Turning "off" After You Cum?

[topstud127]

After I cum, I tend to immediately turn off. I have no interest in semen, whatever's happening, I'm ready for it to be over. This effects me not being able to go multiple rounds and have to prolong for orgasm when necessary.

Even when I'm jerking off and watching porn, as soon as I cum, off and done.

 

Anyone in the same boat and figured out how to get over it?

[submissivebottom74]

Wish I could help. After jacking off, I am ready to go again in 20 to 30 minutes. However, in all 37 years of having sex, never once have I cum with a Man unless he would make me cum. With me, it is simple. Something pinching my nipples, a couple fingers up my ass and something in my mouth, my cock seems to gush.

[RawLeather]

For me it depends. If it's just watching porn, I'm done after I unload. If I'm in a hot and heavy scene then I can keep going. It's easier with practice to keep going after shooting your load

[NLbear]

I sometimes have that as well. One time after I cum when getting fucked I want it to be over as quickly as possible. The other time I crave for more and can't get enough after I cum and want more. more, more.

 

When watching porn (or just feeling horny) and jacking off I am usually done after I cum but usually am ready to go again after an hour or so.

Don't know what causes this but you're not the only one.

[btm2bbred]

It's a natural reaction--part physical, part psychological.     Luckily, as a bottom I'm centered on the sensations I get from having my ass pounded.    So while my dick may be temporarily limp after cumming, my ass recovers quickly, and easily accommodates a hard cock.

 

In general, I try not to cum while getting fucked.    

[fieldpussy]

Cumming has zero effect on my sex drive when I'm getting fucked good.

I can take it for hours after I cum, no matter if I cum again or not.

It happeneds that I'm so horny that I cum in the very moment when a top enters my ass, but after that I even can relax better and completely enjoy the pleasures he's giving my ass.

[Guest btchbyl]

i still let the top finish in my ass. getting my ass used after i get off is hot. makes me want it again. really, how hard is it to just stay in position and let the top finish?

[bbsam]

This is common for many, if not all guys. Once you've shot the brain just switches off immediately. I've not found that i'm fully able to overcome it but certain situations help - being surrounded by lots of other guys who are still going at it, fucking, sucking etc helps.

 

If at all possible, I like to be the last one to cum when playing with others as it keeps me horny, slutty and on edge for the duration of the session. One guy totally mindfucked me once when I went to his place for a hook up; as soon as I stepped in the door, before anything else had happened he made me strip, jerk off and shoot my load for him so that I wasn't concerned with my own orgasm when he was fucking me. That was an intense session.

[hungry_hole]

While cruising and having sex in parks at night it was common to hear guys express surprise and sometimes panic when they realized how late it was was. "Shit, 2:30am and I have to get up at 5am". But this only after I had swallowed their load or they had bred my hole. Same thing at lunchtime, when they realize their 1-hour break had long expired, but not until pleasing a bottom. It's just one of those things.

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[Guest ff-whole]

When alone watching porn and jerking myself off, I am totally done after I cum.

Sometimes when I am really horny in a hot session I could continue but most of the time I try not to cum when I get fucked as a bottom...

[CumBustion]

It depends. If I cum using my hand of the top jerks me off, the fuck feeling goes away and I'm done. It takes all of my strength to continue to fuck after that. But if a top makes me cum hand-free by stimulating my sweet spot, its a whole different level of orgasm that make me wanna fuck even more.

[hungry_hole]

After I cum, I tend to immediately turn off. I have no interest in semen, whatever's happening, I'm ready for it to be over.

 

Because of this anon sex in bathhouses is the best option. Guys can walk around, watch other guys having sex or join in. 

 

A gloryhole is perfect because a horny guy can get his cock serviced and then shoot his load but without having to deal with anyone else and take time to compose themselves. Some guys stay put in their cubicle for a couple of minutes but others storm out of their cubicle right after they shoot their loads. But in both cases without having to deal with anyone else.

 

With a boyfriend or a more serious fuck buddy than someone you met at the sauna, after a guy cums he has to deal with the partner, which can be nice sometimes.

 

This "immediate turn-off" that topstud127 is talking about can make it really hot for the bottom because most bottom don't get offended when the top disappears after the breeding is over. On the contrary, the feeling of your hole being used for the top's pleasure  is really hot for the bottom. That's why anon sex works great for both, tops and bottoms.

 

The recovery is quick especially in a place with lots of sexual stimulation. The problem is that during the turn-off it feels like it is for ever, that you'll never like sex again, or cum. This is when many slutty bottoms feel the guilt of having a few anon loads in their holes. But all most men have to do is wait a few minutes, rest or take a shower. And they'll be as horny as hell again. After shooting their loads many guys take a shower, get dressed and leave the bathhouse. Then when they get home they are horny again, when they should have stayed at the bathhouse and continue having a good time.

[bberik]

I lose interested after I have cum. Therefore I make sure that others cum in me first, preferably taking several loads. When I'm ready to go home, then I dump my load in somebody's ass.

[KindaBasic]

I think it's natural. We're wired to breed in the literal sense. Once we've provided our DNA we've done our job and the brain moves on.

[whtbt4blkck]

When I was younger it was all about getting off, and after I had cum my body and mind shut down and I could take no more cock. But now with age and experience I don't care about my cock, just the great feeling of a cock in my pussy and making the top feel good. If I do cum when getting fucked my cock will go limp, but my mind is still slutty and horny and I go on.