why married/straight men hook up with fags

[Hungryforbbc]

On 4/12/2017 at 5:49 PM, Mamabicho said:

And from married or straight guys I've hooked up with over the years, a big part is being able to really be as aggressive as they want but are afraid to do with a woman.  A guy might want to get really nasty with shit-talking or rough sex or have someone gag on them, but they are loath to do that to a girlfriend or wife.  Hooking up and getting blown by or getting some hole from a fag is simple, they don't have to worry about the chit-chat and posturing that a lot of women, even wives and girlfriends, expect before they give it up.  I think "straight" men like using fags not because they are gay or bi, but because they like being dominant.

Exactly. We’re easy, nasty and willing to do what most self respecting women are understandably reluctant to do and we do it with no shame or hesitation! My question is- why would you NOT partake? For straight men- especially those who are cute or hung - it’s like an endless stream of opportunity and for many, any hole is a goal. 

[Iker80]

7 hours ago, phillygwm said:

I think the answer is twofold:  1) Guys who would fuck another man are not straight.  Maybe they're straight-leaning bi, at best.   Perhaps a straight guy might be able to receive head.  But hell, even I can't get up for just any guy and I've been topping for close to 50 years; 2) It's infinitely easier to find a gay guy to give them what they want, especially if they're decent looking and don't require a certain "type".  It's unlikely you'd find a random woman online willing to lay there for a pump and dump, unless you're willing to pay.

For sure, guys are normally very straightforward. not easy to upset/offend and you can usually go all the way very fast with a guy. The way most tops treat guys wouldn't be appropriate doing to a woman. If a guy says he is bottom I assume I'm getting to top and get on his hole pretty soon if he's not already offering it. Most guys let you in right away, a few need a bit more warming up and foreplay but it's not much compared to most women. Even if you're first time today meeting your guy, chances of ending up nuts deep in a guy who says he's bottom is very good. A lot don't ask for a condom, and even if his profile says condom once you're teasing his hole he's usually happy. Most women would think you're a pig if you did this stuff, probably feel very bad afterwards, but guys get it, they know what it's like to get horny and want to deliver your load. A lot of guys become more obedient when you're dominant with them, give orders, be physical, take what you want, they respond well to it. I have been on both sides of that, often giving the orders, but sometimes a big guy or at that time more aggressive mood guy wants to take charge and it happens. At the extreme end of that, I've been taken by some guys in ways most women would consider rape and ended up going back for more multiple times. Still figuring out my feelings about that! Still, even at less extreme levels our sexuality is often rough and loose with permissions and the goal of full sex is easy to achieve, often in minutes, that's definitely part of it for many guys who are otherwise straight presenting.

Edited 6 hours ago by Iker80

[ellentonboy]

I don't believe the married men I have sex with are straight.  They may feel pressured by families or the way they were raised, but if they are putting their dick in me they are not straight.  Bi-sexual yes, but not straight.  I have had long term sexual encounters with guys who are married/were married/have children etc.  Those who I got to know well, I often ask.  They tell me society's pressures made them marry early.  Though maybe one of them wanted to have a "relationship" with them, the rest it was mainly about sex.  That is not to say I didn't enjoy their company.  They treated me with respect, and not one of them called me a "fag" or else they would have been out the door.

Yes they were tops, yes they liked head and wanted to top me, but still - a straight guy who wanted to cheat on his wife would go and find another woman, not come to my apartment and fuck me, a grown man.  I am not a sub, I am not effeminate, I don't act like a woman or wear women's lingerie.  I am just a guy who likes guys.

As times goes on, I think social norms will change, at least somewhat.  Those guys who felt pressured or locked into relationships in the past will be replaced with men who are more confident in their sexuality and not fearful of the repercussions of what might happen if someone found out they were gay.

Times are changing....despite the political views in the US now.  

[flipfucknfunguy]

On 4/12/2017 at 2:23 PM, constructionguy said:

Guys continually ask why married [straight] guys hook up with fags. After all, if they get it on with another guy are they really "straight"?

I can give you five reasons: [1] their wives/girlfriends won't suck their cocks, [2] their wives/Girlfriends won't swallow their loads, [3] their wives/girlfriends won't suck their balls, [4] their wives/ girlfriends won't suck their tits, [5] their wives/girlfriends won't eat their asses. There you go: five things men love and the bitches won't give it to them. 

Super true. When I dated women and they asked what I liked sexually, they'd balk at 4 and complain about 1-3. 5 would have cause a walk out. haha