Sex Addiction (Hypersexuality)

[BBArchangel]

I don’t like the word addict. It carries too many negative connotations. Do what you enjoy enjoy doing and do it Excess, As long as It’s not costing you your job or destroying your family or hurting other people. “Addict” a word invented by Puritans in school m arms C to shame you into acting according to their artificial moral code. Fuck that.

[tattedBOTTOMdad]

I don’t believe that having an intense desire or insatiable appetite for sex is a bad thing. Honestly, Id argue that it’s the exact opposite, and a healthy option to a lot of other behaviors that are “more acceptable” by society general. And quite frankly they’re missing the boat…and a lot of fucking fun too! Our entire human existence is fueled by the intrinsic and instinctual basic needs (physical mental emotional and spiritual if you will) and the actions we take and the choice we make to satisfy these needs is why I think sex and the gratification and satisfaction it brings to us on all (known and unknown) levels the human body and mind.are capable of achieving.  
When you boil it down to the most basic human needs/wants/desireS etc. the most important thing to all human beings is to “be happy” aka to seek and experience pleasure in any and all ways ~ however I don’t buy into the centuries old stigma of a hedonistic life and that experiencing pleasure is first and foremost, no matter the cost. That’s just a limited moral and emotional being and often blame others for their lack of pleasure. As well as use others to achieve their goal and only reciprocate when hey feel they can come out on top of the deal. 
id say - for me personally - it’s more of a purposeful and conscious approach to incorporating mindfulness and awareness to a blend of hedonism and epicurean beliefs / lifestyle. But it’s not achieving these goals or expectations that is what I’m referring to. It’s not the ability to attain a “thing” or even experience a certain event or feeling. It’s the JOURNEY that brings the pleasures we so desperately desire. The pleasure’s that, once we think we’ve reached the pinnacle of pleasure and satisfaction, we realize that we have barely begun to scratch the surface of what joy and contentment truly are and that self actualization / self acceptance / and self love are a process and a journey; not an achievement or something we can touch see hear or feel…it’s more of a corporeal embodiment of our soul and true selves on a larger spiritual universal energy level. 
Go back to Maslow’s hierarchy of needs: the larger version that culminates with a self actualization that can’t be reached by checking certain things off a list or acquiring large amounts of wealth and possessions. 
in that light I say that the basic self satisfying need for happiness and to experience pleasure at its highest possible level goes hand in hand with the tenants we should all live by… first do no harm, be a good human…basically don’t be a dick. No more “I wash my back I stab yours” or “what do I get out of it”. It’s key - as you seek to reach the heights of pleasure of which we are currently aware - to understand, accept and embrace hat SEX, sexual satisfaction, pleasure, experimentation and evolution are at the to be shared and experienced by multiple people (otherwise we’d all be content with “life liberty and masterbating” and miss out on so many possibilities. It’s not just important to us individually, it’s our duty to ensure our quest for the ultimate in sexual satisfaction and erotic pleasures that we share what we know with those we encounter along our journey; just as it is theirs to share with you - and is the one and only way to elevate the intensity and level of pleasure across all humanity. 
so sexual addiction isn’t a bad thing…it’s not even a thing… is a biological and evolutionary unconscious function that we can’t and shouldn’t demean or ridicule just because it is not widely understood or accepted. 
One can be bound to another (not just by restraints and cuffs), and committed to each other emotionally and spiritually, but should also be encouraging and enabling one another’s quest for sexual satisfaction and self actualization. Didn’t some one once say we need to “love thy fellow man.” 
Im taking those words to heart; literally and physically…. We all have to do our part. So if you, like me, find intense joy in giving ourselves to others so that they can feel their joy, who am I to deny my small tiny role in bringing pleasure to the world and feeling the energy that our selfless acts of service sends out into the universe. HEHEHEHE

 

[mjkuhl]

On 8/29/2021 at 11:19 PM, schvenn said:

I call myself a sex-addict and I think it's a pretty accurate description. Hunting for asses to fuck or cocks to get fucked by is literally all I do. Since the place I worked in had to close due to covid, my hunt isn't even interrupted by work any more. I have no interest in books, movies, series, games,.. I don't have any hobbies or interests besides sex. There are no social interactions that are not sexual in any way. The only social media I'm on are sites that are dedicated solely to sex, like this one. I exclusively have friends who I have sex with. When I'm out hunting I don't care about looks, age, body type, etc. I only care about having sex with as many holes, cocks, mouths as possible.

And I fucking love it

Schvenn is ideal

[Bottomdoggy]

I’ve always been hypersexual and had an extremely high libido so I’ve just been able to lean in more and more. Sex is one of the most important things to me and I love getting fucked more than anything. Every morning I wake up thinking about taking cock & whenever I have free time I just wanna spend it getting fucked. No better feeling than a man unloading inside me and it makes me feel so good to offer up my pussy for anyone who wants it. Of course I have other things going on but my goal in life is also to have as much sex with as many men as possible & it has been since I was a teen getting into gay porn for the first time and starting to give blow jobs. Always known I was meant to be a bottom cock slut. So I rarely feel like my sex life is interfering with other things because there’s not much else I’d rather do.
If anything, I watch too much porn & spend too much time beating off when I could be getting fucked instead. That’s the main reason I wear a chastity cage now, to make myself stop focusing on my dick. I don’t jack off at home anymore, If I get in the mood for it I just fuck myself with a dildo. A lot of the guys that fuck me like to see me cum while they’re inside of me, so I try to save it for them. The only reason I should deserve to cum anyways is if it’s  to satisfy a top. I don’t need to cum or even get hard I just need to be fucked like a slut and my pussy filled with cum

[Hairypiglet]

On 8/6/2022 at 6:13 AM, BBArchangel said:

I don’t like the word addict. It carries too many negative connotations. Do what you enjoy enjoy doing and do it Excess, As long as It’s not costing you your job or destroying your family or hurting other people. “Addict” a word invented by Puritans in school m arms C to shame you into acting according to their artificial moral code. Fuck that.

I love you.

[NLbear]

I may not be a sex addict in the sense I think about sex all day and it interferes with other aspects in my life but I have a very high libido. I thought that would decrease as I age. If anything it got higher.... OK, so I'm not at pre-Covid levels sexually but I'm slowly getting into that direction. It's just that you need to get lucky and find a few guys who are into fucking older guys. And I have a few of those.

[hntnhole]

15 hours ago, NLbear said:

If anything it got higher....

NLBear's right.  Once I retired (early) I found that fucking guys was on my mind more than before, probably because work had to come before other things.  Once all of that was no longer first thing in my mind, cruising guys became more fun, fucking at the drop of a hat became more fun, and some days I have half a hardon in my pants most of the time.  I suppose it's because I can, since there's nothing else of primary importance. 

I like cruising ass - and I like guys to check out my Cock - and I like catching them doing it, too.  Some months ago I fucked a guy in the parking lot who had been taking loads all night in the bar, outside the bar near my house, and he always wears the same clothes.  So this morning I had to stop at the grocery store, and he came out of the store as I was going in.  This is the guy whose Hole was so full that the loads splashed out on my jeans when I shoved it to him.  He saw me smiling at him, blushed, looked away, and hurried along to his car.  And I walked into the store with a nice, half-hard Cock in my shorts.   

I'll bet the next time I see him taking loads between the parked cars, he won't be flushed with embarrassment, he'll be just as horny for more as he was the last time I fucked him.