Turning straight guys fully gay

[BlackDude]

Having a wife or girlfriend doesn’t make you straight. 
 

These are the men who are not straight but may be classified as “straight:”

1. Fucking women once in a blue moon, but only if it involves you getting some dick in the process.

2. Deciding you’d rather be miserable with a woman if you can’t find you poster boy/ trophy boyfriend

3. Being married to a woman and not having sex with her, yet seeking out sex with men. 
 

4. Abstaining from all sex because you can’t find “hot men”

5. Hating youself for being gay or refusing to acknowledge you’re gay

6. Only topping twinks or fem guys

7. Being disgusted at gay sex unless it involves you

8. Having gay sex without enjoying it 

9. Having gay sex after dark or only on weekends 

10. Only being attracted to “hot guys”

11. Fucking  other “straight” men with wives or GFs 

12. Sucking dick yet not asking for reciprocation. 

Now we know these guys above aren’t really straight, but I understand some of you get psychological benefits from telling yourselves they are. So I will just say they are straight with quotations. 

 

Edited February 12, 2022 by BlackDude

[ronnie4u]

What was my time was growing up with liberal - sexual parents - Dad and Mom  - I was very submissive !

[chargedodger]

You maybe don't "turn" gay so much as you simply begin to grow in that direction.There is so much to learn and experience.much that may seem unpleasant or even disgust you,but may in time seem desireable and central to your sexual habits.All great sex begins in the mind,while curiousity and experiences reinforce and develop your attitudes towards gay sex and men.I never had to choose,a man seduced the clueless 11 year old boy I was and chose for me.Everytime I started to develop an interest in girls another man would come along and lead me even further down the other path,reminding me of my true calling.No regrets.You have but one life.Live it well!

[BlackDude]

5 minutes ago, chargedodger said:

You maybe don't "turn" gay so much as you simply begin to grow in that direction.There is so much to learn and experience.much that may seem unpleasant or even disgust you,but may in time seem desireable and central to your sexual habits.All great sex begins in the mind,while curiousity and experiences reinforce and develop your attitudes towards gay sex and men.I never had to choose,a man seduced the clueless 11 year old boy I was and chose for me.Everytime I started to develop an interest in girls another man would come along and lead me even further down the other path,reminding me of my true calling.No regrets.You have but one life.Live it well!

That’s called growing up. Which is a real thing and conversation. But a lot of these guys aren’t taking about that. They’re talking about turning “straight” men (who aren’t really straight) into gay men. I know, it’s confusing. 

[ronnie4u]

1 hour ago, ronnie4u said:

What was my time was growing up with liberal - sexual parents - Dad and Mom  - I was very submissive !

My Weakness was the love of see cocks or at times others knows me - Loving getting high - feeling erections rubbing up against my crack butt - their hands grabbing my cock - they pulling off my pants - they commanding me to keep on sniffing poppers - about to pass out - being breed raw loads - No Refusal !  Do It !

[tallslenderguy]

On 2/10/2022 at 11:05 PM, 90PercentStr8 said:

Speaking from the str8 guy perspective; I think truly being gay, or straight, is something deeper than just having sex with men or woman. I have been meeting up with guys for sex, over the past 30+ years, yet I always find myself going back to women (including my wife) for some deeper, or emotional connection. 

i tend to believe similarly.  i knew i was attracted to guys when i was 7, admitted it to myself at age 13, "confessed" it in church at age 19 lol, sigh.  i tried to change myself from being gay most of my life, married a woman. DIdn't work, and i really wanted to change at the time because i'd been conditioned by religious culture to think being gay is a "choice, sin, broken,"  Lot's of gay guys have come up through that crap and have similar stories, and all can tell you about the torture of sincerely wanting to become straight and not being able to pull it off. The evidence just doesn't seem to support that one can rewire their sexuality. 

