Advice you’d give your younger self? 😀

[Carlos1881]

If you could travel back in time and give your younger self some advice, what would you say?

Look forward to hearing your thoughts guys

Have a great Easter ! 

Karl 😀

[ConversionPiglet]

Run....don’t meet up with that older man and begin a life long negative lifestyle of being gay.  

[1000GUYS]

to be honest... i wouldnt say anything... because i was very afraid of HIV and even got married just to have only one man.... i preserved myself from exposure and kept faithful for 10 years... it gave me time to meet PREP and learn more about STIs... so now i can have lots of bareback sex without going crazy the day after.

so maybe i would say: get on prep in 2017!!! 

i would have 3 amazing years full of sex and partys, without covid

[Guest Descartes70817]

There's one moment in time that I often wonder about, and how my life would have turned out if I'd made the other choice open to me.

The details are a book in themselves, but around midnight on August 23rd, 1975 at the age of 18 I found myself shinning down a drainpipe and running away in a light river fog while vowing to myself that until homosexuality was accepted by society in general I would never ever give anyone any reason to even suspect that I was gay, and to learn to use women any way I had to in order to keep my secret, just so I could survive, and possibly even thrive, in what was then an extremely homophobic society, often violently so.

My other choice was to allow myself to be auctioned off to the highest bidder to be a real life sex slave for the next year of my life, in return for a large cash payment at the end of "a year of satisfactory service", in a club where membership was millionaire men only, and "the big money" had to fly in to get to the auction, but after they arrived things got scary - if you've ever been 'inspected' like you're just a piece of prime horse-meat you'll know what I mean! It would have been one thing to be kept as some local rich guy's personal sex toy, but the mere thought of ending up in a foreign country without a passport terrified me enough to risk my neck to escape the moment my fears were confirmed.

[Guest]

I'd tell myself to spend more time on craiglsist before it gets shutdown

[Guest]

First I'd fuck myself and have myself fucked by younger me.

Then I'd continue making out. Tell myself that if it feels good: it is good.
I'd tell myself not to worry about Hiv. That bareback sex is natural and the only way for us/him.
I might push a bit to start working out a bit sooner than I did, cause there's nothing wrong with a little vanity and it does help getting laid.
And I'd advice him to experiment, try everything and enjoy my body.

All through that I'd tell myself not to change but just be me.

Edited April 4, 2021 by BareLover073
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[Loadluver310]

I'd tell myself to try barebacking and not to be afraid to be myself. Hook up with that older guy. 

[blkoraltm]

Be brave. Be Bold and live your life.

[CCbttm]

Probably save myself some time and tell myself as young as possible that I definitely prefer dick and to get as much as possible instead of spending more time on WoW than real life in my teen years. And maybe take a list of stock to put money into with me.

[Loveitraw]

To come out and start experimenting a lot sooner. I know what I like and I certainly know what I liked back then so I just need to give myself a push to go for it. Oh yes and when this crazy eyed guy turns up and starts talking about Bitcoin, ffs listen!

[evilalex]

Go to a university in a large city for undergrad, study something practical like business, even though I'd hate it. Stop worrying about compartmentalizing different parts of your self and life.  Buy stock in Apple and Disney.

[alwaysready]

take advantage of possibilities; e.g. next time a guy you have been craving comes up and stands next to you at a urinal, say 'hi' and peek over at his lovely manhood. (saw him in a speedo on the pool deck at our high school).  even if a guy is not interested, he will likely be flattered you offered.  don't end up old and writing novels about your sexual experiences and your missed opportunities.  keep your weight down. look in the mirror and see a good looking guy. that affirmation will pay dividends. (john horton cooley: the mirror image).

[Guest]

Visit that cottage in the city centre more often before it gets closed down.

[coastalbender]

Don't be  scared or hesitant. Go with the gouys who approach you. You wany coack, so have all of them.

[BootmanLA]

Tell him that at all costs, he should avoid ever making contact with his future ex "B".