Being cheated on, getting off on it

[siciliano17]

Over the past year, I finally realized I have a fetish for being cheated on. I don't know how it developed or where it came from, but I was dating a great guy who had a pretty average though very nice cock. He'd fuck me with it and I'd ask him about harmless flirtatious he had with a counter boy somewhere - what he thought his ass would feel like, etc. or I'd ask about his ex boyfriends and how I compared to them - who was tightest, who gave the best head, etc - and it always turned me on more hearing that someone was tighter than me or gave better head.

This naturally progressed to me encouraging him to fuck other guys and to not let me do it - even though what I really wanted was for him to be exclusive with me and for me to find out he was fucking some ass (preferably a boy who was tighter, gave better head etc) behind my back.

We broke up, but kept fucking and he got really into telling me how loose I am (most of my bfs before him were Magnum XL wearers) and how when he found someone whose ass felt better than mine he would let me know.

Sadly he got weird and decided to be a dick and stop being into the whole thing...but it was hot for awhile. The problem is that with every guy I've dated since, I get so turned on thinking of them following their cocks and fucking some bottom like its nothing and me finding out/overhearing/walking in on it but having to tell a top that kinda ruins the reality of the situation. Being "in on it" can be hot but isn't exactly what gets me off.

Anyone else in the same situation? Like fantasizing about being cheated on/getting told about others who were better than you on some way by your bf?

[TxBBTop]

read my story on this... i had a fuck bud who loved for me to tell him that his ass was "barely better then my hand" and that he was a loose whore and that I didnt like fucking him and that he was my LAST RESORT.

http://breeding.zone/threads/14041-I-Bred-Blackmailed-and-Video-Taped-my-Ex-Fuck-Bud

[bigdick4you]

Cheating and being cheated on is always exciting....but I'm sorry to say there is of course something wrong with the whole idea... With other words don't think it's a very healthy state of mind...

[submissivefaggot]

I love this too - have a regular top with a great cock and who is great at verbal humiliation who tells me when he's got a younger better fuck and how I am his last resort if he needs to unload. He once invited me over and I was expecting to get his cock but it was just to show me that he already had someone over who he was fucking. Made me watch then clean up after.

[cam1972]

I will confess I don't understand the desire to be humiliated. Not even in fantasy do I like humiliation. And it is extremely humiliating to be cheated on. Been there, done that, didn't even get a damn t-shirt. And I hated it. Cheating on someone would not be exciting for me. Haven't cheated, but I know I would be filled with guilt to the point that it would not be worth it. So no excitement there either. Guess I would check the "no I don't get off on being cheated on" box, if there were one.

[HungLatinDom]

Straight guys don't understand our craving. Subs don¡t understand me and don't understand subs.

To each one, its own thing. It takes the bunch of us to make the world an interesting place.

[whitetrash]

Who knows how many/few we are but you def are not alone.

I also get turned on being cheated on. In fact id rather the single than have a faithful bf. We all want to make sense of the world.

If i feel and believe Im worthless i have a need to be teated like that. If not i only get confused and blame myself for having "wrong" feelings. Fall is masochism or whatever but being sub and deciding to be honest with yourself is not unhealthy at all.

I will never ever accept the idea that all men are equal.

I hope you find someone that can give you what you need.

[cam1972]

Straight guys don't understand our craving. Subs don¡t understand me and don't understand subs.

To each one, its own thing. It takes the bunch of us to make the world an interesting place.

And an interesting place it is. There are things in each individual that no one else will understand. Hell, I don't understand myself sometimes.

[JezzabellaCD]

On 5/4/2012 at 8:43 AM, siciliano17 said:

Over the past year, I finally realized I have a fetish for being cheated on. I don't know how it developed or where it came from, but I was dating a great guy who had a pretty average though very nice cock. He'd fuck me with it and I'd ask him about harmless flirtatious he had with a counter boy somewhere - what he thought his ass would feel like, etc. or I'd ask about his ex boyfriends and how I compared to them - who was tightest, who gave the best head, etc - and it always turned me on more hearing that someone was tighter than me or gave better head.

This naturally progressed to me encouraging him to fuck other guys and to not let me do it - even though what I really wanted was for him to be exclusive with me and for me to find out he was fucking some ass (preferably a boy who was tighter, gave better head etc) behind my back.

We broke up, but kept fucking and he got really into telling me how loose I am (most of my bfs before him were Magnum XL wearers) and how when he found someone whose ass felt better than mine he would let me know.

Sadly he got weird and decided to be a dick and stop being into the whole thing...but it was hot for awhile. The problem is that with every guy I've dated since, I get so turned on thinking of them following their cocks and fucking some bottom like its nothing and me finding out/overhearing/walking in on it but having to tell a top that kinda ruins the reality of the situation. Being "in on it" can be hot but isn't exactly what gets me off.

Anyone else in the same situation? Like fantasizing about being cheated on/getting told about others who were better than you on some way by your bf?

I dream of having a fem CD bf or trans mtf who and fucks around behind my back .. promiscuity is so fucking hot!