to all the married guys what would your wife say or do if she found out you like to suck cock?

[luvharddeepanal16]

On 4/14/2021 at 10:27 PM, evilalex said:

Do you feel guilty about it at all? No judgement, just curious. i think fucking married guys is fucking hot. 

I do not. Guess I justify it. Something she can not give me

[hntnhole]

2 hours ago, fskn said:

It is irrational, selfish, and mean

which qualities are supported by institutional forces - ages old - that professes the opposite.  How do these queens in the long dresses and ruby slippers manage to look themselves in a mirror .......

[Guest]

5 hours ago, fskn said:

This is the worst, when one partner is not fulfilling the other's sexual needs and is effectively blocking the person from getting sexual satisfaction elsewhere.

It is irrational, selfish, and mean — quite inconsistent with love.

I hope you continue to have the sex you want, and either that you succeed in keeping it hidden (under the circumstances), or that your wife surprisingly accepts your needs (if she ever finds out).

Thanks bud. I will continue fucking my sexy buds and hopefully take their cocks in my ass too, one day!! If she finds out...oh well.....cross that bridge when I come to it. Cheers. 

[Bymike]

My wife knew due to the fact when we were married, we swung. I never told her I was bi, but we mostly swung with black men and they are sexually very aggressive and don’t care where they’re pleasure comes from. So we both would take care of them and made it sure when I screen them, that they were open to being sucked at least.  But in time, the wife knew I love sucking cock to much and seeking encounters.  And when she fucked, it was always BB, so we took the risk.  Eventually, when our youngest turned 18, she left for her black BF, who she eventually married.  From that point,bI considered myself gay and so did she. 

[Barern]

Have been in a sexless marriage, hiding my desires and not having sex over guilt. No more: getting divorced and am very happy: going to the abs tonight and want to suck as many cocks as I can and take any load.

[Justaholeff]

All the married straight guys I've played around with have told me that would never tell their wives nor leave them...to each his own, I guess.

[Lorenzo]

Let's put it this way: I've told her I like to play dress-up. Everything: outfit, wig, plenty of make-up, smooth body.

She hated it.

But she was glad that at least I wasn't bisexual.

That was the point I decided I was going to keep shut about that other confession I was going to make.

[Guest]

Divorce me.......

[fskn]

10 hours ago, Lorenzo said:

Let's put it this way: I've told her I like to play dress-up. Everything: outfit, wig, plenty of make-up, smooth body.

She hated it.

But she was glad that at least I wasn't bisexual.

That was the point I decided I was going to keep shut about that other confession I was going to make.

 

8 hours ago, PleaseBBmyass said:

Divorce me.......

 

I feel for both of you.

I honestly don't understand why wives would not want to know what turns their husbands on, and why they would deliberately oppose activities that are harmless, and are pleasing to their husbands. You'd think they could emphasize. Don't they have sexual longings of their own? Is a relationship really worth throwing away because your husband is bisexual?

Then again, I also don't understand people who break up over non-monogamy/"cheating", so what do I know?

I could never [try to] place constraints on the sexual behavior of someone I loved, unless it were illegal or caused harm.

Edited April 26, 2022 by fskn

[fskn]

Sorry for my typo...I meant "empathize", not "emphasize". 🙂

[bbpoznow]

not married  and I am single 

[austin_submale]

My wife would kill me if she ever found out.

 

[PozBearWI]

2 hours ago, austin_submale said:

My wife would kill me if she ever found out.

 

Ouch.  And sad.  

[BannedWord]

14 hours ago, fskn said:

I honestly don't understand why wives would not want to know what turns their husbands on, and why they would deliberately oppose activities that are harmless, and are pleasing to their husbands. You'd think they could emphasize. Don't they have sexual longings of their own? Is a relationship really worth throwing away because your husband is bisexual?

Ok, let me try to flesh this out from having been in heteronormative relationships.

First, there seems to be a double-standard in that it seems fine to much of society that women can be bisexual and have a female lover. Porn tends to glamorize it, which perhaps is a contributor. But it's [banned word] to consider a guy having a male lover, and many of the women I've met typify that sort of bias.  So there's one reason we can all appreciate in that any kind of M2M situation still isn't really part of mainstream society. Yet.

Second, they became spouses based on what might be considered as a false pretense. They got married as a heterosexual couple (presumably), and if that changes, that isn't necessarily what one partner signed on for.

Third, a partner wasn't honest and "cheated". Or more to the point, decided unilaterally that they could open the relationship in a way the other couldn't envision or accept. If the other partner was raised under a more conservative societal norm, this could prove really shocking, not the least of it that the partner started doing something (a) without discussion and (b) without full-disclosure to the other party. Doesn't much matter that perhaps the relationship had gone sexless and she was no longer interested in keeping the other partner 'under the porch'. And when the relationship gets stale enough that you need to make agreements on sex, it's already over because you can't force a person to engage in something they no longer want to do.

Let me flip the script: Suppose you were in a long-term relationship/marriage with another guy and he suddenly revealed to you that he craves pussy and wants to bareback women to try to conceive a kid with her. That likely wasn't the situation into which you bought. You're gay, he turns out to be at least bi if not more possibly straight. The question is whether that would be something you could accept as a partner?

I'm hoping that might make sense in explaining. 

[BannedWord]

1 minute ago, TheSRQDude said:

I'm hoping that might make sense in explaining. 

Also hoping that the question wasn't simply rhetorical, since I probably give you 2-3 minutes of reading if it wasn't. 😂🤣