When i first divorced i thought i might be Bi. Hey, i'd been married to a woman for 31 years and was quite able to perform sexually.  i ended up dating a visiting professor of womens studies from Germany for awhile. She was gorgeous, intelligent... and lesbian. She was 40 and suddenly found herself wanting a man. We got along great (i seem to always get along  and connect well with lesbians? go figure). When it came down to it though, she wanted sex, and i didn't . There was something about the female energy that i just could not connect with sexually.

i also dated a FtM trans person who was poly and in a 10 year relationship with another woman. Again, the three of us hit it off really well and they wanted me to join them in relationship. Same thing, even though the trans person identified as male, there was something about them that just felt female to me, maybe how i feel with bottom sub guys? idk, but it was not a fit either, but it helped with my self discovery process.

Turns out im gay total bottom with some sub in me. Do i think that some of that may be fluid? Yeah, probably, but i can trace those parts of my nature back as early as age 7 and, if they are fluid, they haven't moved very much if at all. So, i'm not inclined to think things like "gay," "Straight" "Bi" are all that changeable. 

[chargedodger]

6 hours ago, BlackDude said:

That’s called growing up. Which is a real thing and conversation. But a lot of these guys aren’t taking about that. They’re talking about turning “straight” men (who aren’t really straight) into gay men. I know, it’s confusing. 

lol...well put!Reminded of the old joke told in a bar"I build bridges all over the world,sturdy massive structures.I built sky scrapers too.Have desgned many beautiful structures,,,but do they call me the bridge builder,the construction company president or a master architecht?No they don't...but suck ONE COCK and EVERYBODY calls me gay!"

 

[Guest]

On 2/12/2022 at 7:25 AM, BlackDude said:

Having a wife or girlfriend doesn’t make you straight. 
 

These are the men who are not straight but may be classified as “straight:”

1. Fucking women once in a blue moon, but only if it involves you getting some dick in the process.

2. Deciding you’d rather be miserable with a woman if you can’t find you poster boy/ trophy boyfriend

3. Being married to a woman and not having sex with her, yet seeking out sex with men. 
 

4. Abstaining from all sex because you can’t find “hot men”

5. Hating youself for being gay or refusing to acknowledge you’re gay

6. Only topping twinks or fem guys

7. Being disgusted at gay sex unless it involves you

8. Having gay sex without enjoying it 

9. Having gay sex after dark or only on weekends 

10. Only being attracted to “hot guys”

11. Fucking  other “straight” men with wives or GFs 

12. Sucking dick yet not asking for reciprocation. 

Now we know these guys above aren’t really straight, but I understand some of you get psychological benefits from telling yourselves they are. So I will just say they are straight with quotations. 

 

I'm apparently a number 3 non-straight guy. Would love to be "turned" 100% gay but doubt I would leave my wife since 25 yrs.

[BlackDude]

21 minutes ago, marriedsub said:

I'm apparently a number 3 non-straight guy. Would love to be "turned" 100% gay but doubt I would leave my wife since 25 yrs.

No one is suggesting that. But if you’re banging/getting banged by dudes in the process, you’re “straight.” 

[Piggyybttmm]

On 2/12/2022 at 1:25 AM, BlackDude said:

Having a wife or girlfriend doesn’t make you straight. 
 

These are the men who are not straight but may be classified as “straight:”

1. Fucking women once in a blue moon, but only if it involves you getting some dick in the process.

2. Deciding you’d rather be miserable with a woman if you can’t find you poster boy/ trophy boyfriend

3. Being married to a woman and not having sex with her, yet seeking out sex with men. 
 

4. Abstaining from all sex because you can’t find “hot men”

5. Hating youself for being gay or refusing to acknowledge you’re gay

6. Only topping twinks or fem guys

7. Being disgusted at gay sex unless it involves you

8. Having gay sex without enjoying it 

9. Having gay sex after dark or only on weekends 

10. Only being attracted to “hot guys”

11. Fucking  other “straight” men with wives or GFs 

12. Sucking dick yet not asking for reciprocation. 

Now we know these guys above aren’t really straight, but I understand some of you get psychological benefits from telling yourselves they are. So I will just say they are straight with quotations. 

