, where it's heading, should do what they can to participate in the process.  Every citizen/prospective citizen/would-be citizen has a voice, and needs to use it now.  

Thanks, tobetrained, for that interesting addition to the conversation.  

On 10/9/2025 at 2:03 PM, tobetrained said:

My point, it's really about is the President doing something to help people?

Well said, tobetrained.  First, welcome to BZ. 

Secondly, thanks for that well-developed response to the subject.  While you may need "training" in certain arts,  well-constructed, well-reasoned composition is obviously not one of them.  

19 hours ago, phillygwm said:

I think it's a matter of shame for some people because they "can't" get laid without paying for it.

Well, thanks for adding that concept.

I hadn't considered that as an issue.  What, in your estimation, would "can't" - in this context - apply to?  Some disfigurement that would deter others?  Something else?  

20 hours ago, verbalBTTM said:

Penn Station is pretty much a homeless shelter

So that's the hook?  There were plenty of potentially homeless "read undocumented immigrants" hanging out there?  Thus, the Gestapo arrested not only the undocumented immigrants, but took the boys in for good measure?  

What goes around, eventually comes around.  

The concept of "money" is that it can be traded for whatever thing we happen to need. 

Thus, if a guy with something of value (oh, a place to live, for instance) wants something another guy has to offer (oh, maybe a hot raw hole to breed, for instance) commerce is ready and waiting.  Cold, hard cash is only a contrivance we humans have invented to facilitate the transactions of our daily lives.  "Cash" just makes it simpler, easier to "buy" what we need,

The concept of trading X for Y remains unchanged.  It's merely the vehicle - the method of payment - that comes into question.  Trading housing for on-demand raw hole is not all that  different than trading a dollar for a loaf of bread.  

18 hours ago, Ready2DoThis said:

Call it what you will but this is how WWII Germany was taken over

There was also a national feeling in Germany that the Treaty of Versailles, ending the First World War, had fucked the German nation over royally - and there was some merit to that notion.  Obviously, "the leader" (translated into English) worked that angle to the enth degree as well as fanning the flames of racism into a fiery hatred.  Add in the thousands of SA hooligans (whose leader, Earnst Roehm, was a ravenous gay man) enforcing the dictates of "the leader", and presto:  A once proud, liberal nation, foremost in advancing the liberal arts, the humanities so magnificently, became what it became. 

If it can happen there a century ago, it can happen anywhere.   

On 10/9/2025 at 10:25 AM, tallslenderguy said:

Quid pro quo sex is just not sex to me, it's a sort of psychological condom

LOL ... you always manage to come up with such delicious metaphors 😄

LOL .... yep - I'll remember .... I promise.  

Let's all hope this latest update re: the ancient, endless animosity between the Palestinians and the Israelis will finally bring some measure of equity to the unfortunates, suffering starvation, nothing but ruins to eke out a bare existence in, and I'd even hold my tongue if U-No-Hoo actually does get credit for it.  

As Liza once sang ..."Maybe this time - for the first time ...." 

21 minutes ago, verbalBTTM said:

I might have to create a series chronicling my youthful adventures.

What a splendid idea .... please do.  

22 minutes ago, verbalBTTM said:

Perhaps a "Confessions" section should be added for some of the things I've done.

Nonsense.  Whatever you've done deserves to be shared with others.  Who knows - you might inspire others ... just sayin .... 

Some guys can shoot really far - several feet - particularly when they're <polite cough> younger. 

The bottoms those guys breed always feel each volley - and they go nuts for it.  

On 10/7/2025 at 7:07 PM, blackrobe said:

you can't assume he knows with certainty what his status is

Frankly, one can't assume anything when raw sex is involved. A guy in heat will say anything to get loads.  

Thus, for guys that want to avoid hiv, take every precaution one can for oneself - that's the only facet we actually can control.  

Well done !!!  

However, we'd like more ... and I don't use "please" all that often.  

7 hours ago, verbalBTTM said:

Apparently, I must have spoken the secret phrase

Great story - and apparently you DID.  

23 hours ago, J-raw said:

Nobody thinks that Harris is an honest person

Well, not many people think that any politician these days is completely honest.  That said, at least she's not as egregious as most. 

I don't think she's at all interested in running again (for President).

19 hours ago, PozBearWI said:

I am a strong believer in us as individuals choosing to agree to disagree

Well said.  I still enjoy Maher, sometimes, but I enjoy the show after his even more.  It's "Have I Got News for You"; they have weekly guests, and insult everyone.  Maher has become a bit dated, but it's still good for an occasional laugh.  And, who wouldn't rather drift off with a smile, rather than all the angst?  

btw:  I had my tv's fixed so they cannot even go to Fox (except on Sundays and Monday nights or Thursday nights, for NFL games)