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I have been fucked bareback since i first started 50+ years ago. The number of condoms that have seen the inside of me i could probably count on my hands. At most hands and a couple of toes. I have been fucked by poz guys but it never took. Why i am still negative, i have no idea.

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1 hour ago, Dundee2 said:

I have been fucked bareback since i first started 50+ years ago. The number of condoms that have seen the inside of me i could probably count on my hands. At most hands and a couple of toes. I have been fucked by poz guys but it never took. Why i am still negative, i have no idea.

Been active since '89, with little condom use and taking raw loads until end of '13, then started PrEP.  In the '90's, personally knew two guys who (worked in the same industry) got pozzed and had complications. You know it's a small world when your in Denver for a distributor show then visit Denver Swim Club and run across to other vendors reps.  Had a few STIs' that were treatable & got tested.  

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Reflecting on Covid. Fukn lucky that we bb "fuck aids" in the 80's, with no tiktok twitter insta FB around, cuz I promis you we'd all be in jail or shot, and Prep/U=U would have never happen, You'd all be stuck in never ending era of safesex

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On 5/31/2017 at 1:33 AM, Annapaulamass said:

I barebacked few times during the early 90's and I was luck that I am clean. I went to a porn movie theater dressed and got few times corned and had my ass open to their cocks until they drop their loads inside me. One time got two loads, one after another, in a corned of the movie theater called "little hell" which had a lot pos guys and negs barebacking. Also, I suck and drunk a lot cum during 90's in movie theaters, my record was over 20, no status asked, all anon...

With respect, the term "clean" is offensive to many, especially people living with HIV. It infers people living with HIV are dirty, because of the virus. 

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I started young in the early nineties and rarely ever had a condom in me. I was basically completely bb and playing with much older guys. By the time I graduated high school (1999) I had already had a bunch of STIs but never contracted HIV. I even was having sex for money my senior year and the summer following. So I survived the 90’s as a raw bottom.

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I had always been a real condom nazi, through late 80's , 90's, to 2005.

Lately,   I have been  speculating a lot, on if I would have stayed HIV negative, had I been Barebacking, like I am now, back then. From my first homosexual experience in 1988, to meeting my future wife, I met around 10 to 15 men a year, which included going to a local bathhouse.

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I have never used a condom and the first time I got topped was with a street hustler. We played many times and always BB, most if the time he was top and I was topping other hustlers BB. It was 1982 when I began. Still neg, still playing BB. For the last 5 years I've become bug chaser.

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I met this tall skinny guy at porn movie theater in early 90’s after sucked a lot cocks. He sit next to me and let me suck his cock while fingering my ass. He invited me to his apartment where there he continue to play with my ass and noticed he used his nail hurting me. The then, used my ass bareback until dropping his load. He play more with his finger and used my ass one more time and unload inside me. After, at my home, noticed that my hole was bleeding and his load dripping out. It was nice but very scary… I could have been infected. Luckly I was not. After that day, tried to get used with condons, but still sucking raw. Very few times got used raw in the porn movie theater.

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I think about the subject of condoms, and my lack of use, often.  In the late 80s I was in a relationship, and the thought of using condoms never crossed our minds.  My partner, who was a bilingual teacher, would go and pick up Latin street boys for me as a surprise.  Interesting, he would never let them fuck me, he only fucked them and I could do anything I wanted with them orally.    He also didn't  want me  learning Spanish for fear I would strike up a conversation with them. I think that relationship spared me, at least for about a decade from getting infected.  I left him after five years, and moved to a rural area of Florida, where I would have to drive over and hour to not only work but also to go to clubs and hook up.  Maybe I just wasn't into anal sex that much, I don't know.  Move into the 90s, and suddenly I am working almost full time in the Fort Lauderdale/Miami/Key West area, though I was actually stationed (as a civilian) in Sarasota.  I spent weeks in hotels in those areas, and went to clubs to socialize.  But those bath houses "called my name" and so did the use of "enhancements", and I just remember testing negative in March of one year and in July of that same year I had HIV, plus few t-cells and an astronomical viral load.  One that would continue to climb hire as I became resistant to medication, or rather, resistant to taking it.   But getting back to condoms, I remember they used to place a condom on the towel (which didn't fit  on any of the guys I played with) and I would see them scattered on the floors and in the hallways.  No one used them, and I didn't either.  I think it was all about timing, being in a relationship and just not having alot of anal sex that kept me healthy for that time period.  

Condoms are really a hot button issue, I've said this before and got a lot of flack from guys both on this site and in person, but I won't pass on using a condom with an incredibly hot guy and miss out on some fantastic sex.  I have been in look term FWB relationships where the guy is married and has children, or insists on using them because I am honest about my status.  I'll continue to use them, because I don't want to lose future opportunities if the guy is insistent and I really am attracted to him.

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From college in '77 through learning I was POZ I never used condoms. I wasn't having much sex, at least compared to what happened after I found out I was POZ in '93. I had maybe 6 sex partners a year, less during the years I was in relationships. But starting in May '93 everything changed for me.

Ironically, HIV was the best thing to happen not just to my sex life, but to my entire life.

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