 

#3 was me for a long time, except it eas with a girlfriend....dated 4 years but rarely had sex, but i was always flirting with men and giving guys blowjobs.....it took a while but i finally realized that i was wasting her time and called it quits

[ronnie4u]

17 hours ago, Gimmiethatload said:

#3 was me for a long time, except it eas with a girlfriend....dated 4 years but rarely had sex, but i was always flirting with men and giving guys blowjobs.....it took a while but i finally realized that i was wasting her time and called it quits

YES !  YES !   Always staring at crotches - sometimes get caught staring and sometimes get Lucky - My Lucky Day !

[BannedWord]

I agree with a lot of the responses suggesting that we don't necessarily 'turn gay', and that it's probably complete masturbatory rubbish to think that someone can be 'turned gay' if they don't already have the inclination. 

However, I think there could be two factors at work that help the process:

• Conditioning - whether it's through exposure or someone is being psychologically conditioned more toward a latent inclination they had deeply hidden. The sorts of people who find themselves more and more drawn to something based on seeing or experiencing it. Gay porn, looking at other hot guys, being brought out to understand that getting horny over a guy is something perfectly natural even if it might seem abnormal by some societal standards.
• Sexual flexibility - I'd like to start with the statement that I don't think people are naturally binary by nature. Either 100% straight or 100% gay. And there's likely a variable scale that says that  your preferences mostly run on a 0.01 to 99.99% scale of something. Which might explain why some men aren't necessarily repulsed when they discover that they can be sexually aroused by another man. Maybe it's chemistry or other factors, but just as you have people who are attracted to both (all) genders, I think there's a less binary lens that could be used to assess whether someone might have an inclination to have non-heterosexual desires.

Hell, it might explain why I like what I like, and why my tastes can be so wide-ranging. <shrug>

[ronnie4u]

6 minutes ago, TheSRQDude said:

I agree with a lot of the responses suggesting that we don't necessarily 'turn gay', and that it's probably complete masturbatory rubbish to think that someone can be 'turned gay' if they don't already have the inclination. 

However, I think there could be two factors at work that help the process:

• Conditioning - whether it's through exposure or someone is being psychologically conditioned more toward a latent inclination they had deeply hidden. The sorts of people who find themselves more and more drawn to something based on seeing or experiencing it. Gay porn, looking at other hot guys, being brought out to understand that getting horny over a guy is something perfectly natural even if it might seem abnormal by some societal standards.
• Sexual flexibility - I'd like to start with the statement that I don't think people are naturally binary by nature. Either 100% straight or 100% gay. And there's likely a variable scale that says that  your preferences mostly run on a 0.01 to 99.99% scale of something. Which might explain why some men aren't necessarily repulsed when they discover that they can be sexually aroused by another man. Maybe it's chemistry or other factors, but just as you have people who are attracted to both (all) genders, I think there's a less binary lens that could be used to assess whether someone might have an inclination to have non-heterosexual desires.

Hell, it might explain why I like what I like, and why my tastes can be so wide-ranging. <shrug>

Totally agree with you - my conditioning growing up with my parents - surround with parents / family members and strangers ( older males ) influenced me of my likes and what I think !

[hntnhole]

On 2/12/2022 at 1:24 PM, tallslenderguy said:

i'd been conditioned by religious culture

'Nuff said.  Tons of men who were born gay have been tormented by the Organized Religion crap.  What's more important though, is you made it through the fire - you survived that ordeal. And, the world is a better place for it.  Kudos !!!

[ohmalewhore]

I think there's more of an "awakening" than a "turn" involved. Several dominant women made mention of my "deep desires" they could tell within me to one day have sex with a man and probably also then prefer men. I kind of laughed all that off.

Over 23 years later here I am seeing a married bi-sexual trucker on a routine basis, very happy being his "little whore" while he is my "Pimp Daddy" but also very much loving the quiet times we get to spend either in his truck or in a motel having sex, then holding one another and talking, then maybe a nap or just straight to more sex and pretty much repeating it. In the truck we have sex at least twice. In a motel room we've done it as many as 4 times over the course of many hours.

But he definitely didn't "turn" me .... I just finally admitted that I am because now I can say I prefer men to women, I get aroused only by men now, and I have feelings for a man - my Pimp Daddy.