Why the racial preference?

[MuscledHorse]

My racial preference is "male." I will admit to the fact darker skinned guys (arabs, hispanics, blacks) totally make me weak in the knees--I  find them to be the most beautiful version of the male form. But, if you have  penis between your legs, I prefer you.

Edited March 1, 2021 by MuscledHorse

[find91]

Some racial preferences is because is a result of racism and being a racial fetish. A lot of brothers will only hookup with other black men because they are tired of dealing with racist, the harrassement and just being boiled down to BBC, by other races.

Personally, I despise being treated or considered a fetish.

[cumslutfuckpig]

3 hours ago, find91 said:

Some racial preferences is because is a result of racism and being a racial fetish. A lot of brothers will only hookup with other black men because they are tired of dealing with racist, the harrassement and just being boiled down to BBC, by other races.

Personally, I despise being treated or considered a fetish.

I met a graduate student whose family immigrated from Nigeria.  He told me he wouldn't have sex with American Black men "because they were descended from slaves".  As awful as that sounds to my ears, I'm a white boy - I have no idea what it's like to walk in his shoes, and I have no idea what kind of mental gymnastics that might induce.  Worth noting that with the white boys that he did play with, he liked to thoroughly dominate them.  I'm thinking there are some issues going on for him.   

Anyone who says "I want to limit the number of potential bedmates because of some random characteristic" I don't understand.  For me, it should always be about discovering more.  

When I was younger, I had no exposure to much other than other white people, and as a Mediterranean kind of guy, I had a thing for blond & blue.  Then I grew up and met people, and my tastes have evolved.   Do we all absorb cultural clichés about race (such as BBC, mandingo porn, black = hung = top, or Asian = femme = bottom)?  I'm certain of it.  I feel bad for every hung bottom who's expected for service everyone else with their big dick, but imagine being expected to have a big dick (and therefore top) just  because of the color of your skin?  What a load of bullshit.  Do I allow cultural input to cloud my thinking?  I'd like to think I'm grown up enough to self-check using the brain in my head.  But I do like racial aesthetics - I like to see guys who look different, I think variety is sexy and interesting and fun.  For me, originally, blond and blue was as far from me as one gets.  Now there's a whole world to pick from.  (find91, cover your eyes for a moment).  Look at find91's skin - it's beautiful, deep mahogany wrapped over a ripped muscular frame.  I don't care whether he's of African, or South Asian (Tamils get quite dark, too) origin, he's got a gorgeous tone (and it happens to look photograph really well with relatively pale kinda furry buttcheeks kind of like mine (just saying)). 

Bring on variety.  And stay mindful of your stereotypes, or you might miss the fuck of the decade from a sexy Asian top guy.  ;)

[find91]

15 minutes ago, neg4charged said:

I met a graduate student whose family immigrated from Nigeria.  He told me he wouldn't have sex with American Black men "because they were descended from slaves".  As awful as that sounds to my ears, I'm a white boy - I have no idea what it's like to walk in his shoes, and I have no idea what kind of mental gymnastics that might induce.  Worth noting that with the white boys that he did play with, he liked to thoroughly dominate them.  I'm thinking there are some issues going on for him.   

Anyone who says "I want to limit the number of potential bedmates because of some random characteristic" I don't understand.  For me, it should always be about discovering more.  

When I was younger, I had no exposure to much other than other white people, and as a Mediterranean kind of guy, I had a thing for blond & blue.  Then I grew up and met people, and my tastes have evolved.   Do we all absorb cultural clichés about race (such as BBC, mandingo porn, black = hung = top, or Asian = femme = bottom)?  I'm certain of it.  I feel bad for every hung bottom who's expected for service everyone else with their big dick, but imagine being expected to have a big dick (and therefore top) just  because of the color of your skin?  What a load of bullshit.  Do I allow cultural input to cloud my thinking?  I'd like to think I'm grown up enough to self-check using the brain in my head.  But I do like racial aesthetics - I like to see guys who look different, I think variety is sexy and interesting and fun.  For me, originally, blond and blue was as far from me as one gets.  Now there's a whole world to pick from.  (find91, cover your eyes for a moment).  Look at find91's skin - it's beautiful, deep mahogany wrapped over a ripped muscular frame.  I don't care whether he's of African, or South Asian (Tamils get quite dark, too) origin, he's got a gorgeous tone (and it happens to look photograph really well with relatively pale kinda furry buttcheeks kind of like mine (just saying)). 

