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Tops - What do you think of bottoms who don't get hard?  

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  1. 1. Tops - What do you think of bottoms who don't get hard?

    • It's a turn off when they don't get hard
      13
    • I don't really care if they get hard
      86
    • I think it's hot when they stay soft
      75


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Being strictly a Top I never cared much much whether or not the bottom got hard when I fucked him, my main purpose being to get my rocks off in him. I was flattered if a bottom said he got turned on by getting fucked by me, especially if I turned them on so much they cummed from the good fucking I put to their holes. I also liked some bottoms whose holes tightened up around my dick after they came. That improved their holes for my dick so I had a better cum in them.

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Being strictly a Top I never cared much much whether or not the bottom got hard when I fucked him, my main purpose being to get my rocks off in him.

Nor should You care, as a Top, in my view, Your needs are paramount, i often find i am not hard because of the pain and sometimes humiliation, and it can be even more humiliating with people watching and my soft cock cums from the fucking and associated abuse. Frankly, and again i speak only for myself, i would rather not be hard, and i never expect to be allowed to cum until the Top/s is/are finished, if at all (unless it is the result of prostatic massage by cock/s or fist)

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In many ways I don't care. However, at times I can find it very sexy if the bottom is totally limp while getting fuck. To me it shows he is all about pleasing you when his cock is limp. One absolute rule when I am topping, he better not touch his cock--total sign of disrespect. He can play with himself after I'm done with him.

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I'm not a total bottom, so I always get hard when having hot sex. It's part of the enjoyment. I won't always stay hard when getting fucked. I feel cheated if I don't get hard and shoot sometime during the sex. It's all about mutual pleasure.

  • 1 month later...
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As a bottom with a nice thick cock...I always get hard when getting fucked...and then wank on my cock to stay hard...my tops breeding me love it to see my cock hard especially as they think a guy with a nice thick cock should be a top...but heh...love to pleasure my tops with my hole and take their loads in me...

Posted

As a bottom, I rarely get hard, much less stay hard, when getting fucked, and it's not a concern for me, or my tops - I'm there to drain their balls and bladder in whatever way gives them the most satisfaction (and I don't cum until the top is satisfied, and then, sometimes well after he's gone). But one enthusiastic, dedicated fuck buddy likes me hard while he's fucking me (the usual session lasts about 2 hours). If I jerk off, I stay soft. But when he puts his big greasy warm hand on my cock it snaps to attention immediately, and that turns him on and inspires even deeper, harder thrusts.

But since I've gotten a prescription for trimix, I'm starting to top again, now that I can think about nuns and dead kittens and Margaret Thatcher and still stay rock hard (yay!) for a couple of hours. And when I'm topping, I am just as concerned with my bottom's pleasure as I am my own - if he's hard, it's a sign that I'm giving him what he wants. If he's soft, of course, there are other indicators I can "read". While I enjoy being a big mean nasty top ("Does it hurt? Good!"), I also enjoy the mental, emotional and physical interaction that's going on between my partner and myself - I'm don't do pump and dumps.

  • 3 weeks later...
Posted

I'm often soft when getting fucked. But it's not about whether I'm hard or if I cum, it's about satisfying the other guy and getting his load in one of my holes!

Posted

I'm now in a cock cage to reinforce the fact that I'm there for the pleasure of others, not for my pleasure although knowing that turns me on massively.

Posted

I purposely don't want to get hard. It's not about my pleasure. It's about the tops pleasure

and making sure he cums inside me. If a top wants me to get hard and they start fooling

around with my dick, I will get hard. Otherwise, I don't.

Posted

I'm there for the tops pleasure so I focus on pleasing his cock w/my ass or throat. Usually stay soft unless there are a group of guys talking dirty, then I get hard and sometimes shoot a load with the cock(s) stuffed in my holes.

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Sometimes I get hard, but mostly I stay soft. But like so many other bottoms have said in this thread, it's not about my cock. It is all about the cock going into my holes. That feeling of a big hard dick in my mouth and pussy is what matters to the top and to me. When the top breeds my pussy I get this sensational feeling that is for me better than my cock having an orgasm.

  • 8 months later...
Posted

you should check me out....I love getting fucked by hot tops with their big hard throbbing dicks, my boiclit stays small limp and shrunken while I concentrate on giving that dick the best boy pussy he's had...

love seeing tweaked out pussyboys getting fucked by hot tops with their big hard throbbing dicks vs the small limp shrunken boiclit

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