Do you still cum in a bottom who asks you to pull out?

[HoneyBuns1980]

7 hours ago, TaKinGDeePanal said:

 

Whiffing is swinging a a ball and missing, i.e., "a swing and a miss"

I REALLY hope you don’t try and turn this into a thing, because you just parroted what I said in response to someone else who tried to speak for me and implied I misspelled the word in question to begin with. 

[TaKinGDeePanal]

12 minutes ago, HoneyBuns1980 said:

I REALLY hope you don’t try and turn this into a thing, because you just parroted what I said in response to someone else who tried to speak for me and implied I misspelled the word in question to begin with. 

I was just trying to clarify it in terms my recipient understood. It’s really not my problem if you choose to be passive aggressive snippy. Report my previous reply if you have a problem with it (or this one - I really don’t care). 

[hntnhole]

16 hours ago, HoneyBuns1980 said:

Anyone even remotely familiar with baseball terminology would get it also. 

That was clear to me, at least.  It happened many times at Comiskey - but I only went there when it was the N-sider's vs the S-siders ... I can still hear (in my memories) that gigantic, ancient Barton banging out Take Me Out To The Ball-Game .... and so could the entire near-South Side.  Barton also built many pipe organs in the early silent movie palaces.  

[brnbk]

The answer to the question, would largely depend on when  the bottom expressed his wishes.

Did he state so before the sexual act or in the midst of coitus. 

If he stated so before the sex act, there should be a reasonable expectation that his wishes be respected.

However, if he stated so, only after the sex act had begun, I am not sure how much can the Top be held guilty of the "crime".  After all it depends on how much you are used to "withholding"

If you are a devout religious man you probably would have been aware of the  Official Gazette of the Church - 1952,  which did clarify that the amplexum reservatum aka "Reserved Embrace" i.e. having sex but choosing not to ejaculate in one's partner  was acceptable, and thus practiced it; you have restrain and know how to put it in practice  in real life. However, if you are a non religious Top or someone who doesn't take religious doctrines from the early 50s seriously, can you really be blamed for a lack of restrain?

I don't wish to suggest that Tops should never stop. Clearly, there are always instances when we have to stop in life and that applies to sex  even in sex: Say, the bottom or even the top for that matter is feeling unwell, or the partner of a cheating bottom marches right into the bathhouse where his other half is enjoying life – would normally bring the sex to a halt.

Choosing to bareback and then telling a Top not to cum in your ass, once the sex act has begun or at least is in swing half way is inconsiderate, unthoughtful, and micro-managing things. Do i think the Top should try to stop: Yes. Do I think he can or should be held liable in a court of law for not stopping, on charges such as rape or sexual assault - Nope. 
 

Good sex involves good boundaries between both the Top and bottom.

 

 

 

[hungry_hole]

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"Do you still cum in a bottom who asks you to pull out?

Is this question still relevant?

I haven't heard this asked in a couple of decades. It was very common in the 90's but now with Meds and PrEP, other STDs like Syphilis, Clamydia and Gonorrhea are more easily caught. Pulling out doesn't protect from these STDs

[Erik62]

"Pull OUT" , WTF. Why would someone take a cock (sometime BIG) & then not want the final pleasure of feeling a raw cock head, throbbing as it breeds his seed into your cunt. Condoms are only useful to "prevent" babies & have no place in MM breeding pleasures. 

[PupBoiRapeSlut]

On 2/2/2024 at 7:53 AM, Bokkierob said:

First I always make it abundantly clear that I only fuck bareback and that I intend to cum in his ass. Almost all men  I fuck gratefully take my seed however if I sense the bottom may change his mind when I’m fucking him I will put him on his belly and mount him. That way my weight keeps my cock firmly wedged in his ass. If he does or says anything to indicate he might ask me to withdraw then I will immediately shoot my load in him. You don’t get me horny and allow me to shove my bare cock deep in your ass only to refuse my load. You will be seeded. Never had any kick back from men I’ve seeded like that - they realise they were taking a chance.

I need you to do that to my boipussy 

[PupBoiRapeSlut]

On 2/2/2024 at 7:53 AM, Bokkierob said:

First I always make it abundantly clear that I only fuck bareback and that I intend to cum in his ass. Almost all men  I fuck gratefully take my seed however if I sense the bottom may change his mind when I’m fucking him I will put him on his belly and mount him. That way my weight keeps my cock firmly wedged in his ass. If he does or says anything to indicate he might ask me to withdraw then I will immediately shoot my load in him. You don’t get me horny and allow me to shove my bare cock deep in your ass only to refuse my load. You will be seeded. Never had any kick back from men I’ve seeded like that - they realise they were taking a chance.

I need you to do that to my boipussy 

[Falls727]

Cum belongs in a hole. My hole deserves that hot, creamy prize and I insist that he unloads every drop inside me! I will often wrap my legs around the top to prevent him from pulling out too soon. I love to make out after I’ve been bred and having him inside me as we kiss passionately is the icing on the cake. Any bottom worth their salt would never prevent a top from completing his sacred duty; the holy act of inseminating and blessing a bottom’s guts with his sacred cream.

[hntnhole]

On 2/12/2024 at 4:20 PM, brnbk said:

Choosing to bareback and then telling a Top not to cum in your ass, once the sex act has begun or at least is in swing half way

I agree. 

Changing one's mind when one's Hole is full of hard raw Cock  about to pump a load up the gut is waaaaay out of line.  It's nothing less than utterly selfish. 

Demonstrating a need for raw Cock up the gut, and then changing one's mind as the Top is sating the needs of the bottom is nothing less than 100% inconsiderate and completely selfish.  Fortunately, around here there is precious little of that kind of self-absorbed behavior, and in the fuckjoints it's hardly likely that mine will be the first of the night for any bottom.   

[barefucker44]

7 hours ago, hntnhole said:

I agree. 

Changing one's mind when one's Hole is full of hard raw Cock  about to pump a load up the gut is waaaaay out of line.  It's nothing less than utterly selfish. 

Demonstrating a need for raw Cock up the gut, and then changing one's mind as the Top is sating the needs of the bottom is nothing less than 100% inconsiderate and completely selfish.  Fortunately, around here there is precious little of that kind of self-absorbed behavior, and in the fuckjoints it's hardly likely that mine will be the first of the night for any bottom.   

Totally agree.  Once the top mounts up, the btm is his to breed.  Period.

[Nude]

I've had a few pull out not my choice.  Then I become the Dom Sub and hold them down and ride them before they waste their loads

[KindaBasic]

No, but I might not even bother to fuck him 

[BlackDude]

Yet another annoying habit gay men pick up from their mothers 

[NordicBtm]

On 7/27/2024 at 4:33 AM, barefucker44 said:

Totally agree.  Once the top mounts up, the btm is his to breed.  Period.

Of all the countless times I’ve been fucked I once asked a guy to pull out when he disclosed he was poz. It was about 1 year into my bb pig journey and I was neg for neg lol. When it was time to cum he buried his cock deep and said “where do you want this load slut?” As he came hard inside me. I was confused about it when it happened but jerked off to it lots of times after it and learned my lesson. Poz loads are even hotter to receive as a gift 💦🐽☣️