Poz Guys - Do You Like Being Poz?

[Rubbdog]

I used to be worried and ashamed that I do like and really get turned on by being a slut, taking loads, just enjoyiong sex without careing about consequences.

For a while I did hold back, but then I saw that my life pretty much passes without me ever doing the stuff I like and crave.

Thankfully I was able to drop that completely,  I'm probably not poz, but I'm also not on prep and I do not give a fuck. I wish I had choosen that path some years earlier, but whatever ✌🏻

[Guest]

I hate being POZ. Yes it does open up several doors for sexual exploration, but as a Bi guy, it really harsh to my sex life and relationships with women. Really limits who will want to play with me even though I'm undetectable. And I don't want to lose out on that.

Edited April 4 by WillingRawVerse

[Misternobody1990]

Was barebacking all over, tho not actively chasing. Never would go back to. To me it’s the line u have to cross for a life of boundless sleazy bb sex…

[NegBbBttm4PozTops]

On 11/19/2023 at 8:58 PM, BootmanLA said:

Yes, you pretty much can (though you're likely to pick up all sorts of other bugs, which if untreated can also kill you and/or make your life miserable).

Of course if you'd gotten on PrEP before this, you could still be a "piggy slutty power bottom" and not have to deal with all the side issues of being HIV+. 

I am still hiv negative bottom but I totally agree with you on this one hot way to not be trying to join the brotherhood myself and once I do I will be happy to be poz bottom that feels like you all do about other stds ..😈

[BobBudenbender]

Have always been a bareback cum dump and ave no problems with it.I have not had the problems and issues medical or otherwise thus far.  I know all the negatives but being a sex pig is what works for me and I certainly don't tell others what they should or should not do. Getting mounted and bred/seeded by many cocks is hot and I never have turned down any cock, always willing to submit and be used. So being a POZ bottom is good for me and really like being a total slut, I  have the need for all the cocks and cum I can get pumped into you. I do.

[prowling4u]

After all being said...pros and cons...I want to be happier...I want to be free to fuck with no fear...stds are part of bareback fucking, but all the same is no reason to stop having sex. With all the advances of medicine nowadays..you only gonna have the temp bugs a few days   Cost if meds is not my worry cause I don't take any, oh..ok...I only take vitamins.  So expecting to become Poz someday..

[Hungryforbbc]

On 2/6/2011 at 11:03 AM, hungry_hole said:

What about other "nasties"? HIV is not the only one, so the freedom of a poz guy is still restricted unless you don't care about other diseases.

I've been a BB bottom for 12 years and have felt free and I have taken loads from total strangers: I've taken loads in a gloryhole and I never saw who was on the other side, just his load running down my legs. What I'm trying to say is that an HIV-neg bottom can also allow himself to be a slut and have fun doing it.

See to me, this is probably the way - maybe with prep (in hindsight I probably should have just done it myself but with my natural resistance I was concerned that it might cause issues). I have just started the journey but I will be starting meds tomorrow and I aim to get to undetectable as quickly as possible. 
 

it’s not even about me - my genetic and chosen families don’t need to be burdened with my health issues, nor do I have any intention on being constantly sick (I’ve already been through that with chronic UC and esophagitis and it’s no fun). Plus I have a great job, a fantastic circle and a life filled with love, fun and opportunities to experience and continue to evolve, inspire and enlighten that I intend to enjoy to the absolute fullest for as long as it is even slightly better than average. 
 

I’ve had so many scares- I mean back in the day we had to wait ten days for our test results and that was like torture) - and walked hand in hand with too many others who were not as fortunate as those of us who lived long enough for it not to be a death sentence - to be remotely afraid or even anxious. I know I’ll be fine. But if I could go back to last year and get on prep id much rather take a pill every day because I want to avoid it than to have to take one every day to keep from getting sick.  That should be an easy choice and I have no qualms about saying it here despite the obvious.  I had natural resistance but that’s not immunity and I knew that and took my chances anyway because I have been at peace with the idea of being infected since I first got bred back in the 80s by a  HS classmate. I freaked out and got tested. He died a few years later.  Same thing happened many times in my life. Lost three BEST friends and too many others to count and yet I still took as many loads from as many hung black tops as I possibly could with very little care about safety (always hated condoms). I GOT OVER FOR DECADES. And because I did, I will survive and everything will be fine until it isn’t because something happens. 
 

im not looking forward to having to disclose. I’m not looking forward to worrying about my health insurance and whether I can afford my meds. I’m not looking forward to telling my husband (although I know it’ll be okay it’s still a shitty conversation to have to have) and I’m not looking forward to dealing with opportunistic infections, side effects from the meds or having to see my doctor every couple months for maintenance. But I’m lucky and blessed and I know it - so to those here who are still negative, think twice before wishing for something else to have to deal with in your life. Its a complication that none of us need. I’m not saying don’t be a whore - be all kinds of whore! But I don’t encourage chasing. The phrase “be careful what you wish for” comes to mind.

if you’re on the fence, get on prep until you actually WANT to get pozzed. If that’s your thing, cool. But if you’re just a lazy slut like me who doesn’t actually want to catch anything but doesn’t want to have to be careful, just get on prep and have some doxy handy and then give that hole to anyone who wants it by all means.

I know its a breeding forum. But if our society crumbles and becomes a war zone or any one of the many apocalyptic  possibilities comes to pass, it’s gonna be a bitch to find meds and a whole bunch of us are gonna end up dropping dead, so I also suggest squirreling away as many pills (arv or prep/doxy) as possible now so you aren’t fucked when shit goes down, which it eventually and inefficiently will. 

 

[cumbottom4use]

I totally love being poz as it has turned me into being a total cumdump slut!  I'll offer my ass up to anyone who wants to fuck me, breed me and use me, especially other poz guys 🍆💦☣️🦂🍑🔥!! 

[BarebackBrother]

In general, I enjoy being POZ. 

The positives are a sexual openness unlike any other. We POZ men have sex, their only concern is pleasure and satisfaction. I love how POZ men fuck. 

But, being POZ has negative side effects. Most of the side effects exist outside of the bedroom. To maintain your health, you have to acquire meds, and you have to take meds. I've gone without meds a couple different times and had noticable changes to my body. My farts smelled REALLY bad and had an iron smell to them. My teeth chattered. I bled very easily. I didn't sleep well.

There's also the stigma that still exists. When I first became e POZ, someone I trusted exposed my status to thousands of people via Twitter. That was a really devastating time. I am open about my status now, but a lot of neg men aren't remotely interested in having anything to do with an openly POZ man.

You'll get some chasers too. They're kinda like groupies who just want what you have. Some men like that. 

If say the ratio for me is 80/20 in favor of POZ. Sure, it's a lot of things you have to deal with and adjust to, but there's nothing like the primal connection you have with other POZ people.

[PozToxVersPig]

I enjoyed being with poz dudes long before I was poz - something about the overall culture was what i liked a helluva lot more than people my age that were so worried about being poz and always preaching about condoms.

I went off meds for 1.5 years before.  VL spiked to 6 digits.  Went back on (not by choice, and VL dropped back to zero).  I've never had any negative health impacts.

I'm off meds again - I get some comments from dudes like I'm a global health crisis - I don't see it that way.  Guys that ask for my load and know what it is get it 🙂

I do think one benefit is when you're finally open about it online, poz dudes will hit you up and the conversation is much easier.

I agree with the above - chasers are everywhere, but it's pretty easy to tell the ones that are just in fantasy land and those that really want it.