Can you feel condoms break?

[eightndeep]

It drives me NUTS when gay sex spokesperson Dan Savage goes on his pro-condom tirades with the argument that "you can't feel condoms because if you did, then people would not have them break and then keep fucking without realizing it, which happens to people all the time."

 

I don't think it happens all the time.  I think in a big portion of condom-breaks-while-fucking, the top knows it's broken and it feels so much better he has no desire to stop.  

[Guest mspchaser]

I rarely use condoms, and I've had a few break on me, but I never feel the cum shooting in me when the condom does break... what I do feel is the throbbing of his cock... it's less pronounced with the condom and when it breaks, it's more pronounced than if the condom was intact.

[not_sure_bb]

Speaking as a top, when I still used condoms I always noticed the extra warmth and wetness if one broke. It would have been hard to miss!

I liken it to the change in feeling when I'm getting serviced at a glory hole and the guy on the other side stops sucking my dick and unexpectedly backs his ass up onto it.

I'd love to hear whether bottoms notice the change.

Re: what to do, sometimes I was good and stopped, sometimes I let the first spurt of my cum go inside, and sometimes I let it all go.

Unless two guys are making decisions about getting STD tests and/or starting PEP, there is no point to talking about sexual history when the broken rubber is on the floor and cum is dripping out of the bottom's hole. You've shared something pretty special, so it's better to spend the time kissing, and getting ready for that first totally willful totally bare fuck. ;-)

 

 

as a bottom, you can definitely feel the difference

[hungrypighole]

I don't care how much, or what type of lube you use - a condom produces an annoying amount of friction.  As soon as the condom breaks, or the top rips it off, the enjoyment doubles or triples!  I've pretty much reached the point, that if you want to use a condom, go find some other bottom.  This pig wants it raw!

[Chrisb]

I love expired condoms 

[loadgiver]

Top here. Every time I wear a condom I can feel when it breaks.

Bottoms will notice too if they're not distracted in the moment with dirty talk, a kiss, or rough play...

[loadgiver]

On 8/27/2014 at 2:54 AM, cintarius said:

As a top, if you break it on purpose what do you say to the bottom if you get "caught?"

If the bottom isn't sufficiently distracted and notices the condom broke there are a lot of good responses I've tried...

1. "Ooops, oh no worries I've "prepared" another"
2. "that must be why it started to actually feel good, lets try a few more strokes like this and then I'll put another on. Don't worry, I won't cum inside"
            - When I pulled out to put the condom on lost my boner.  He'll thought it was because of the condom, but it was also because I just came in him.
3. Him: "did the condom just..." -interrupted by me "Fuck I'm cumming!"

 

If the bottom catches me intentionally breaking the condom...

I'll have to update if this ever happens.
The closest I got was someone texting after and try and accuse me of stealthing him because his hole was "sloppy" and he couldn't find the condom.  I told him I flushed it because it was full of cum and it would make his bathroom smell bad, I also told him I noticed his hold was sloppy when I entered him and I feel like I need to get tested now in case it was gono.  lol, he shut up after that.

[sneakybare]

You can feel it break when you top ... it feels better.

Sometimes feel it go as a bottom depending on the size of dick inside you. A dick suffocating ina condom suddenly gets new life when it's free 

[BoredMidwest]

As a top, I can always tell. My precum fills it up so much, there's a pressure sensation that gets uncomfortable. If it breaks, pressure is gone and the precum lubes things up more. The few times it's happened, the bottom noticed because the friction and slickness changed. Only had one request to pull out and get another.

[sneakybare]

Its very noticeable if it's a big dick....it doesn't have the same friction. it's also noticeable in the way the top eases off for a few strokes to see if you react.