Cruising the Gym Locker room

[Guest BBBoyfromTN]

I don’t wear underwear or a jock to work out and will casually let my dick show when using the machines...see if anyone checks me out. I strip naked in the locker room and show my body off as much as I can...go naked in the sauna even though most guys don’t. The gym I go to skews heavily Latino and they’re of two types...the prudes who never undress at all...even wear t-shirts in the sauna, and those who clearly are cruising. You can tell they’re looking cause they’re wearing only underpants or nothing, sitting on the benches and looking at their phones. One guy was in the sauna free balling and watching Ru Paul Drag Race on his phone....not sure what’s going on there. You can tell who’s looking by how long they linger and what they’re wearing. I see quite a few guys just sitting on the machines after they finish what they were doing....lifting their shirt to wipe their face, showing their body and taking their time doing it. You make eye contact and take it to the bathroom, showers, their car, their place. I get a lot of play at the gym...try not to do the creepy shower cruising scenes as someone mentioned but hey....that’s what works sometimes. 

[seaguy]

On 9/15/2018 at 12:58 PM, daddyloadny said:

I hate when guys remove or put on their underwear with a towel wrapped around them. It never used to be that way, guys would freely undress and walk around nude in the locker room. Today there is much too much cover up - a very disturbing trend.

Camera phones could be a big reason for that.

[justsexnowatl]

I feel a little "opposite" to most of the replies here since I LOVE gym/locker room cruising.  Just today at lunch I'll be fucking a repeat guy from my gym that started out by him pulling his meat to get hard at the shower next to me and us JO after months and months of flirting out in the gym.  It wasn't until we crossed paths on scruff and discussed "intos" that we hooked up outside the gym for a hot sleazy breeding.   Then just last week another guy from the gym I am TOTALLY into woofed me on scruff.  I can't help but stare at his lean body and BUBBLE ass, but he's attached also, so I don't make the first move.  After the woof though I got pretty direct.....into the same thing - vers and bareback.  have  feeling we'll be fucking before the end of this week   It started in college I think......I had more hookups from the gym/locker room/steam/sauna than I did from the gay bars.   I think it's only considered "creeping" when one guy isn't into the other lol

Gotta go......time for the gym - for real lol

Edited September 17, 2018 by justsexnowatl

[Pozbtm4breeding]

I agree with all of the comments and understand those saying guys are at the gym to work out only. However, it never hurts to keep your eyes open to opportunities! While most guys are there to work out, you never know when someone gets a horny rush after working out and needs some relief. I don’t cruise at the gym but i am always evaluating any chances I may get. For me, eye contact is key. If a guy isn’t interested he won’t look at you with any intent. But if a guy is interested in you or cruising it’s easy to spot them based on the way they are looking at you or others. 

[Guest FinalDL2021]

I agree with what you have all posted. I am serious about working out as well; I am a distance runner, and passionate about a good workout. However I do notice and feel guys checking me out, from time, to time, and I would like to show them a sign that I am available. We can go out and have a beer if it moves to that level.

[VersAlwaysLooking]

I find guys cruising in the gym locker room super annoying.   It's about the least optimal place for sex.   Always busy with customers and staff.  And, let's be courteous to our straight friends.    They don't want to be uncomfortable in the locker room because some awkward guy without a hookup app is ogling int the shower area. Take your peek at the hot guy and move on. 

Edited September 21, 2018 by VersAlwaysLooking

[Twochipigs]

On 9/20/2018 at 9:34 PM, VersAlwaysLooking said:

I find guys cruising in the gym locker room super annoying.   It's about the least optimal place for sex.   Always busy with customers and staff.  And, let's be courteous to our straight friends.    They don't want to be uncomfortable in the locker room because some awkward guy without a hookup app is ogling int the shower area. Take your peek at the hot guy and move on. 

Back before there were hookup apps, there were always guys who hung out in locker rooms, sauna, whirlpool, etc.  hard cruising anything that walked by, but they never managed to find the weight room.

I came to call their activity "steam queening."

