Top daddy poz

[Guest takingdeepanal]

18 hours ago, hotguy02 said:

My top daddy who was diagnosed as poz last year has been fucking me raw since.  He is on meds and ud. According to him.  I asked him if I should get on prep and his response was that he didn't recommend me getting on prep.     I'm asking for any advice from top men or bottom as to why he thinks it's not a good thing for me to go prep. I'm new to this so any advice would be helpful.     

PrEP can potentially damage your kidneys. As long as he's your daddy, you need to trust him, as he doesn't want you to come to any harm.

[hotguy02]

12 hours ago, youngun88 said:

Is he actually on meds? Have you seen him take them? He wants you like him i bet

I have never seen him take any meds. And when I do get to go to his house I really never make it a issue to go look for any medicine or anything.  Really ite not in my place to be doing that.   I trust him.    At least that's how he's made me feel so far

[hotguy02]

6 hours ago, amsrat said:

Have you actually had yourself tested? Might be an idea to do so..

He bought the oraquick test and it came back negative that was last year in July

[hotguy02]

1 hour ago, takingdeepanal said:

PrEP can potentially damage your kidneys. As long as he's your daddy, you need to trust him, as he doesn't want you to come to any harm.

Hes been my top daddy for about 15 years and I do trust him.   So I agree with you on that

[hotguy02]

7 hours ago, RawUK said:

Other than he recommends that you don't go on prep has he actually given you a reason as to why?

Personally I have no issues with not being on prep but I was on it for a while. I'm now of the attitude that if I poz I poz.

However it is your choice whether you go on prep or not, not his. He can of course give you his opinion and ask you to consider it.

It's interesting that he is allowed to play the field and dictate to you, but you are not. A very old fashioned hetero idea. 

I love being the bottom or submissive when having sex and even enjoy anon fucks, but once that's done I am my own man, I make my own decisions for better or worse. I decided not to take prep, so if I convert to poz even if stealthed then that is a consequence of that decision and am prepared to deal with that. 

 

So after a long ramble, what I am saying is that it is up to you, but you must do your own research and not just take one persons opinion on this.

He hasn't told me why .   When I lost my anal virignity to him when I was approx 19 years old.  He was never used a condom. He was neg at the time and although I was new to having sex with men I felt like it was something I was comfortable doing.  I was very naive about HIV and STD  or anything related this.    He told me he was neg snd I believe it.  Fast forward 15 years plus last year he told me he was hiv poz and that I should get tested.    Well he bought a oraquick test snd it was neg.    He continued to fuck me raw since and breeds me .   I haven't been fucked by any other men since.  I've only sucked on a few other top Daddy's dicks but he knows about it.   He plays and I'm ok with that but I feel like I should be loyal to him. He has told me that he doesn't want anyone else to fuck me.  Unless he approves it and is present.  

[Guest youngun88]

I would to to doc and get a proper blood test.

[drscorpio]

I would guess he wants you off PReP, so you cannot safely fuck around on him. 

[hotguy02]

54 minutes ago, drscorpio said:

I would guess he wants you off PReP, so you cannot safely fuck around on him. 

That makes a lot of sense.   He once said that he did not want me to let anyone fuck me bc they might be poz amd don't know it.    That makes sense to me too.    

[Neverenoughcum]

On 1/14/2020 at 2:35 AM, hotguy02 said:

He has been fucking me raw since i was 18. He was the one who popped my cherry.   He never used a condom.  When he  was diagnosed he said he wouldn't fuck me raw while he was getting on meds. Now that he's on meds regularly he fucks me raw ans breeds me.   He is ud. And doesn't me anyone else fuck me.    Can I get pozzed still?      

If he is undetectable and on meds he is safer than a guy that claims to be neg.   I love getting bred by guys that are undetectable.  For me they have been some of the best fucks.

[Neverenoughcum]

On 1/14/2020 at 6:28 AM, hotguy02 said:

I appreciate everyone's advice.   I will consider both side of the isle.    Frankly I'm in love with the man. He's an amazing guy.  But we are not monogamous. I am to him though but he still breeds other bottoms I'm his regular when he not traveling  he is in his 60s and I'm 35.  I have no issue if he accidentally pozzes me. But I'm not really wanting it so to speak. I rather be neg.  And he told me he wants me to be neg. But I was just shocked when he said no to prep lol.  Before him I used to be "straight" he turned me into his sub bottom boy and has trained me well. So I feel like an obligation to just make him happy

You are so lucky to have found him.  I would Love to find a Top and be in your kind of relationship.  I would go with what feels right for you.

[Neverenoughcum]

11 hours ago, hotguy02 said:

He hasn't told me why .   When I lost my anal virignity to him when I was approx 19 years old.  He was never used a condom. He was neg at the time and although I was new to having sex with men I felt like it was something I was comfortable doing.  I was very naive about HIV and STD  or anything related this.    He told me he was neg snd I believe it.  Fast forward 15 years plus last year he told me he was hiv poz and that I should get tested.    Well he bought a oraquick test snd it was neg.    He continued to fuck me raw since and breeds me .   I haven't been fucked by any other men since.  I've only sucked on a few other top Daddy's dicks but he knows about it.   He plays and I'm ok with that but I feel like I should be loyal to him. He has told me that he doesn't want anyone else to fuck me.  Unless he approves it and is present.  

I totally understand where you are coming from.   I am a passive submissive bottom myself.   I understand it is just the way I am wired.  In my case I believe it is linked to my early sexual experiences.  It really doesn’t matter because it is just how I am sexually and the way I enjoy sex.

[concerned1]

He wants you all to himself. He doesn't want you having sex with any other guys. He fears that you being on PrEP will make you think you have a licence to start going with other guys and having raw fucks. In a way, I guess this guy is controlling you and he himself is not committed only to you. So it's totally unfair on you.

[hotguy02]

On 1/15/2020 at 10:44 AM, Neverenoughcum said:

You are so lucky to have found him.  I would Love to find a Top and be in your kind of relationship.  I would go with what feels right for you.

Thanks.  I feel like I should just let him decide what is best for me 

[hotguy02]

On 1/21/2020 at 7:17 PM, concerned1 said:

He wants you all to himself. He doesn't want you having sex with any other guys. He fears that you being on PrEP will make you think you have a licence to start going with other guys and having raw fucks. In a way, I guess this guy is controlling you and he himself is not committed only to you. So it's totally unfair on you.

He's already told me that he only wants his cum inside me and doesn't want other men to fuck me.       In a way I feel like I should be faithful to him.   I do get jealous when I notice he's out fucking other bottoms.    But I feel like I'm not in a position to say anything.      I think u are right.  He doesn't want me to go prep bc he wants me to be only his

[pigpozdad]

1 hour ago, hotguy02 said:

 I do get jealous when I notice he's out fucking other bottoms.    But I feel like I'm not in a position to say anything.      I think u are right.  He doesn't want me to go prep bc he wants me to be only his

How often does he go out and fuck other bttms. And ask him how he got himself pozzed