100% bottoms: when/how do you cum after night sauna/darkroom/anon sex?

[LBRaw]

My mindset is completely tuned out when I'm bottoming for anonymous cock. No focus, no stress, just the pure enjoyment of getting filled with cock and cum. Complete submission to any man that wants a warm hole to fuck. The very last thing on my mind is getting myself off, don't need to, I've got what I needed.

[Deaner]

Well said! As a total bottom my focus is on gettin my top off...metting his needs. From experience, withholding my orgasm during sex DOES make me all the more crazed for cock! My purpose becomes more defined...I'm not here for my own pleasure, but for that of my top. I'm just a hole to be used for gay sex. I usually jerk after top has finished seeding me...cumming as I recall how my hole was just used.

Anybody else have experience with extended cum-denial (days, weeks or months) and the effect it has on enjoying being used? To me, it's a major fantasy and ultimate goal, but I haven't had the opportunity (or willpower) to really see it through for more than a couple days at a time. Would LOVE to have my cock locked up in chastity and told I won't get to touch or use my dick until I *fully* appreciate other men's cocks.

[btm4top78]

I usually cum after my ass is full with cum!!

[Guest cumdrainer4u]

I am only a sub bottom too. I dont like to cum when I'm going to be with guys. When I cum I loose my horn dog feeeling and I hate that. I love to be horny and wanting to please as many men as possible. My man cunt is here for all guys who want to pump me and use me. I do jerk off sometimes at night so I can sleep. Overall I dont care about my cock its all about my hole and cum and pleasing the other guy,thats what pleases me

[wonderboy]

I understand you totally, man... As a bottom, when I have sex with a top, my whole mind is focused on the cock and the tops' needs. I don't touch myself at all usually. Sometimes I do get hard and cum without touching myself when I get fucked well. But that is the tops' response not to fuck me too well...=P

Speaking as a top, it's a big red flag for me when a bottom boy wants to unload during sex. I think we tend to adopt a lot of practices and expectations from sexual norms through socialization. One of those norms is that both partners should get off during sex. Part of the growing-up experience, however, is to shed some of those expectations and look at the sexual experience with fresh eyes. With that mindset, it's clear that the singular purpose of gay sex is to get the top off and that the bottom's orgasm is, on the face of it, totally irrelevant. Worse yet: the bottom's orgasm is actually counterproductive, in that it inhibits the top's ability to use him to the last drop. In that sense, the bottom's orgasm takes on a new purpose: it's the prolonged absence of orgasm that extends and builds the boy's ability to draw big loads from his top. Any top who's had the pleasure of engaging a bottom in extended sessions while withholding orgasms can attest to this: the boy's hunger grows exponentially, and with the unsatiated hunger comes the willingness to shed inhibitions to go just a little bit further for cock, to the point where - at least on those rarified moments when you have the pleasure of experiencing a bottom at his peak - the boy's very existence is reduced to just the singular purpose of bottoming. Depending on the situation, there are times when I may allow a boy to stroke and play with his dick, but under normal circumstances I want to see the bottom's dick limp and I certainly would never want him to cum during sex.

[Planopitchcatch69]

I'm Vers, but when I get fucked I never cum until the top is done. If I'm taking multiple tops, I wait until the end to nut. Or I find a btm and give him my seed

[bbbpmm]

Speaking as a top, it's a big red flag for me when a bottom boy wants to unload during sex. I think we tend to adopt a lot of practices and expectations from sexual norms through socialization. One of those norms is that both partners should get off during sex. Part of the growing-up experience, however, is to shed some of those expectations and look at the sexual experience with fresh eyes. With that mindset, it's clear that the singular purpose of gay sex is to get the top off and that the bottom's orgasm is, on the face of it, totally irrelevant. Worse yet: the bottom's orgasm is actually counterproductive, in that it inhibits the top's ability to use him to the last drop. In that sense, the bottom's orgasm takes on a new purpose: it's the prolonged absence of orgasm that extends and builds the boy's ability to draw big loads from his top. Any top who's had the pleasure of engaging a bottom in extended sessions while withholding orgasms can attest to this: the boy's hunger grows exponentially, and with the unsatiated hunger comes the willingness to shed inhibitions to go just a little bit further for cock, to the point where - at least on those rarified moments when you have the pleasure of experiencing a bottom at his peak - the boy's very existence is reduced to just the singular purpose of bottoming. Depending on the situation, there are times when I may allow a boy to stroke and play with his dick, but under normal circumstances I want to see the bottom's dick limp and I certainly would never want him to cum during sex.