Bring on variety.  And stay mindful of your stereotypes, or you might miss the fuck of the decade from a sexy Asian top guy.  😉

First of all sandly many Africans and Asians have swallowed the propaganda from the States that black Americans are violent and no good. They see American television and how erroneously black people are portrayed and they think it's reality. I knew a Somali friend who use to think like this until she started living in the states and experienced the racial discrimination there for himself.

I'm not talking about cultural biases. I am referring to real experiences. POC get treated differently in LGBTQ community. I myself get masseges from guys talking about how they fantasize about getting fucked by a big black cock and this is all in the opening message no Hi or hello, as if that is all that we are. Or they proceed to go on about their fantasy of being dominanted by a black man all without asking if that is what I'm into. Once you reject them then the racial slurs come out. It's made me reconsider but I choose to remain still open. That type of harassment is real and hurtful. So I don't condone people excluding races, I can understand it in that situation where you don't want to go though a potentially harmful encounter.

[Guest]

I have no race preference, as a total submissive bottom i have been fucked by Asians, but never been by a black male, I admit I fear his big cock and he will stretch me but I would love to be dominated and fucked by black men. My desire is bigger men and stronger then me making. Men who like smaller bottoms as a bottom I like bigger men then me and use and dominate me.

[cumslutfuckpig]

45 minutes ago, find91 said:

First of all sandly many Africans and Asians have swallowed the propaganda from the States that black Americans are violent and no good. They see American television and how erroneously black people are portrayed and they think it's reality. I knew a Somali friend who use to think like this until she started living in the states and experienced the racial discrimination there for himself.

I'm not talking about cultural biases. I am referring to real experiences. POC get treated differently in LGBTQ community. I myself get masseges from guys talking about how they fantasize about getting fucked by a big black cock and this is all in the opening message no Hi or hello, as if that is all that we are. Or they proceed to go on about their fantasy of being dominanted by a black man all without asking if that is what I'm into. Once you reject them then the racial slurs come out. It's made me reconsider but I choose to remain still open. That type of harassment is real and hurtful. So I don't condone people excluding races, I can understand it in that situation where you don't want to go though a potentially harmful encounter.

I know what you meant, and I agree 100%.  I had a lot more to say on the matter and stepped back because it felt like appropriation.  better to model positive behavior. 

the kind of crap your talking about is racism in its purist form - and people think that fabricating a power imbalance for the purposes of gratifying their fantasy is the same thing as respecting someone of a different color.  It's not the same thing at all.  

[find91]

2 hours ago, mikeboi1 said:

I have no race preference, as a total submissive bottom i have been fucked by Asians, but never been by a black male, I admit I fear his big cock and he will stretch me but I would love to be dominated and fucked by black men. My desire is bigger men and stronger then me making. Men who like smaller bottoms as a bottom I like bigger men then me and use and dominate me.

Just a word of experience. It takes a lot to stretch a hole out beyond repair. The colon naturally wants to tighten. So taking big dick won't do that unless it's literally fucking you everyday. So no need to fear big cock hehe  

 

1 hour ago, neg4charged said:

I know what you meant, and I agree 100%.  I had a lot more to say on the matter and stepped back because it felt like appropriation.  better to model positive behavior. 

the kind of crap your talking about is racism in its purist form - and people think that fabricating a power imbalance for the purposes of gratifying their fantasy is the same thing as respecting someone of a different color.  It's not the same thing at all.  

Thank you

[FFslutboi]

There's a paradox relevant to this discussion that's being treated like the elephant in the room:

Nobody likes to be objectified.

But when seeking someone to fuck, everybody does it.

Anyone want to try resolving that basic incongruity?

As far as racial preferences go, as long as they're preferences, in my book that's just fine. It's when the preference rise to the level of total exclusion/stereotypical troupes/exclusivity that I see it becoming problematic. Also, if anybody reading this enjoys doing that fucking cringe pr0n where you're both screaming racist shit while fucking, please, just stop.

[Guygonebad]

I have no racial, age, weight, attractiveness hang ups...since allowing myself to become total CumDump I NEVER REFUSE ANY MAN OR COCK that wants to mount me and breed.  It’s actually a great feeling to let any man use my hole and very freeing to not play all those fetish games on race or age or weight. I’ve met some really nice guys!!! It’s also made me stronger when someone rejects me it just rolls off me and it doesn’t bother. 

