Abuse

[Slutboy]

Two weeks ago I met a guy that fucked me in his car in a bar parking lot. When he was done he yelled at me "get lost fag" and pushed me out of the car with my pants still down. A few other guys there saw me and were laughing.

He texted me Saturday and I ended up going over to his place. He had a friend with him but took me to his bedroom and fucked me hard. Again when he was done, he got abusive. He told me My ass was loose and worthless. He then brought his friend in and ordered me to blow him. When his buddy got close to cuming, he put his hands on my face and pulled my head back. His buddy shot a load all over my face. He held my head, face dripping and told me to "get the fuck out". He and his friend pulled me up and shoved me outside naked. The door slammed shut. A few seconds later they threw my clothes out minus the pants. I called a friend for a ride home.

I just got another text from him. For some reason, I like him. He is good looking and fucks well.

I am trying to figure out what to do with him...

Anybody else here have a man like that?

[JXC]

If your not comfortable, then leave, never talk to him again, There's plenty of fish in the sea. I know some people like the rough types but this guy (based on you post) just sounds like an asshole.

[Guest JizzDumpWI]

I agree, respect yourself. A fuck isn't worth being abused in that way.

[Rayne]

I've known a couple who enjoy that type of experience, just not very often. If you enjoy the abuse at the end, where cheap clothes so you don't lose an expensive pair of jeans/etc.. If you don't enjoy the abuse, you should tell him, and stop seeing him.

It sound like you enjoy the situation, but you just aren't sure how to handle it. Base on the brief story, I can't tell what his intentions are, and I can't tell if you actually like him, or the abuse. Care to elaborate on things?

[Slutboy]

I think the guy is hot and the sex is great. When he is a little rough I like it. He is just too mean when he is done. I was thinking to invite him over when my boyfriend is at work. That way, when he is done fucking me, he can just leave. He makes me a little nervous because he seems unpredictable. Very demanding and degrading. I think I will try him in my bed next time. Seems safer.

[seaguy]

This guy sounds like a total pompous looser who is using you as his fuck toy. Might seem hot but to him the joke is on you. Your the gay kid and he is the jock who picks on your at school, as an analogy.

Your pics are only of your hot ass and body but judging from them your cute and would have no trouble hooking up with a guy who will fuck you good but then treat you with dignity and respect when your done. Loose this ass holes number before he ends up hurting you when he does something really rude to show off to his friends or something.

[Rayne]

Slutboy, you should probably be careful with inviting him over. Let someone know, just in case he pulls some stupid shit out of his arse. I think you should find someone who won't push it too far, and ignore this guy.

Don't lose his number, though. Save it. The biggest mistake people make with these dicks is losing the number. If he hurts you too bad, or does something worse, you have a traceable number to give the authorities.

[TigerMilner]

You sound a lot like me. As long as they fuck me good I'll put up with a lot. Question is is he just playing by humiliating you? Or is he a seriously fucked up asshole? And will it get worse? Is it like that with him everytime? But hey, I just fucked with the guy who broke three of my ribs last fall, so what do I know. I didn't return his texts for months, then one down day, he got lucky. And then he got lucky again friday afternoon. WTF

[seaguy]

If you like to be slapped around and humiliated during sex find a hot leather daddy he'll at least act like an adult and not some bi polar psycho ass hole.

[pjaco]

I agree with Rayne and seaguy, this just does not sound right. I will be very careful around this guy if i am you slutboy. My advice is get out of the situation as quick as possible you never know what this guy is up to. I have been involved with a guy like this guy a few years ago and it turned out real ugly. So take care.

[bbsam]

Explain your concerns to him, make him aware of what are you and aren't comfortable with. If he is truly a decent guy then he will listen, take your points on board and stick to them in your next session. If he's not prepared to listen then he's an asshole (and not the good kind ), be done with him.

We all enjoy being treated rough, abused, fucked around and humiliated every now and then but at the end of the day we should all feel comfortable doing it with someone we trust. If you don't trust thus guy 100%, i'd break it off.

[AlwaysOpen]

1st off, he gave you most of your things back - INCLUDING your phone. Why keep the pants-- so you have to be shamed as you try to get home, or souvenier of another conquest??

DO NOT let him in your home.If he is sketchy or bi polar, you may sadly discover him stalking you or breaking in and stealing your things -- or sending guys over at all hours to be serviced by you ( sounds hot- but do you really want a crack whore on your doorstep as you sit down to dinner?)

Does he show ANY concern about you as he is fucking? I have been playing with a total dom pig-kink top the last couple weeks at the tubs- last Friday was a 5hr+ session of total submission to his use and enjoyment- piss, choking,fisting fucking, skull fucking, etc. But- each time a little too much effort was used on his part or mine, he would immediately back up a step, check on my comfort, then ease back and return to where it had been, just a little slower and more intent on the path. After the 5 hours, and when I really was totally exhausted, he sent me off to shower up, then when I came back to his room, he pulled me onto the bed, laid next to me, and held me until both of us dozed off- not a romance- but aftercare from a scene. Sounds like this guy you are playing with has seen a few too many porn fantasy scenes and not lived kink sex as well in the real world-- the BEST sex is when you readily and unreservedly WANT to race back for more.. it sounds like you are not quite so much there

[jankoslave]

some good points are raised. for me it looks like very hot being abused humiliated and then being discarded after the session is over. the good is that it seems to be different and interesting every time. there is also some kind of trust involved as he has invited you to his home - so you have his address and you have his phone no. would i invite him over to mine - nope not yet, maybe later if there is more trust. more trust can also mean it is getting boring....

waring cheap clothes is a good thing not to loose much money. wearing slutty cheap clothes can add to the degredation .... and to the fun.

your comments here show that you are attracted to the way he is doing you... so why not proceed. soon enough, there may be a situation where you feel that the attracting is disappearing... but until then - I would enjoy the abuse...

[NastyRigPig]

DO NOT LET HIM IN YOUR HOME. A friend of mind (who I though was in a monogomous relationship) had a thing with an abusive guy. He finally relented and had the guy over. The guy tied him up, raped/fisted him, pissed and shit all over their white sofa, then on the way out kicked their dog in the head, breaking its skull and they had to put the dog down. And yeah, the relationship ended too. No charges were pressed because of the shame/humiliation.

[Slutboy]

Okay. So I have a date with him tonite. I did invite him over BUT have a friend that will check in on me. Thanks for the advice guys. I have to admit, I kinda like him.