Exactly. I'll cum after I go home. While fucking its got to be all about the top.

[DarkroomTaker]

Sometimes I can cum without touching myself whilst being fucked, dependant on the top if he is rough fucking me or if I am having cock after cock unloaded in my ass.

If i don't cum, then i don't, i just go home and flag one out or a couple, i just love the horny memories and the tingling in my cum soaked ass, sometimes at home i finger my hole and use the anon cum for wanking with.

[psylenc1]

after I think i'm getting all the action i am going to get that night, I usually go find a hole to dump into. Usually hit the dark room, that way i can slide in any ass. If they want a condom on me, i put one on, but sneak it off and stealth them. Good thing about the dark rooms the fact that they are datk, if you bottom in there, you should know that you will be bred. If i cant find a willing hole, i lie on my back in my room, legs up showing my freshly fucked hole, push the loads out and jerk off with all that cum, sometimes a guy or two will come in and fuck my while I am stroking myself.

[bottomforsize]

I won't cum if I think there's any real chance that there's another top at the club or online or in the hood who will dump his load in my insatiable hole. When it's obvious there aren't any more tops, I usually throw my legs over my head and jerk off into my mouth ... one last dose of semen before I call it a night.

[fillmyhole]

after a long session of taking several loads in my ass and mouth, i love to watch hot bareback gangbang porn with a butt plug in my ass and jerk off.. I then capture my cum and promptly freeze it for future use in a cumsicle i keep in the fridge freezer.. I keep the butt plug in over night to make sure i absorb most of the cum

[PozInAZ]

I like to jo before going to the Bathhouse... that way I don't get distracted from getting fucked by as many guys as possible. When I get home and my hole is gaping and dripping with cum, I like to jo again playing with my hole!!!

[Guest mspchaser]

If a guy can get me off, I'm amazed... it's rare, but it does happen. Otherwise, feed me poppers and I'll shoot like a fountain when he's done unloading in me.

[sentry75]

I never intentionally cum while being fucked.

The first time I was ever fucked, I almost came from the sheer excitement. I actually had to pause to avoid cumming.

I also almost came the first time I was fucked in public, in a darkroom at a bath, bent over with a 7 inch uncut Asian cock in my mouth and an 8 inch uncut Greek cock fucking my ass. When the guy in my mouth got a perfect view of my ass being split open he came a huge load and the top started fucking extra hard. I was unbelievably and unusually hard and my dick was swinging with the motion of the fuck. I was dripping pre cum, and the pendulum action slung it at my face. The sensation of a mouth full of cum, a vigorous fuck, my own pre cum splashing my face and a roomful of maybe 12-15 guys watching almost pushed me over the edge.

Generally though I wait until I have come home and then jack off while thinking about the fucking and sucking.

I will ask a question, though. Recently I have had more tops play with my cock, try and get me hard, seem concerned that I am not hard when I am sucking them or preparing to be fucked. I generally expect them not to care, but I have had guys seem to lose interest because I am small and soft. To me it is not about my cock. I don't know how much is just guys who are really versatile and hoping to flip, or how much is a visual stimulation of "look at how excited this bottom is to service my cock". When I am hard I am over 7 inches and about average thickness so I am not totally lacking in the cock department, but normally when I am bottoming it is soft and unimpressive. I would not have thought it would matter.

[TXPleasurePig]

I'm a complete sub bottom cumpig. I've never had my cock in another man's ass.

My focus when I'm at the bathhouse or bookstore is to get bred. That means making sure the cock fucking me is well pleased and gives me my reward.

My cock is little, so I call it a clit. I don't get hard when I'm getting fucked. I'm in bitch mode 99% of my waking hours.

I'll allow the top to suck me, but I won't get very hard. After I'm fucked I push the cum out and eat it in between breeding sessions.

When I've gotten bred as much as I possibly can, I never cum there. I go home and sometimes JO using cum out of my ass, or from a used rubber I found. (I collect used rubbers for fun at home by myself later I will on occasion drink full rubbers in the bookstore and JO if I think the action is dead for the night.

Complete service to the top is my concern 24/7. I keep clean and lubed everyday, and willing to bend over to take a good fucking. I suck and lick them clean, then bend over again and wait.

In the bathhouse I enjoy being hooded and bent over in the dark maze to get bred by anyone who walks up. I will stay bent over for hours and hours.

That is my only purpose in life, and I love it. :-)

Houstonsubpig@yahoo.com