Hate Getting Fingered!!!!

[Sckr4u]

On 4/5/2023 at 3:20 PM, myDNA4u said:

The only things I want in my ass are a hot tongue and a raw dick.

Absolutely correct! Likewise.

[120DaysofSodom]

I too hate fingers in my butt, especially guys that dont practice proper hygiene and dont know how to cut their fingernails. They have zero conception of what feels good in a butthole

[LetsPOZBreed]

I'm certainly wouldn't do it for an anon scene (although I'm not really doing those anymore anyway).  

I've had far too many instances of guys doing it where all I feel is fingernails or something else uncomfortable.  So, I reserve this for guys I know more intimately...good enough to know their own personal hygiene at least.  I know when it's done to me right, it does feel good for me; however, I know that's a bit of personal preference on my part.

[Guest]

On 1/2/2022 at 2:32 AM, Brianbttm said:

Do many bottoms hate to get fingered or is it just me?  When going anon ass up face down it rarely fails that a guy fingers me the minute he walks up to the bed.  It almost kills the mood to get fucked.  Sorry for the rant.

I don't like it either. If I could handle the roughness of fingers I wouldn't mind the irritation of condoms.

[PozWhore]

After you've taken a few cock fingernails up your ass can feel like razor blades. It's maybe ok to feel if an ass is cummy (so no need for lube) but it's not ok to push a finger - or fingers - up an ass and i'll verbally tell them as much. In my experience it's mainly older guys thinking they can pleasure you and that you'll enjoy it.

[cheatingjock]

Honestly I like being fingered. And rimmed. And fucked. And fisted. And pissed in. Play w my hole and I’ll enjoy it. 
 

but one of my fav things is just watching a movie or whatever and having a guy slide his hands down my pants/shorts/undies (if wearing) and finger me slowly and absentmindedly. Like my hole is his plaything. 

[ErosWired]

I’ll amend my prior response to this to say that although in general I prefer no fingers, there have been a couple more recent incidents that I not only didn’t mind, but they had a little something about them that actually revved me up a bit.

One was a Top who came into my hotel room, touched my hole for wetness (I make sure they always find a cunt wet and ready) and then inserted his finger…and left it there while he undressed and got himself ready to fuck. He didn’t move it around, or swirl it, or jab it in and out, he just left if there, like a placeholder for his cock. But the effect on me of that finger was a message from that Top that I’m here now, and I’m inside you, and I’m going to stay inside you nonstop until I’m good and done. I felt totally owned, all with nothing but simple finger up my ass.

The other was in my last bathhouse visit, after a Top had spent quality time gourmet-fucking me until I was very loose, wet and open. When he was finished and ready to go, he reached down where I was lying on my belly and slid four fingers deep inside my cunt, like to the knuckles of his hand, and just held them there for a bit, gently feeling the inside of me with his fingertips. I remember feeling extremely vulnerable, like there was no part of me he couldn’t touch, feel up, or finger  if he wanted to. Then he just said, “Fuck, yeah,” withdrew his hand, and was gone.

Edited May 10, 2023 by ErosWired

[NWUSHorny]

1 hour ago, PozWhore said:

After you've taken a few cock fingernails up your ass can feel like razor blades. It's maybe ok to feel if an ass is cummy (so no need for lube) but it's not ok to push a finger - or fingers - up an ass and i'll verbally tell them as much. In my experience it's mainly older guys thinking they can pleasure you and that you'll enjoy it.

It's not just older guys at the venues I frequent. It is mostly what I call "functional lesbians" i.e. they don't fuck or get fucked, most of them don't suck or get sucked, and in quite a few of them won't touch a cock or allow you to touch theirs, but still want you to "hookup", i.e. hang out naked with them for several hours. A few of the "functional lesbians" are fisters or fistees. A lot of them are starting to bring their dildoes to the bathhouse. One of the bathhouses hosts massage and spa events where penetration and sucking are not really welcomed by the attendees, and the other has installed special dildo washing facilities and is hosting toy play parties (I haven't been to a toy play party so I don't know if the attendees object to penetration with a a cock).

[tallslenderguy]

For me, it depend on the Guy doing the fingering. i don't think there is any substitute for a Raw Cock, but as foreplay or part of fucking, fingering can be really hot... or not.  Again, it depends on the Guy attached to the fingers.

Some guys obviously have no clue, probably taking cues from porn they have seen, but are not in synch with the bottom they are fingering. Not communicating, be it verbal and asking or reading the bottoms response to what he is doing. Also, sex with a guy who is detached from what he is doing seems to happen more with fingers in my experience. It's a lot harder to be detached when using a Cock than it is using a finger?  

i can tell if a Guy is using His finger because He wants to turn me on and make me hornier for Him vs a guy just sticking his finger in. Also, a finger can be a prelude to fisting, and when a guy progresses to more fingers quickly and is obviously wanting to get his hand in without taking time to properly open the bottom, there's an obvious disconnect.

[rockhard801]

I love being fingered as foreplay, especially when it is the first fuck.  It helps me relax my hole before a top pushes his cock in.

[Bibttmmiami]

I like getting fingered before getting fucked. And after for that matter. Especially if the guy is a little forceful. Not trying to hurt me or cause pain, more like, my finger is going up your ass whether you like it or not.” Kind of vibe. 

[chasingseedinaus]

Always disliked being fingered. Getting fucked is what I'm about.