Tops that aren't picky about a bottom completely cleaned out

[jeff238]

A top guy picked me out of a crowd at a campground party, and said to meet him at his camp after things died down. He was hot as fuck, and turned out to be a porn star. We met up later and got down to business. Definetly the biggest cock i had ever had. Since it was a campground situation, there was no place or good water to clean out, so, yeah, shit happened. He was done, but told me to hang around while he cleaned up. I was so mad at not being able to clean out. He was a really nice guy too, but the shit ruined everything. I left before he got done cleaning up and never saw him again.

I didnt mind the shit, but felt bad for not giving him the fun he wanted. A friend told me later that the top guy might have thought i was mad at him. That made me feel even worse.

One of the few regrets in my life is not being able to let him know how frustrated i was to not being able to give him what he wanted.

From then on, i never got into a sexual situation without knowing i was thoroughly clean and as a result, passed up a lot of spontanious sex.

[tallslenderguy]

9 hours ago, Pozbtm4breeding said:

One thing I try to do is keep my fiber intake very high (Pure for Men works!) which makes my hole cleaner. 

i tried Pure for a month, took the highest recommended dose  (3, 2x  each day) and was disappointed. It made a difference, but not the kind of results many seem to get?  i was bummed (so to speak). I still take psyllium fiber pills, at about a third the cost, and get similar results. 

[cumdumpslut74]

A playmate and I use dildos on each other whenever we meet up, including double ended fun. I don't panic if they come out slightly unclean, they're only going to end up back in there again. I'm slowly training him up to think the same way.

[Vicarious]

I tend to have a lot of anxiety when meeting someone for sex so I go way over board with cleaning. Its the only way to put my mind at ease but since it takes so long it really is a let down when I can't find anyone to fuck me. I don't top but if I was topping a guy and it wasn't perfect I would be way more relaxed about it compared to when I bottom(only had a little mishap back when i started having sex)

[funpozbottom]

Over the years, I've played as a top and a bottom, both clean and dirty. All can be fun, and as with everything else, there are advantages and disadvantages to each choice.

The disadvantages of not cleaning out are that it can get messy, so you need to be prepared for the possibility of a “cleanup on aisle 2”. Also, shit can be gritty like sand paper and/or slightly acidic; both of which can be irritating to the skin if you fuck for a long time.

The advantages of not cleaning out are a greater level of spontaneity, raw sexuality, and feelings of acceptance of who you are.

It's really nice to do it first thing in the morning after a long night of sex. I know you know that lazy morning feeling where you're relaxed and maybe still half asleep. You reach beside you and feel a stiff morning wood, and all you want to do is take it inside you and satisfy both of your needs one more time. The last thing you want is to have to check your hole for butt boogers. You're both washable, the sheets are washable, but you still need either a level of trust that the top won't freak out if it gets messy, or an “I don't give a fuck” attitude. Preferably both.

It's also fun outdoors or someplace you can fuck like animals and not worry about any clean up. As I said, it's spontaneous raw sex.

On the other side is the clean out. The disadvantages are that it takes time. Sometimes it takes more time to clean out than it takes to fuck. It can disrupt digestion if you also skip meals or do anti-diarrhea meds to try to slow movement through the intestines. Douching rinses away the natural mucous coating on the inside of the rectum. This makes you more susceptible to abrasion so extra lube may be necessary. And even if you clean out, you may still worry about whether you are really clean – especially if you are bottoming over several hours for multiple tops and taking multiple loads. Worrying about whether you're clean (enough) can make you skip potential fucks or keep you from fully relaxing to enjoy the ones you do.

By cleaning out, the advantage is that you avoid (most of) the mess and can usually stay active longer with less soreness and fewer concerns of what others might think of your sloppy hole.

I think most people prefer to at least start out clean, but the longer you fuck, the more likely you are to end up getting dirty. Most tops understand that it's a possibility and the ones who don't, probably should stick to fucking a fleshlite instead of an anus.

[btmwsfun]

On 1/4/2019 at 10:28 PM, bareback-flipflop said:

Although I practice (because of the claims of many tops) but hate this preclean ceremony. Of course when I go from home to some fuck place, I clean myself, but it is difficult when I go spontaneous or catch a quickie. Anyway, if top’s cock became messy I clean it with my tongue. LoL 

Me too-I love when a guy seems grossed out but theb gets that big grin when I go down to clean it up with my mouth. 

[bareback-flipflop]

On 11/26/2019 at 5:19 AM, btmwsfun said:

Me too-I love when a guy seems grossed out but theb gets that big grin when I go down to clean it up with my mouth. 

Same here. An almost regular fuckbuddy has come to me. I hadn’t  had time for cleaning out before he came. I spent with it almost an hour. Fortunately we he fucked my brain out, but that one hour could be spent with more sex. 

[PERVERSATILE]

I mean, really. Truly. I've ended up with way more guys choking  and puking on my dick than I've had occasion to fuck a dirty pig hole. Or what we like to refer to Down South as, ''not date ready" I mean, Shit... it ain't no big damn deal. Wotcha gonna do? Stop!?!? Hell no. Just keep poundin that hole out until you get your nut, and wipe your dick off on his curtains. Easy fuckin breezy, man.

Edited November 28, 2019 by PERVERSATILE