Does wanting to BB mean you have to take loads?

[Pozpunk]

My first thought in response is , who doesn’t!? But then just recently some hit young hung stud wouldn’t  come to me for sex because I seek bare only. I guess I gotta respect that . But I’m right there with you about having hot loads thrust into our guts, it’s my hobby and purpose now. 

[parvenu]

If you bend over you are choosing to give up your ass, a very delicate part of you, to another mans penis. This is basically you offering your ass as a flesh light and you hoping it will please him and masturbate his penis until it ejaculates into you. Many bottoms will try to cling to being in charge so a smart top just agrees and says no problem and gets them past the point of pain (your discomfort doesnt matter) so they can use the anal passage as they see fit.

I never care when a bottom is in discomfort - more poppers, gag, positive words - it's not about them. They pretend they do not want this but those are the ones who come back. They want to give up control. I intend to ejaculate into you as it feels best, spurting over your ass as part of your porn fantasy doesn't suit me. When you offer that sweet ass up you no longer own it. You made that choice and you need to deal with those sexy little faggot consequences of being a cum dump.

[funpozbottom]

No one ever has to take a load, however, I think it would be unrealistic to think that it's never going to happen.  Fooling around and incorporating some bare foreplay could be fun and erotic, but once you go beyond foreplay I think you need to be prepared for the possibility of receiving a load even if it wasn't intended. So, personal opinion, if you are going to take a cock bare then you should be willing to take the load,

[NastyRawBottom]

Some amount of precum and regular cum would leak out the Top’s cock while fucking raw. That would be enough to cause/ transmit anything. How would taking the load be any different? I guess in terms of volume yeah, but otherwise all raw sex is risky regardless if he pulls out or not. It’s a natural consequence one must accept when going raw, especially as a bottom. 

You can communicate with the Top if you don’t want him to cum inside you, but most Men are driven by the instinct to conquer and breed a hole. So it’s really a hit or miss if he will honor the request. 

 

Edited June 13, 2021 by RawBottomAriel

[sleazyskank]

Fuck yes!!! Any and all … !!!

[descartes70817]

While every bottom has the perfect right to tell a top not to cum inside him it is unrealistic to think every top will pull out before he starts cumming.

[cumfillme]

If a cock is entering me raw, I'm expecting a load (or two)

[FilthySTDPig]

Seems very stupid to me to consent to bareback sex but draw the line at getting bred. If I stick my dick in a hole I WILL cum inside. I don't care how the bitch feels about it. They're just a nameless fuckhole to me anyways. 

[PendragonSpirit]

The short answer to that is "no." You're not required to do anything you're uncomfortable with. Consent is sexy.

That said - and as many have pointed out - if you're taking it raw, there's a definite (one would even say likely) chance you're going to end up with a top who either doesn't respect your request to pull out, who accidentally goes over the edge before they can, or who may even think your request not to take the load is part of some kind of role-play. 

 

[LetsPOZBreed]

If you're truly not interested in the load, the best chance you have is to explicitly state that.  I'm a huge believer in consent, even in rougher (and even still darker) role-play scenarios.  In role-playing, though, I will have already discussed boundaries with my partner, though.

What you can never control, as has been stated time and again on this thread, is what your top might do in the heat of the moment.  Your top may have agreed with your stipulation before meeting and starting, but there's countless stories of a top trying to "convince" you mid-fuck to change your mind (worst time to change your agreement, as you're in the rush of the moment).  There's also guys who might just cum in you anyway; it's the type of act that once it's done, it can't be un-done.  Both scenarios are a violation of your consent, but that type of stuff unfortunately happens.

[wbekk85]

On 5/31/2021 at 7:47 PM, verslut said:

Some guys don't wan to clean up jizz out of their asses. Some guys only take loads from regular partners. Some guys want to marginally reduce STD contraction risk. The motivation depends on the guy.

I usually ask if a guy wants my load while I'm balls deep in him. But I won't ask if I already know my bottom likes to be bred by default.

i wonder why they think like that. there are many stds that come with barebacking, even if the top pulls out at the last minute. it can also happen when the top uses condoms. the bottoms have to clean up the lube in their asses afterward, so i don't understand why getting a load up their asses means more cleanup. 

[NEDenver]

On 6/3/2021 at 4:50 PM, stealthmeplz said:

For me it's the other way around. I want the loads, so I bareback.

That’s pretty much how it is for me.  Even when I was using condoms, I always wanted the guy to put his load deep inside me.  Now, it’s more straightforward and basically expected.  When I was negative, I used to try to expel the load quickly.  Now that I’m positive, I just hold the load in and think of our bond.

[gwmxyz]

No.  You could do it to meet people or to keep fit. You might even see it as more environmentally friendly.

My money's still on the hot load.

[Close2MyBro]

Dude, be honest with yourself. No top wants to pull out, so if you're going to BB then accept the fact that you're highly likely to take the load as well.

[hexfet]

You have to assume lots of his precum is gonna be nicely pounded into you by then.  Some tops precum a lot more than others.  Hell when I edge inside you and get close, but back off, I definitely shoot some cum into you each time.  Its enough to lube my entire cock pretty good again so its a good bit of jizz thats gonna be in you anyway 😉

…and I honestly can’t imagine pulling out when it comes right down to it. I wanna pop your deep ring and load you up deep so it stays in for awhile 😉