[raunchycumslut]

I wouldn't cruise at a gym; most men are there to work out (even the gay/bi ones). Go to a place where the men around you are also looking for sex. I used to live in MA, and there are plenty of cruise spots around (porn shops with booths, highway rest stops, sleazier bars, campgrounds/parks, etc). If you don't mind a drive (and it seems you don't), Providence has several places where men go to have sex with other men.

Also, is your gym an 18+ only gym? If not, you need to be very, VERY careful about what you say or do in front of other members, especially in the current social climate.

[Guest]

I go to a couple of different gyms, and I get a good amount of hook ups from all of them.  For me, it's about two things.  I freeball and wear a tight shirt, and I make lots of eye contact.  It's all subtle enough that people will ignore if not interested, but obvious enough that those paying attention know exactly what it means.  As I mentioned in another post though, I almost never actually hook up at the gym.  Just a blow job infrequently, but never fucking.  I have always gone elsewhere for that, sometimes the parking lot. 🙂  Any place that you see men showing off their bodies, you have to expect there will be cruising, even if you are there to focus on working out.

[ThroatFag]

I wish I had the courage to offer my services to the smoking hot studs at the gym. Of course, I don't want to make anyone uncomfortable or do anything illegal. I've thought about writing a note in the bathroom stall of the locker room that my throat is available.

[tnjon77]

I live in the Bible Belt, so I don't think I could ever bring myself to cruise the gym.  My town is far too conservative to try something like that in a gym.  I certainly catch glimpses of the guys here and there, but they're very brief and certainly wouldn't be considered anything close to staring or cruising.  The closest I come to cruising is to wear my glans ring.  They have the opportunity to ask a question about it if they want, but I won't make the first move.

[evilqueerpig]

If your local gay bar sells t-shirts/tank tops, wear that for your workout.  Subtle enough for those in the know.

[Rawffucker]

Wear a Nasty Pig hat 

[mjapie1]

Since I started regularly working out I have some good success with meeting guys through gym. I can offer the following tips and advice:

 

1. Remember that you are at the gym to workout, any cruising should come as a  secondary bonus activity to your workout. There is nevertheless fun to be had, so don’t shut yourself off. In time guys will approach you to discuss technique and offer/ask for advice.

2. Log onto your preferred gay dating apps before you start your workout. Have a clear pic so that others looking around know who you are and what your are into/looking for. Don’t check your messages too often.

3. Wear something eye catching, but not too obvious to detract from your main purpose. See the attached pic of my gym shorts I wear when I am doing squats or deadlifts. I also wear a jockstrap, which gets attention in the changing room and is occasionally visible. Those that want to notice will do so.

4. “Correct yourself” when you have to, but don’t overdo it. Those that want to notice will do so. Be friendly and helpful, that way it is easier to strike up a conversation.

5. After your workout, use the gym showers. Once in the changing room, get naked. Don’t be too fased if you get a hard on, those that want to notice will do so. Once I am naked, I get my clothes ready, sling my towel over my shoulder and go and use the urinal whilst naked. This will get you noticed.

6. When in the shower I lather myself with soap and as I am uncut visibly pull back my foreskin and clean my cock and arse. I then succinctly check out who is around me and whether other guys move to shower closer to me for a better view or become visibly aroused. Look at others but don’t stare.

7. I tend to only check my phone for messages after I’ve had my shower and got dressed. Be seen to go for coffee or have a drink in the rest area. It gives guys the opportunity to approach you. If you have noticed others around you they may come and sit near you which gives you the opportunity to strike up a conversation.

8. Experience has taught me that using the gym at unpopular times (early Saturday mornings and late Sunday afternoons/evenings) bears the best results.

9. I’m not a fan of getting off in the gym or changing rooms, it’s not private and usually leads to a rushed encounter, but it has happened. Use your dating apps to connect with guys who are interested or who you have contacted.

When I was in the navy I had to opportunity to use a gym run by the USN. I met some great guys and had a lot of fun from connecting with guys from gym, but it has continued to my current gym. Be friendly and approachable and interesting things will happen.

 

Be patient and enjoy!

[holefucker]

When I was at university, there were no separate shower cubicles - everybody just went into a big shower room naked. Caught people touching themselves and looking  few times. But never fucked anyone there.