[Kimberley]

In the beginning i was only on white dutch men but i don't know why but at some point i started dating with other racials. they do fuck so much better. i have sex with blacks, spanish, indonesian. omg i love them they use me so good as a cumdump whore

[ShyBBFag]

On 2/15/2021 at 1:47 AM, NJBiGuy said:

I grew up around all black guys, it’s what I fantasized about because those were the guys in around. 

This is why I prefer black guys too. I went to a school that was predominantly black kids, and my first time was with a black guy too. I think that has led me to have a preference.

[BlackDude]

6 hours ago, find91 said:

First of all sandly many Africans and Asians have swallowed the propaganda from the States that black Americans are violent and no good. They see American television and how erroneously black people are portrayed and they think it's reality. I knew a Somali friend who use to think like this until she started living in the states and experienced the racial discrimination there for himself.

I'm not talking about cultural biases. I am referring to real experiences. POC get treated differently in LGBTQ community. I myself get masseges from guys talking about how they fantasize about getting fucked by a big black cock and this is all in the opening message no Hi or hello, as if that is all that we are. Or they proceed to go on about their fantasy of being dominanted by a black man all without asking if that is what I'm into. Once you reject them then the racial slurs come out. It's made me reconsider but I choose to remain still open. That type of harassment is real and hurtful. So I don't condone people excluding races, I can understand it in that situation where you don't want to go though a potentially harmful encounter.

I call BS on the Nigerian guy. Colonization is slavery. Hell they don’t even control the resources in their own country. Asian people are going over there, slapping them around, and setting up businesses that they are an even allowed into in their own country. Thats why you are over here in the US. They won’t acknowledge what colonization has done, but they believe what they see on TV about black people? Hell, South Africa Would probably still be under apartheid if it wasn’t for blacks here in the US. That whole “they were slaves” argument is BS. 
 

No, he just wanted a white guy because A lot of people for other countries worship white people and associate prosperity with whiteness. 

Also, A lot of gay black people around the world have felt rejected and felt a bitterness towards other black people. A lot of them run to the gay community hoping for some type of acceptance, and it takes a while to realize that there is racism and issues too.
 

It is a very deep psychological game.
 

Edited March 1, 2021 by BlackDude

[GoingEasy]

On 2/15/2021 at 1:22 PM, YourNoLimitsBottom said:

I have no preferences. But I do enjoy the encounters that stimulate my senses. Seeing hands on my body that are a contrast to my own skin tone excites me. Imagining the contrast that what we look like from above as his hands grip my hips and his cock is moving in and out as he fucks me doggy. Imagining what he is seeing as I bob up and down on his pole as I kneel in front of him... yeah, these visual differences, whether distinct or nuanced, get my inner slut's motor running.

In the end, we are all in the same category: guys. And all guys and cocks and asses should be celebrated for their differences. Be sure to enjoy a wide variety!

My comment is not even relevant to this discussion.

However what an arousingly provocative and appealing image you've created. And you remind me that I've been mostly abstinent during this Covid period ( not high risk, but not going to  chance it), and how I'd really love to grip a man's hips and move my  cock in and out  of him while I fuck him doggy . And we both watch on the proverbial mirror reflecting a man in ardor bobbing up and down on my pole. What a delicious image ! My cock gets so ragingly hard , like now , picturing  this appealing scenario, that I'm almost afraid that I'll climax and spunk hands free and make  an  inconvenient ( if embarrassing )mess just with the visual fantasy. Thank you for that image, I imagine it will be in my minds eye, and be the refuge of  my happy place for days to come, until I'm given the post restriction opportunity to gleefully make the beast with two backs to whomever submits to my lust.

[Guest Xtraglazedonuthole]

On 2/15/2021 at 8:48 AM, Qilly55 said:

I think just like some guys like tall, short, skinny, hairy, smooth. 

Me, my preference is for a big, hung, aggressive black man. I like being abused and slapped around . Just my preference. I will still take any cock I could have. But that is my preference.

So when you come across a big hung white man you don't see aggression and the possibility to abuse and slap you around? 

[Qilly55]

Oh , I do and I have. And it's been good. But my preference is a black male. I will never refuse any one that's agressive.